Who thinks Nostradamus's predictions are true?
Dear iamcool,
It is a known fact that we can find a coincident or prediction that we can manipulate to be true in just about any writings. History has a way of repeating itself and futurists are very good at concluding what is to come. Has many of wha...
Pregnant?
Dear heathermerie,
It's very heart breaking that you are trying to use a pregnancy so that you can move out. You really don't have the right to bring a child in this world for this type of reason. What kind of role model will you be for a child? Perha...
What's wrong with me, I feel so stressed(0.00%)
Dear jumbledthoughts,
First thing to do is see a doctor. There are many medical reasons why you may feel this way. Through simple exams and perhaps a blood test they can easily pin point a problem. This is always the place to start. If they do not fin...
Family disappointment
Dear trying2understand,
Trying to understand: this can only be possible by asking why they aren't going. Sometimes because of our frustration we forget to ask. So ask them why they are not going and start there. Without this answer from them you may j...
Best friend's little sister
Dear x0x_caitlyn_x0x,
Well we can see that when this little girl is frustrated she cries and acts out. What happens she gets hit. So she sees that the older people deal with their frustrations by hitting her. She just is doing what is taught to her. T...
What do you think about gay rights?
Dear wetbandit,
Most women my age can remember back when women had no rights. We were not allowed to vote, work etc. (I'm not quite that old ) We were considered second to men, the weaker sex. Women as gays did not have a choice as to how they were ...
Is it sick that I've been obsessed with sex since I was 7?
Dear fau,
You are not a freak but you are in for a rough ride. Since you are asking now, now is the time for some professional help. It is ridiculous to think that your life will not suffer from what you went through. It will not go away, it will not ...
How do I know if my husband having an affair?
Dear pennyofmytots,
First of all you both need to be in counselling. It isn't amazing, normal or good to be in a relationship were there is not intimacy, trust and thoughts of affairs and private investigators. Why are you settling for this? Why is he...
Punishment, right or wrong to smack kids?(0.00%)
hitting a child to leave a mark or with anything but your hand is considered child abuse in all of North America. Do not do it.
Sue
Boyfriend troubles
Dear berda,
Well there is always some truth in joking. So putting the jokes aside, where did the condoms go?
Sue...good luck
Is this normal or should I consider surgery?
Dear dinosaur123,
Inverted nipples are not as rare as you think, we hear about this all the time. However, you do need to have your breast checked regularly...during your physicals because there has been some problems reported with inverted nipples. S...
Scared to live alone and pregnant
Dear rayray2012,
I don't understand your question? You are pregnant, the father has a job and a child? Your parents kicked you out to live with him in an apartment. So you, the father and his other baby will live together? Sorry, you need to clarify w...
Being Gay and wearing Panties
Dear tbang8834,
A guy who wears panties are not at a risk of being gay...your sexual preference has nothing to do with your clothes??? Your guy may be a cross dresser or just find them comfortable. Joe Namath a famous foot ball player revealed he like...
Should I leave him?
Dear lily69.
You accuse him of cheating and now he says he will, he's lied before and you are having problems. I'm sorry but why are you two together? You have no communication, you have no trust, he thinks you are a nag and you think he's a lier. Tim...
What would you do?
Dear adensmomma06,
This awful and it happens all the time...what do we do when we see things like this. Do you say something knowing that if they are so irresponsible that they are going to say something nasty to you. Do you not say anything and hope ...
My friends keep telling me I'm outta my mind
Dear anna_13,
Of course they are telling you to do it...they did and misery love company. They all regret having to give something up to what they thought was the "special one". There is really no special one till you are older and you are the smart ...
The Right Place
Dear dokken911,
Pash: An Australian term for a French kiss.
I think what girls think is best is the right moment...not pre-planned. Usually the right moment consists of a kiss goodnight, after a term of endearment such as you know you're beautiful et...
What's wrong with me and my period?
Dear racquelqu,
Well it's apparent that there has been some mistakes here. So he figures you are about 10 weeks? or did he say he was mistaken and it's much earlier? Either way you are pregnant right. Having a light period with a pregnancy can be norm...
Trust vs. Mistrust?
