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Ex Marine.
Born and raised in La Jolla/San Diego, CA but moved to Anchorage, AK 44 years ago.
Currently a retired taxicab driver after 30 years.
Single. Divorced 3 times. Had 3 children (2 still living), have 7 grandchildren and 1 great granddaughter.
i'm a moderate Republican. My hobbies are playing poker and chess.
i'm a Deist but i do believe in evolution. My religious beliefs, which i wrote several years ago (A Search for Truth), can be viewed at the URL above.
i may not agree with you but i cherish your right to disagree (even if you are wrong).
thewittyone's Advice
i have a question for you, if you're gonna die your hair why don't you keep it thats the point isn't it? and whats with the weird time frame??? w.e... wen i dyed my hair w/ manic panic I swam in chlorinated water and my color lowly faded after like a w...
your sisters isn't exactly correct, she can help you make the decision of whether or not to keep the baby but she can't decide for you. It may be a different case if she is your legal gardian, but if you have parents who are in charge of you they are ...
I'll have to admit I like brushing dolls hair. But like dan said, don't let her childhood slip away. You're never to young to have fun right??? xoxo Marissa
i'm not going to tell you what decision to make because it's your life not my and you have to live with the decision not me. But I will say that you have a very complicated decision to make, and I know it's probably alot to bear, but if you love someon...
it's totally an completely natural, it just means that you are getting sexually aroused by the guy. This could also happen when a guy touches you, happens to me ALL the time, and I never learned to control it lol!!! xoxo Marissa
no, i was told that dreams have to do with what you were thinking about right before you fall asleep. But I believe that your mind is just freely roaming and you create scenerios that could or couldn't happen. So it doesn't have to do with you or your ...
1992 so probly 16 right?? well if your boyfriend went behind your back and did this, drop him like a hot potato. At this point the trust is lost and without trust and honesty there really isn't a relationship. It would be totally different if you talke...
i'm pretty sure it will heal because in the jewish religon they cut off the for skin anyway, But if you are still really worried or it looks inflamed or infected go to the doctor, thats the only real reliable source. but i'm pretty sure you'll be fine...
no turtles cannot live outside in the winter, they are cold blooded animals which means that they acclimate their blood tempurature or body heat according to their surrounding tempurature. So basically if you left your turtles out in the winter they wo...
Since you are a minor, i believe that your parents have some say over where you are going to be cared for best, this also means that they both decided who would get full time custody of you when they divorced. But you could discuss with your mom why yo...
the only way a woman can get pregnant is if the p*nis is un-protected and penetrates the v*gina. Sperm has to enter the falopian tubes and ovaries, and sperm don't even live that long once outside the body,they only are safe wen one fertilizes the woma...
I'm not going to tell you who to choose because that is completely up to you and I think that you are old enough to make you own decisions, but I will say that you have to follow whatever your heart tells you to do and don't let ANYONE on here tell you...
You should have a calm talk with your parents about how you really love this guy and that you think that you and him are at that stage in the relatonship where you both feel mature enough to move in with each other. Ask them why they wouldn't want you ...
I think that any relatonship is better when it''s 100% open and honest. If your wife really loves and cares about you I'm sure that she will understand, she may be a little hesitant at the idea but i'm sure if she gets acclimated she will still love yo...
get help immediately!!! don't wait to find out wat will happen next, tell someone you trust or call a local abuse hot-line in your area. If you contact an operator or a hospital they can give a number to you. I hopy you work out ok xoxo Marissa
you can never go wrong with black but at night you might want to play it up a bit so instead of risking looking like a tard, use funky colored eye shadow and stick with the black eye liner!!! i'm sure you'll look beautiful!!! xoxo Marissa
you spelt wican wrong its not spelt wiccin its spelt wiccan
I pierced my lip with my friend julie, first well held ice to my lip for about 15 mins then we put anorectal cream on my lip which totally numbed it (you can get it from a doctor) we sterilized the needle, I reccomend putting a dot in marker on the exa...
ugly?? i actually think your a cute guy like xcriswtfx said ur logic is wrong. Don't put yourself dwn like that its not goood for your self-esteem!!! hope it helps xoxo Marissa
I think u mean pro-ana, it simply means that you choose anorexia as a way of lyfe and not as a disorder hope it helps xoxo Marissa
When I had anxiety as a child my parents were told to get me a pet, now I was also on meds but my puppy gracie helped alot too
I guess you could say that ; )
Something like that happened to me, my best friends older brother who was totally off limits because some people (parents) thought he was a little unstable. But I loved him and I saw what no one else did in him. My parents thought I was a pyscho and hi...
my family cn't stand it wen I eat parmasean cheese!! Can you believe that?? What babies! LOL~
You have very nice facial symmetry!!! I like your face shape! I defenately know what it feels like to be insecure about yourself, I was like that all through out middle school. But I did get over it once I realized that I am beautiful no matter what an...
it's whats on the inside that counts!!! You can't compare a butt ugly person who is caring kind and compationate with a gorgeous person who is rude stuck up and down right mean!!! Hope this helps! xoxo Marissa
I'm 15 and I use alot of blackeyeliner also, It does add atleast 2 years to my age. Some people don't believe that im only 15
ofcourse it's ok to do if you want bloody hands or vibr@tor, Although it's probly not the cleanest idea if your horny go for it!!! xoxo Marissa
im actually anorexic, Since I've started this HUGE mistake i havn't lost my period or anything like what it says above. But i do agree with prkswllflwr these symptoms are serious and I don't think anyone wants them. I am seeking help as we speak so ho...