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Ok, first off it's not the army's fault when a recruiter lies. All you can do is report them (and they will be taken care of). As far as the payment issues, that again is NOT the army, that is DFAS, which covers ALL government employee pay. DFAS is not...
well, the accident was comepletely his fault. He backed up as my car was passing him, he hit the rear drivers side of my car. I'm not 100% but I'm almost positive that if you're backing out of a parking spot, you're required to yield to all oncoming tr...
People, don't speak about law if you don't know what it is. The AGE OF CONSENT IN OHIO IS 16. This means that once any person in Ohio turns 16 years of age, they can have sex with whomever they want, without any legal repercussions on either side. He d...
"beauty is on the inside" is such a funny phrase. Some people can say it, and mean it most of the time. However most people that say that simply say so to make themselves look better. The fact is, there are some people, while they may be an awesome per...
listen to what she asked people. "Can my boyfriend get arrested if my parents tell just for going out with me since im only 14?" No where in there does it say they are having sex. If he is above the age of 17(treated as an adult in cases dealing wi...
Some of the people have a point...If you want to dress dark and in a gothic fashion, but don't live their lifestyle or follow their beliefs then you'd just be dressing in a gothic fashion, but wouldn't actually be goth. If you're just going for the loo...
Being (now ex) military (just served and got out of the Army) If I were attending one of my comrades funerals, and this group showed up, I would wind up in jail that day for at a minimum Assault. They can feel like god hates america all they want, but ...
If you want to get technical, ever uttering the phrase "thank god" for something non-miraculous is technically using it's name in vein. God is not male, or female. "It" is something that I can't express in words, therefore I use the word it. He...
nl83, why don't you do a little research and know what you're talking about before your open your mouth and present "facts". I stated what Emo is in my opinion,and never once even typed to word suicidal,let alone compared it to or with Emo music. I als...
Oh, I've experienced things I couldn't at the time explain, and in fact used to believe in ghosts...that is until everything I felt or any "evidence" I had got proven not to be anything supernatural. In fact, there has never been actual scientific data...
good answers everyone. Sudden alcohol withdrawal can cause seizures among other things Same with crystal meth, some barbiturate withdrawals can kill you to I believe. Despite what you'd heard though, no matter how addicted a person, or how long,...
Well,I've never seen any actual proof of ghosts,so I myself don't believe in them If they are real, don't you think they'd have better stuff to do than flick your light switches?? Actually lights flickering on and off are not at all paranormal, a...
Wow, from your inability to spell I'm not exactly surprised. People probably think you're immature by the way you talk to them, at least online. That's my impression of you. If you had correct grammar, spelling, and punctuation, I would think you were...
just don't be the next kd on the news with a "frisky" teacher...man where were they when I was in school.
In my opinion, the bible was written by man, therefore it's fallible. This can further be proved by the fact that "comities of men" got together to determine what would go in, and go out of the bible. There are also many different versions of the bi...
There was a time, about 4 years ago, where I had no food, barely had a roof over my head, I would regularly go 3 - 4 days without eating because I just couldn't get food. I prayed every night for food, and it never would come. (every 4 days or so...
My chemical romance is NOT emo, they have said so themselves(I had to google it, and sure enough, they did in fact say they are NOT emo music) so stop listing them as Emo, and say they are just a good band. Tokio Hotel isn't Emo, it just sucks. If y...
andy, it is important to honor your mother and father, if you're christian and believe that, however if she's in immediate harm, before sorting things out she needs to get removed from harm. Her father might hit too hard one day and kill her. Calling t...
exactly Kat, my beliefs to a T. The one thing that's going to be annoying about this thread, is that the religious nuts are going to tell this poor girl "Yep, the bible says if you don't believe in god, your going to hell" or even worse, the super chri...
ok I didn't mean to make it a "yes or no" question,lol feel free to type why as well, because I think there are a lot of people that have no clue it can kill you (withdrawals from crystal meth can also kill you. Heroin withdrawals though can NOT kill y...
Even when I stopped doing drugs, and was perfectly healthy, I was fully capable of sleeping for 12 - 16 hours,lol Not since I've been back from Iraq though, haven't slept for more than 3 or 4 hours straight...really annoying not being able to get at...
It can hurt pretty bad for up to 3 or 4 days. It's because the stick it in the muscle tissue, which can bruise. The pain'll last for for as long as a normal bruise. Now you want a shot that hurt, get an anthrax vaccine. Holy crap! After the 3r...
That depends on your beliefs. No one can answer that question for sure, because obviously no ones died, gone to heaven/hell, talked to god, and come back. I believe that as long as your a good person at heart, if there is an afterlife, it will be go...
It has to do with teenagers feeling like they know what is best for themselves, or feeling invincible, and parents wanting to protect them. Parents make rules, because they love their children, but the teenagers feel that these rules are "unfair" a...
