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Born and raised in La Jolla/San Diego, CA but moved to Anchorage, AK 44 years ago.
Currently a retired taxicab driver after 30 years.
Single. Divorced 3 times. Had 3 children (2 still living), have 7 grandchildren and 1 great granddaughter.
i'm a moderate Republican. My hobbies are playing poker and chess.
i'm a Deist but i do believe in evolution. My religious beliefs, which i wrote several years ago (A Search for Truth), can be viewed at the URL above.
i may not agree with you but i cherish your right to disagree (even if you are wrong).
spanishgal's Advice
She is defenetely giving him a hard time. Hold on.... Did you say he has cancer? If that is the case, shouldn't if anything be happy that her son is with somebody that accepts him for his illness? Girl, that lady is WACK!!!!! Keep on trying to talk to ...
Hey girl... Dont stress about that. It happens to me as well. All it is is ingrown hair. I know that it looks ugly but you wanna look and feel clean. So thats something that he needs to understand if he loves you. make sense? I've told my man and he ha...
I say, see a doctor right away. He will give you the best advice and you need to know and do it like NOW!!!!! Good luck.
Hey girl.... That is straight out stupid. Why you dealing with a man that makes you feel stupid????? If I was you, I would had put him in his place long time.... Forget him, cant you do better?
Hello my dear..... How are you? I hope you aren't stressing about you being pregnant. Why? well because you aren't pregnant. When you have sex and he comes inside you, and you have then got your period, SURPRISE!!!!! you are not pregnant. If you are se...
Como tu estas chica? Primero...... let's begin by you've got to be in love with the man that fulfills every inch your heart decires.... Meaning, everything this man does is what makes you happy and makes you love him all the way. It must be a STR...
personaly.... I say to forget his ass. Why you wanna be with a man that is screwing you and everybody else? Have a little respect for yourself, and your kid. You don't need to be with a man for your kid to be happy. You are big enough to take care of w...
I THINK YOU SHOULD AVOID THE CO-WORKER ASWELL.... THE SAME THING HAPPENED TO ME, I'VE BEEN WITH MY BOYFRIEND FOR 1 YEAR AND HE IS THE BEST THING THAT HAS EVER HAPPENED TO ME. AT THE SAME TIME, I HAS A CRUSH ON THE "NEW GUY", TILL I FINALLY SNAPPED OUTT...
ok am here to help u!!!!! (LOL) Anyways, am on Evra (patch) which works pretty good. I've been on for about 3 months already.... All I do is put the patch every Tuesday (my day) for 3 weeks in a row. The 4th Tuesday I don't put it on, and thats when my...
ok, here's the thing.... You are doing something wrong.... Do you eat properly and enough???? You need to eat enough... have you tried to get a personal trainer? I know that is kinda pricey, but hey if you wanna look good... You gotta dish out the mone...
My opinion.... I say you don't give it to them.... His family or him. I mean, I know that you are just doing a nice thing, but you don't want them to think that you are doing it, just so he gets back with you. I know that, that isn't what you are doing...
1st of all... What are you doing? You are the type of women we hate. You are cheatin' on your husband. Why not just end it with him, or get a divorce? I mean, do you have kids? Is your marriage failing? Because if it is, it doesnt give you the right to...
WELL I DON'T THINK HE IS CHEATING ON YOU.... BUT MAY HAVE A CRUSH ON THE RECEPTIONIST AT WORK. I AM A RECEPTIONIST MYSELF AND I GOT A LOT OF GUYS THAT COME BY THE DESK. I WORK AT A CAR DEALERSHIP AND ALL THIS GUYS ARE MARRIED THOUGH... I HAVE A BOYFRIE...
LETS PUT IT THIS WAY... YOU'RE SCREWED. I DONT WANNA SOUND HARSH, BUT HE IS AN ASSHOLE. IMEAN, IF YOU BOTH WERE TOGETHER WAS BECAUSE YOU CARED ABOUT EACH OTHER... RIGHT??? BUT YOU SEE, IN SOME CASES YOU ARE ALWAYS WILLING TO DO MORE FOR HIM THEN HE WOU...
