Our Featured Advisor
hey im jasmine
ive got blue and black hair now
when ive got air in my lungs
and a skateboard in my hand... im happy
i love to skate
and i collect skateboards as well (73 so far)
im an artist...i paint, sew, draw, create ect
as well as that i also make dolls, jewellery, clothes, shoes, bags, hats and just about everything else
I love Piercings! I have got 36 of them
no tatts yet though = no money either
i love riding skateboards from the 1970's
i like spandex pants!
I play guitar and drums
I can juggle, and do lots of other stuff
Im pretty old fashioned and old-school
I love horror, I sleep in a car bed
i like to wear stupid looking hats
i always wear the same jeans
and I definantly don’t take life too seriously
i love ZOMBIES! :D
and i love romance in almost all its forms
I don’t believe in any religion
i dont respect any of it either
...words dont hurt me
I do what i love, and dress how i feel
I pretty much live in a world of my own...
and were all mad here :]
i know a lot about a lot of different things,
so im just hear to give you all advice :]
sue90's Advice page 13
Dear lostsoul21, These are call vagina farts LOL. That is one of those embarrassing moments that you should get a good laugh from and be comfortable with. Learn to laugh at this because there are going to be many more things that should make you laugh...
Dear ladiigrumps323, Many girls break their Hyman during sporting activities, biking etc. So a lot of the times there is no blood at all. So women who still have theirs intact during sex will experience some bleeding. There are going to be many more e...
Dear shygirl00, At your age it is easy for you to confuse someone being friendly and someone who is interested in you. These are two different things. Just because you speak with them and joke with them doesn't mean they want you as a girlfriend. He h...
Dear jenna85, Give your head a shake...he isn't over his ex and he is going to meet her??? So why would you stay quiet over this. You didn't trust him and you also betrayed him??? You have already stopped trusting him and you are also not to be truste...
Dear biatchrunawayfromthelies, Well you can't stop them. You stated you were bi...so they are stating a truth. They think you are EMO because of your past history...Well, that isn't a big deal is it? You didn't say they were making rude comments perha...
Dear arranrocks, Well people bug others because they want something done. So perhaps they are bugging you about your chores, homework etc. If you truly want then to stop, give them reason to stop. Sue...good luck
Dear biatchrunawayfromthelies, First of all it is not his responsibility to know what feels good to you. You are the one who should be instructing him in what you like. If you are not able to talk about this with him then you are in no way ready for a...
Dear chacha2000, Yes, there is a chance that could have happened. But don't try to have a child because of this fear in the back of your mind. You need to go to a clinic and find out if you are indeed fertile. Once you have this information then you m...
Dear stephanief987, Having sex may also cause urinary tract infections in women because bacteria can be pushed into the urethra. Using a diaphragm can lead to infections because diaphragms push against the urethra and make it harder to completely empt...
Dear guess89, Your parents are upset because as you said he is your first...you should go through life with a bit more experience before you settle for the "first one". In books and fairy tales this works but in real life it seldom does. There is a bi...
Dear mommylove03, Yes, you need to go to counselling. It appears that you have placed a happiness responsibility on your partner instead of where it belongs on you. You are responsible for your own happiness. Saying that you may be suffering from a fo...
Dear stonersoldier420, THC the chemical in pot stores in your body fat and continues to build the more you smoke. If you smoke a lot chances are that it is going to take you up to 40 days for it to leave the body. There is nothing, I repeat nothing yo...
Dear nissooo19, Your colon knows how to do its job, constantly shedding old cells, absorbing nutrients and keeping a delicate balance of bacteria and natural chemicals. Interfering with this process can hurt or destroy these relationships, meaning th...
Dear stonersoldier420, The amount of Niacin you would need to flush the system would cause heart palpitations, vomiting, blood sugar abnormalities and liver failure. Sue...good luck
Dear ashley07, You must see your doctor ASAP...chances are they are not cancer but a form of fatty tissue, many, many women have this condition. They still need to be watched by a doctor. Sue...good luck
Dear kattie8451, He is not responsible for your pleasure you are. Placing the responsibility on him isn't fair. You must communicate what you want. It is important for you both to be educated and doing some reading "together" is beneficial no matter ...
Dear greggcapps, If this is something she says she wants then there isn't a problem no matter how tacky it is...and it is but it's her wish. Be very careful not to keep a copy around on the PC or in a memory stick; delete everything but the copy you ...
Dear thecerebralassassin, First of all you are not ready for children. You are only 18 and are ...from your question not a good communicator. Children need good role models growing up, and mature ones. I also will assume you haven't dated since you s...
Dear tmom579, If he isn't testing positive for drugs he will not be ordered to rehab. Since he is 18 there is very little you can do. You are right you cannot condone his behaviours and you cannot allow him to live under your roof. You are not abando...
Dear jino, The ones that agree with you. Some people pregnant or not have a hard time with some fruits. Avoid any that make you go to the bathroom a lot. Stick with the ones that are gentle on the tummy for you. Sue...good luck
Dear lean, What you need to do is get yourself into counselling. You do need to move on and totally forget about him. Sue...good luck
Dear confus, You were here asking this same question once before...I will offer the same advice I offered you then. You must stop all contact with this woman. You need to seek out counselling as she does. This is a very dysfunctional relationship and...
