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Born and raised in La Jolla/San Diego, CA but moved to Anchorage, AK 44 years ago.
Currently a retired taxicab driver after 30 years.
Single. Divorced 3 times. Had 3 children (2 still living), have 7 grandchildren and 1 great granddaughter.
i'm a moderate Republican. My hobbies are playing poker and chess.
i'm a Deist but i do believe in evolution. My religious beliefs, which i wrote several years ago (A Search for Truth), can be viewed at the URL above.
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I use to be really shy and quite too. I've found out it is easier to get noticed if you're involved in school and community activities. I joined the FFA & 4H Clubs. I grew up on a farm and love animals. Those clubs offered activities that were anim...
I use to sell appliances. We always reccomended "stainless steel magic" tp our customers. It is available at lowes and walmart. It comes in a spray bottle. Follow the directions carefu;;y and it works great!
a light mocha with some blue accents for furniture, curtins, or bedding
Minor RLS symtoms can sometimes be eased by taking a multivitamin and eating foods high is potassium. (like bananas) Low potassium can cause leg twitches, spasms, and pains. Also drink more water. If you are slightly dehydrated RLS symptoms can occ...
The baby is looking to you because it feels safe with you. It sees you as mommy. As for the crying thing, how old is the baby? Usually about the time babies are able to crawl they starrt to take a few tumbles. But if they fall a lot they become sca...
It's a very good thing that you chose to breastfeed your baby. But if it's time to stop and you have began supplimentng him with formula you can try this. It's going to sound a little weird but it works! Get a cabbage. Put on a tight bra with a cab...
Hi Hun, Congrats on the wedding. I use to cater on big and small budgets. Appitizers are a great way to cut cost and make a beautiful table. Examples: rolled sliced meats (prepackaged), Cheese cubes, & veggies. (ranch dip in center of tray) Hot...
I had gastric bypass in July 2005. I was only 11 months out from surgery when I got pregnant with my daughter. Doctors reccomend you being 18 to 24 months out before becomming pregnant. I had a VERY VERY difficult pregnancy! I was hospitalized 22 t...
Pregancy can be a difficult time. But what is she on your case about? More info please.
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Try putting the baby in a warm baby bath. Sometimes the warm water will relieve the stomach muscles from cramping.
Here are a few of my favorite low budget quick meals: Chicken Fedichinni Alfredo. 1) 2 cans precooked, white meat chicken (you can also pan fry fresh boneless chicken tenders or strips with cooking spray or cook on george forman indoor grill, ...
try the topsail island and outerbanks of north carolina or myrtal beach. they are less crowded than most florida beaches.
It's a loy of fun! But get a local map from like a gas station when you get there. It will list north and south myrtal beach. Most shopping, entertainment, and big resterants are in south myrtal beach. We liked ripley's aquarium and musume. hav...
You need to see a doctor ASAP! You can get dehydrated very easily when regnant. The extreme jaring motion of bad coughing is bad for baby's heartbeat too! See a doctor ASAP! take care mel
I have similar issues with my husband on occasion. Women tend to get into, "gotta get things done mode" when it comes to house work and chores. Men tend to get into the, "just wanta relax" mode. The stress level increases when there is a baby involv...
Good Luck! I'm sure you're ready to have them out and hold them! God Bless Mel
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Hi Hun, I use to be a military wife. But I know what your are talking about. My husband was in the Marines. Your sister-in-law is like a lot of insensative military wives. She sounds very selfish and inmature. Unfortunatly it's a situtation I saw...
There is a chance it could be a kidney infection. If so she will need to see a doctor for antibotics. Until she can see a doctor try drinking water and cranberry juice or cran-grapjuice. Try tyonal for the pain. A hot shower or soaaking in a hot ba...
I have many easy, figure friendly recipies. Funmail me with some examples of foods you like and I can tell you how to cook most anything with many less calories. You can eat healthy and stiill enjoy normal food. take care mel
Hi Hun, I had lathascopic gastric bypass on July 19, 2005. I am 28 yeas only now. At that time I weighed 252lbs. I know weigh 140lbs. So from a weight loss stand point the surgery was very successful. I don't know if you have consulted a doctor a...
I can understand your mom's angur. But lying is lying! Tell the police the truth! But remember in most states, having sex with a minor is Statitiory Rape! So you need to find out all the details. You might also want to go talk to child protective ...
You might want to start with 4 instead of 6. It will be easier to regulate. That is the key to having and maintaining a healthy diet and weight. Also try eating more substancial but healthy meals. Like meals with pasta. They are fast and easy to m...