Dear ty,
I have always had trust until they broke it...it would be very tiring to always be non-trusting of people and without a doubt you would miss some wonderful friendships and relationships. Treating people as if they are good to begin with usu...
How do I physically prepare for a baby?
Dearfam0us_barbiiexx,
Congrats on being caring enough to want to do something before you conceive. This is rare and needs more attention in our society. Yes, yes, there is much you can do prior to becoming pregnant. To do it properly you should take a...
What is the meaning to life, the universe, and everything?
Dear felchy,
Well we all can pick a random number and make it apply to anything we choose. We proved it with 9-11, number 7, number 666 etc. We can make a coincidence out of anything we choose. The meaning of life has been a mystery since time began a...
No respect for my religion(20.00%)
Dear love___you,
What you are fighting for is what you are not letting other do? We all have our own opinions and we allow others to have theirs. If someone says to you God bless or God forgives, what's up with arguing with her? You seem to be talking...
Dating?
Dear biggi3,
As we get older the dating game changes. We know we need to become friends with someone first then if we feel there may be a fit we continue to dating. But this does come with the dilemma of dating your friend and loosing them if things d...
If you get bit by a Tick what happens?
Dear emmiibabii44,
I highly doubt they are ticks...Ticks live primarily in the bush and don't congregate in homes. Anyways what it sounds like is bed bugs. These live in homes and bite, leave red marks. They can be transfered from one home to another ...
Should we be worried?(100.00%)
Dear stephanief987,
I really understand your concern and wanting to help...but there are just things that you cannot control or try to. Your dad is suffering from shock at this time and depression. This is understandable. He is pulling things out of t...
Family problems
Dear fau,
You have probably done him a huge favour. Now he is forced to get a job, a place of his own and be responsible for his child. You were being an enabler and he did not feel the need to try since you were doing the supporting for him. Unless ...
How to get your parents trust back?
Dear lunchbox,
Your parents don't hate you they don't trust you...these are two different things. You have done something that has hurt them terribly and they are unsure of how to deal with it. How do long do they give you to gain their trust, how sho...
Dirty house, should I help he clean it up?(100.00%)
Dear leighx,
Well I'm not sure what your question is but if social services were called they failed to do their job. Apparently they are happy? Of course not, a child with a mother who is an addict and living in filth is not happy. I suggest you call ...
Sending my boyfriend to Counseling or Rehab
Dear pinkroxy1151,
First of all it isn't up to you to send him to rehab or counselling. But it is up to you to discuss this with his parents or care giver. Express your concerns with them and tell then what you know about his addictions. You spoke wit...
I dont know what to do
Dear kittykat181,
You stated you spoke with him when he had less to drink. Sounds like you don't see him unless you are drinking. Why would that be? It's a little surprising that you would even consider anything with this man who is married and has c...
Jealous Children
Dear leighx,
This is perfectly normal for your daughter to feel this way. There are a few things that are recommended with your situation. First of all he is not to discipline your daughter. This proves to be detrimental to their relationship. She is...
Punishment, right or wrong to smack kids?(0.00%)
Dear b1ff,
It is never okay to hurt a child. This is inflicting pain on someone they love because of their frustrations. A child responds to proper communication and there is never a need to hurt. In places like Sweden it is illegal to spank a child ...
Drinking while breastfeeding
Dear fatesarrival,
Because of different body weights, metabolism etc. it is impossible to know for sure. You have no clear way of knowing for sure.
Sue...good luck
I'm going to see my Mom for the first time in 12 years
Dear teresa_is_cool,
You should be seeing her with your foster family, adoptive family or your guardian. Allow them to start the conversation and the flow of things. It's okay to be unsure and even very frightened. Try to relax and let the adults talk...
My vagina itches and hurts
Dear berda,
Any changes such as this need to be addressed by a doctor. Yeast infections don't just happen for no reason. Usually a doctor can tell you what has been happening and how to get rid of it. If it's not a yeast infection using an over the co...
About 4 days to get the thc out of my system
Dear xxbreakdownxx,
You have a few issues going on here...first you knew you were getting tested and you smoked anyways. Time to sit down and figure out why you would do that? If you didn't know and the test has come as a surprise, guess what life is ...
