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alexis- Spermicide attempts to kill any sperm that may slip from the condom or if the condom were to break. Well to continue what everyone else is saying... I don't want to overload you with to much stuff. Im pretty sure you will be fine just with ...
Please goto http://plannedparenthood.com/findCenterProcess.asp and enter your state or zip code... ignore the message that pop ups on that site... Plannedparenthood is a free service that allows anyone to get birthcontrol or condoms at any age... your ...
live your life... thats all I have to say... im pretty sure you will regret it when you eventually have to drop out of school and figure out how to support the child. You are two young for all that... and I don't think you know what you are getting you...
You are stepping on unstable ground, its probably best to move on with your life, he is married you know whats right you just have to do it.
There is no reason you should live the rest of your life with someone that you don't want to be with, it is your life. I understand that different cultures have different ways setting up marriages... but you have a heart and you can't control your feel...
princessj , she didn't say anything about her brother
Well the chances of you being pregnant is low, but its possible. There is a chance that the signs you are having is just because you are worried you are and so you are trying to find signs that you maybe... none the less you should goto your local gro...
You shouldnt care what anyone thinks, it would be different at your house with the parents there... but they are just talking cause they can... really im sure they are just jealous that they are not getting any.
http://ageofconsent.com/ageofconsent.htm South carolina : males have to be 14 and females 16 but I think if he is not 18 yet you are in the clear... you will have to click on your state to find out more info
Just give it a break, don't play the stalker roll, she will think you have an obsession if you keep trying to contact her. Act like you don't care.
sell the stuff on ebay
You don't need your mothers involvement to get birth control these days in the states... if you are able to goto this place below: I would already guess that your mom wont be to excited about her 14 year old daughter having sex right now... so its pr...
You shouldn't feel dirty about this, because a good sex life is good in a relationship especially a marriage. Like stephanie said, talk to a sex counselor. Hope it all works out.
There is a lot of resources online just use google or yahoo to search for it http://www.babeland.com/sexinfo/howto/blow-job http://www.gotosextoys.com/how_to_give_a_blow_job.htm
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Well why are you so worried if you are pregnant? Your the one that had sex 3 times without a condom so it seems as though you want to get pregnant!
I don't think you need to tell them... you can get on birthcontrol without telling them... just goto planparent hood... its free you may cause some friction if you tell them this... but i guess it depends on ur parents
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kegel_exercises
amen angelfire speak it! I dont understand what 18 has to do with anything... he is obviously not waiting till u are legal or anything because there is sex still... he is just making a reason
Its hard to say in this situation.. its a dangerous one.. because if she comes back into your life and then she does it all over again its going to hurt worse... i would say there is a good chance she is going to do it all over again... somehow, somewa...
Well he maybe doing it to rough... and you may not be aroused enough... ie you need to have some sort of lubrication so there isn't as much friction ... try having him play with your clit more before he sticks his fingers in... and if you are still not...
LUBE http://www.sexinfo101.com/pm_handtechniques.shtml
Do what she said... if you want a guy to move farther just put his hand down there... and if he dont get the point lift up your pants...so he has access... then after he starts take your pants off... because they will just get in the way... and well co...
yes.
You know what to do... he is using you... so do what you want with him... if you want to continue to have sex then thats your choice.... but just know when you do get in a relationship he is still going to be a controlling jerk like he is right now! H...
Sex with someone you love is an amazing act that all humans were made to do... its something to become closer to your partner and just please them sex makes you feel good... its healthy and last but not least that is how the human race reproduces. ...
If nothing sexual happens while you are still 17... there is nothing wrong legally.. that i know of... but don't quote me on that. Your age difference isn't to bad... i mean it could be worse... just take that type of relationship slow
Don't concentrate on the climax, concentrate on good love making with your partner... if you do that you will eventually have a wonderful orgasm. If that doesn't work then try new positions : www.sexualpositionsfree.com
Please make sure you are actually preg before you jump to any conclusion... do whats best for you and what you can handle... if you can't support a child is probably the best thing... b/c when you give birth its pretty hard to give up a baby... because...
Well if you had such a great relationship then he would separate with his girlfriend and just be with you... and by him cheating on his current girlfriend what says that isn't going to be exactly what will happen if you go out with him? I have always...
You are to young, i know that you know you can raise it, but can you afford it? You should be concentrating on your education and then after you find the right guy to be with that will help you support the child then you will be able to do it... j...
you need a guy that you know is going to be there to help you... it costs a ton of money to raise a child.
Well sometimes flirty can be missprecieved... let your friend know, but tell her your not sure... or first confront him about it privately before you stir up their relationship, because it could be a misunderstanding...
It all depends on the guy... every guy has his own tastes... i know guys at work that like curvy girls with a butt... it just depends...
Well it seems to me like she is tired of waiting for you to settle down with her... 11 years seems like a long time to be gf/bf... i could be wrong but don't you think if you waited 11 years with a girl you really wanted to marry that you would start s...
Talk to him... if he wants it to work he has to make an effort to be honest with you... lies are very bad in a relationship and if you don't be honest with each other then its hard to be happy... because you are always going to wonder is he/she tellin...
www.sexualpositionsfree.com spice it up a bit... go wild... don't hold back.. commuicate.... have passion... do it for her not for yourself....
I think maybe you should figure out what you want to do with the baby, because its hard starting your life at 16 with a baby... it costs a lot of money and if you are going to do it you are going to need a lot of help... and it doesn't seem like your e...
forget about him... this is very immature.
ITs hard when you are in a relationship like this because you fear you wont find anyone else... just dump him this very second, and go single for a while... your emotions have been wound up by this guy and you are not in a stable situation to be dating...
Like everyone else has said don't worry so much about your hymen anymore... its already been stretched / torn... now you just have to concentrate on slow sex with lube after a while you will feel better... regards, jason
Just wash yourself and take lillian's advice with the fruits... he has to like you for you... but also take into account what angelfire said because you dont want to move to fast into a relationship, you must be sure the guy is really truly being who h...
I think this person is fake... he keeps talking about sex with family members... last time it was his sister...
he is just trying to be a jerk cause for some reason girls don't like it but at the same time they do... its complicated... i would bring it to his attention... no reason to have drama in your life
No you can do it as much as you want as long is it doesn't bother your school work and stuff...
Its the thought that counts... so just do something that comes to mind... something that you think he may appreciate... guys are pretty easy to take care of... they just want to know you care for them... you probably don't even have to buy him anythin...
Well it seems to me like you already have practice... a few tips i can give you is don't over lap the guys lips with your lips... don't stick your tongue into to far... and watch out for hitting each others teeth... jason
yes see a gyno
that is not true... there is many times when i dont have one
You just have to make yourself believe that you don't care what others think of you... then you will be more confident... if it doesn't work out with her you know there is other girls out there... so just think of that... its not the end of the world....