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hey im jasmine.
i am very open minded.
and i love skateboarding!!
its pretty much all i do.
i am also a skateboard collector,
with around 66 in my collection so far.
i have 36 peircings, with more to come.
as well as that i make goth,horror and punk dolls, clothes, shoes, jewelrey, bags and just about everything else,
im also obsessed with the finnish band HIM.
i know a lot about a wide variety of subjects
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my dad is a felon and he has gone through much of the same thing. He's been a truck driver for most of his life because of his felony. Sure he's on the road a lot but he gets paid well. xox Sika
If verizon accessed them it would defo be invasion of privacy and they could be sued. There's nothing wrong with sending naughty pics as long as you trust the recipient. But at your age, I would refrain. You're a minor and possession of minor nudies...
Anytime ejaculate gets in the vagina or on the vulva(the "outside" part of your sex organ.) there is a chance of pregnancy. Sperm are pretty good swimmers and your vulva stays moist most of the time from the natural lubricants your vagina produces(espe...
Most credible businesses run background checks. I can't think of the name of the service most companies use at the moment, but I'm sure you could look it up. It's not right of them to suspend you until you prove you're not a felon. They should let y...
I agree with bf11 and angelfire2708 doing it in a public place like a cinema is defo tacky. I think I would literally smack a guy if he suggested it or tried it that way. If you're going to fool around find some place private... No one wants to ...
any which way is good... but reverse cowgirl will wake the neighbors!!! :) and of course I love 69. xox Sika
You can also figure out your over all body fat and a sensible weight loss goal. A. First determine your body mass index, a ratio of weight to height. It's tricky, so follow this example of a 145 pound, 26-year-old woman who's 5'10' (70 inches). M...
Many more factors go into your ideal weight than just your height and gender. You have to consider your bone density, exercise level, age etc. Here's a way to figure it out,,, but it requires a little math. YOUR PERFECT WEIGHT: get there and st...
What I wanted at age 16 is completely off track with what I want now. Hell... what I wanted 2 years ago is completely different than right now. The only thing that is constant is change. At age 16 you may think you know how everything will work out ...
it could be something as simple as an infected hair or a pimple. (or it could be something serious.) To know for sure you should talk to a doctor. xox Sika
you need to find a lawyer then. alcohol or not, it's rape. Rape is a very traumatic event, you should seek professional help. Don't go through it alone. xox Sika
You need to have a discussion with your mom and/or mentor about seeking legal help. I'm assuming the rape happened when you were still a minor - in that case, your mom and your mentor can get in a lot of trouble for knowing this happened to you and ...
coldstone's cheesecake ice cream - it's the best! xox Sika
there are 4,045 + children currently waiting to be adopted in the US and only around 320 parents waiting to adopt. So the argument that adoption is better because sooo many parents are wanting to adopt is invalid. If every waiting parent adopted 12 kid...
For me, it also happened to my twin sister. (I was sexually molested, abused and raped from a very young age to age 19 by my adoptive father) She was brave enough to tell first and then I was confronted about it and admitted that it happened. If she di...
Yes, what you went through was sexual abuse. Even though it wasn't violent and I'm sure those girls really didn't intend to harm you - it was still sexual abuse. You're not stupid for speaking up. Many sexual abuse survivors are scared, embarrassed,...
Taking the nuvraring out early disrupts your protection and you have a higher risk of pregnancy. You should refrain from unprotected intercourse for the meantime(use condoms). Get the morning after pill if the incident of unprotected intercourse was...
Diet change, exercise change, illness, medication, hormone changes ... it could be a number of things. You should see a doctor to determine the cause and what the next course of action(if there is one) is to take. xox Sika
whatever floats your boat, flips your switch or tickles your pickle go for it (and screw every body else!). xox Sika
You can stop periods if you're on birth control. You just skip the placebos pills and start a new pack. If you aren't currently on BCPs then there is no way to stop your period. starting them now would have no effect on a period already going on - b...
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... I'm usually thinking about how hot he is,(I love to hear him moan!) what move can I try next that will blow his mind... is he enjoying himself... thinking about what he might be thinking about lol xox SIka
Don't watch porn... for sex tips. Porn is completely unrealistic when it comes to techniques. The majority of female porn stars don't orgasm on camera. -yep that's right, they're just actors. Cunnilingus is a learned skill. If you do not take the ti...
The average size of a penis is 5.25" so you're "big enough". But the most sensitive part of the vagina is the first 2 inches or so. Making a girl orgasm often takes a lot more than penetration. Many women need clitoral stimulation as well. xox...
Masturbation will not delay your period - actually it can help the onset of it by "stirring things up". Many things can delay your period (besides pregnancy) - stress, certain illnesses, weight, physical activity, diet(or lack of...) and also our bo...
The symptoms of pregnancy are common symptoms for many other illnesses. So the best action to take if you suspect a pregnancy is simply to take a test.
You can overcome the fear, but the memory will always be there. You just can't let the memory overcome you. xox Sika
If you suspect a pregnancy you should stop the birth control pills and take a test. Pregnancy symptoms share common symptoms with many illnesses, so it may be something as simple as the flu. The pill does have a few effects that are like pregnan...
Even though you were "almost" raped it was obviously a traumatic event. Sexual assault is often times just as detrimental to someone as rape. Sometimes when something traumatic happens to us our brains will associate something with the event. In yo...
The fact that it's hard to determine exactly when you're ovulating (every woman does NOT ovulate on the 14th day of her cycle) coupled with the fact that sperm can live in the vagina for up to 7 days... it makes the window(where you won't get pregnant)...