salsaandchips's Advice

• Was it wrong to leave my girlfriend?
  Just because you have dated someone a long time doesn't mean you should stay with them if you are not happy. I dated a guy for 7 years (ages 13-20) before I decided to break up with him. We had grown up and grown apart and all we did was fight ab...
  
  
• My boyfriend and my friend?
  It sounds like though you care about your boyfriend, maybe you two would be better off being friends. It would be a shame to miss out on someone you know and see regularly and feel a real connection with just because you feel like you should hang on ...
  
  
• Girly Girl or Tomboy?
  If I were a guy I would date someone who is comfortable with who they are - so if they are a tomboy and happy about it - then I think that would be attractive. Guys are naturally attracted to self-confidence!
  
  
• Is dirty messages online cheating?
  I think that what counts as cheating depends on who you are talking to. Many people have different opinions on what matters to them. In my own opinion I would ask her if she thinks he was truly intending to act on anything he did - or if it was j...
  
  
• How to stop pretending and just be myself?
  This is a great time of year to make a change! A new year can equal a new chance to be who you want to be! Being yourself can be easy - just listen to your heart and your head and make your own choices! Not the best advice - but I think it s...
  
  
• How to stop being scared to tell my friend I like them?
  If I were you I would tell them just what you were asking above! Tell the friend that you don't want to hurt the friendship or make things awkward - because the friendship is most important to keep. Then tell the friend that you have been wondering...
  
  
• How to go from flirting to dating?
  My advice is to treat it like a band-aid - RIP IT OFF :-) The easiest way to get past this point is to just get your nerve up and tell the girl that you like her and that you wanted to know if she would like to go on a date. If she hesitates yo...
  
  
• Why can't I feel when he ejaculates in me?
  I disagree with the other two answers. I've been in two serious relationships - one guy was smaller and one guy is large - one guy c*mmed like he was dribbling, the other shoots it impressively (sorry if that is too much information!) Anyway - eve...
  
  
• Why did he lose control suddenly?
  It sounds like he is stressed or perhaps what you were upset about hit close to home on something that had him really stressed too. Is he getting ready to take a big test? Maybe he is worried that he will fail too. I think you should mention tha...
  
  
• How to make ringtones?
  It depends on your phone. If it has recording ability you can simply play your music while recording with your phone and then set it as your ringtone. It isn't the best quality sometimes, but it is FREE! :-) Be careful with those ringtone sites ...
  
  
• What's the best way to tell my parents that I'm ready to move out?
  I think you should talk to them. It will be a hard conversation, but it will help your relationship with your parents in the future. The most important thing to do is to be mature about the conversation. Don't overreact or say things you might r...
  
  
• Have you kept your resolution for the New Year?
  Not really I'm still spending time with my family so it is hard to eat healthy when my sisters love fast food and my mom keeps making amazing cookies and meals. So once I go home in a day or two THEN my New Year's resolutions to be more active...
  
  
• Which fruits contain Vitamin C?
  In addition to citrus fruits - green peppers have 220% of daily required vitamin C! Also, many different fruit juices have 100% vitamin C in them - just peek at the nutrition facts to find out.
  
  
• What Has Gone Wrong?
  Perhaps you should try looking at this differently. You could try seeing it as a fresh new start. A new room = new possibilities! I understand what you say about comfort zone. Right after I left for college my family moved - it was a little sca...
  
  
• When will I finally trust females?
  The best advice is to take time with your next significant other. Really get to know the woman as a person and friend so that your trust can build. Don't rush too fast into the relationship because the more you know each other the more you can trust ...
  
  
• Travelling and a relationship
  I haven't been in the same situation - but I have been in a long distance relationship and the concerns are similar. With today's technology of email and cell phones I think that you both can make it work if you both really want to! Plus there ...
  
  
• What are good make out tips?
  Limit the slobber :-) Seriously - my ex slobbered all over me our first time and it was so gross. Don't keep a rigid tongue - just be natural. Relax! She is probably nervous too. Just go slow and soft and it will all be fine
  
  
• How do I get away from my crazy ex?
  Create New Passwords! Something that she wouldn't be able to guess - and don't tell anyone else. You can also block her on many of those applications by putting her name or screen name on a block list. Restrict your privacy settings - so that ...
  
  
• Is having my period for a long time a sign of pregnancy?
  It would be very helpful to have a doctor check you out - pregnant or not - that sounds serious. I had a friend who bleed lightly for over two months - she had gotten checked by the doctor too - so she could know more about what was going on. The...
  
  
• How to know if you're being cheated on?
  I think most women can simply sense it...that terrible suspicious feeling that something isn't quite right. But in reality there are other signs that are more obvious - such as those listed by morbid already. Some others might be: - a new i...
  
  
• How did you know your husband was "the one"?
  I am not yet married and I am still young - but I have had the moment you are talking about. I knew I was meant to be with Paul the day he said "I love you" When we started dating he was still getting over a past love that led to heartache. ...
  
  
• How to tell her I love her and want to help raise her child? (100%)
  Maybe you could start off on a smaller scale - start with just dating. If you spring the "I love you" on her she might not be ready to love a guy she thought was just a friend. But if you date her - you can start to care for each other in a romantic ...
  
  
• What are good night jobs?
  My mom is a nurse and she has a lot of flexibility to work nights. That takes schooling though and she has to sleep the day away most days. I'd never recommend that lifestyle to anyone who can avoid it.
  
  
• Why can't I keep a guy?
  Sounds like the right one just hasn't come along. Sometimes the right one is that nice guy just out of your sights that you haven't paid much attention to yet. Hang in there and eventually you'll find the guy that makes your heart flutter just as muc...
  
  
• Could Hilary win?
  I think she has a chance. Not sure if it is because she is a woman or because of her political grounds though.
  
  
• How do you tell your parents that you're pregnant? (100%)
  I guess it depends on the situation - how old I was, what kind of relationship I was in that caused the pregnancy, what kind of lifestyle I had been leading. Those factors might make different explanations more applicable. In general, if faced wi...
  
  
• Do you think this is true?
  sounds like you were hurt pretty bad Love comes at a price - but often the rewards of love are worth the potential pain it may bring. Take time to heal your heart - eventually you will heal and the lessons you have learned will make you stronge...
  
  
• How can I get over my ex boyfriend?
  I just answered your other recent question about having a baby - and if you are having doubts like this then the last thing you need is a child to care for. Sort out who you are and what your heart wants before you decide to move on to parenthood. ...
  
  
• Should I have a baby now?
  Definitely wait! They may be cute and tug at your heart - but babies take an INCREDIBLE amount of responsibility, time, love, commitment, and MONEY. And at 15 you likely don't quite have enough of those to do it. Not to mention a long distance man w...
  
  
• Is he anorexic?
  Looks like he is headed in that direction. He should talk to a counselor or doctor about alternative weight loss solutions rather than taking this extreme route. I hope he doesn't continue this!