Baby circumcision
Seems majority says no. I'll check out those sights, do more research and keep all of your answers in mind. It does make sense to leave it up to them, and I guess I could just have another bank, like a baby's college fund, to pay for it if he decides h...
Drug use during pregnancy
Who would I call? I don't know anything about this, just that it's bad. I feel guilty for having a hard time quiting cigarettes until I was 51/2 months pregnant. I wouldn't know how to go about it, or what information to give.
Pregnant and needing help with telling my Mom
The first time I got pregnant I had to tell my grandma. I was 17. It was unplanned, so I was terrified for myself, and about how she would react. She was disappointed with me, but since it had already happened there was nothing we could do, so she didn...
What frustrates you the most?
I have a couple...
Cheaters, just end the dang relationship!!!
Liars... what's the point??? Someone will find out eventually.
Closed minded people, So what their clothes don't match your taste??? They have to live with it, not you.
Drug addicts... ...
How can I get him back?
Girl, you are 14 years old (on your profile), and meddling in things that even mature adults don't quite get. I am going through something similar to you though. I am pregnant, only 19 and single. He did things that weren't in the best interest of my s...
Can you choose the sex of the baby?
There are ways to help, but to be completely honest, there's no 100% way to know for sure you're getting what you want.
lil_princess_4_lyf and ty are right.
Boy or girl
I answered a question on here just a little while ago like this one. I knew by instinct. Not what I wanted, and what I really hoped for, but what I knew it to be, which was a boy. Just relax and like meditate I guess. Ask your little baby what it is, a...
Is there anything I can do to make these two along?
My sister had the same problem with her three kids, and they were 5, 3 and 2. She removed them from the situation (time out, timed by how old they were) then went and talked to them. She asked them to show her or tell her what feelings they had that ma...
Can I still smoke and drink once in awhile?
Oh... hun, you have a lot of growing up to do. Yes, you very well could drink and smoke, but you could also cause problems to your baby. You may not know about these problems until your baby is a toddler, or a school aged child. Smoking pot has been li...
How can I get my 5 year old to start feeding himself
Try using a lot more finger foods. Baby carrots, apple slices, finger sandwhiches, toast, sausage, crackers, dry cheerios with a cup of milk on the side, etc... and show him how fun it can be to feed himself. I wouldn't reward him each time though beca...
Has my baby dropped?
Oh, I don't mean that I'm going into labor when I say "dropped." When I say that I mean when they get into position for the labor, which could be weeks away. Trust that if I thought I was in labor, or that he may be on his way now, I wouldn't be on the...
How can dad breastfeed baby?
Although hellothereweirdos is a jacka*s with their answer, they're right, if you meant litterally breastfeeding. If, however, you meant how can he help you and share with you the intense bonding breastfeeding can bring then there is a soluion. Invest i...
How to tell if it's a boy or girl?
Instinct. I knew I was having a boy. I wanted a girl, but every time somone asked "What do you think you're having?" I just knew I was having a boy. I had my ultrasound done, and I was right. Plus, I usually like more pinks than anything, but after I g...
Young Mums?
I am not yet a young mom, but I will be. I am 19 years old and 32 weeks pregnant. I left his father in Florida with another woman, and I'm preparing to do this on my own. I'm super scared because I have never been around a newborn, but I can't wait to ...
Boyfriend problems(100.00%)
All relationships come to that point. My fiancee and I went through it not even a full year after being together. My advice, do something you used to do. Have him write down three things you used to do when you first got together that made him happy, o...
My boyfriend was sexually abused as a child
I was sexually abused by my father between the ages of 5 and 8 when he finally went to prison. I went to therapy and it still took me until just last year to be able to forgive him and move on. I'm 19 now. He should deffinately be in therapy. A lot of...
Pregnancy question
Some women are able to tell the day after by instinct I guess, or even right after it happened. You may be right about knowing. Don't get your hopes up though, sometimes wanting one that badly will make you create your own symptoms. When I got pregnant...