Lately it feels like everything is going wrong
Dear fau,
It's been 2 weeks so talk with a counsellor at school. If they have a good reason such as yours for your grades slipping they will make great efforts to help you get them back on track. They will also speak with you about your situation and ...
Birth Control ?
Dear pinkroxy1151,
It takes more then one day for this to take effect so you would not be seeing an increase in appetite this fast to begin with. The pill does not increase the appetite, but due to hormonal changes it changes the way the body burns ca...
How do I rid my system of THC safely being that I am pregnant?
Dear crae,
Well we all know this doctor is an idiot...obviously he has not read a book on pregnancy and drugs? I would like you to see another doctor, he will begin to monitor the baby ASAP. You will also have to be watched closely during the birth......
Is it OK that I gave him a wedgie?
Dear miszbina505,
Working in a school we discourage any "hands on". I see so many young males who disrespect females by touching them inappropriately. What we do encourage is if anyone touches you in this manner to report them. If young women don't st...
Debt from drugs(100.00%)
Dear truthisbliss,
without rehab you are going to loose everything anyways, your relationship, your home and yes your children to social services. I suggest you stop using exuses...I know it's a scary thing but you will without a doubt loose everythin...
How to get my teacher to leave me alone?
Dear mattman,
I work with teacher everyday and they are as human as you and me...so if you have a gripe about something speak with him about it. A student told me the other day that he knew one teacher came down hard on him because he knew he could do...
Do babies understand us?
sign language is used with very, very young babies such as 6 months. So it tells us they are able to communicate but are not able to use speech yet. By the time they are 3 you are correct they should be able to use speech to communicate.
Sue
Debt from drugs
Dear truthisbliss,
I'm not sure what you are referring to about letting him off easy? He has an addiction...he is a sick man. This man has to go to rehab ASAP. He needs to be removed from the home and given a chance at life again. This is your husband...
How to tell my Mom I got detention?
Dear gates,
I run a detention program so I know you got a detention for something that you have done that was against the school rules. So, start by telling your mother how you have learned a new lesson. Explain what you got the detention for and how ...
My mom is so angry
Dear biotech_baby,
There could be several reasons for her change in behaviours none that should be overlooked. If you have an aunt or trusted adult you should speak with them. Most conditions do not start abruptly. She should be seen by a doctor. In ...
What's the difference between shyness and social anxiety?
Dear mh2m,
We typically say that shy people lack confidence as where people who suffer with anxiety are fearful and tend to worry. Both are very different.
Sue...good luck
I'm very disturbed how do I lie and convince people im not?
Dear nirvanafan,
If you're "disturbed" way is interfering with how you communicate with people then I suggest you seek out counselling. Talking about death will bring reaction from others and this is what you are looking for since you do know how they...
Why is he acting like this?
Dear thegurl05,
When two people are different and find this out after they have been dating...this is why we date. It isn't anyone's fault. Dating is the time to find out if two people fit together, if there are things that we cannot tolerated and if ...
*Hundreds of flowers in spring, the moon in autumn
A cool breeze in summer and snow in winter
If there is no vain cloud in your mind
For you it is a good season*
sue90's Advice page 3
Dear iamcool, It is a known fact that we can find a coincident or prediction that we can manipulate to be true in just about any writings. History has a way of repeating itself and futurists are very good at concluding what is to come. Has many of wha...
Dear heathermerie, It's very heart breaking that you are trying to use a pregnancy so that you can move out. You really don't have the right to bring a child in this world for this type of reason. What kind of role model will you be for a child? Perha...
Dear jumbledthoughts, First thing to do is see a doctor. There are many medical reasons why you may feel this way. Through simple exams and perhaps a blood test they can easily pin point a problem. This is always the place to start. If they do not fin...
Dear trying2understand, Trying to understand: this can only be possible by asking why they aren't going. Sometimes because of our frustration we forget to ask. So ask them why they are not going and start there. Without this answer from them you may j...
Dear x0x_caitlyn_x0x, Well we can see that when this little girl is frustrated she cries and acts out. What happens she gets hit. So she sees that the older people deal with their frustrations by hitting her. She just is doing what is taught to her. T...
Dear wetbandit, Most women my age can remember back when women had no rights. We were not allowed to vote, work etc. (I'm not quite that old ) We were considered second to men, the weaker sex. Women as gays did not have a choice as to how they were ...