That is actually freaky.... I mean at the same time emotional and confussing... To be honest with you, I dont believe in shit like that.... But I would LOVE to hear about what happened at the end.... Believe it for the rest of your life if he comes bac...
I say you be a woman and let him know wuz up??? I mean if neither of you is saying anything, then you won't know if it could ever be.... Tell him straight....like this "Well listen up, I think your nice and all, and I wanna get to know you. I aint chec...
Must be tough.... But hey life goes on. I was once dating a guy who's name was the same as yours actually.... I was with him for 4 year's and let me tell you I LOVED HIM!!!! Till I went on vacation. I came back with lots of gifts for him, and everythin...
HEY GIRL, YOU'RE PROBABLY STRESSING A LOT AREN'T U??? DO U WANT MY ONEST OPINION? "GET AN ABORTION A.S.A.P" AS SAD AS IT SOUNDS, RUN TO THE DOCTOR AND GET ONE.... THERE IS NO NEED TO BRING A CHILD INTO THIS EARTH, WHEN HE/SHE WONT HAVE A DA...
Takes notes girlfriend..... LEAVE HIM ALREADY. He lies to you about little stupid things....Like his lunch??????? Are you okay????? Does it not make you wonder what else he is lying to you about??? Would you think he is cheating on you???? I would assu...
WELL IT SEEMS THAT YOU LIKE GUYS CHASING AFTER YOU.... YOU OBVIOUSLY DONT CARE ABOUT THE GUY YOU HAD. WHY? WELL YOU HAVE A MAN, YOU GO ON VACATION AND U MEET A NEW GUY AND YOU COME BACK AND LEAVE YOUR MAN... LIKE HELLO>>>>>>>> DID U REALLY THINK THAT Y...
hey girl... Where do I begin. I mean, I respect you 4 what you did. I mean, you gotta I mean deffenetly have to be attracted to him.... Specially if he is your soon to be hubby.... I mean was going to be..... I think that it is the right thing you did....
IT MEANS YOU ARE CONFUSED..
Listen up girlfriend.... Let me put it like this..... A year from now you gon' like another little boy... What do you know about love right now?? you only 16????? If you'd like to date, then date a kid that has never been in trouble with the law... I m...
ok.... 1st of all, he is your ex for a reason right?? So why would u want go and give some guy a blow job, that isn't even your boyfriend??? He's probably screwing some other girl that you don't even know about and you gon' do that???? Come on??? Have ...
SEE a doctor. Tomorrow am actually going to the doctor's to get a prescription for the patch... whatever it's called.. or if you wouldn't wanna use the patch, then go on birth control pills.... the patch is a sticker look a like, and you stick it on...
ok,first of all... Let's start with why he went 2 jail? you may not wana tell, but as soon as you mension JAIL it doesn't sound any good. But LOVE IS BLIND. Girl, he is in there 4 a while... Get 2 know someone else and you'll fall in love again... it i...
ok.... Where to begin??? 1st of all, don't cheat... If you aint caring 'bout him anymore then break up with him... but dont cheat... you will just kick yourself in the ass. Why? well because ur ex man is calling after 6 years and justs wants to have so...
Dont wanna be mean, but Do you need help???? If the man is locked up, what are you doing with him? Girl, I don't know what he did but it isn't a good idea u dealin' wit this guy. You can find a man that will love you and will stick by your side. What s...
okay..... I know am gonna come out kinda rude, but WHAT THE FUCK ARE SO STUPID? you mean to tell me you've got know respect for yourself? You know this man wants you just for SEX and you still have the gutts to tell everyone that you would DIE 4 him? W...
First of all.... Let him come to you, dont run to him. If you stop calling him and avoid him, bet you he will come crawling. He'll come and ask you why you haven't called and...... You'll see. You then act like as if you dont care 'bout him. Get me????...
