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thinredline's Advice
the parents of this girl sound to really care about her. your influence over her and your pressure are concerning. if you refuse to honour and comply with their wishes you are making war, contributing to instability and damaging the relationship ...
there is a theory that there is a genetic component to this. being compelled to not eat however genetic or biologically based is not appropriate is it so even if we have a legitimate drive to not eat we must override that with eating sensibly. some of ...
cherry, considering you have a bias on this subject perhaps the thing would be to tell them what you would do in this situation but your credibility is reduced telling them what they should do here remember they are looking to have their fears heard an...
maywell, while your faith is wonderful, i must object to your use of a public forum to get your religious views out. pls dont preach on public forums. we who wish to share in faith go willingly to those places where that is our choice, but in a public ...
where are your ethics? dont do stuff like this. dont associate with people you dont trust. if your gut says something is wrong, go with that and move along. but suspicion and sneaking around with hacking tools no its simply not the right way to live yo...
parents dont have to be supportive and respect your decisions that is not correct. they have given you your life. they put alot of effort in and continue to take responsibility for you. they have earned the right to look at this from their point of vie...
i cant believe you are doing this nonsense. what sort of person do you want to be... what sort of people do you have in your life... careful how you answer. your life depends on it.
withdraw this question dont even think about breaking into anyone's account thats not ok for you or anyone
it is very flattering to be the object of someones affections. life is short, and you wont be in your good yrs forever. it will be much better to choose a mate based on different values. one who will give you credibility and stability. people adapt des...
women are very prone to bonding with a man and having a hard time shaking him loose once they share intimacy. men can share intimacy and not feel much of anything and can walk away easily. much better is for a woman to take her time before intimacy and...
this was asked one yr ago we dont know things are for the original poster but for anyone else reading and has a similar situation get support whereever you can to make decisions like this. dont make decisions while you are emotionally upset, and when y...
your hurry to grow up and get laid will get you no end of disappointment with yourself. you will end up with no graduation credentials, no self- respect and no future. the dating should be something on the side with schoolwork being your first focu...
any official who hears you are thinking of suicide will take this comment seriously. it is considered a cry for help. when you tell a professional someone, you will start the ball rolling. you dont need to go into details either, the very mention of su...
old guys are forever taking advantage of younger girls. thing is the girls want to be ravished its very flattering. people of all ages get themselves into trouble when they dont know their own worth and value. maybe they havent invested in themselv...
classic gesture is to downplay to the point of annoying, and in the end surprise your dear one with a big group surprise. do you have time to organize a potluck party? good food and getting together will show your dear one who much she is loved....
shouldnt take more than 48 hrs.
not sure about your quest for an answer there funguy, but its funny you mentioned audi. i was passed by a very hot audi number last night liquid silver paint. i thot if ever my gxp gets totalled an audi would replace it rather nicely xo
this is all very sad really. what should be the best yrs of your young life will abruptly end with having your babies, who wont have your full and undivided attn because you are so young! or you will give them all your time but there will be resentment...
ah yes the lost art of conversation rears its head in a gasp for breath. darling its not about having the questions. its about building a connection.
darling having a great business and a great life is no basis for winning the approval of your intended victim err, future wife's parents. leave her alone and go find someone who has a family that adores you. cut your losses. put a fork in it. yes i...
you seem to be a kind person who met another lonely lost soul... any port in the storm for you and yours is what this sounds like. you are putting her and her child in danger if what you are saying about the abuse is true. this will only end in...
that is such a no heart thing to do to both of these young men. you will likely hurt them both, but in a way that will turn out for the better. they learn to be careful about who they are throwing their efforts toward because you certainly dont se...
you need support to do this. find a mature adult to support you for the moment you tell your mom. it is always best to give and receive news like this with people there to support us. your mom will want to react to this and that is ok so when th...
alot would change for you if you had more personal power and authority for yourself. adversity is something that will put you in a position to fight the ongoing issues and overcome them and find your victory and happy life. start by smiling more...
oh for pete's sake let him go, be a confidant calm collected together single for awhile. you are indicating here that you are more than upset and that is a poor basis to be making rational decisions from.
if he is unhappy and with someone who isnt well-suited to him, absolutely critical that you understand this: the onus is on him to divorce his wife, and that is the first condition you must insist on. next, you take time and date him. next is an std te...
develop yourself. train study practice volunteer coach do things for others its not all about you darling its alot to do with them. they get a rise from seeing you react and that is a thrill. pick excellent people for your friends and be a happy person...
you quit your job and you tell him to get a divorce.
you only hve one mother. lovers come, lovers go but mother is the one you will not replace. be a person with character, develop yourself. have self-respect and confidance. it is not true to say you 'need' a lover to exist. an infant needs care to exist...
yes you could be. i recommend 2 forms of birth control one a condom with spermicide for sure and an other. foam works great. go to a clinic and get tested for std, get on the pill or abstain. dont fool with this my goodness get this done and stick to it.
fool me once shame on you. fool me twice shame on me. do you suffer fools well? some of us mostly dont. some of us do and its not working well for us. you will learn many lessons thru trial and error your preferences and tolerances and im sure ...
have you ever heard of a film called 'guess who's coming to dinner'? its a wonderful film about a couple who met and fell in love. they are bi-racial tho rather controversial esp considering the state of civil rights at that time in the united states w...
toastmasters xo
loveboat, love is in the air, love to love you baby, i feel love, love me do, cant buy me love, love bug....
awakenings
you know, when people get a rise they are reinforced to continue what they are doing. you give them something of a rise is what might be happening. you can be proactive and improve your people skills, improve your appearance, be attentive to your other...
why havent you the closeness to ask her what she wants tomorrow hm that makes her a capricorn. yes she is practical and particular. it shouldnt be a mystery i would just ask.
ok there are a couple of things. first, go to ebay or that other one reddoor or whatever its called and look at all the ads for people trying to unload their timeshares. that is where you get a deal. but to pay upfront to rent something and yet pay for...