Dear fau, You are not a freak but you are in for a rough ride. Since you are asking now, now is the time for some professional help. It is ridiculous to think that your life will not suffer from what you went through. It will not go away, it will not ...
Dear pennyofmytots, First of all you both need to be in counselling. It isn't amazing, normal or good to be in a relationship were there is not intimacy, trust and thoughts of affairs and private investigators. Why are you settling for this? Why is he...
hitting a child to leave a mark or with anything but your hand is considered child abuse in all of North America. Do not do it. Sue
Dear berda, Well there is always some truth in joking. So putting the jokes aside, where did the condoms go? Sue...good luck
Dear dinosaur123, Inverted nipples are not as rare as you think, we hear about this all the time. However, you do need to have your breast checked regularly...during your physicals because there has been some problems reported with inverted nipples. S...
Dear rayray2012, I don't understand your question? You are pregnant, the father has a job and a child? Your parents kicked you out to live with him in an apartment. So you, the father and his other baby will live together? Sorry, you need to clarify w...
Dear tbang8834, A guy who wears panties are not at a risk of being gay...your sexual preference has nothing to do with your clothes??? Your guy may be a cross dresser or just find them comfortable. Joe Namath a famous foot ball player revealed he like...
Dear lily69. You accuse him of cheating and now he says he will, he's lied before and you are having problems. I'm sorry but why are you two together? You have no communication, you have no trust, he thinks you are a nag and you think he's a lier. Tim...
Dear adensmomma06, This awful and it happens all the time...what do we do when we see things like this. Do you say something knowing that if they are so irresponsible that they are going to say something nasty to you. Do you not say anything and hope ...
Dear anna_13, Of course they are telling you to do it...they did and misery love company. They all regret having to give something up to what they thought was the "special one". There is really no special one till you are older and you are the smart ...
Dear dokken911, Pash: An Australian term for a French kiss. I think what girls think is best is the right moment...not pre-planned. Usually the right moment consists of a kiss goodnight, after a term of endearment such as you know you're beautiful et...
Dear racquelqu, Well it's apparent that there has been some mistakes here. So he figures you are about 10 weeks? or did he say he was mistaken and it's much earlier? Either way you are pregnant right. Having a light period with a pregnancy can be norm...
Dear ty, I have always had trust until they broke it...it would be very tiring to always be non-trusting of people and without a doubt you would miss some wonderful friendships and relationships. Treating people as if they are good to begin with usu...
Dearfam0us_barbiiexx, Congrats on being caring enough to want to do something before you conceive. This is rare and needs more attention in our society. Yes, yes, there is much you can do prior to becoming pregnant. To do it properly you should take a...
Dear felchy, Well we all can pick a random number and make it apply to anything we choose. We proved it with 9-11, number 7, number 666 etc. We can make a coincidence out of anything we choose. The meaning of life has been a mystery since time began a...
Dear love___you, What you are fighting for is what you are not letting other do? We all have our own opinions and we allow others to have theirs. If someone says to you God bless or God forgives, what's up with arguing with her? You seem to be talking...
Dear biggi3, As we get older the dating game changes. We know we need to become friends with someone first then if we feel there may be a fit we continue to dating. But this does come with the dilemma of dating your friend and loosing them if things d...
Dear emmiibabii44, I highly doubt they are ticks...Ticks live primarily in the bush and don't congregate in homes. Anyways what it sounds like is bed bugs. These live in homes and bite, leave red marks. They can be transfered from one home to another ...
Dear stephanief987, I really understand your concern and wanting to help...but there are just things that you cannot control or try to. Your dad is suffering from shock at this time and depression. This is understandable. He is pulling things out of t...
Dear fau, You have probably done him a huge favour. Now he is forced to get a job, a place of his own and be responsible for his child. You were being an enabler and he did not feel the need to try since you were doing the supporting for him. Unless ...
Dear lunchbox, Your parents don't hate you they don't trust you...these are two different things. You have done something that has hurt them terribly and they are unsure of how to deal with it. How do long do they give you to gain their trust, how sho...
