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quietrage's Advice
The problem is that she is visiting her HUSBAND, not her EX-husband. Dude, tell her to SHOW you the papers. Tell her you want to talk to her lawyer, THIS monday, and ask her lawyer what is taking so long. If she refuses tell her she has 1 day/week/ (NO...
No, but once YOU decide what to do, the websites will tell you where and how to contact people like minded. Above all, dont do anything dangerous like go to a stranger apartment, you dont want to be tied up in their basement waiting to be et like in "S...
If youve had 4 partners in 2 years you need to choose better MEN, the ones that care enough for you to: 1)STICK AROUND 2)Make YOU happy for a change Sex takes practice patience and caring. I agree, you may have difficulty reaching orgasm with others...
Dont worry. If you use less lubrication you will seem tighter. Not to mention that looseness can be good - it makes him last longer and make YOU happier.
Unless there is something unusual about your body it wont hurt if you go at it slowly enough, and use enough lubrication. Above all, find a man you can TRUST to go slow, or it will be hell.
I dont know. I do know you probably should get a different boyfriend, one who appreciates having a girl who WANTS to go down on him.
Even if he were, what does it matter if he only does things with you and you are satisfied with what he does?
Your normal. And the other girls friend is normal too. Not gay or he would no longer want to do her at all, he would want another man.
just make sure the vibrators/dildos have a wide base that wont slip in beyond reach and you'll be fine.
I tried it and it was very nice, BUT, make sure to start with a small vibrator or dildo, AND LOTS of lubrication
I envy you. Enjoy.
If she isnt flattered that youre giving it to her she doesnt deserve you
I agree. Further, this boy is a selfish little bastard by not appreciating what a favor you are doing by blowing him and not expecting anything in return. A real man respects you enough to do what you want. Even further, Ive HAD sex in the cold and fou...
Usually not always, by whether he stares at you confidently or looks away. But that is not 100% either
If your friend is this successful with women he does NOT need your help. He'll figure it out.
I was exactly in your relationship. Im so glad to be out of it.
kid, Im hung, and I can tell you, better to be too small than too big. Too big means you dont get it as often and you have to quit because she gets sore. This has happened to me with SEVERAL women and it pisses me off. So dont worry unless she says som...
start by making him go down on YOU first, that way he will be hornier for when you repay the favor. If in doubt, ASK him what he likes, is this good? And so on. Practice makes perfect and no technique works the same for different men.
If your 14 you may need to go to a doctor- you should have had your period by now if youre healthy. Tell your mom that you are worried about THAT, actually she should be too since sometimes your virginity blocks your period and that can lead to toxic ...
Girl, if everyone there acts like aliens, you dont want to breed with any of them. Wait till you meet someone of your species, preferably when you are 18
I envy you getting any at all, loose or tight. There are people in the world not making ANY love tonight. If he is not worried - neither should you be.
That is very sweet. But unless you are planning to marry this guy, have a job and a house to live in (your own house not your parents) you arent an adult and cant take care of yourself, let alone any kids/costs you might have. I have a kid. He costs ab...
Im a fairly big guy, and every woman Ive been with says A)its too big, so we can only try the one hole B)Im sore now, can we stop?(after 7 minutes) Tell him, if the other advise didnt work, that its better to be too SMALL, which doesnt cause pain...
You are shopping for a baby if you dont use SOME protection.
Seems the issue is trust. If you can trust him you should be able to let go.
thats right, slow is good, especially if he wants to wait that is GOLDEN. Enjoy it. NO there is NOTHING WRONG with you. Next question.
I agree. Plus I might add, if he has money for a porn collection, make him buy his own computer. I would NOT allow that to continue, sooner or later your daughter will find that stuff - and I might add, its ILLEGAL for her to view it, even by accident....
SquiRt? Forget that. If your orgasm is good enough, a mess on top of it is bothersome. If you really want to squirt buy a G-Spot vibrator, one that comes with instructions.
No you cant get pregnant, and your doctor wont know. But you CAN get HIV/AIDS as well as Herpes and MANY other sexually transmitted diseases. Oral sex is NOT "safe sex", even though boys seem to think so and will tell you so. If you must suck-start thi...
Go to a gynecologist. It could be serious. If you live with your parents and need your mom to take you, dont be afraid to tell your mom, you dont have to tell her youve been fooling around, sometimes things like this happen without any fooling around a...