pbandjelly's Advice

• family matters and boyfriend matters! HELP!
  There are many ways to handle every situation. It is always better in the long run to avoid a defensive position with family members and significant others. I think the ideal place is to demonstrate that you are above these issues. Not defending him...
  
  
• im very down and depressed....
  Be up and happy. Do you remember what it was like when you did not have anyone in your love life to twist you up inside? Let's get to the facts: You have a man in your life, you take a number from a stranger, begin a sexual relationship...(...
  
  
• Dose this guy like me ?
  First things first- do you like him and want more? Guys are not any better at reading minds than girls. He may well be wondering what your feelings are. If yes, tell him or show him by making more time together and see if he is as interested. Nature...
  
  
• take him back or not
  Let's worry about your son's future now that you are a mother. You have a responsibility to raise a child the best you can. What kind of father does your son need? Biology is no free pass into maturity. Is this "sperm donor" ever...
  
  
• Married Seven years, getting the itch!! What do I do?
  Our minds play cruel tricks on us. From experience, that fling will make you feel worse. Granted a few minutes of excitement and thrill are wrapped in an affair, but murder and roller coasters are full of thrills; one is fun and innocent and the othe...
  
  
• My new boyfriend cums too early
  I would add to the previous advice to start with oral sex and without pressure bring him back to arousal within a few minutes and give it a go... A good order of things is: you oral on him to ejaculation: him oral on you until you cum and or you both ...
  
  
• Thinking about the bestfriend
  Lots of confusion going on, including myself. I will be direct. What do you mean by fiancee'? In most terms a finacee' is an engagement with someone to be married, not the beginning of dating. Dating is an important time to learn if this ...
  
  
• I JUST CANT TALK I DONT KNOW WHY I THINK IM AFRAID THAT I'LL SAY SOMTHING STUPID ..
  Even if this relationship is over I can say that his reaction to your silence is a bit much. I would suggest that you start tracking privately how much you talk in general and is there a time when you really feel at ease and conversant, a cousin, pare...
  
  
• Should I lose my virginity so early?
  Be sure to plan the parenthood part or the little girls goal to loose her virginity will be the biggest plan she ever made. Not sure she is ready to raise a child when she is learning to deal with young love.
  
  
• What should I say to get him to stay?
  It is hard when you care that much about someone to see the "forest from the trees" as the cliche' goes... You lied because he would not understand or want the truth that you are not a pet, but a human and can talk to anyone you choose....
  
  
• he always thinks I am cheating on him and I never have or would.
  Do not be suprised that a police officer is insecure, overly suspicious, and controlling. Think about why he likes/chose his profession? Many fellow officers do evolve beyond the habits you described. Maturity may or may not be in the future with th...
  
  
• How do I meet a greay guy...and how do I start something?
  Summer has that effect. I would suggest that you already have met a great guy and he is thinking about the same issues you are. He just doesn't flirt much either. If you do not know any males at all then try putting yourself in "healthy&qu...