Dear leighx, Well I'm not sure what your question is but if social services were called they failed to do their job. Apparently they are happy? Of course not, a child with a mother who is an addict and living in filth is not happy. I suggest you call ...
Dear pinkroxy1151, First of all it isn't up to you to send him to rehab or counselling. But it is up to you to discuss this with his parents or care giver. Express your concerns with them and tell then what you know about his addictions. You spoke wit...
Dear kittykat181, You stated you spoke with him when he had less to drink. Sounds like you don't see him unless you are drinking. Why would that be? It's a little surprising that you would even consider anything with this man who is married and has c...
Dear leighx, This is perfectly normal for your daughter to feel this way. There are a few things that are recommended with your situation. First of all he is not to discipline your daughter. This proves to be detrimental to their relationship. She is...
Dear b1ff, It is never okay to hurt a child. This is inflicting pain on someone they love because of their frustrations. A child responds to proper communication and there is never a need to hurt. In places like Sweden it is illegal to spank a child ...
Dear fatesarrival, Because of different body weights, metabolism etc. it is impossible to know for sure. You have no clear way of knowing for sure. Sue...good luck
Dear teresa_is_cool, You should be seeing her with your foster family, adoptive family or your guardian. Allow them to start the conversation and the flow of things. It's okay to be unsure and even very frightened. Try to relax and let the adults talk...
Dear berda, Any changes such as this need to be addressed by a doctor. Yeast infections don't just happen for no reason. Usually a doctor can tell you what has been happening and how to get rid of it. If it's not a yeast infection using an over the co...
Dear xxbreakdownxx, You have a few issues going on here...first you knew you were getting tested and you smoked anyways. Time to sit down and figure out why you would do that? If you didn't know and the test has come as a surprise, guess what life is ...
Dear fau, It's been 2 weeks so talk with a counsellor at school. If they have a good reason such as yours for your grades slipping they will make great efforts to help you get them back on track. They will also speak with you about your situation and ...
Dear pinkroxy1151, It takes more then one day for this to take effect so you would not be seeing an increase in appetite this fast to begin with. The pill does not increase the appetite, but due to hormonal changes it changes the way the body burns ca...
Ya, it's not okay what he did or what you did. Sue
Dear crae, Well we all know this doctor is an idiot...obviously he has not read a book on pregnancy and drugs? I would like you to see another doctor, he will begin to monitor the baby ASAP. You will also have to be watched closely during the birth......
Dear miszbina505, Working in a school we discourage any "hands on". I see so many young males who disrespect females by touching them inappropriately. What we do encourage is if anyone touches you in this manner to report them. If young women don't st...
Dear truthisbliss, without rehab you are going to loose everything anyways, your relationship, your home and yes your children to social services. I suggest you stop using exuses...I know it's a scary thing but you will without a doubt loose everythin...
Dear mattman, I work with teacher everyday and they are as human as you and me...so if you have a gripe about something speak with him about it. A student told me the other day that he knew one teacher came down hard on him because he knew he could do...
sign language is used with very, very young babies such as 6 months. So it tells us they are able to communicate but are not able to use speech yet. By the time they are 3 you are correct they should be able to use speech to communicate. Sue
Dear truthisbliss, I'm not sure what you are referring to about letting him off easy? He has an addiction...he is a sick man. This man has to go to rehab ASAP. He needs to be removed from the home and given a chance at life again. This is your husband...
Dear gates, I run a detention program so I know you got a detention for something that you have done that was against the school rules. So, start by telling your mother how you have learned a new lesson. Explain what you got the detention for and how ...
Dear biotech_baby, There could be several reasons for her change in behaviours none that should be overlooked. If you have an aunt or trusted adult you should speak with them. Most conditions do not start abruptly. She should be seen by a doctor. In ...
Dear mh2m, We typically say that shy people lack confidence as where people who suffer with anxiety are fearful and tend to worry. Both are very different. Sue...good luck
Dear nirvanafan, If you're "disturbed" way is interfering with how you communicate with people then I suggest you seek out counselling. Talking about death will bring reaction from others and this is what you are looking for since you do know how they...
Dear thegurl05, When two people are different and find this out after they have been dating...this is why we date. It isn't anyone's fault. Dating is the time to find out if two people fit together, if there are things that we cannot tolerated and if ...