Pregnant and drunk
I drank too when I didn't know I was pregnant. I was 6 weeks. I also did other things I shouldn't have to help "cope" with the miscarriage I had just had. I am having a healthy pregnancy now, and the baby is developing fine. If there could be something...
Tall and pregnant, will I ever really show?
Haha. I Love eating what I want, and the stretch mark comment made me laugh. Thanks for the congrats :] I appreciate y'alls advice :)
How can I get naturally bigger boobs?
Ok, You will continue to grow. For now though, do pec exercises, like pushups. When the muscles build, it makes them appear larger. It will also set a great foundation for perky larger breasts when they do grow in. Just have patience. There is no magic...
Im married, but my ex came back
Why?, because you shared a piece of your life with this person. I have plenty of my ex's that I still felt like I had feelings for, but I remember they are ex's for a reason, just like you did, and was able to just be friends. It is only natural to thi...
Can animals sense if you're pregnant?(100.00%)
I'm pregnant too, and I spend a lot of time at my grandmothers. Combined, we have a lot of pets, and they each treat me differently. Two are more affectionate, my dog is more playful and listens better, one indifferent, and their 15 yr old male dog jus...
The best song make love to?(100.00%)
The best song to make love to is any song that get's you both in the mood. It would be better to have a CD though, LOL. One song usually isn't long enough. My opinion for a cd is songs you both like mixed. Some slow, some fast, some somewhere in betwee...
How to induce my period?
To be honest, starting your period doesn't make your breasts grow, it is just telling you that you are able to get pregnant. I have never heard of a way to induce it, your body just has to want to. As for the breasts growing, they will grow! I was 15 i...
Does anyone know anything about pet rats?
My sister and I had pet rats. Notice the HAD. We will never get them again, nor will our kids, grandkids or great grandkids. They say multiply like rabbits right??? They obviously never had rats.
Can anyone help me convince my mom to let me go on a diet?
First of all, a diet is what you eat regularly. Ex: my diet would be sandwhiches, soups and mexican foods because I love them. When you "go on" a diet, you are more often than not changing what you usually eat. What reasons do you have for changing to ...
How to grow bigger boobs?
My sister has the same "problem." You don't need bigger boobs. You just have to find the right bra, and clothes to show them off. When I was younger and my boobs were just growing, I was envious of any woman that had a C cup or higher. My grandma took ...
Whats wrong with dressing emo?
Nothing is wrong with dressing "emo." If it's a style you like, go for it. The thing people have a problem with is that it's a fad that quickly came up, and got overly popular. To get a bag to match your look, try hitting up hot topic, or a thrift stor...
Would short hair look good on a girl like me?
Short hair would be very cute on you. You have a great face for it, and a gorgeous neck to show off. You don't want to go too short though because you may miss your hair and what you could do with it while it was long. It will also take you a little w...
Getting an apple
I think it is plenty fair. When you start your family, you'll realize that although you want to give your kids the world, sometimes it's better to start off small or cheap to see if they are responsible enough to take care of the item they originally w...
Losing 40lbs
You won't lose 40 pounds in two weeks. It is much harder to take off than put on. Shoot for something more realistic, like 5 pounds a week. It may take longer, but your body will appreciate you being nice to it. You can count calories, that's what I do...
Am I fat?
The more muscle on your body, the more you weigh. You can't tell if someone is fat by their height and weight. if you have "a small muscular frame" you just answered your own question. If you're fat, you're not small, or muscular.
When to stop shopping?(100.00%)
only bring the amount you want to spend with you. When it's gone, you're done.
What if I'm not attracted to my crush?
If you really like someone, they become more attractive to you. I have dated guys that weren't the best looking, but to me they were. I had a lot of problems with it when I was younger though. I worried more about what my friends would think, and found...
Dress--Trash or treasure
My best advice, ask the bride to be. If she thinks it's appropriate, where it, if not, go shopping.
