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Born and raised in La Jolla/San Diego, CA but moved to Anchorage, AK 44 years ago.
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I think you should talk to her hon. The best thing to do right now is ask her opinion on the relationship. What does she like about it? What doesn't she like? I wouldn't take it personal though. Find out what's up with her before you automatically thin...
I used to, but after the racy, controversal pictures in "Vanity Fair," I was shocked and disappointed in her actions.
I would agree with yukina. It is illegal to have sex with an eighteen-year-old when you're underage because eighteen is considered an adult, while you are still a minor. I would wait if you really do love your boyfriend, and if the relationship still l...
You have been with your girlfriend for about a year now, which shows that her and you are doing very well. However, you can't make her have sex with you. Accept the fact that she goes by her religious and moral standards. You and her are not on the sam...
Your mother is wrong. It is never a bad thing to talk to a school counselor about anything. That's why they're there. It is their job to be concerned about you and your needs. Never be afraid nor ashamed to talk to your counselor.
Whether you want to be a singer or an actress, it could take years to achieve that goal. However, you would have to find a good, trust-worthy talent agent, where they book you auditions. Also, it is best to also take acting or singing lessons, dependin...
I've come across some pretty good UK singers, including Amy Winehouse, Adele, and Duffy. They're very good!
This friend of yours doesn't seem to respect you and your boyfriend's relationship. She's trying to break the bond that you have with your boyfriend and trying to have him as her own. To me, she doesn't seem like a good friend.
Use a condom. You don't want to risk taking a chance without one. Anything could happen if you don't use a condom, including pregnancy for your girlfriend, AIDS, and even STD's. Think about your girlfriend because she's right! It's best to use a condom...
I was first kissed when I was fourteen by a guy friend I had at the time. Him and I unfortunately don't talk anymore. Personally, it was an exciting, though rather strange experience for me. I have never had a boyfriend myself, and the kiss I had wi...
I would talk to this girl. You have her MSN, so why not take the chance? I know, "easier said than done," though it doesn't hurt to try. You did say that she accepts the fact that you like her, so maybe that's a good sign. Trust me - it's best to becom...
I would definitely talk to someone. It could either be a friend, family member or even your own therapist. It's not good at all to keep all of your thoughts and anger tangled up inside of you because it gets the tendency to make matters worse. There ar...
No, I love my friends to death. It's just sometimes, I feel left out. That's all.
Death is never an easy thing to deal with and in most cases, comes around unexpectedly. I'm very sorry to hear about your cat, but realize you're not alone. I lost my dog who had been with me since I was born, though unfortuantly, she was very old and ...
I never read that book, but I've been a fan of John Lennon for a long time now. Everyone had, and still has their own opinions on him, but personally, I don't think he was. He was married twice, first to Cynthia Powell, (Who still takes the name "Lenno...
To me, he doesn't seem like a good friend. This guy seems like an absolute horndog who's in it for sex. When he asks you to do things you may consider awkward and uncomfortable with him, (cuddling, picturing him in the shower), of course you're takened...
I understand your pain because I've been there, though I was in a rather different situation, I do know how it's like to feel heartbroken and feel so upset about something. This girlfriend of yours started to become distant and cold towards you, which ...
I can say right now I was in the exact situation you are in right now. I met a guy when I was a freshman in high school, and from the moment I met him, I was just as crazy for him as you are about this guy. I had the biggest crush on him, though unfort...
To be honest, I think everyone has faced a time when they felt ugly and awkward, especially the time of puberty and adolesence.
You'll always know you lost your virginity to that person. I wouldn't say that you would absolutely always think of that person, but there will always be a place in your mind, knowing that you lost your virginity to them. No matter what, it's always co...
Yes, very much true. It doesn't just makes your skin smoother, but moisturizes your skin.
It is hard enough for him to move somewhere different from what he is used to. It seems like you're friends with this guy, and because of that, the two of you could still keep in touch by exchanging emails, screen names, and phone numbers, and you neve...
In the beginning, I thought it was just another rumor, but I read in a magazine and it said that she was four months pregnant or something like that. I am a big fan myself, and personally, I agree too that it will most likely slow down her career...for...
I'm going to be a Junior myself soon. I'm taking Psychology in Sociology in high school next year to see if I enjoy it. If I don't, I might want to be a hairdresser.
My first kiss was awkward and made no sense when I look back on it now, to be honest. It was with a guy I became friends with, who I fell head over heels for. Turns out in the end, he was a total jerk, and I haven't talked to the guy in months. There's...
I tried it a couple of months ago. Personally, I didn't like it. It was too strong for me and it had a strange taste to it. Though, I do like the Vitamin Water, just by itself, but not the energy drink.
I mean, it could be, though it depends on how you see it.
I agree with sue90!
You're going to hear this many, many times, but for the most part, everyone is nervous about their "first time" but if you're not sure whether or not you want to lose your virginity to this guy or at the moment, then I wouldn't recommend doing it. I'm ...
It is never easy to break up with someone. Goes to show that things are not working out between the two of you. This guy and yourself are from totally different planets I'm guessing. There are guys who tend to be boring because they don't know what to ...