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And again, tell him to stay away from her. If she's underage, threaten to call the cops.
Yes it is considered rape. If you were that intoxicated then you could not consent. As for putting yourself into a situation like that, I dont care if you were running around naked, if you did not consent then you did not consent. End of story. I'd con...
Is this a serious question? What exactly is she doing with a guy who allowed two other boys to have sex with her and hurt her? Not only does he have no respect for her, she has no respect for herself. Of course he feels bad. He's not able to have sex a...
You choose to engage in a debate with people who would not change their beliefs with any amount of proof. Have you heard the saying "never argue with a fool, they will lower you to their level and then beat you with experience", well in this case, perh...
I am not sure. I didnt want to move here. I refused to fill out the applications (my dad had to fill a bunch of them for me), and I was miserable when I got here, for about a year, and wanted to go back home every day. It got better. You adapt and get ...
I dont think it's about having a point. People are prejudiced because they were raised prejudiced and that's what they know. Why some people stay prejudiced and why others learn differently I dont know.
I wouldnt wear jeans to forever 21. Generally check out what the sales associates wear and go by that. At a place like a&f, you're good with jeans, at forever 21 I wouldnt risk it. I'd go slightly more dressy than jeans...
It really does not matter whether you think you're ready. You cannot financially support a child. Therefore you are not ready. End of story. And someone who thinks that they're ready at 13 to have a child, and then have mom and dad have to support them...
They did an experiment with x, and 7 years later the brain still did not go back to normal. So in short, 1 is enough to mess with your brain.
You cannot GET ocd from coursework. It's a mental disorder. You like to do work, that's great.
So dont tell them. It is not absolutely essential for them to know, and when you're on your own, you can tell them...
I have no actual objection to the idea of polygamy when all parties are in agreement. The problem is that in a lot of cases the women have few choices and are not treated as equals (not as equals to their husbands and not with the other wives, there is...
Were you hoping to find a psychic here? How are we supposed to know if you're pregnant? If you cant take a test, then you're going to have to wait a few months. A belly should be a pretty clear signal (30% of women do not experience any of the traditio...
There is a monitor, certain words are not supposed to be posted, and we delete inappropriate pictures. We do police this place, but remember that there's only 3 admins working on the policing stuff and a bunch of volunteer advisors. We do get a lot of ...
1. Save picture on your computer (make sure it is in a jpg or other compatible format) 2. Go on your profile by clicking on your name at the top of the screen 3. On the left hand side of the screen there is a link for 'my photos'. 4. Choose a file ...
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1. Go on your profile by clicking on your name at the top of the screen 2. On the left hand side of the screen there is a link for 'my photos'. 3. Under the picture click 'delete'
1. Save picture onto computer 2. Go on your profile by clicking on your name at the top of the screen 3. On the left hand side of the screen there is a link for 'my photos'. 4. Choose a file (open the file you want) 5. Enter a caption 6. Upload ...
1. Download photo onto your computer and save it on the computer 2. Go on your profile by clicking on your name at the top of the screen 3. On the left hand side of the screen there is a link for 'my photos'. 4. Choose a file (open the file you wan...
1. Download photo onto your computer from the ipod and save it on the computer 2. Go on your profile by clicking on your name at the top of the screen 3. On the left hand side of the screen there is a link for 'my photos'. 4. Choose a file (open th...
1. Download photo onto your computer and save it on the computer 2. Go on your profile by clicking on your name at the top of the screen 3. On the left hand side of the screen there is a link for 'my photos'. 4. Choose a file (open the file you wan...
Alcohol does not stay in the system that long? You should be fine...
That is lubrication... Your body releases it to make sex a little easier and what not...
Therapy may help at this point?
This is a very complicated question. OCD behaviors are obviously done on purpose. Yes OCD is a disorder, but at the end of the day it is possible to not choose to do the behaviors. Just as eating disorder behaviors are still a matter of choice. You can...
Uhm right. Speaking from the other end of it, if you say you almost had a mental break down, then they send you to the counselor's office. We can stop B.S. a mile away. And if we think it's something serious (I.e. you're a really good actor), guess wha...
This is a very interesting question. Although the person is obsessed and has compulsions surrounding the drug, the difference between OCD and an addiction is the OCD has to do with performing certain behaviors, while drug addiction has to do with the a...
This accompanied with your paranoia tells me something is definitely wrong. Please tell your parents about these thoughts. You need to see a doctor.
no. the flu is a virus. antibiotics can only cure bacterial infections
no... not unless they want to stay at home for the next 5 years.
I'm confused? if you're the parent, well you need to deal with your kids better. No kid likes to do what they're told. That's why you're the parent. If you're the baby sitter, well the parent's screwed up the disciplining, you cannot fix it in one day...
Statistics? What statistics? Considering there is no objective way to prove this, I'm curious who conducted this research. Uhm right, fight for the right of the baby and the forget about it once it is born. Guess who ends up with needing counseling, ab...
Always is a long time. I know school seems like it is forever. But it really isnt. And once you're out of school, well no, your reputation kinda goes away because there's a big world out there, and no one knows or cares about what kids in your high sch...
It is a unit of measurement. 1 stone = 14 pounds
If he doesnt like you then that really is his problem. You just keep being who you are, and you'll find someone who loves all of you.
Blood clots can be very serious, she needs to go see a doctor.
I dont think you're looking at this entirely the right way... You're not going to get over your parents dying. I dont think most people get over their parents dying. They do learn how to live with it. They figure out ways to mourn and grieve. They go t...
Wow. You're going to mess around with something like surgery. That's smart. You do know people DIE during surgery right? This isnt about pulling one over on your doctor.
I do not want you to take this the wrong way, but your thinking is not entirely normal right now. Your dad is probably worried about why you're carrying a bat around. I mean I'd personally take my kid to a therapist if he was overly paranoid. You dont ...
lol. uhm what Dara said. He's an individual. Shouldnt you know your own child? Perhaps you should have the sex talk with him?
You're definitely small, 77 pounds is small. You've probably just got a really fast metabolism. If your doctor says you're healthy otherwise, I wouldnt worry about it.
Check out this site for things said, I'd try and research speeches and propaganda actually used during that time... http://www.ihr.org/jhr/v02/v02p-45_Weber.html
uhm no one knows if you're pregnant. Consult a psychic for that or consider using a pregnancy test The pills are pretty effective, depending on what you're using the effectiveness is 95-99% effective. So it is possible. And people have gotten pregna...
You're not likely to be pregnant. The depo is 97% effective. I wouldnt worry about it. I'd use a condom for STD protection and it will lower the risk of pregnancy to almost nothing...
inorganic I believe
This says 8% of the population (seems a bit high, but ok...) http://www.healthyplace.com/other-info/psychiatric-disorder-definitions/obsessive-compulsive-personality-disorder/menu-id-71/
You dont. You didnt put on 30 pounds in a month and you're not going to lose it in a month.
Hmm, that's interesting, because I thought that between 1-5 miles you only got a warning. If they took the ticket to court it would probably be dismissed...
Once it is out there, it cant be taken back. There's another way to do this. Do you have a friend you can talk to who wont tell anyone else? Maybe only tell a few close friends (maybe those who are gay or bi?)
no, they are different things This is what I got from my notes 7. Compulsive Personality Disorder Conflicted personalities experience the full measure of life’s potentials, that is both ends of the pain-pleasure and self-other polarities. What ...