Should I stay in my relationship?
This is what I do:
Make a list on a sheet of paper of everything you can't stand about him, another of things you'll tolerate, and one last one of things he does that are just amazingly good to you.
If there are more bad than good, there's your answe...
My 11 year old has a "boyfriend"(100.00%)
I'm not a parent yet, but I think I could help. I'm glad that you have open communication with her, that means she trusts you and thinks of you as a friend/teacher. Approaching her about it without getting upset is the best way to go. To keep it open b...
How to respond to a classmate who impersonates people of your race
Definately. Never let someones ignorance put you down. If his comments were bothering you or felt degrating then he had no right to joke about it, if he even was joking. If he does it again I'd personally make fun of him about something similar to make...
Unforgettable place sex experience?
Ummm... I have a couple. On top of a fire truck, inbetween a truck and building, on the roof of my old house, in a park, by a small waterfall in the woods... many more...
Hard or smooth intercourse?
Depends on my mood. Right now I'm pregnant, so psychologically, I don't want to hurt the baby, (even though it's not possible), so slow, or soft sex is the way I've been going for the past three months. Rough, or hard sex, is amazing while drunk... LOL...
Issue with my boyfriend stealing
Get out of that relationship before he ruins you! Financially and/or mentally. You know he won't change, and if you don't, I'll tell you: He's not going to change. I can't stress enough to you that even though he may not be hitting you, he is abusing y...
Do you believe in God?
Yes, I believe in God. I was raised a lot of different ways, and in a lot of different families. My belief in Him came from myself, and the proof I have been given by Him. My fiancee and I had two miscarriages, and I have had two before I was with him....
How to get on Myspace at school?
We always got on by not typing in the www., just myspace.com. The school comp didn't register it. We'd also google it, and get on it like that.
Mothers and freedom
When you become a parent you will be thankful for her "overprotectiveness" because you will understand where it came from. She cares about you a great deal, if she didn't, you'd be able to do whatever, whenever. When I was younger I had the same proble...
Are my Nipples and Clitorus large?
As a woman you should be proud. Larger nipples and areolas are better targets for a newborn, and since the milk comes out of the areolas too, more of a latch on area. Embrace that and be proud. Your clit is your pleasure button, the bigger it is, the e...
What does it mean for them to lose control?
I guess control of their temper. I really don't know myself. I just say go ahead then, and they usually simmer down. I have never had a guy say that unless I'm testing their limits by talking about something they don't like, such as ex's while we're in...
Right to be mad?
Be mad... He deserves whatever treatment you are giving him. I don't do anniversaries before the first year, but since it is important to you, and you both made plans, he's a peice of crap. He didn't even let you know he changed his plans, and didn't c...
vashleighl's Advice
Seems majority says no. I'll check out those sights, do more research and keep all of your answers in mind. It does make sense to leave it up to them, and I guess I could just have another bank, like a baby's college fund, to pay for it if he decides h...
Who would I call? I don't know anything about this, just that it's bad. I feel guilty for having a hard time quiting cigarettes until I was 51/2 months pregnant. I wouldn't know how to go about it, or what information to give.
The first time I got pregnant I had to tell my grandma. I was 17. It was unplanned, so I was terrified for myself, and about how she would react. She was disappointed with me, but since it had already happened there was nothing we could do, so she didn...
OH!!! and racists! Get over the color of their skin BS!!!
I have a couple... Cheaters, just end the dang relationship!!! Liars... what's the point??? Someone will find out eventually. Closed minded people, So what their clothes don't match your taste??? They have to live with it, not you. Drug addicts... ...
Girl, you are 14 years old (on your profile), and meddling in things that even mature adults don't quite get. I am going through something similar to you though. I am pregnant, only 19 and single. He did things that weren't in the best interest of my s...
There are ways to help, but to be completely honest, there's no 100% way to know for sure you're getting what you want. lil_princess_4_lyf and ty are right.
