My boyfriend's in jail
Dear caspersgurl633,
Yes, having a knife is illegal even if it is in the open. He was charge with possession of a gun...false charges...NO...they would have the gun as evidence, this would be required for the charges. Chances are someone else had the ...
Where to make friends?(100.00%)
Dear spcspk,
First of all it isn't your thoughts about having respect that is stopping you from having friends that's what good friends are looking for. You first have to find out why you are mentally tired and drained. You can't help yourself unless ...
Ladies, you confuse me.
Dear metalheaddude,
There are several reasons that a woman will date an older man. Sometimes they are looking for a father figure (most times). Sometimes they are looking for a sugar daddy (likes the money). Sometimes they just find males their own ag...
Is sex a big deal?
Dear wellbbis.
Sex is meant for two loving ADULTS to share and express their feelings, commitment and love for each other. It comes with great, great responsibilities not only for you but for your partner. It's too bad that many young people take it s...
Im the other woman
Dear bubbles125,
Okay, it's time to wake up...he is with her, not you. He will never leave her but he is responsible for support of this child you share. You must go after him for this money. If you are still with him and having sex STOP! He is using ...
Baby at 16?
Dear fau,
You don't have anywhere near enough money to raise a child. You as a parent need to be a good role model. You would not even have your high school diploma never mind college or university...what kind of role model is this? If you need someth...
What happens when you drink to much green tea?
Dear not_your_puppet,
Green tea contains caffeine unless it is decaffeinated. So if you are drinking a large amount you are doing damage to your body. Green Tea contains almost as much in one cup as a cup of coffee. Drinking a large amount of any liqu...
Is it normal to shrink?
Dear myzarri,
Well the error here lies with your measuring. This is impossible but what is not impossible is that you have had the wrong measurement. When you go for your next doctors visit have them measure you and stick with this one. It will be the...
How do you get someone into rehab if they wont go willingly?
Dear vultureofculture,
Well most addicts do not want treatment. Most believe they are able to live with this disease. If they are drinking and driving you need to report this. You probably will be saving his life as well as those he will kill when he ...
Do you believe in the Loch-ness Monster?
Dear here2help,
What people seem to forget it takes a male and a female to produce an offspring. Therefore, we would have been seeing 3 or 2 at least of these creatures but there is never such a sighting...only one over hundreds of years of sightings ...
CPS- How much info is needed to report someone?(66.67%)
Dear nerd,
Legally since you haven't seen anything YOU are not obligated to report it. However, if your brother has witnessed something and does not report it and later it is found he saw first hand he can be charged under the law. Are you libel if yo...
How can I cope with not eating wheat
Dear tiny_tinkerbell,
I haven't been able to eat it for at least 15 years now. I developed a sensitivity to it and since then have leaned to deal with it. Today, there are many products that do not contain wheat and are made especially for people like...
Who has an IQ of 141?
Lets not forget the EQ that is much more important than an IQ.
Sue
Is it possible to fall in love with someone online?
Dear vultureofculture,
Yes, But you fall in love with the idea of that person. It isn't until you can spend time with a person in every situation such as disappointments, stress etc. can you say if you truly love a person.
Sue...good luck
Is vagisil ok to use if I'm pregnant?
Dear yv729,
Well you need to see a doctor ASAP...you may not have a vaginal infection but something else. A vaginal infection while pregnant is not uncommon but does need to be treated by a professional. You are not sure just what you have so you have...
Caring for allergies?(100.00%)
Dear fau,
As stated the saline nasal washes work great, prescribed meds are still better then over the counter for some but Allegra is said to be in par with them. Using air cleaners are a must in a household and staying away from triggers. Use the A...
Yeast Infection, how to get rid of it?(100.00%)
Dear josefina,
Using yogurt on a tampon can actually spread the infection. Eating yogurt as a preventative does help however. The drug store sells many products that do work. Try to stay away from the one day treatments as they are not as good. So cho...
Am I cheating on him?
Dear danni2011,
Not everyone flirts that is a fallacy. If you stop and think as to why you are flirting it is a way to occupy time, validate for self-esteem reasons, full fill an emptiness within etc.
But there always is a reason...you say you are do...
