wastentime's Advice

• Why haven't I started my period?
  Indeed it will come, don't be so anxious it's not that fun to deal with. I understand feeling left out or left behind, but once it starts there's not much stopping it from then on, and you will have to deal with it every month for many years.
  
  
• Should I be worried about this abnormal period?
  You might try birth conrol pills. You periods will almost always be regular, like clock work. And cramping and pain seems to be a lot better than without. That's just an idea anyway.
  
  
• When will I hit puberty?
  You may feel left out. You may think that your boobs haven't developed. If you have pubic hair and you show signs of breast developement. If you get discharge in your panties it wont be long. By the way getting your period is not any fun. It sucks! ...
  
  
• Why can't he fit inside me?
  Possibly your hypmen is still in tact and hasn't been broken yet. It sometimes seems difficult and tight and wont go in.
  
  
• What are safe objects I can m*sturbate with?
  A brush handle with a smooth handle usually works good. Any thing smooth and obviously clean. Some say vegatables like carrots and cucumbers work well. Make sure you wash them. Basically anything round smooth and clean. Don't go to big if you are ne...
  
  
• Why do people finger each other?
  Because it feels good and it helps stress, pressure and makes for a decent forplay to a good sex session.
  
  
• Why don't people just wait for sex?
  I don't know what the perfect age is. Obviously if you reside in the us they say 18 the legal age. There are so many other countries that have much differernt laws. I don't know if there is a perfect age. I'm not saying a young age is good. Just that i...
  
  
• What's considered "too young" to have sex?
  It seems the age has progressively gotten lower and lower over the years. Ask your mother, father, grandmother or grandfather, probably not but the age was much more then what it is today. Although there might be a few unusual circumstances, but for th...
  
  
• Can you get pregnant if you had sex with a tampon in?
  Seems really odd that you could actually have sex with a tampon in. I mean isn't the tampon in your vagina? How did he put his penis in there let alone nut as you say with it in there. This is a totally confusing one that don't make alot of sense.
  
  
• How to deal with rumors of being a slag?
  Well you can let it pass or blow over, which it will eventually. Or you can try to make an as's out of the jerk he is. People like gossip whether true or not, and they jump on it and the story gets changed over and over again. Either let it go, lay...
  
  
• How can I get discharge to stop?
  If it's all natural you really can't it's part of being a woman. Some women secrete more than others. If it's unusual and chunky with itching and a foul oder you may have an infection. But if it's normal secretions with dampness or wetness in your unde...
  
  
• What if I get pregnant from the condom breaking?
  Read the directions, treat and use the condom gently. Make sure it's not old, out of date or sitting in your boyfriends wallet getting wore out. If used properly there is a slim chance. Nothing is 100%, but do use care. Make sure you are well lubricate...
  
  
• Is my vagina hole small?
  Everyone is differnt. Are you a virgin for starters. If so maybe your hymen is larger or thicker and tougher than normal. Are you or is he able to insert a finger or fingers with ease. Are you tense or nervous. It could be a number of things, bu...
  
  
• Is there somewhere I can go to just have sex?
  What's the hurry. There is plenty of time for sex. There are plenty of places guys would just jump you as you say, but be careful. You don't want to get beat up and abused. There are some really crazy sick people out there so be very careful. If you ca...
  
  
• Am I a slut for having sex at 14?
  Age really don't matter. Everyone has a different opinion of the term slut. Generally it's used with multiple sex partners at the same time, or a large number in a short amount of time. It's not necesarily a bad thing and don't feel shame. But do use p...
  
  
• When should I start my next period?
  The magic number is 28, but everyone is different. Sometimes it's irregular or never on the same time. Especially if you are young or if it's your first few periods. It will take a while to really know.
  
  
• How do you insert a tampon?
  Relax, don't get tense, use slenders for starters. Did you read the directions. Although it seems tough and difficult at first once you get the hang of it, only a few seconds. Don't get discouraged, but do relax.
  
  
• How can I stop myself for being nervous???
  Why would you feel guilty? It's healthy and normal. Sex is just as much as physical and mental as master bation . Don't stress it or worry about it. If your happy, content and comfortable with it who cares. You know what you like, it's good exercis...
  
  
• Does masturbating break your hymen?
  You may or may not have your hymen whether you mas turbate or not. You could have been born without it, you could have broke it mast urbating or inserting a tampon, even physical activity could have played a part. If you matur bate and you have no d...
  
  
• Does getting fingered hurt?
  Absolutely not. Of course you don't want to just get a finger shoved in because that might hurt. You want to be at least a little turned on and wet, so it will slip right in. You could practice on yourself, almost all girls do whether they tell you...
  
  
• Is this a good way to pop my own cherry?
  Just out of curiousity why are you looking to pop your chrerry? If you really want to deflower or pop yourself if you haven't already it doesn't really matter what you use. Depending on your overall situation and your body, it obviously varies. Gene...
  
  
• How long does Darvocet stay in your system?
  It depends on how often you take it. If it's a temporary prescription that you haven't takent before then once you stop 1-3 days. If you take it regularly then it plays a factor, more like 5-7 days. If you take it every day for more than 30 days then i...
  
  
• Are my medications making me feel like I need sex? (100%)
  Ever think about mas ter bat ion. It's a great alternative to sex, your in control, you know what you like and don't like. If your interested in sex, curious or wondering it's safe practice and it feels real good.
  
  
• Why haven't I started my period yet?
  Don't feel left out or left behind. It will come soon enough and believe me you'll be saying this sucks.
  
  
• Do you know any home remedies for a drug test?
  It depends on the drug test you are trying to beat. Some are more beatable than others. It also depends on the type of test like urine, hair, swab etc. How much or how often the use of the drug in question you are talking about.
  
  
• Should I start using tampons yet? (100%)
  Tampons are a matter of choice or preference, a little difficult at first but once you get the hang of them you'll love them. Thin slender ones with a plastic applicator are best for your first time. Relax and don't stress it, take your time and don't ...
  
  
• Can you feel it when a guy cums inside you?
  It feels real nice, sort of warm and gooey. It's hard to explain. It can be a little messy afterwards too. It's got to come out eventually right. So be prepared. On your bed, on your floor, or in your panties. And it's hard to clean up sometimes.
  
  
• Is it bad to have "fat vagina lips"?
  You state that it will be your first time and his, I am just wondering how many vagina's up close he's even seen to know whether yours are fat or not. Maybe he's seen a few magazines or movies, maybe he's touched a few, but probably not that many to re...
  
  
• Should I explore my body with my friend?
  First times are usually uncomfortable and nervousness creates a not so well planned experience. Relax, talk, and be comfortable. Don't be shy or self-conscience. Embarrassment may cause your friend to get uneasy and change her mind. Just remember yo...
  
  
• Is m*sturbation wrong? (100%)
  Ma stur bation is normal and definately healthy. It's also good to explore your body and see what's down there and how it works. Everyone is different, some are brought up and taught that it's disgusting, there is absolutely nothing disgusting or wrong...