richard4life's Advice

• Why are guys so slow? (100%)
  Why don't you just come straight out with what you want?? Just take charge. He's probably scared of what you may think of what he feels. Guys have all the same feelings women do. And that's NOT a stereotype. You'll be better off by telling him how ...
  
  
• Why can't my boyfriend see the biggest hints? (100%)
  I agree with llewellyn. HINTS are not neccessarily the best way to go about telling a guy your true feelings. THEY DON'T LISTEN WHEN YOU ARE TELLING THEM STRAIGHT FORWARD. You just have to take the risk and tell them what you're feeling.
  
  
• What if my friend makes me feel like dirt since she's so pretty? (100%)
  Ever looked at the ugly girl that every guy liked and wanted to date and you wanted to know what was so special about her? Confidence. If you carry yourself like you are beautiful (and you are) then you will get treated like you are beautiful. Your t...
  
  
• Should I offer sex to get a boyfriend?
  No, you should not. You should never offer anything in order to be with someone. If someone really wants to be with you, they will not care about what you can give them, but will focus on what they can do to be with YOU. You are definitely not ugly ...
  
  
• Does this make me a slut? (100%)
  No, that does not make you a slut. When you are with your boyfriend you shouldn't feel like a slut. The things that you two do are between you and him.
  
  
• What if my boyfriend's family likes the other woman? (100%)
  I'd really hate to tell you something you hate to hear, but if your boyfriend's cheating on you and you have a baby, you need to leave. He clearly doesn't care that he's hurting you and that if he continues, that your child could be hurt too. And the...
  
  
• Am I really ugly?
  First of all, you are NOT ugly. Why the hell would a guy tell you something like that? He's definitely a jerk and you shouldn't give it a second thought if he let something like that come out of his mouth. Something tells me he was no Romeo. Don't t...
  
  
• Should my boyfriend and I just break up?
  I have more information on my situation. He will NOT go to jail. In SC the age of consent is 14 with parental consent.
  
  
• Is he too old for me if I'm 15 and he's 18?
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• What if my "best friend" is always flirting with my guys?
  *Tee hee.* I probably would say that, too. THANX to everyone for the help!!
  
  
• Is it legal for me to move in with my older boyfriend?
  I'm not saying he doesn't love you or that you won't work out. But think about it. If he leaves, or if you decide the relationship isn't working, what would that look like to your parents? They might not trust you to move out when it is time if you m...
  
  
• Is this a job? (100%)
  DAMN STRAIGHT THAT'S A JOB!! Your hater can now kiss the asses of all the women and half the men in the world. What the hell do they do that's so great?? You are working. You cook, clean, and soon will probably have a child to raise. I see my mother...
  
  
• What if my "best friend" is always flirting with my guys?
  Sorry to add more the novel I wrote earlier, but now she wants to know more about my life and the guy I'm with now, but all she ever does is criticize me when I tell her. She says, "you're stupid, he's playing you" or whatever, but yet she acts like a...
  
  
• What if my best friend keeps flirting with my crush?
  That girl is not really your friend. I would't even worry about the guy. The guy doesn't have a committment to you. Your friend does. It's not unusual for a guy to act stupid like that, but for your best friend to, that's different. The guy isn't ...
  
  
• How do I look my age?
  Yeah, I understand. I'm 15 and 4'10. People always think 'm years younger. And everyone mistakes my sister (who's three years younger) of being the oldest. I don't think you really can. Makeup would only make you look like a younger girl trying to ...
  
  
• How do I talk to my parents about birth control? (100%)
  xdancecutiexo1 was hopefully saying put off telling them for another year.. It would be stupid for her to put off using them for another year. But you should just cut to the chase and tell them that you are sexually active but are being responsible by...
  
  
• Where can I find cute and inexpensive clothes?
  I always seem to find cute, inexpensive clothing. Do you know of any Body Shop or Lola (G&G Rave) stores? They're cute and cheap. Rave always has some kind of sale going. Rugged Outwear has cute stuff, too. Girl, and don't EVER underestimate those ...
  
  
• I cant find a girlfriend!
  I agree on the fact that you should be confident, but don't build your life around having a gf. One will find you when you least expect it. It could be the cashier, the woman that passes you today.. It could happen anywhere and at anytime. But don't...
  
  
• Can you get pregnant or a disease from humping a pillow? (0%)
  No, sweetie. And for all the assholes that got smart with you, it's okay..
  
  
• Is it okay not to be hurt this time?
  Believe me, you'll feel it. One day, you'll feel it. I understand the feeling because when I was thirteen ( I'm fifteen) I had been with this guy for what seemed like eternity for a thirteen year old ( a year, lol) We did everything together and one ...
  
  
• Why don't guys like me? (100%)
  Be yourself, girl. For the assholes that aren't noticing you now, they aint worth worryin bout. You'll find someone who you wanna be with and who wants to be with you.
  
  
• How do I get in my girlfriend's pants?
  I usually hate the smartasses that answer like this but, WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH U?? Do her a favor and leave her be. You need a good slut cuz you don't deserve her.
  
  
• How will I survive high school?
  I started high school this year. I am going to the tenth this year. People will change, will be two faced, b*tches and assholes and everything else. Chicks talk. Dudes talk. Sometimes you will feel all alone. I just found out his year that my best...