My son is 13 years old, what weight should he be?(0.00%)
Dear floorguy,
There is no way of knowing due to bone structure, genetics, muscle mass etc. The best way to find out is to take him to his doctor. At 13 he is probably due for a complete physical anyways.
Sue...good luck
Has your parents' professions influenced yours?
hey,
no I'm sorry to say. My mother was mostly a stay at home who was extremely interested in her hair and her nails :-) My dad was illiterate and could not read or right. He did manage to have gainful employment mostly out of town so I never saw him....
My parents dont like my fiance, should I invite them to the wedding(100.00%)
Dear sandydee,
Of course you invite them. But as you said they will not go so make other plans. Invite your father to walk you down the isle and leave it at that. Have a back up such as an uncle or friend who will walk you down the isle if he doesn't....
How to become close mates with an ex
Dear helpbecky15,
as we get older and older we don't stay friends with an EX. While young and we are dating on a casual level we can stay friends but as we get older and the dating because more serious we can't and do not remain friends. This creates ...
Advice on my bad behaved son?(0.00%)
Dear adensmomma06,
Children live what they learn. So now it's time to teach him by good role modelling. After all someone showed him to throw things, yell and hit...biting is normal and it is usually at a time when they are frustrated. It's their way ...
Am I a Teacher's Pet?
Dear x0x_caitlyn_x0x,
Teachers are taught to only concentrate on the students who show potential and who will do their work. Right or wrong this is what they do, there are several reasons for this and some are selfish. Regardless, you are not a teache...
Vitamin Water causing cancer?
Dear catherinebrianemullins,
Vitamin water as well a most health drinks are mostly hype. There probably isn't enough of anything good in them to do anything. But because our society is always looking for a quick fix these sell. What you are getting is...
What is she trying to do?
Dear babyangel22,
I'm sure she does not want to be there either. I'm sure moving into someone else's home, someone else's bedroom etc. is very difficult for her. Copying someone is the highest for of flattery. She is lost in many ways. She is watching...
Is it wrong for me to be angry?
Dear myzarri,
What you didn't say was why you have to take him? But if it is because they work etc. then perhaps you can tell them they need to buy you one of those push wagons that joggers use. The child sits in this and you push it as you are runnin...
I kind of get mistreated by my parents
Dear ghostlypwincezz_sodamn_glamorous,
As an older sister you have to take in to consideration that you have younger ones in an abusive home. This is the primary concern...if you are abused they will be also and you have some obligation in making sure...
To be or not to be?(100.00%)
Dear libby76,
You could be the poster girl as to why women should not leave everything behind and go to another place without supports. At 19 the chance that this guy is the one is pretty far fetched even though you want him to be. You are still learn...
Why do guys lead girls on all the the time?(100.00%)
Dear myzarri,
People treat you the way you let them. If this is your experience then you are allowing them to treat you this way. In fact females are know to be the ones to more likely mistreat a guy for several reasons. One is that they think they ca...
How long dose c*m stay in your body?(0.00%)
Dear whoisyou,
There are a great many variables for how long the sperm will live in a woman. If the it is an ideal condition it can live up to 7 days. This really a long time and with younger women who have irregular ovulation the chances for pregnanc...
I cheated on my boyfriend, what should I do?
Dear cupcake143,
Sleeping with someone else was a way for you to get out of your dilemma. You are unable to leave him because I think you felt that leaving him for not pulling his weight with a job etc. was not a good enough reason to leave. You actua...
Am I Bipolar?
Dear haleylovesjb,
You stated "you don't act like that with your friends" This gives us an idea that it probably is not a bipolar condition but you still need to be seen by a doctor and you must explain what is happening. You don't act this way at hom...
Is it possible to grow taller?
Dear yo_mothah,
No, your height is determined by your genetics. Now that I said that...if you have a syndrome, malnutrition etc. this can effect your height. You will continue to grow into your 20s and some will get a real spurt of growth right after ...
End up pregnant even with irregular periods?
Dear beautifulgirl,
Yes, of course. In fact this is the time when one may be most at risk to become pregnant. Since you can not accurately predict your ovulation time due to irregularity. Never have unprotected sex
Sue...good luck
Why do they call it aging "gracefully?"
Dear imtheloser,
Ageing gracefully refers to at which speed you are ageing. I like to think I am ageing gracefully: I don't look my age, I have few wrinkles, I still do things a younger person would do and I don't complain about my age.
