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Born and raised in La Jolla/San Diego, CA but moved to Anchorage, AK 44 years ago.
Currently a retired taxicab driver after 30 years.
Single. Divorced 3 times. Had 3 children (2 still living), have 7 grandchildren and 1 great granddaughter.
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i'm a Deist but i do believe in evolution. My religious beliefs, which i wrote several years ago (A Search for Truth), can be viewed at the URL above.
i may not agree with you but i cherish your right to disagree (even if you are wrong).
writer_b's Advice
Do NOT tell. Read that sentence again. Do NOT tell!!! We all experience crushes, etc., sometimes, but friends don't move in on each other's territory. So unless you want to lose her friendship forever, keep your feelings to yourself.
Possible, but unlikely.
What should she do? Unless she's willing to ditch her current boyfriend forever, AND also has some indication that the ex is willing to do the same, then she should do nothing. I've heard of cases where it's worked out, but that hardly ever happens. ...
Let's look at the facts. He had a chance with you. Then he decides to go back to his ex. Well, if things were so great with her in the first place, she wouldn't have become an "ex," would she? So move on, and leave this guy in the dust.
There's an old expression: "the best revenge is living well." Just go ahead and be a big success at whatever you try. Oh yeah, and find a new boyfriend, and be totally hot.
The laws are different in every state. Most set the age of consent at either 16 or 18. But even if it happens to be legal where you live, that doesn't make it right. If you're planning your whole lives together, there will be plenty of time for sex ...
Spring for the real ones. You'll never go wrong with the genuine article.
The short answer is that he likes you, but he's shy. He's afraid to approach you in a normal conversation. If you think you could be interested in him, just start a conversation with him, and then start another conversation with him the next day (bec...
Ask her questions. Whatever she answers, act like you're really interested and ask a follow-up question. She'll think you're a good conversationalist.
I doubt if it's a racial thing. Would you want your daughter to be dating a criminal? Best thing to do is make an effort to learn from whatever mistake you made, and do whatever it takes to turn your life around. She may still be around when you get...
This is a MAJOR red flag! Your sex life should not be boring to either of you when you're 20. There's nothing at all wrong with sexual fantasies between two people, but when they start involving a third person, they very rarely go well. Put an immed...
Don't forget that men and women communicate in different ways. Men try to be problem-solvers; women try to be empathizers. Nothing wrong with either one, but if what you get isn't what you were expecting, it can feel bad. In this case, it sounds lik...
You don't need our permission! Just remember that we're talking about two people's feelings here -- yours and your girlfriend's. If you honestly feel that you can make a deep emotional commitment to someone of the same sex, fine. If you're just doin...
Masturbating does not cause you to be underweight, and it does not cause muscle pain. Those are medical problems, and if your doctor can't solve them, try finding a doctor who can. As for your masturbation habits, they're normal. The doctor and your...
It sounds like he really isn't into you that much. I'm sure someone else will be.
He has to choose. He can be with her, or he can be with you. Not both. Tell him to decide, right now, or get lost.
Normal. But how did she have two mouths?
Personally, I'd like a Corvette. (Maybe next time you could be more specific?)
Are you ready? Let me put this simply: Absolutely not!!!
If he hasn't shown any interest toward you, and he has a girlfriend, you're wasting your time. FInd someone else. He's not the only nice guy in the world.
Pick up the phone and call her. Talk for a while. Spend some time together, just the two of you. The rest will take care of itself.
As another person said, you're 13 years old. That is way too young. Meet guys, flirt, have fun. You'll have plenty of sex when you meet the right one. (Hint: We're talking lifetime commitment here.)
Look elsewhere. There are plenty of guys out there.
You already proved that you cannot control your temper. She was right to leave. Now it's up to you. Take the energy you're putting into this big charade of not sleeping, not eating, blah blah blah, and start looking into anger management. This prob...