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Make time to get a job and buy your own car if you want it so much. If you were really mature enough to start driving, you wouldn't be begging your mommy and daddy to buy you something. Keep in mind that cars aren't just handed to you when you tu...
Maybe she feels comfortable wearing baggy clothes Stop trying to make your /mother/ dress like a slutty teen.
I'd leave off the apostrophe. Parents should take into account how a kid's name would be taken in by peers when they're naming their kids.
I agree with anonymous115. Your irresponsible acts ruined both your and your sister's life.
Use Vaseline/Aquaphor.
A basic idea: First, the area is cleaned. Then warm wax is applied on the area with a strip on top and ripped off. Finally, a soothing cream should be applied. It will hurt quite a bit, and you shouldn't get it done at only 14.
It's not actually permanent (it only lasts a few months), it costs quite a bit, and it /does/ damage your hair a bit, regardless of the treatment (though since you straighten your hair every day, which is exactly what you're /not/ supposed to do, your ...
Though guys spend so much of their adolescent lives hoping and praying for this first face/chest hair, the grand majority of girls can't stand to be with a Neanderthal.
You're only 13, and this is just a phase. Dyed black hair and facial piercings do look absolutely /ridiculous/. And don't say that this is the opinion of someone that wants everyone to fit a certain stereotype, because this is not true. Wait unti...
I think you need therapy, if you carry around a bat at all times and are paranoid about someone taking it.
Belson and Chi are some of the best ones I've tried. I'd recommend Belson, because it costs much less, and is very effective.
You don't want your legs to be too muscular, but toned legs are the best legs.
Pretty much everyone has it. Don't shave, it will come back looking disgusting. I'd say wax, use Nair if you can put up with it, or save up for laser treatments. :-P
See a dermatologist. Use the prescribed medication and products as directed. It's true, once you stop using it, your face will break out again.
That's how they're supposed to be. It sounds like you think women don't use push-up bras, and that they're just naturally large and squished together.
Unfortunately,the only way to control it is by seeing a dermatologist regularly. Just remember that this is a /medical/ condition, not a /cosmetic/ condition.
They're not slutty, they're disgusting. And they're most common among bi/lesbian girls. Ew.
Of course not. You'd have to be completely gullible to believe that. sweetbeth1, when women reach a certain age, their hair becomes much less noticeable, and sometimes nearly non-existent.
Some parents simply will not allow it until you move out. It damages your hair, it costs a bit of money, you may be too young, etc. If you're still young enough to be living with your parents, then I don't think you need to be going off dying you...
If it was just a blow-out or she used a straightener, then a shower will get your hair back to normal. If it was a "permanent" procedure, then it will only last a couple of months. These things are obviously /not/ for life.
That means that you are slightly pear-shaped. Everyone has a different body shape - not everyone has an hour-glass figure. Nothing to starve yourself over, basically, as long as you stay healthy.
Some guys do like it, some guys don't have a personal preference, and some prefer if you'd just keep it trimmed. Not everyone shaves it, because it becomes very red, bumpy, and itchy. Waxing already hurts - waxing that area hurts insanely more. F...
Then don't do any of it - if your parents are going to be annoying about some things, then don't do anything /at all/ just to piss them off.
That's insane - you actually are /way/ too young. You might as well be a hooker when you're older. It's true - if your mom is responsible /at all/, she won't give you any - that's just giving your little 14-year-old the license to have sex.
You're 28, try talking to them, but don't give yourself a hard time for the rest of your life.
So they're friends. In many /normal/ cultures unlike the US's and others where invading anyone's personal space is a crime, it is a custom to hug/give a kiss on the cheek to anyone you're meeting - whether you're meeting them for the first time or sayi...
You deserve it, you are /way/ too young. Just tell him.
Too bad. Just dump him.
Never wear fishnets. Unless you're planning on waiting your whole night at a street corner.
Easy answer: don't.
I can see where they're coming from. You are a bit young.
What works for me that I don't know if it will work with everyone is to keep your whole face moisturized during the day and applying a bit of face lotion on /only/ that area at night. After that, a good scrub in the morning will leave your skin looking...
When it gets excessive and you have tattoos and piercings covering your arms, whole body, etc., then it's just disgusting and hideous. But there is nothing wrong with a couple of small tattoos and 1-2 ear piercings.
Blend a moisturizing non-scrub facial cleanser and brown sugar together, then transfer the blend to your face. Wet a gentle washcloth with warm water, and gently scrub.
I enjoy Photoshopping some photos when I have the time. It really does help a photo. But I believe that airbrushed photos should have an actual label on them that states that they were digitally airbrushed in some way. It's not fair for some people ...
This is so stupid. You shouldn't have had sex at such a young age. And you shouldn't have any children until you're married and out of college. Don't screw up your life, as well as your family's and potential child's life, by wanting to have c...
Your child is very lucky to have such a kind, supportive parent. I'd give her many more restrictions if she went out and got herself pregnant at 14, though.
You are a bit heavy, and I'd consult a doctor. But your mom shouldn't be preying on your insecurities.
Your dad is being a jerk. Your height/weight is normal.
You can't control that, unless you get plastic surgery, which is completely wrong.
15-year-olds shouldn't be doing it /at all/. What, are you training to be a prostitute? Not to be offensive, but it's the truth. No responsible parent would give their underage /child/ birth control.
Don't do anything. They /will/ notice, and it's obvious that you're just desperate to pierce anything just to rebel.
Training bras do nothing. Wait until you're large enough to use a real one. And you will grow at your own pace.
People need to understand exactly why teenagers are always so unhappy with their parents. Parents need to let their teenagers be sometimes, and stop starting fights. It's not necessarily about teenagers being that way "because of hormones".
Only shave your legs, toes, and underarms. You're 13, there is no reason for you to be removing any other hair or "doing" anything else.
Pale skin looks worse.
She probably doesn't want to spend /any/ money on something as stupid, vain, and unnecessary as dying your hair. We're going through a recession, you should be more understanding by now.
Wow, you sound so convincing. Not.
You'd look worse fat. Just eat healthy foods, get enough sleep, and get the right amount of exercise.
If you are attracted to girls, then you are either bisexual or a lesbian. If you would just like to experiment, then you are bicurious.