Sue...good luck
What counts as child abuse?
Dear xxxlostromancexxx,
Ty's correct...but there is an actual line. You can spank a child gently without leaving a mark and this is considered legal in most places. Places such as Sweden do not even allow this. Anything more than this is an offence. ...
Would you consider Taoism a religion?
thedude,
From what I understand Taoism did start out as a legitimate religion, in fact it was one of the 3 religions along with Buddhism and Confucianism. Religious freedoms were restricted in China and...I think the monks basically became slaves. I ...
How to break up with my boyfriend?
Dear sugarx64,
This is a real dilemma and I don't think right now is the greatest time to leave with his father just passing. I suggest that you do use his father passing as a way to communicate to him that life can be short and that you need to make ...
Can you have an orgasm just by thinking?(100.00%)
Dear goodluckmisery,
Both men and women have orgasm in their sleep. This is just by thinking. So yes, it's done all the time. Could you just sit while awake and have an orgasm...probably not. Like Ty said you would have to be trained for this. Some p...
How to help my stepbrother?
Dear lilmisshordy,
Helping someone with addictions carries a lot of responsibilities. If you truly want to help speak with your parents and let them deal with it. Your brother knows what he is doing is wrong and could end up with his death. Your paren...
Can I have sex while on my period?
Dear mrzthang,
You can, but why? You need to make love making a most romantic experience and while on your period you should take this time for other types of intimacy to avoid the mess. Messy love making is usually a turn off for guys and when asked...
Why do my family members pick on me all the time?
Dear metalscene,
Just as parents had a hard time accepting ELVIS years and years ago, parents today do not understand the music and styles. That can be a give, but being verbally abusive to you such as you're ugly, too fat etc. is not acceptable. This...
What do I do if my cousin's ex wants to go with me ?
Dear sckiki21,
If you are looking for a clear yes or no, I would go no. Why would you chance making your cousin "uncomfortable"? I don't think it matters why they broke up and when. I think the most important thing is that you respect your cousin and ...
What are the chances Im pregnant?
Dear xxxsexxx,
Even with a negative response you still could be pregnant. No test is 100% accurate. The blood test you'll get is the most accurate.
Sue...good luck
Why didnt she get suspended for longer if she hit me first?
Dear mikes_baby_gurl_15,
I'm a detention/suspension supervisor...you both got the same amount of time because you retaliated. Some schools still hold true to 0 tolerance so both parties leave. We are currently investigating the bully laws closer where...
Why do girls like bad boys?
Dear anonymousasker,
We have dealt with this before here...the concept is not factual. Women do not look or want the bad boy. It is a reason that is used for an insecurity with relationships. This works on both sides. Men use this fallacy so that they...
How do you bulid up your self esteem ?
Dear twilightsky,
Having low self-esteem can be related to depression. Your professional counsellor should be able to work with you and see if you need to be treated for depression. When we have low self-esteem we tend to keep the process going instea...
sue90's Advice page 2
Dear stephie_lynn92, It depends on where you live. Here in Canada Social Services will not pay for your room and board unless you are in school. Sue...good luck
Dear caspersgurl633, Yes, having a knife is illegal even if it is in the open. He was charge with possession of a gun...false charges...NO...they would have the gun as evidence, this would be required for the charges. Chances are someone else had the ...
Dear spcspk, First of all it isn't your thoughts about having respect that is stopping you from having friends that's what good friends are looking for. You first have to find out why you are mentally tired and drained. You can't help yourself unless ...
Dear metalheaddude, There are several reasons that a woman will date an older man. Sometimes they are looking for a father figure (most times). Sometimes they are looking for a sugar daddy (likes the money). Sometimes they just find males their own ag...
Dear wellbbis. Sex is meant for two loving ADULTS to share and express their feelings, commitment and love for each other. It comes with great, great responsibilities not only for you but for your partner. It's too bad that many young people take it s...
Dear bubbles125, Okay, it's time to wake up...he is with her, not you. He will never leave her but he is responsible for support of this child you share. You must go after him for this money. If you are still with him and having sex STOP! He is using ...
Dear fau, You don't have anywhere near enough money to raise a child. You as a parent need to be a good role model. You would not even have your high school diploma never mind college or university...what kind of role model is this? If you need someth...
