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Born and raised in La Jolla/San Diego, CA but moved to Anchorage, AK 44 years ago.
Currently a retired taxicab driver after 30 years.
Single. Divorced 3 times. Had 3 children (2 still living), have 7 grandchildren and 1 great granddaughter.
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southernbabe91's Advice
you're an idiot. seriously. I LOVE GOD.
ive been dating my 4th cousin for 2 years and 2 months, we didnt grow up together. his family moved off to a different state before he was born...and i wasnt really part of that side of the family, long story. well he moved back and we instantly clicke...
i seriously believe they just think its cool. and it isnt. its trashy and disgusting. nobody in my grade has had a baby... but in the grade below me, over half of them started having sex at the ages of 12-13 and 2 girls ATLEAST have had babies alrea...
you're so freaking young. she sounds horrible..asking you to have sex with her after just two months at the age of FOURTEEN. you're my BROTHERS' age. i'd kill him!!! do you even know her very well?? TWO MONTHS is not enough time to love someone compl...
yes, they are.
lol. im prettay excited. he doesnt know i know though...im still gonna be all happy when i get it, thats for sure. and i dont know what it looks like (:
aren't you like 14? you're young, you'll find it. don't even be worrying about that. if your friends think they have and thats whats worrying you -- believe me, 99% of them haven't aren't.
tinatodder4: they were completely different parts of the post, if you didn't understand it, ask about it...don't assume. the rest of you : haha, i just found out he's getting me one anyways. his dad was like, you can get her a ring, but you cant cal...
anything by tim mcgraw rocks, he's amazing our song -- taylor swift teardrops on my guitar -- taylor swift low -- flowrida rascal flatts is prettay awesome <3 && thats about it !
lol. that's what I think. I mean, my mom already knows he wanted to get me one. he told her ! she was fine with it, amazingly. he told her about his dad and all she said was to just wait until his dad felt comfortable with it. which it would be fine...
okay, I noticed that about 2 months ago, you had to choose between 5 guys. WHY do you have a ring from some dude you weren't even with that long in the first place? thats stupid. and you're 14, stop worrying about stuff like that.
his brother is a year older than us. and when he got her one, it was about a year ago, so that's pretty stupid in my opinion. I think his brother just didn't TELL his dad that was what he was getting her. but his dad definitely knew right after, and he...
all of you idiots on here saying people call her a slut because "they're jealous they're not getting any" or she's "prettier than they are"...are very much wrong. nobody should be jealous of a 14 year old girl already out having sex. I've called 14 ...
you sound pretty young, so I dont know. if he tried to feel you up pretty quick, he's not really worth it. thinking about him a lot doesn't mean you love him... and being together for a week is not time to fall in love.
you're wanting marriage really quickly after only 2 and a half years?? me and my boyfriend have been together about that long, and he's just now about ready to get me a promise ring. I know you're older than me, but I still think that should happen whe...
OMG LAUREN! Heidi has a horrible fiance!! He's such a jerk and she always takes his side. But I do believe Lauren is a crybaby sometimes over it all. but lauren all the way (:
you're so immature, little girl. I hope you notice all the older girls with EXPERIENCE are telling you not to do this at such a young age. and all the immature and/or younger girls are saying go for it, because they have no idea, same as you.
ugh, I hate it when guys play video games. theres no way id buy my boyfriend one or anything to do with one. after over two years with him, im practically sick of video games.
that is true, but im a Christian and I LOVE GOD...and I had sex with my boyfriend 2 years into the relationship bc I know im going to marry him, and I dont regret it being with him but I regret doing it before marriage...lol...but really you shouldnt...
aww how cute. well, if you just got them this year, dont get them anything big, maybe a t-shirt that they will <3 and something from your heart !
yeah you're all right... its just crazy, not cool, you know? I really wouldn't even be thinking about it... if it wasnt for other people bragging & freaking out about me not having one & him saying I was going to get one? dorkkk. lol.