rumblechick's Advice

• When to take possession upon closing on a house
  Biggest risk is if the seller's do anything in the mean time to de-value the property...removing appliances, damage, etc. As the owner, you would also be liable if they were injured in "your" house. This arrangement occurs many time in real estate tr...
  
  
• Campground Jobs (50%)
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• should I wait or leave?
  Good for you! Sounds like you are intelligent & responsible & just had a short time of having your emotions turned around by the wrong guy. Hope the next time you get involved with someone it is with someone who won't ask you to hide from anyone!! A...
  
  
• I'm Falling in Love with a Married Man
  Suck it up & move on! Thank your lucky stars he doesn't show signs of leaving his wife for you....would your REALLY want a man who would cheat on his wife. If he was really in love with you he could have been honest with his wife (painful as this wou...
  
  
• what should I do (0%)
  This may seem harsh, but since your last question was about the possiblity of being pregnant...you need to learn to practice either birth control or abstinence! Take him to a nice dinner or concert, involve his friends in your activities...reconsider ...
  
  
• grind
  Unless you want to encourage him sexually, why would you want to? Are you just getting off on asking for trouble or are you trying to tease him? Not advisable in either case!
  
  
• men,I dont get them lol
  The simple answer is yes. But you might want to ask yourself "What am I doing to encourage his interest?" If this has been an ongoing problem for you, perhaps you're not showing enough enthusiasm or imagination when you're together? Just a thought!
  
  
• My Friends and I Aren't Safe
  I commend you for trying to protect your friends. If you haven't discussed this with your parents please consider doing so. A situation such as this has the potential to become very nasty & your parents should be better equipped to take care of it. ...
  
  
• Boy Problems
  Hiding the new relationship from the old one will destroy both in the end. Sounds like the old one hasn't truly made up his mind about you, and wants to hang on to you until someone else catches his eye! The behavior he is showing is NOT that of a bes...
  
  
• in love with thw impossible
  If you love someone, set them free....if they come back they are yours....if not, it was never meant to be. Now, to be brutally honest, from looking at your picture & seeing the screen name you've chosen for yourself plus the number of questions you s...
  
  
• does age matter? (100%)
  Yes, but depending on your own age & the gap, it might not be wise to get involved with someone unless the maturity levels are similar. Sometimes things will work out anyway, but it's much harder when you don't have the same goals & hopes for your fut...
  
  
• what can I get my boyfriend?
  Depending on your income level....a CD he might have mentioned liking, or one by an artist he likes....tickets to a concert....if you can sing or play an instrument, perhaps a recording of a performance by you....a gift certificate to a local music sho...
  
  
• are there any older, unattached men out there? (100%)
  A decent & free web site for dating is plentyoffish.com Good search features without all the "fanfare" of the paid ones. You can post pictures, search by area, age, etc. Good luck!
  
  
• Masturbation
  Not really, but if you're doing it so much you are too tired to do anything else or it's interfering with other activities, then you should probably try to cut back some. Or if you have a partner & still feel the need to "do it yourself" then you need...
  
  
• love help (0%)
  Without knowing your age, it's hard to say for sure, but why don't you consider just asking them?
  
  
• Taking care of stray animals, but my mom won't let me, what do I do?
  You didn't mention your age, but if you are old enough, I'd suggest volunteering at a local vet's office. You'd be learning a lot, have a place to ask for advice, find out where different animals could be taken care of, etc. It could also help you de...
  
  
• Noisy cat driving me up the wall .... (100%)
  Sounds to me like she is in heat. I'd suggest having her spayed in case she gets out again. The constant meowing is usually to attract male cats that she may sense are in the area. Also some cats are just more "verbal" than others. If there is some...
  
  
• Isn't it dangerous to feed wild cats?
  Looks like a "caged animal" situation to me from the picture, somebody has to feed them or they will starve! Other than that, feeding wild animals causes them to become dependent on humans & is very dangerous..also messes with their hunting instincts ...