Let's start by getting up and getting a membership @ a gym? I know that it's difficult, but like my man says.... "It's hard work to look good..." (he's a personal trainer, so imagine how he trains??) Yeah, you know what??? Guess how old my man is??? He...
girl you sound like you in your 15's..... Stay in school and finish your grades, instead of thinking bout some loser like him... You 'dun know he playing your ass and dont care 'bout you... So, if you want an opinion.... FINISH YOUR SCHOOLING FIRST!!!!...
I mean.... It seems weird and people are probably saying that you are fucking sick.... But you know what???? age aint nothing but a number. Differently, you both love each other.... Is all good... Just becareful you don't end up in jail... Cuz here in ...
yeah it is the same guy that pays attention more to his son and forgets 'bout me.... Yeah, so my ex boyfriend called me and didn't know what to do??? My fingers are itching to call him but I start to think of my boyfriend and want to make things work.....
I KNOW YOU LUV HIM, BUT YOU DON'T DESERVE THIS ABUSE... TAKE YOUR KIDS AND MOVE OUT.... YOU DESERVE BETTER, NOT AN IGNORANT IDIOT LIKE YOUR HUSBAND... NOT TO MAKE YOU SAD OR ANYTHING, BUT WHAT ELSE IS HE DOING THAT YOU DON'T KNOW OF??? IS HE CHEATING O...
BUDDY... YOU ARE SCREWED UP.... DIN'T YOU JUST SAY YOU WERE LOOKING FOR A WIFE???? AND NOW YOU ASKING A QUESTION OF WHY YOUR WIFE DOESN'T LIKE SEX UP HER BUM????? I DON'T GET IT???? HOW MANY WIVES CAN YOU HAVE????
FORGET THEM... YOU AIN'T DATING THEM... YOU DATING THEIR SON. KNOW, YOUR MAN NEEDS TO SMARTEN UP... WHY? WELL BECAUSE HE SHOLD LET THEM KNOW THAT IT MAKES HIM FEEL BAD, THE FACT THAT YOUR SAD... AND THAT YOU DON'T DESERVE THAT.... THAT HE LOVES YOU AND...
GO TO THE DOCTOR AND GET THE MORNING AFTER PILL... IT MUST BE WITHIN 72 HOURS.... WHAT THE HELL YOU WAITING FOR???? HAVING FUN TRIPPING YOURSELF OUT... YOU WANT IT???? KEEP IT... YOU DONT... GET RID OF IT, BEFORE IT'S TOO LATE.
SORRY BOUT THE OTHER MESSAGE. IT WAS FOR THE GINA GIRL... SHE THINKS SHE'S PREGNANT. BUT YEAH... YOU GIRL WHAT THE HELL YOU WAITING FOR??? HE BETRAYED YOU AND YOUR KID... FUCK HIM... LEAVE HIM AND FIND SOMEONE THAT WILL RESPECT YOU... YOU DESERVE BETTE...
no...NOT SURE THAT YOU AINT' PREGNANT... BUT I GOT A QUESTION FOR YOU??? WHY HAVEN'T YOU GONE TO THE DOCTOR TO GET A MORNING AFTER PILL???? IF YOU DON'T WANT TO GET PREGNANT... GO TO THE DOCTOR TOMORROW MORNING... MUST BE BEFORE 72HOURS.... TRUST ME!!!...
If you told him how you feel, and he ain't doing nothing about it.... LEAVE HIM ALREADY... you lucky you got no kids with him, because it will be easier, not to say you don't love him... but i feel that you deserve better then that... As we speak.... a...
first let's start with...... DONT TELL PEOPLE YOUR BUSINESS!!!! and if people keep on interfering in your relationship tell them to F#$@^ off... and to saty out of your business and to find something to do with their spare time... GET ME????? Don't wo...
Hey buddy, lets start with you've got LOW SELF-ESTEEM!!!! You gotta think differently then you do... Like one of the girls said... Get up and work out... Trust me It'll work for you... Buy a couple of new outfits and go out and have fun... Don't listen...
wanting to kiss your friend, doesn't necesseraly mean you're a lesbian!!!!! you're just curious... there ain't nothing wrong with being curius? Do it, and see how you feel after that... Find out for yourself who you really are??? Girl, you only 15 year...