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  • If he cheated should I leave him?
    Well, ask him for the whole story... its possible that they lost contact, and he assumed that meant they broke up. Then she came back into his life expecting to pick things up where they left off. Don't decide until you know the full story

  • Pregnant?
    I HIGHLY doubt it. Seriously, don't even stress out about it.

  • Is this wrong what he did?
    It wasn't really long.. it wasn't like he was saying "Oh my god I can't believe she did that, what a b*tch," he was just trying to get advice from a friend. There's a difference between talking about someone behind their back to get advice and talking...

  • What does it mean ? (100.00%)
    Everyone defines them differently... I keep it simple- the four f's: 1. Frenching 2. Fondling (he touches your boobs) 3. Foreplay (fingering, hand job, oral) 4. F***ing :] But to be sure, ask him how he defines them. If you feel awkward, be flir...

  • Virginity
    you are sexually active, but you are technically still a virgin

  • keep it 2 my self
    Well, if she knows the guy who asked you is her friend, she probably isn't going to tell the truth, because she knows it'll get back to you. I would let her know you are interested, but don't go professing your love to her- that can be kind of creepy.

  • what base are we at?
    To define the bases, think of the four f's: 1. Frenching 2. Fondling 3. Foreplay 4. F***ing That would put you at 1st, unless you touched her boobs :]

  • stupid ex's. (100.00%)
    Maybe he was just shocked that you broke up with him over a text, and was being completely sarcastic when he said "cool." And even if you technically didn't break up with him, the fact that it was done through texting is also probably why he's calling ...

  • Needs girls advice so gtfo dudes
    You mean friends with benefits? Flirt, but make it VERY clear that you are NOT interested in a relationship/commitment.

  • whats the point?
    Hormones, love, rebellion... does it matter? Everyone is different. What's the point in waiting until you turn 18? When you're ready you're ready, if you have sex the day you turn 18 and you aren't ready, its worse than having sex at 15 if that's wh...

  • Boy problem! =[
    You and your ex broke up the first time for a reason- chances are it probably won't work out the second time around. I would stick with the guy you have now if you really like him, but if you don't then its unfair to him to stay in the relationship ju...

  • Listening (100.00%)
    I agree with prencessk97... its kind of creepy/awkward, but I think its something most guys would be interested in... its just weird that he actually asked you. And once again, I'm with princessk97- I would for my boyfriend, but not someone I wasn't da...

  • this is long, but im stuck in a hard place, I miss my friend a lot
    Well, considering that Brandon has a girlfriend how, Jordan should understand if you want to talk to him again. Just make sure you TELL Jordan beforehand, and explain that Brandon was always there for you and that you just want to see how he's doing. M...

  • spooning
    Its a sex position... its when a guy lies behind a girl and they are facing the same direction, and they have sex that way.

  • Dating issues
    Well the first thing is you need to start defending yourself. Tell your cousin to stop, and if that doesn't work, tell your parents. There's no reason for your boyfriend to get involved at all.

  • Would they like me?
    Do I think they would like you? I have no idea, I have never met them OR you. But as long as you just be yourself, you should be fine. Your boyfriend obviously likes you, and his friends like him, so they will probably like you. Just don't try too h...

  • Can I get pregnant?
    Its unlikely, but possible. Just out of curiosity, and maybe I'm just stupid, but how do you have actual sex without him being inside you? Wouldn't that just be considered like, dry humping or something?

  • First time
    I would give sex a few more chances before you say anything to him.. for sure tell him how much you enjoyed last night, because that way he knows to do whatever he did that night again! But just leave out the "it was even better than sex!" part until y...

  • How much would gamestop give me for these consoles?
    Well at one point gamecubes were being sold at gamestop for like 30 bucks, so you probably won't get much for that. And probably about 40 or 50 for the DS, if it was lite or dsi you would get more, but its original so its worth less. And the psp, pro...

  • having sex
    Actually samantha1337, thats not exactly true. My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 3 years and we haven't had sex. So its possible. Really though, to answer your question, you are better off not setting a specific age. Because you may be ...

  • weed issues
    Except for when people drive high and get in car crashes...

  • How do I break up with him?
    Just make sure you tell him you really care about it, and that he never did anything wrong. You just don't feel the same way you used to, but that you really wish you did because he's such a great guy. And tell him you still want him in your life. Or s...

  • How do I break up with him?
    Well keep in mind that just because you don't want to see him as much doesn't mean you should break up- it could just mean that you are so comfortable with each other that you don't mind not seeing each other all of the time anymore. And that's normal....

