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quietrage's Advice
The problem is that she is visiting her HUSBAND, not her EX-husband. Dude, tell her to SHOW you the papers. Tell her you want to talk to her lawyer, THIS monday, and ask her lawyer what is taking so long. If she refuses tell her she has 1 day/week/ (NO...
No, but once YOU decide what to do, the websites will tell you where and how to contact people like minded. Above all, dont do anything dangerous like go to a stranger apartment, you dont want to be tied up in their basement waiting to be et like in "S...
Dont worry. If you use less lubrication you will seem tighter. Not to mention that looseness can be good - it makes him last longer and make YOU happier.
Unless there is something unusual about your body it wont hurt if you go at it slowly enough, and use enough lubrication. Above all, find a man you can TRUST to go slow, or it will be hell.
I dont know. I do know you probably should get a different boyfriend, one who appreciates having a girl who WANTS to go down on him.
Even if he were, what does it matter if he only does things with you and you are satisfied with what he does?
just make sure the vibrators/dildos have a wide base that wont slip in beyond reach and you'll be fine.
I tried it and it was very nice, BUT, make sure to start with a small vibrator or dildo, AND LOTS of lubrication
If she isnt flattered that youre giving it to her she doesnt deserve you
I agree. Further, this boy is a selfish little bastard by not appreciating what a favor you are doing by blowing him and not expecting anything in return. A real man respects you enough to do what you want. Even further, Ive HAD sex in the cold and fou...
If your friend is this successful with women he does NOT need your help. He'll figure it out.
I was exactly in your relationship. Im so glad to be out of it.
start by making him go down on YOU first, that way he will be hornier for when you repay the favor. If in doubt, ASK him what he likes, is this good? And so on. Practice makes perfect and no technique works the same for different men.
If your 14 you may need to go to a doctor- you should have had your period by now if youre healthy. Tell your mom that you are worried about THAT, actually she should be too since sometimes your virginity blocks your period and that can lead to toxic ...
Girl, if everyone there acts like aliens, you dont want to breed with any of them. Wait till you meet someone of your species, preferably when you are 18
Im a fairly big guy, and every woman Ive been with says A)its too big, so we can only try the one hole B)Im sore now, can we stop?(after 7 minutes) Tell him, if the other advise didnt work, that its better to be too SMALL, which doesnt cause pain...
You are shopping for a baby if you dont use SOME protection.
Seems the issue is trust. If you can trust him you should be able to let go.
thats right, slow is good, especially if he wants to wait that is GOLDEN. Enjoy it. NO there is NOTHING WRONG with you. Next question.
I agree. Plus I might add, if he has money for a porn collection, make him buy his own computer. I would NOT allow that to continue, sooner or later your daughter will find that stuff - and I might add, its ILLEGAL for her to view it, even by accident....
SquiRt? Forget that. If your orgasm is good enough, a mess on top of it is bothersome. If you really want to squirt buy a G-Spot vibrator, one that comes with instructions.
No you cant get pregnant, and your doctor wont know. But you CAN get HIV/AIDS as well as Herpes and MANY other sexually transmitted diseases. Oral sex is NOT "safe sex", even though boys seem to think so and will tell you so. If you must suck-start thi...
Go to a gynecologist. It could be serious. If you live with your parents and need your mom to take you, dont be afraid to tell your mom, you dont have to tell her youve been fooling around, sometimes things like this happen without any fooling around a...
there is not an instant solution. Take more time for foreplay and see if making her come first helps.
I got youre same situation from 7 years and we will be getting divorced soon. I can tell you love her and it hurts. And a friend of mine from 3 years. Go to counceling first, but dont spend too much money there.
Tell her you dont love her anymore (do not tell her you hate her, hate and love are not necesarily opposites), you just dont feel anything for her. "No. No. Sorry. No." THEN dont talk to her at ALL, no contact NADA.
hmm, you're bisexual? Good for you, youve got 50% more chance than the rest of us of finding a someone who loves you.