I answered a question on here just a little while ago like this one. I knew by instinct. Not what I wanted, and what I really hoped for, but what I knew it to be, which was a boy. Just relax and like meditate I guess. Ask your little baby what it is, a...
My sister had the same problem with her three kids, and they were 5, 3 and 2. She removed them from the situation (time out, timed by how old they were) then went and talked to them. She asked them to show her or tell her what feelings they had that ma...
Oh... hun, you have a lot of growing up to do. Yes, you very well could drink and smoke, but you could also cause problems to your baby. You may not know about these problems until your baby is a toddler, or a school aged child. Smoking pot has been li...
Try using a lot more finger foods. Baby carrots, apple slices, finger sandwhiches, toast, sausage, crackers, dry cheerios with a cup of milk on the side, etc... and show him how fun it can be to feed himself. I wouldn't reward him each time though beca...
Oh, I don't mean that I'm going into labor when I say "dropped." When I say that I mean when they get into position for the labor, which could be weeks away. Trust that if I thought I was in labor, or that he may be on his way now, I wouldn't be on the...
Although hellothereweirdos is a jacka*s with their answer, they're right, if you meant litterally breastfeeding. If, however, you meant how can he help you and share with you the intense bonding breastfeeding can bring then there is a soluion. Invest i...
Instinct. I knew I was having a boy. I wanted a girl, but every time somone asked "What do you think you're having?" I just knew I was having a boy. I had my ultrasound done, and I was right. Plus, I usually like more pinks than anything, but after I g...
I am not yet a young mom, but I will be. I am 19 years old and 32 weeks pregnant. I left his father in Florida with another woman, and I'm preparing to do this on my own. I'm super scared because I have never been around a newborn, but I can't wait to ...
All relationships come to that point. My fiancee and I went through it not even a full year after being together. My advice, do something you used to do. Have him write down three things you used to do when you first got together that made him happy, o...
I was sexually abused by my father between the ages of 5 and 8 when he finally went to prison. I went to therapy and it still took me until just last year to be able to forgive him and move on. I'm 19 now. He should deffinately be in therapy. A lot of...
Some women are able to tell the day after by instinct I guess, or even right after it happened. You may be right about knowing. Don't get your hopes up though, sometimes wanting one that badly will make you create your own symptoms. When I got pregnant...
I drank too when I didn't know I was pregnant. I was 6 weeks. I also did other things I shouldn't have to help "cope" with the miscarriage I had just had. I am having a healthy pregnancy now, and the baby is developing fine. If there could be something...
Haha. I Love eating what I want, and the stretch mark comment made me laugh. Thanks for the congrats :] I appreciate y'alls advice :)
Ok, You will continue to grow. For now though, do pec exercises, like pushups. When the muscles build, it makes them appear larger. It will also set a great foundation for perky larger breasts when they do grow in. Just have patience. There is no magic...
Why?, because you shared a piece of your life with this person. I have plenty of my ex's that I still felt like I had feelings for, but I remember they are ex's for a reason, just like you did, and was able to just be friends. It is only natural to thi...
I'm pregnant too, and I spend a lot of time at my grandmothers. Combined, we have a lot of pets, and they each treat me differently. Two are more affectionate, my dog is more playful and listens better, one indifferent, and their 15 yr old male dog jus...
The best song to make love to is any song that get's you both in the mood. It would be better to have a CD though, LOL. One song usually isn't long enough. My opinion for a cd is songs you both like mixed. Some slow, some fast, some somewhere in betwee...
To be honest, starting your period doesn't make your breasts grow, it is just telling you that you are able to get pregnant. I have never heard of a way to induce it, your body just has to want to. As for the breasts growing, they will grow! I was 15 i...
Of course!
My sister and I had pet rats. Notice the HAD. We will never get them again, nor will our kids, grandkids or great grandkids. They say multiply like rabbits right??? They obviously never had rats.