Dear not_your_puppet, Green tea contains caffeine unless it is decaffeinated. So if you are drinking a large amount you are doing damage to your body. Green Tea contains almost as much in one cup as a cup of coffee. Drinking a large amount of any liqu...
Dear myzarri, Well the error here lies with your measuring. This is impossible but what is not impossible is that you have had the wrong measurement. When you go for your next doctors visit have them measure you and stick with this one. It will be the...
Dear vultureofculture, Well most addicts do not want treatment. Most believe they are able to live with this disease. If they are drinking and driving you need to report this. You probably will be saving his life as well as those he will kill when he ...
Dear here2help, What people seem to forget it takes a male and a female to produce an offspring. Therefore, we would have been seeing 3 or 2 at least of these creatures but there is never such a sighting...only one over hundreds of years of sightings ...
Dear nerd, Legally since you haven't seen anything YOU are not obligated to report it. However, if your brother has witnessed something and does not report it and later it is found he saw first hand he can be charged under the law. Are you libel if yo...
Dear tiny_tinkerbell, I haven't been able to eat it for at least 15 years now. I developed a sensitivity to it and since then have leaned to deal with it. Today, there are many products that do not contain wheat and are made especially for people like...
Lets not forget the EQ that is much more important than an IQ. Sue
Dear vultureofculture, Yes, But you fall in love with the idea of that person. It isn't until you can spend time with a person in every situation such as disappointments, stress etc. can you say if you truly love a person. Sue...good luck
Dear yv729, Well you need to see a doctor ASAP...you may not have a vaginal infection but something else. A vaginal infection while pregnant is not uncommon but does need to be treated by a professional. You are not sure just what you have so you have...
Dear fau, As stated the saline nasal washes work great, prescribed meds are still better then over the counter for some but Allegra is said to be in par with them. Using air cleaners are a must in a household and staying away from triggers. Use the A...
Dear josefina, Using yogurt on a tampon can actually spread the infection. Eating yogurt as a preventative does help however. The drug store sells many products that do work. Try to stay away from the one day treatments as they are not as good. So cho...
Dear danni2011, Not everyone flirts that is a fallacy. If you stop and think as to why you are flirting it is a way to occupy time, validate for self-esteem reasons, full fill an emptiness within etc. But there always is a reason...you say you are do...
Dear floorguy, There is no way of knowing due to bone structure, genetics, muscle mass etc. The best way to find out is to take him to his doctor. At 13 he is probably due for a complete physical anyways. Sue...good luck
hey, no I'm sorry to say. My mother was mostly a stay at home who was extremely interested in her hair and her nails :-) My dad was illiterate and could not read or right. He did manage to have gainful employment mostly out of town so I never saw him....
Dear sandydee, Of course you invite them. But as you said they will not go so make other plans. Invite your father to walk you down the isle and leave it at that. Have a back up such as an uncle or friend who will walk you down the isle if he doesn't....
Dear helpbecky15, as we get older and older we don't stay friends with an EX. While young and we are dating on a casual level we can stay friends but as we get older and the dating because more serious we can't and do not remain friends. This creates ...
Dear adensmomma06, Children live what they learn. So now it's time to teach him by good role modelling. After all someone showed him to throw things, yell and hit...biting is normal and it is usually at a time when they are frustrated. It's their way ...
Dear x0x_caitlyn_x0x, Teachers are taught to only concentrate on the students who show potential and who will do their work. Right or wrong this is what they do, there are several reasons for this and some are selfish. Regardless, you are not a teache...
Dear catherinebrianemullins, Vitamin water as well a most health drinks are mostly hype. There probably isn't enough of anything good in them to do anything. But because our society is always looking for a quick fix these sell. What you are getting is...
Dear babyangel22, I'm sure she does not want to be there either. I'm sure moving into someone else's home, someone else's bedroom etc. is very difficult for her. Copying someone is the highest for of flattery. She is lost in many ways. She is watching...
Dear myzarri, What you didn't say was why you have to take him? But if it is because they work etc. then perhaps you can tell them they need to buy you one of those push wagons that joggers use. The child sits in this and you push it as you are runnin...
Dear ghostlypwincezz_sodamn_glamorous, As an older sister you have to take in to consideration that you have younger ones in an abusive home. This is the primary concern...if you are abused they will be also and you have some obligation in making sure...