Dear shelby16, The question should be do I have low self-esteem...yes you do. Anyone who needs to hear from others about their looks should perhaps seek out some counselling. They will help you to gain enough self-esteem so that this type of question ...
Dear kahydiee, It's never cool to be friends with benifits...we secrete a hormone when we have sex with someone...women secrete more. The hormone we fondly call the attachment hormone. It does as says we become attached and they don't. We get hurt fir...
Dear sach_reee, If you are asking this then I would say yes...wait. A child needs extremely good role models. Parents who are well educated make a good living and able to provide emotionally and financially for this child. Until you have reached these...
Dear somekid, THC is stored in fat cells...this is the chemical in pot. Depending on the amount you smoke it can take 2-40 days to leave the system. There is nothing on the market that has been proven to help flush the system so anyone ingests THC sh...
Dear grayeyes, You must see and tell your doctor ASAP. He will start monitoring your baby for any signs of problems. You must talk over with your doctor the about the ramifications of what you did and what you will do if the baby is born with problems...
Dear fau, Yes, you have a problem...you need to make an appointment with a counsellor either at school or with your local health clinic. They can get you to a counsellor who deals with this type of behaviour. You are not alone many have some of your s...
Dear help101, You don't want to break up but want ideas how??? Well it seems you are very confused as to what you expect, want and are willing to give in a relationship. You should expect some ups and downs without breakups, you want to have a relati...
Dear fau, Yes, her keeping the baby sound like a big possibility. But why would this ruin your relationship with your b/f? There are plenty of couples who juggle babies outside their relationships. Do you think if she keeps the baby he'll go back to h...
Dear kinkytinky, First of all you don't love him...but you may lust him. These are two different things. When we truly love a person we have spent much time in person together, experiencing ups an downs. We truly never know a person till be know how t...
Dear xoxelizabeth92, Males and females are hard wired differently...they have different thought patterns and different hormones and very different takes on things. So yes, we all feel the same way about trying to figure out the males as they do feel a...
Dear confusedgal, What??? This guy treats you badly and you must move on. We love many people in our life time but that doesn't mean they are for us. When we learn our partners habits, and their ways we learn if we can accept them or not. When someone...
Dear g1442, What does this mean...it means he is using you. You need to believe you deserve the very best in a partner. When you do you will see this is not the very best but the very worst of the scale. It's time to tell him that it's over and you ar...
Dear nothingness, Your are very fortunate to have a mother who is honest with you and have just given you the advice that may save you many relationships in the future. Take what she says to heart. I don't know anyone who is perfect and we all work on...
Dear idontunderstand, When a couple starts wanting a 3rd party it usually signifies some deep routed problems, not just a boring sex life. As you experienced when a 3rd party is brought in trouble soon follows. Yes, you could have married too young, y...
Dear jlam02002, Depends on where it is broken. Moen have a life time warranty so just send it back and they will send you a new one. Sue...good luck
Dear boyzlove, Living in Canada gives anyone 13+ great opportunities. At 13 you can wash dishes in a restraint, at 14 your can work in any food business like Tim Horton's, McDonald's etc. Until you are 16 you must prove you are in school and can only ...
Dear overit 1, Your very fortunate Ottawa has some of the best schools and a good reputation for its educational programs. prkswllflwr, gave you three but there are several other good ones there. Sue...good luck
Dear ladym, Anytime you feel a change or pain you need to see a doctor. Sue...good luck
Dear judymoody100, Playing by ear means you can hear a song and play it without music to that song. It does not mean you use your ear to play the piano lol but that would be rather funny. Sue...good luck
Dear confus, All I can figure out from this is that this woman is already married, living with her husband and her children. You are in love with her. Okay now stop driving her home and picking her up. If you work together find another job, or put in ...
Dear centurian, This condition is called Peyronies syndrome. Sometimes this condition does correct itself. You can have a normal sex life with it but sometimes it can be slightly painful until you get some corrective surgery. The surgery is simple and...
Dear distraughthubby, Try to come to terms that this marriage isn't right. It wasn't right in the beginning and even though there was a period that you felt right with it, it isn't right now. If you do not seek out counselling to repair this relations...
Dear r0ckit, The romantic relationship ends when you break up after that there should be no relationship. For all the reason you have stated in your question. Some people think they can remain friends but they soon find out this is all to painful espe...
Dear taraelizabeth1, First of all you knew he wasn't into sex as much as you...did you think you were going to change him? We can't change others only ourselves. You caught him "emotionally cheating". You almost cheated on him...please, please do not ...
Dear mxah, I've always wonder why we call ourselves friends yet we allow our "friends" to be embarrassed? A true friend is honest and open. You can start by saying I know this may embarrass you but I'm telling you this because friends take care of eac...
Dear five_minutes_to_midnite 8, No, it does not shrink your stomach and yes, how much is too much for some people. It is not a safe practise. Sue...good luck
Dear lonearieimp, People who procrastinate do so for a reason. Usually they are the type of person who needs reinforcements and rewards. So that is just what you do...you reward yourself for working each hour. You have a huge test on Friday, today is ...
Dear manyfresh316, She has a boyfriend. There are just some social taboos and knowing she is in a committed relationship means that you really need to keep your distance. If she were by some chance to dump her boyfriend for you then this would no doub...