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richard4life's Advice
Why don't you just come straight out with what you want?? Just take charge. He's probably scared of what you may think of what he feels. Guys have all the same feelings women do. And that's NOT a stereotype. You'll be better off by telling him how ...
I agree with llewellyn. HINTS are not neccessarily the best way to go about telling a guy your true feelings. THEY DON'T LISTEN WHEN YOU ARE TELLING THEM STRAIGHT FORWARD. You just have to take the risk and tell them what you're feeling.
No, you should not. You should never offer anything in order to be with someone. If someone really wants to be with you, they will not care about what you can give them, but will focus on what they can do to be with YOU. You are definitely not ugly ...
No, that does not make you a slut. When you are with your boyfriend you shouldn't feel like a slut. The things that you two do are between you and him.
First of all, you are NOT ugly. Why the hell would a guy tell you something like that? He's definitely a jerk and you shouldn't give it a second thought if he let something like that come out of his mouth. Something tells me he was no Romeo. Don't t...
I have more information on my situation. He will NOT go to jail. In SC the age of consent is 14 with parental consent.
ThanXX
*Tee hee.* I probably would say that, too. THANX to everyone for the help!!
I'm not saying he doesn't love you or that you won't work out. But think about it. If he leaves, or if you decide the relationship isn't working, what would that look like to your parents? They might not trust you to move out when it is time if you m...
DAMN STRAIGHT THAT'S A JOB!! Your hater can now kiss the asses of all the women and half the men in the world. What the hell do they do that's so great?? You are working. You cook, clean, and soon will probably have a child to raise. I see my mother...
Sorry to add more the novel I wrote earlier, but now she wants to know more about my life and the guy I'm with now, but all she ever does is criticize me when I tell her. She says, "you're stupid, he's playing you" or whatever, but yet she acts like a...
That girl is not really your friend. I would't even worry about the guy. The guy doesn't have a committment to you. Your friend does. It's not unusual for a guy to act stupid like that, but for your best friend to, that's different. The guy isn't ...
Yeah, I understand. I'm 15 and 4'10. People always think 'm years younger. And everyone mistakes my sister (who's three years younger) of being the oldest. I don't think you really can. Makeup would only make you look like a younger girl trying to ...
xdancecutiexo1 was hopefully saying put off telling them for another year.. It would be stupid for her to put off using them for another year. But you should just cut to the chase and tell them that you are sexually active but are being responsible by...
I always seem to find cute, inexpensive clothing. Do you know of any Body Shop or Lola (G&G Rave) stores? They're cute and cheap. Rave always has some kind of sale going. Rugged Outwear has cute stuff, too. Girl, and don't EVER underestimate those ...
I agree on the fact that you should be confident, but don't build your life around having a gf. One will find you when you least expect it. It could be the cashier, the woman that passes you today.. It could happen anywhere and at anytime. But don't...
No, sweetie. And for all the assholes that got smart with you, it's okay..
Believe me, you'll feel it. One day, you'll feel it. I understand the feeling because when I was thirteen ( I'm fifteen) I had been with this guy for what seemed like eternity for a thirteen year old ( a year, lol) We did everything together and one ...
Be yourself, girl. For the assholes that aren't noticing you now, they aint worth worryin bout. You'll find someone who you wanna be with and who wants to be with you.
I usually hate the smartasses that answer like this but, WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH U?? Do her a favor and leave her be. You need a good slut cuz you don't deserve her.
I started high school this year. I am going to the tenth this year. People will change, will be two faced, b*tches and assholes and everything else. Chicks talk. Dudes talk. Sometimes you will feel all alone. I just found out his year that my best...