First of all, a diet is what you eat regularly. Ex: my diet would be sandwhiches, soups and mexican foods because I love them. When you "go on" a diet, you are more often than not changing what you usually eat. What reasons do you have for changing to ...
My sister has the same "problem." You don't need bigger boobs. You just have to find the right bra, and clothes to show them off. When I was younger and my boobs were just growing, I was envious of any woman that had a C cup or higher. My grandma took ...
Nothing is wrong with dressing "emo." If it's a style you like, go for it. The thing people have a problem with is that it's a fad that quickly came up, and got overly popular. To get a bag to match your look, try hitting up hot topic, or a thrift stor...
Short hair would be very cute on you. You have a great face for it, and a gorgeous neck to show off. You don't want to go too short though because you may miss your hair and what you could do with it while it was long. It will also take you a little w...
I think it is plenty fair. When you start your family, you'll realize that although you want to give your kids the world, sometimes it's better to start off small or cheap to see if they are responsible enough to take care of the item they originally w...
You won't lose 40 pounds in two weeks. It is much harder to take off than put on. Shoot for something more realistic, like 5 pounds a week. It may take longer, but your body will appreciate you being nice to it. You can count calories, that's what I do...
The more muscle on your body, the more you weigh. You can't tell if someone is fat by their height and weight. if you have "a small muscular frame" you just answered your own question. If you're fat, you're not small, or muscular.
only bring the amount you want to spend with you. When it's gone, you're done.
If you really like someone, they become more attractive to you. I have dated guys that weren't the best looking, but to me they were. I had a lot of problems with it when I was younger though. I worried more about what my friends would think, and found...
My best advice, ask the bride to be. If she thinks it's appropriate, where it, if not, go shopping.
This is what I do: Make a list on a sheet of paper of everything you can't stand about him, another of things you'll tolerate, and one last one of things he does that are just amazingly good to you. If there are more bad than good, there's your answe...
I'm not a parent yet, but I think I could help. I'm glad that you have open communication with her, that means she trusts you and thinks of you as a friend/teacher. Approaching her about it without getting upset is the best way to go. To keep it open b...
Definately. Never let someones ignorance put you down. If his comments were bothering you or felt degrating then he had no right to joke about it, if he even was joking. If he does it again I'd personally make fun of him about something similar to make...
Ummm... I have a couple. On top of a fire truck, inbetween a truck and building, on the roof of my old house, in a park, by a small waterfall in the woods... many more...
Depends on my mood. Right now I'm pregnant, so psychologically, I don't want to hurt the baby, (even though it's not possible), so slow, or soft sex is the way I've been going for the past three months. Rough, or hard sex, is amazing while drunk... LOL...
Get out of that relationship before he ruins you! Financially and/or mentally. You know he won't change, and if you don't, I'll tell you: He's not going to change. I can't stress enough to you that even though he may not be hitting you, he is abusing y...
Yes, I believe in God. I was raised a lot of different ways, and in a lot of different families. My belief in Him came from myself, and the proof I have been given by Him. My fiancee and I had two miscarriages, and I have had two before I was with him....
We always got on by not typing in the www., just myspace.com. The school comp didn't register it. We'd also google it, and get on it like that.
When you become a parent you will be thankful for her "overprotectiveness" because you will understand where it came from. She cares about you a great deal, if she didn't, you'd be able to do whatever, whenever. When I was younger I had the same proble...
As a woman you should be proud. Larger nipples and areolas are better targets for a newborn, and since the milk comes out of the areolas too, more of a latch on area. Embrace that and be proud. Your clit is your pleasure button, the bigger it is, the e...
Myspace. That's the best answer I can give you.
I guess control of their temper. I really don't know myself. I just say go ahead then, and they usually simmer down. I have never had a guy say that unless I'm testing their limits by talking about something they don't like, such as ex's while we're in...
Be mad... He deserves whatever treatment you are giving him. I don't do anniversaries before the first year, but since it is important to you, and you both made plans, he's a peice of crap. He didn't even let you know he changed his plans, and didn't c...