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Born and raised in La Jolla/San Diego, CA but moved to Anchorage, AK 44 years ago.
Currently a retired taxicab driver after 30 years.
Single. Divorced 3 times. Had 3 children (2 still living), have 7 grandchildren and 1 great granddaughter.
i'm a moderate Republican. My hobbies are playing poker and chess.
i'm a Deist but i do believe in evolution. My religious beliefs, which i wrote several years ago (A Search for Truth), can be viewed at the URL above.
i may not agree with you but i cherish your right to disagree (even if you are wrong).

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Yeah your real cool Captian trying to pick a fight with someone over the internet LOL -claps- You accomplished so much good for you man.
captianassassin you did not answer my question at all, how am I shallow if I'm raising my standards on women?? LOL that does not make any sense at all. If I was shallow I wouldnt be afraid to date fat chicks ever seen the movie Shallow-Hal with Jack...
You shouldnt be ashamed I'm 20 years old and I'm a VIRGIN also I know exactly how you feel. I get made fun of all the time by my friends I feel like Steve Carrol from the 40 year old virgin. There always like: MAN IM going to GET YOU LAID! and yelli...
Because you have someone emotionally close to? It really sucks if you live your whole life being single I'm still on that road I have yet to find the certian someone. People need a boyfriend or a girlfriend because it gives you a "purpose" you're ab...
I dont think you should be a single mom. I'm not a parent but I do have some common sense. This child is going to need a father figure as well, thats just my oppinion if you dont think so then thats your deal. But I think the child needs a mother an...
Learn from there mistakes and trust your instincts were all human and we will all make mistakes. You're parents love you, and this is not your fault. This kinda thing happens because you're parents just seem to have a hard time dealing with eachother. ...
You just need to get out there and connect. Go to bars or go to something like a club that suits you that you enjoy doing like a "Music-club" or Baseball game if you enjoy baseball. You basically just need to talk to people. I found out for a lon...
Friends with benefits is not ok, because the two of you base the relationship on making-out or having sex. I mean yeah I bet its fun the first few days or whatever but after a while all you do is look at eachother as a sexual thing not someone you c...
I didnt have my first kiss until I was 17. I'm 20 now and trust me once you start doing it, its not as fun and great as everyone is "Hyped" up about it. I mean yeah when you first start doing it, it feels really good and its fun, but after a while o...
Dude its ok your not the only one who has masturbated constantly. Jerkin it is actually clinically healthy for your penis. But what I would recommend is not let it become a bad habit like for example you were late for work because you were beatin it i...
My dream woman I'd want a woman who is loving and caring, and wont judge me by the way I am. accept me for who I am and what I do in life. And of course I'd like it if she was beautiful but if shes average then thats fine also I'm not asking fo...
Honestly I hate the word "Love". Its so overly abused now these days no one knows what it really means anymore its just something you say to eachother to make you feel better. I think it would be nice not to say you love someone but to just show ...
Oh well in that case I guess you taking some exotic pictures of yourself will make him happy.
You just talk really dirty on the telephone with your lover. Which I really dont like to do, to be honest because I think its retarded. I'd rather just tell my girlfriend in a bedroom voice to her in person like: Oh yeah baby I want to *** you so...
Yeah your not the only one. Everyone goes through this stage ALL the time. I guarantee by like a few months maybe even more he will be completley out of your head. I have dated lots of girls. And I hardly remember any of them and to be honest I r...
Why give him the pictures it would be better if you just gave him the bedroom experience of his life-time. You should like hire some guys to build a golden pole in your bed-room like next to the bed, and have him like wait in there. And then like...
No I only like white girls. Cause I'm a white guy.
You're having a crush, its more of a bubbly cute feeling of thinking a girl is really pretty and it makes you blush. Its actually kinda humorous. Because I could do that all the time and after a while you just laugh about it and let it go. when you ...
A good moment is when you two are alone and you just stare into eachothers eyes adoring eachother ever so gently. That emotional stare you give eachother alone is a symbol enough that you are saying "I love you" to eachother. then settle it with ...
I'm agreeing with uberalex0 thats pretty much what I go for. but doxuxcxdimxlightx7 is also right the heart matters a lot because they can be really gorgeous on the outside but a total psycho on the inside.
Why would you think about him? if you were willing to flirt with someone else while you were dating?. You got caught fooling around with someone else thats why its over between you to. You think he is going to want you back after he found out you we...
He is having one there is no doubt about it there are 2 factors that already prove he is. 1. You havent had sex with him in 1-2 years. That is a VERY VERY long time to not have any sex I mean I'm supposing you did at some point but to never do it at...
Yeah thanx I'll just stay single forever!
Wow thats pretty crazy how you call us White-men "Mean-spirited and Racist" that alone what you just said is racist. Not all White-men are stereotypically mean and hateful arrogant and believing only white women should date white men. Thats just som...
You're just going to have to take the plunge and go for it. And remember love is not perfect. It can be the most beautiful thing in the whole world and it can also be the most heart-breaking painful experience you will ever have. Its just somethi...
My favorite has to be a girls butt. Thats something I look at most of the time right off the bat when I see an attractive woman is what she is packing from behind and watching it shake as she walks. I like it because I dont know really its just an a...
I like girls with all kinds of hair-styles, some look great with short, some look even better with long. I like the Emo looking cut girls get that are into music and they put all those colors in it and spray it with all that hair-spray and style it ...
I dont really know a whole lot of relaxing stuff. Everything I listen to is loud, insane, and crazy.
Yeah its mainly up to the two of you. If you can handle being with eachother after school through the rest of your life then I guess there is no problem.
I usually perfer pale. Blonde hair blue eyes. Slim body. Honest and true to her feelings. Nice and sweet. I know I'm asking for a lot lol.