  • Dangerous handjobs
    Actually, sperm generally doesn't even survive an hour in air: "Not long. Sperm live in semen, the fluid that comes out of the penis when a guy ejaculates, or cums. The semen nourishes sperm and gives them something to swim in. If the semen dries up...

  • Should I be pregnant? Is there something wrong with me?
    No nothing is wrong with you, you are just EXTREMELY lucky. Do you want to get pregnant? Because latinagirl is right, the father could go to jail for that. I would say get the pill or the patch or soething.

  • weed issues
    What does it matter? Its illegality isn't stopping anyone from smoking it, so it shouldn't be a big deal that it hasn't been legalized.

  • JulNoWriMo is TOMORROW!
    "July Novel Writing Month," right? I'm not doing it... I'd love to, but I don't have enough time right now! Good luck to you though!

  • Could I get pregnant??
    It is possible, but the chances are so slim its ridiculous. I wouldn't worry- if you worry, your period will be late from stress and you'll just freak out more lol. Don't worry about it, you're fine.

  • I love you..
    Yeah I think that it has lost meaning... people say things like, "Oh my god I LOVE edward cullen," or "I am SOOO in love with the Nick Jonas," when obviously they are NOT in love with them, because they have never met them. The word "love" in general h...

  • not sure (100.00%)
    No, you are not pregnant. Even if he did have sperm on his finger when he fingered you the chances would STILL be very slim. Most likely, you are just stressing yourself out because he fingered you, and stress delays periods. So now that your period...

  • could that pop my cherry?
    It depends on the person. So yes, it could. But at the same time, it might not.

  • parents
    Yeah I'm going with lovely_lady on this one.

  • bad hair life!
    Do you use conditioner? Try skipping that in your shower for a few days... sometimes if your hair is very fine and smooth it makes it fall out. If that doesn't work, try getting a butterfly clip and use that to hold I up.

  • how do I ask my parents I want birth control?
    I completely understand where you're coming from- just tell her how you feel. She might say you're too young, and you are a little young, so don't fight back. Just approach her again in a year or so. Make sure she understands that you are NOT going on ...

  • :( I don't understand
    Okay this exact situation happened between two of my friends. If you liked this Neb kid, you NEVER should have pushed him and your friend to be together. And now that you did, tough luck for you. The two of my friends who this happened with STILL don'...

  • I really love my boyfriend.
    If you really love him, tell him to do what makes him happy. Because if you love him, you should want HIM to be happy. Do you really want him to stay with you if he loves this other girl more? Let him go, give it time. If you two are meant to be tog...

  • help with some names please(((: (100.00%)
    stud stud muffin cupcake handsome (like, "hey there handsome") my man (like, "how's my man?")

  • how do I get my boyfriend to talk to me???
    Well, I suggest talking to him about this. Maybe there's something on his mind that doesn't have anything to do with you and that's why he's been so quiet. Or maybe you two just need a little break from each other. The only way to figure it out really ...

  • break up
    Well... we've been dating for a really long time and we have a really great relationship. But I'm only 17, and I feel like I shouldn't stay with just one person. Its not that I'm unhappy with him, but I'm not as happy as I used to be. And I kind of jus...

  • Annoying boy...
    Tell him to back the f*** off or you'll call the police.

  • hes moving. (100.00%)
    On the last day you'll see him before he moves, walk up to him and tell him you love him. Just be bold about it and tell him straight up- if he's moving, what do you have to lose?

  • Weight
    Well as long as the majority of your weight is muscle and not fat, you should be okay.

  • When is midnight sun coming out?
    It will come out, just probably not anytime soon. If you're really anxious, check out stephenie's website- they post updates on that

  • My books
    To me it seems like what bookstores call an 'independent reader' book... its like a chapter book for younger kids. There's nothing wrong with that- someone has to write books for kids that age. But if you're looking to gear it toward an older audience,...

  • Are we in a relationship?
    well, once again, if she says you aren't in a relationship, then you aren't.

  • Are we in a relationship?
    If she says you aren't, you aren't. She sounds a bit slutty to me.

  • are vags' or penis' more sensative?
    the girls clitoris is more sensitive.

  • Charging for passing on infections
    Honestly, probably. you can sue someone for just about anything.

  • Fantansy trip
    I think Japan would be amazing. I would love to go there. Italy would be awesome too. I think India or Egypt would also be awesome, but maybe not for a few years...

  • ipod nano
    I'm not sure I understand what you're trying to say...

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