When people ask just tell them is was a bad decision from a bad part of your life. It's now over and you have moved on. Tell them you would rather not discuss it because it is over and done with. You are out and active, like being on the swim team a...
eat a popcicle...juice baised, NOT milk/icecream. "ice pops or juice pops" will calm you stomach and the gaging muscle effect that makes you feel the need to puke.
Most doctors will require a pap smear for your own safety. They will also ask about health history like smoking, clots, cancer, diabetes, ect. The physical exam is NOT painful and very quick. I know you may be a little nervous but you'll see it's re...
Yes some birth control pills can give you shorter, lighter periods. Example...YAZ. Talk to your doctor.
it could be just normal after or between period discharge. Could you be pregnant? If possible yes, see a doctor asap. Are you in any pain? example cramps? If yes, see a doctor asap. If no chance of pregnancy and no pain then it depends on how con...
Try eating meals with wheat pasts or mix white and wheat. (ex quick fix chicken fedichinni alfredo) (2 cans white meat chicken drained, wheat pasta, & low sodum alfredo sause) These are good for you, but will stay with you longer than fruit or basic...
Hi Hun, You're probably a little stressed out. It's easy to get that way. But here are a few things you can try that worked for me: snack on popcorn, before you try to eat a meal eat a popcicle or a little bit of vanilla icecream or frozen yougart,...
You should see a doctor ASAP! It could be anxiety attacks or the onset of diabetes. Either one is much easier to treat if you do not wait to see a doctor. Pain is your body's warning system. Just try to relax; go for a walk, soak in the tub, or wha...
Hi Michelle, I know it's difficult when you want a baby to care for and can't have one. The best advice I can give you is to go to church or civic organizations in your area. Most communities have a adoption section in the yellow pages. Those agenc...
The decision to have a baby is not a matter of maturity. It's a matter of how well can you provide for this baby. Ask yourself: do I have the ability to give this child more than the bare minimum. I was 28 when my daughter was born. She is now 9 m...
Clean & disenfect high chair tray. Put your little one in his or her high chair. Put something on the tray like mac & cheese or spagittee o's. Do NOT use a plate or utencils. Let them make a mess! After playing for a little bit they will start to ...
Hi Hun, I understnd your phobia! I have a terrible faer of needles myself. I was in the hospital yesterday actually. I have had to have two surgeries. The worst part is getting the I've started. After that all the "shots" are put into the I've ba...
Get off of it ASAP! It is dangerious to your health and will NOT always prevent pregancy! Swits to pills, Yaz, Nuva Ring, ect Good Luck!
Get the book What to expect whe you are expecting! Every book store has it in store or online. Make sure it is exactly that title. It will explain that and much more. From day 1 to after delivery! Congrats!!!
It is very kind of you to want to take care of the baby. But since you are not able to do so there are many people that can help. Most churches and youth organizations have a list of adoption agencies. They are friendly, private, nonprofit, and will...
Hey Hun, You are skinny and HEALTHY! I was 140lbs. with BIG Boobs (36DD) at your age. Now I am 28. I have a 9 month old daughter. I weigh 141lbs. now. All those skinny friends I had in middle and highschool are now really FAT. They starved thems...
Check the obvious first...Wet? dirty? cold? If baby is breastfed it may need to nurse. If baby is formula fed, try warming the bottle slightly. If baby's stomach feels tight and hard it probably has gas. A warm bath can relieve stomach pains. Also...
He will be fine hun. Just be prepared to keep him as comfortable as possible. There are some adults that have to have that proceedure. It is much easier for a child. Adults, wither patients or parents, tend to think about the situtation more. Ther...
Soak in a hot bath and walk around. If you are being induced your doctor will probably admit you a day early then give you something to softrn you cervix. It's not uncommon. Congrats!
I'm sure plenty of people have already told you this is a terrible idea. The thing you need to consider most is your financial ability to car for the baby. I have an 8 month only. I make sure she has everything she needs plus some fun extras. But i...
Hi Hun, I know you feel like your world is crashing around you, but it will get better. My dad died when I was sixteen. I was lost without him. Just remember it's ok to sad, mad, and happy all at the same time. It's easy to feel the need to hide a...
If she does not want the baby, suggest that she go to an adoption agency! There are hundreds of families out there who are wanting to adopt. Most churches and hospitals can help! Stress to her that the baby deserves the best future available. Tell ...
Hi Hun, The best thing you can do is sit down and talk to the parent you are most comfortable with first. Then the two of you can tell the other parent together. The most important thing is to get some doctor's care ASAP! That is essencial for your...