I agree with chosen_few; Try your best to ignore him. He'll probably be relentless and increase in annoyance at first, but after a little bit, he'll give up. And just think about the future, eventually either you or he will turn 18 and move out, s...
I slept for 2 days once, after staying up for a week straight (for a $200 dollar bet). I may have woke up tp use the bathroom, or munch on something, but I don't remember doing so. There was another time, when I was younger that I slept for 72 hour...
Saph, the second sentence you typed there makes you sound very ignorant. This topic was meant to be more fun than serious, but you're making me go there. A vast majority of the people that are homeless either have a severe mental defect, or lost the...
lol some people just flip out at teenagers having sex. I lost my virginity when I was 13, big deal. It's nothing special. In fact sex itself isn't special. Making love is special, but there's a big difference between having sex and making love. I'd ...
xxlovehurtsbabexx, you know in mexico and some european countries people can drink at 12 I agree she went overbored, which is the main problem, but my personal belief is that if you can handle your alcohol, you have a right to drink, I don't think a...
I was 13 when I lost my virginity...in a campground in a tent, to a girl I had met the day before,lol I don't regret it at all...I regret not knowing what the hell I was doing, it was awkward, especially cause the girls cousins kept runnin up and hi...
They are fake. There has been research done to prove that when you get a group of people(as is needed in the Ouija board) that it creates a certain mood,mindset, and expectations. People will actually move the piece, without realizing they are because ...
Wal mart has slightly higher quality products. Not everything from the dollar store is crap(an example would be paper plates...dollar store paper plates are the same as everywhere else, just cheaper at the dollar store) I don't have a lot of money, ...
call child services or something, the dude deserves to be locked up if he hits you in such a way for such menial reasons. I believe in spanking as a form of punishment, but not so hard that it causes permanent damage, and only in the most severe cases ...
yeah I know how to swim, in fact I love to do so, I just wouldn't want to live right near the water like that. I have more of a fear of driving and water. I used to hold my breath whenever I crossed a bridge that went over water,lol guess I thought...
nah, I have this wierd nightmare every once in a while that involves me driving along a thin strip of road between 2 bodies of water, and then the car crashing in the water, then I wake up... Makes me not want to live too close to water.
eh, Emo's not my style...I don't really like crying whiney pity me music. And if I remember right, MCR denounced emo to some effect, or said that they aren't emo at some point in time. I personally recommend (hed)P.E., Sublime, or 311 (my 3 favor...
what about this example. You're literally minutes away from death from starvation: You have no money to buy food, no objects to barter for food, can't even crawl another step to dig for worms or something that could sustain you. Someone accidenta...
If I gave 10% of what I currently make to charity, it would in effect be giving the money back to myself. I'm currently on unemployment(just got out of the army) and *right now* 10% of what I bring in a month would leave me with unpaid bills and 2 or 3...
WoW got boring to me...and I barely played it,lol There are a lot of free MMORPGs out there that are actually better than WoW right now I'm playing mabinogi don't know the website off the top of my head though,just google it.
he's talking about the game second life at http://secondlife.com/ I don't have an account,sorry
hbvb why would I give a tithe to a church that I don't believe in though? That doesn't make much sense. If I was going to do that, I'd give money to those Scientology nuts,lol. I guess, while thinking about it, since I don't believe that giving "mon...
Don't listen to these idiots. You can run and smoke, it's just a lot harder to run as your lung capacity won't be top notch. I just got out of the army, while I was in, I smoked (and still do) at least 1 pack a day. In the army, for the 18 - 25 y...
It would depend on your beliefs. If you follow the bible to the letter, it would still be a sin, although since christ forgives, yadda yadda. I don't believe in organized religion, or the bible.(I do believe in god) And my belief is that if it's for...
I myself don't believe in organized religion (yes I believe in god, I just have my own beliefs that are different from any church I have attended), so I'm not sure on the whole tithing thing. The bible says something about giving money to the church...
People are not stupid or idiots because they smoke. You'll find rarely is there someone who smokes that does not know the risks involved. Just because I believe that the effects and feeling of smoking currently in my life outweigh the risk and cons, do...
any water with calories in it isn't completely good for you. Not sure if it's "worse" than soda, but I could see it being so. The best thing you can drink water wise if you're not really physically active is regular water(even tap water, as most bot...
As a recovering drug addict myself, I can say the only was for someone to get/stay clean is if they 100% want to. If he's not ready to get clean yet, he won't, no matter who tries to do what to him. He may get scared into temporarily quitting, but it w...
To all the idiotic guys posting here, speak for yourselves A holes :-p I'm a guy, and I prefer hair down there, although I like it to be kind of trimmed up and not look out of control. completely shaved makes me feel like I'm bangin a toddler, it's ...
Cut back on sugars, and caffeine. Go for a job in the early morning before school, or right after. That usually will tire you out. I myself find it hard to sleep sometimes, but that's related to nightmares I have about Iraq and other things. I find ...
Me personally, I find some freckles cute. Although if a girl is covered to the point they look like lesions, then no.