Dear libby76, You could be the poster girl as to why women should not leave everything behind and go to another place without supports. At 19 the chance that this guy is the one is pretty far fetched even though you want him to be. You are still learn...
Dear myzarri, People treat you the way you let them. If this is your experience then you are allowing them to treat you this way. In fact females are know to be the ones to more likely mistreat a guy for several reasons. One is that they think they ca...
Dear whoisyou, There are a great many variables for how long the sperm will live in a woman. If the it is an ideal condition it can live up to 7 days. This really a long time and with younger women who have irregular ovulation the chances for pregnanc...
Dear cupcake143, Sleeping with someone else was a way for you to get out of your dilemma. You are unable to leave him because I think you felt that leaving him for not pulling his weight with a job etc. was not a good enough reason to leave. You actua...
Dear haleylovesjb, You stated "you don't act like that with your friends" This gives us an idea that it probably is not a bipolar condition but you still need to be seen by a doctor and you must explain what is happening. You don't act this way at hom...
Dear yo_mothah, No, your height is determined by your genetics. Now that I said that...if you have a syndrome, malnutrition etc. this can effect your height. You will continue to grow into your 20s and some will get a real spurt of growth right after ...
Dear beautifulgirl, Yes, of course. In fact this is the time when one may be most at risk to become pregnant. Since you can not accurately predict your ovulation time due to irregularity. Never have unprotected sex Sue...good luck
Dear imtheloser, Ageing gracefully refers to at which speed you are ageing. I like to think I am ageing gracefully: I don't look my age, I have few wrinkles, I still do things a younger person would do and I don't complain about my age. Sue...good luck
Dear sunshine_dust, From what I have read it really has more of a placebo effect then anything else. It was primarily used for PMS symptoms. Sue...good luck
Dear xxxlostromancexxx, Ty's correct...but there is an actual line. You can spank a child gently without leaving a mark and this is considered legal in most places. Places such as Sweden do not even allow this. Anything more than this is an offence. ...
thedude, From what I understand Taoism did start out as a legitimate religion, in fact it was one of the 3 religions along with Buddhism and Confucianism. Religious freedoms were restricted in China and...I think the monks basically became slaves. I ...
Dear sugarx64, This is a real dilemma and I don't think right now is the greatest time to leave with his father just passing. I suggest that you do use his father passing as a way to communicate to him that life can be short and that you need to make ...
Dear goodluckmisery, Both men and women have orgasm in their sleep. This is just by thinking. So yes, it's done all the time. Could you just sit while awake and have an orgasm...probably not. Like Ty said you would have to be trained for this. Some p...
Dear lilmisshordy, Helping someone with addictions carries a lot of responsibilities. If you truly want to help speak with your parents and let them deal with it. Your brother knows what he is doing is wrong and could end up with his death. Your paren...
Dear mrzthang, You can, but why? You need to make love making a most romantic experience and while on your period you should take this time for other types of intimacy to avoid the mess. Messy love making is usually a turn off for guys and when asked...
Dear metalscene, Just as parents had a hard time accepting ELVIS years and years ago, parents today do not understand the music and styles. That can be a give, but being verbally abusive to you such as you're ugly, too fat etc. is not acceptable. This...
Dear sckiki21, If you are looking for a clear yes or no, I would go no. Why would you chance making your cousin "uncomfortable"? I don't think it matters why they broke up and when. I think the most important thing is that you respect your cousin and ...
Dear xxxsexxx, Even with a negative response you still could be pregnant. No test is 100% accurate. The blood test you'll get is the most accurate. Sue...good luck
Dear mikes_baby_gurl_15, I'm a detention/suspension supervisor...you both got the same amount of time because you retaliated. Some schools still hold true to 0 tolerance so both parties leave. We are currently investigating the bully laws closer where...
Dear anonymousasker, We have dealt with this before here...the concept is not factual. Women do not look or want the bad boy. It is a reason that is used for an insecurity with relationships. This works on both sides. Men use this fallacy so that they...
Dear twilightsky, Having low self-esteem can be related to depression. Your professional counsellor should be able to work with you and see if you need to be treated for depression. When we have low self-esteem we tend to keep the process going instea...