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Your comments are to some extent very valid. An inter-racial relationship is tough. But so is any relationship to some extent. You forget the positive pay-back that an inter-racial marriage can and often gives if it works out. As for the genetic po...
You write that she is not prudent. But still, she might have a lack of selfe-confidence over her sexual organ. (Maybe she worries about what you will think of its smell or taste). Might be the same with the french kissing. Tough call how to let her kno...
Thoughts like this are quite common among most married guys AFAIK. However, if it is mostly based on a sexual attraction IT IS NOT WORTH IT. If it is on a deeper more intellectual level, first consider whether you could work more on your existing relat...