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Sounds like there is more going on here then you know about. Maybe she said or did something that alarmed her parents. Whatever the reason it seems you have been blamed for it. Some parents are just over protective, but to put a restraining order agais...
Unlike women guys have several different I love you's. The first being they use it because it gets them what they want. It also is great when they do something stupid and they need to get back into your good graces. Be aware of this. Men also say I lov...
I'd tell him how you feel. Explain that you miss the man that you fell in love with. Touch on the fact that your happy on some of the changes he's made but he could be going too far with it and hurting your relationship in the process. If he doesn't tr...
I feel like I answer this same question every other day lol but here I go again.... If you want to find out if he likes you there are several simple tests. First my favorite the smile test. Look at him right in the eye and smile at him till he looks aw...
I'm going to need a bit more info here. What exactly happened? Tell me a little about him. There isn't some secret incantation that make your ex fall madly in love with you again,well there could be but I'm no witch lol, but seriously It really depends...
This is very understandable but I hate to tell you it isn't your choice. It's completly up to her whether or not she will keep the baby. Yes, you'll end up a father so it going to affect you, but then again you had made the choice to have sex with her ...
Have you ever heard the saying absence makes the heart grow fonder? There is a reason why this is a cleche. STOP being availible to him. Find a date and move on! Maybe he'll figure out your the best thing that ever happend to him and put his head on st...
Your only 13! I didn't start dating till I was 17, and right now your going through some of the most ackward years of your life. So what if your friends have bf's? I know you feel a little left out but there's no deadline. Take it easy when the right g...
I just had this same problem! I felt as if I was being the one that always called him, made plans, ect. I was getting tired of holding up the entire relationship. Finally after he told me that he couldn't meet me for one of our dates after the previous...
Right now your friend probably feels a bit betrayed, wouldn't you if you were in her shoes? Of course she is going to be a bit upset, not that you did anything particuarly wrong. Let her have a bit of space then talk to her and tell her that her friend...
*sigh* this is really a tight spot. I can tell youâre head over heels for this guy and he isnât with you. He is taking total advantage of this. Your right you shouldnât be sitting around single chasing him. GET A DATE! Go flirt, hang out, and hav...
This is really, really difficult. He is willing to open up to you when there is no commitment but the moment your willing to give more he isn't. Personally I would say your either firmly stuck in the friend catagory in his mind or he himself has a deep...
You really are young, and there is some much the two of you will be going through. Long distance relationships are tough in any situation. The best you can hope for is to keep in touch, don't push yourself into his life. See other people, enjoy being a...
I think its quite obvious she isn't your friend! You DON'T treat friends that way. It sounds like she has tryed to demote you to the title of minion or groupie instead. She has some problem with you and from my stand point it probably runs deep, or may...
What I would do in your shoes is wait for him to talk to you and tell him that you don't feel like talking to him at the moment. He'll be baffled and ask why and you'll tell him, straight out, your still hooked on you ex and you don't give me the time ...
I'm with Red, ask him out yourself. I was in the same postion not too long ago. Some guys are just really shy, especially when they know the girl likes him but they are worried about losing the friendship. Your best bet, openly flirt outragously with h...
I agree with you. Tell him that if he can't trust you how can he expect you to trust him. Explain that you care about him and that your hurt that he believes otherwise. On this be ulta sweet. Tell him that you can't allow yourself to be used as his ver...
Dancing, most guys have an immense fear of it. It isn't important really. What probably got to your partners was your discomfort. Girls tend to be really sensitive to nervous vibes from guys. Its like wired into us. When slow dancing go for the basic a...
If its possible, DON'T CALL! That drives me nuts when guys don't have the nerve to ask me to my face in person and its a lot easier to say no over the phone. If your good friends wait till there is a time when you to are alone with one another. Be your...
If you really want to ask him but aren't sure bring up something in a course of conversatition like.... "You know I heard this is a really great movie too bad none of my friends want to go." If he is interested this will show it. If he completely ignor...
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I'm a 20 year old college student who has been through my share of hard break ups. The most difficult ones tend to be where one person has more feelings for the other. I've been on both sides of the coin and it isn't fun. The best you can do if your th...
Yeah I've been through some tough break-ups. I'm 20 years-old trying to make my way though college. The worst ones are when you break up and there is bad feelings between you. If its mutual it really isn't too bad but relationships where one person has...
It perfectly okay to date your sister-in-law's brother. Your not realted at all in blood. The only problem is that if something goes bad in your relationship you'll have to deal with seeing each other on occasion because your family.
Whatever you do don't get in the middle of your ex and his new girlfriend. It will make him upset with you and rile up her as well as a few of her friends possibly. Stay at the sidelines. Be his friend. Remind him of all your good qualities that kept y...
Good things to talk about are things you have in common. Ask about movies, books, tv shows. Ask what her favorite color is, where she would like to go if she could go any where in the world. You'll find out about her in the process and will get tips on...