Youre upset. Whatever youre going through pain is usually normal - it means "Do something to stop hurting". Start by 1)Sleeping at LEAST 8 hours a day - NO MORE. NO LESS. 2)Eat balanced meal. Dont know what that is? THEN DRINK MILK, at least a quart...
Seems to me that you dont want to - that you are just doing it for him. If he loves you, he will wait. His anger should play no part in your decision because: from an article on fertility I read, if you dont use any protection and you are at/under 18,...
I agree, often some people prefer to make another person happy. ENJOY IT, that is part of it. Your boyfriend may be more amenable AFTER youve come...or it could be if you havent than he feels he doesnt have the right to orgasm until you do. Whatever th...
for him, ASK him what he likes. For you, TELL him what you like. Other than that, feel around till you do something you each like.
stay away from the porno till you run out of ideas- I doubt youve had time to think them up on your own. YES, always use protection, and use expensive flavored or neutral tasting lubricant NOT the stinky crap that turns you both off and has to be remov...
sex is like math, you need to practice A LOT to get anywhere.
let ME know when you find out. I've been married 7 years, soon to be divorced, and still dont know.
If making out doesnt turn him on he is either: A)Scared shitless/nervous (if he is a virgin or you two are young) B)Screwing another girl on the side C)Needs Viagra and not anything from you. D)Gay E)Jaded MOST men who aren't among the above, are...
Goodnews first, Congratulations on saving vaginal intercourse for when you know his intentions. BUT, Young lady, Im not old, just old fashioned when I say this; you are the new generation that gives the blowjob first and tries to find out whether there...
dude, things will be fine when you move out at 18. I'd start researching college NOW if I were you.
I'm about to be divorced. My wife is similar to you in that she has no sex drive, or at least not for me. I too dont believe divorce is the answer. I'm sorry for your predicament. Maybe if you thought about other men while...maybe not. But I just can't...
If you follow the other fellas advise you will probably get your nuts squeezed so hard you will need medical intervention. 90% of girls dont get off on verbal abuse, and the remaining will probably screw with your head pretty badly.(like the above fella)
Find out more about him, and you will find out whether he likes you.
What you DO is how you look and feel to yourself. Do a good job, lead a good life, and you will be always at your best. Remember we all get old and ugly in the end and if you live healthy you will look younger and pettier than some who "start out" as f...
Dude, the problem is that you are living at with your mum, and while you live with parents they consider you a child. Lucky that all she did was scream and walk away. This will all fade and you will be able to talk to your mum about this and even more ...
You don't know that its his father to blame unless he has he told you this. Fear of commitment happens all the time, if he is worth it (he makes you happy in every other way) then stay. But let him know, TELL him that you will not wait forever, in fact...
First of all, if it feels wrong DONT DO IT. And I'm not sure this guy is right if he is talking ABOUT you, with you in the room. He must RESPECT you, and that means he talks to NO ONE about what you two do or dont do- that is what discretion and privac...
YOUR BOYFRIEND IS VERY LUCKY TO HAVE A GIRL LIKE YOU INTERESTED IN HIM. He is ...probably shy or religious. Or not interested in you sexually. Find out which it is by finding out if he likes to be touched at ALL, shoulders, arms chest...do you two even...
dude, you sound like your in high school. If youre not and over 21, find a time and a place that you are both COMFORTABLE. NO ALCOHOL, thats a potential date rape and makes arousal more difficult, and makes the act last shorter. "giveth the desire but ...
Work on your friendship first. If he turns out to be gay you got a friend for life. It could be that he IS gay and doesnt even realize it, reason for which he bumps from girl to girl looking for Mr. Right in the wront places.
I envy you. Youve got plenty of suitors.
If you give her the best orgasm NOW, what will you do for the rest of your life? It will be all downhill. Start by asking her what she likes. There are millions of pleasure nerves in the body to play with while working at it. Sex gets better with age b...
If you are in high school...heck even in college, GOOD MEN ARE SHY. Try inviting him to do things with your friends. That way you will find out what he is like with other people - you may find that he is cool, or that he is not your type. Either way is...