meggs's Advice

• where is the 'cherry pop' thing located?
  Excuse me mr_smedheader ... I am a doctor, are you? why don't you do your research. Meg
  
  
• why do I think I'm fat when I'm skinny?
  Well, don't go diagnosing yourself... that just makes things worse. First off, if you can accept what people are saying (you are skinny) - you do not have anorexia. You just have the typical teenage girl body image.
  
  
• Period.... soreness
  No! Most women get sore breasts before their period. It just means there is a change in your horomones.
  
  
• MY Vagina?
  This is your clitoris! It is a jumble of nerve endings that can be used for pleasure. When you are aroused, is becomes engorges with blood, making it bigger.
  
  
• -- I think I have a UTI. Help? --
  Oh gosh yes!!! Most often, they are gotten from wiping back to front, tight underwear. It is not considered a sexually transmitted disease at all. It is just bacteria.
  
  
• brownish vaginal discharge before period?
  This is normal. You period "blood" is not actually all blood. It has nutrients and proteins etc. This brown discharge is just the first layer of your period - which is stacked full of nutrients, which makes it brown. Leg cramps and bloating are 100% no...
  
  
• Is this skanky?
  I do not care what anyone else thinks or says to you. No, you are not old enough to make that decision yet. You have not had enough life experience to be responsible enough to have sex. So, don't do it.
  
  
• Does it hurt to get it in the ass
  it depends. If your partner knows how to properly do it, no. If your partner doesn't - it will. There is a sphincter muscle in your anus that pushes things out, not in.
  
  
• Recurring Yeast Infection Help!
  This could also be not a yeast infection. There are some STD's that act like a yeast infection. You need to see your doctor immediately
  
  
• Woman's Health
  no - your vagina cleans itself out on a regular basis ... there are never "warnings" about it being your last one. A thinck discharge is more likely to mean an infection. You should probably consult your doctor.
  
  
• -- I think I have a UTI. Help? --
  A urinanry tract infection is nothing to be worried about. Not everyone with a UTI has symptoms, but most people get at least some symptoms. These may include a frequent urge to urinate and a painful, burning feeling in the area of the bladder or ureth...
  
  
• Is it possible to... (Grade problems...)
  Thats life, my suggestions is - suck it up and do your homework.
  
  
• is this implantation?
  no - that is not implantation bleeding. That is called spotting. It is because you lost a level of horomone. When you go off the pill for that week, you have a period. You went off for a few days ... that was bleeding like a period.
  
  
• where is the 'cherry pop' thing located?
  That is your hymen, and it is a thin tissue membrane in your vagina near the very top.
  
  
• Fixing a game ?
  get a new system. It is not the disc, it is the scanning laser in the machine.
  
  
• ...abortion?
  a fetus is considered a life when it reaches the age of viability. This is around 22-25 weeks. This just means when the baby is able to live outside the womb. Before 23 weeks, it would die because it is not developed enough. Meg
  
  
• Dry looking hair
  shampoo every second day and condition every day. Shampooing everyday can actually damage your hair.
  
  
• breast problems
  All women have different sized breasts, some are even two different cup sizes all together. This is just due to different amounts of horomones being absorbed by the tissues etc. Your breasts will even out, don't worry. Megan
  
  
• asking for professional help
  Me being in the medical field, I believe that you have what we call "medical student syndrome" ... this is when you see a list of symptoms, it magnifies your symptoms so that it "fits" ... you may be going through a minor depression, but nearly 100% of...
  
  
• Is it a std?
  You need to go to your doctor and give a history for them to know. They will ask: 1)did you have unprotected sex in the last month 2)do you know his sexual history anyway, without knowing anything - I would say you need to have an internal exam an...
  
  
• Jeff Morton is too busy for me...
  I agree, tell him everything you just said on this forum. Or ditch him - guys are not that important when your a teen.
  
  
• underaged drunking??? =(
  You are not alone, and yea it is sad. These guys are doing it to fit in. He is trying to act cool by saying he was hung over for three days. Unless he has chronic liver failure, that is medically impossible. I am a doctor in Canada. Your liver and kidn...
  
  
• my family doesn't love/trird to kill my self
  You do not need to prove to anyone that you are cool. I know this means nothing to you, but I was there once. I was bullies very bad as a teen. I was stabbed in the stomach and almost failed school because I was so scared. I would leave for school in t...
  
  
• BIRTHCONTROL PROBLEM
  Hi there, I am a Doctor in Canada. While on Depo-provera, you are NOT supposed to have a period. The horomones are in your body constantly, unlike the pill which you have a week long break to have a period. Depo is very effective, about 99.7%. Befor...
  
  
• am I a sex addict
  A rape fantasy is a very common fantasy. You are 14, it is normal for you to be curious about sex. Reading about it and thinking about it is healthy. But having sex right now for you is irresponsable. Ultimately, you do not know what you are getting in...
  
  
• I miss him! :(
  Hey there, Long distance is hard - I know. Being in medicine, I don't get to see my man through the year very much. Here's one way of looking at it. You miss him - a lot. But missing him this much is a good thing. It shows you how much you really need...
  
  
• How to tell him you love him.
  Hey there, First of all, make sure you are telling him you love him for the right reasons. If you are saying it, just to hear it back - that is bad. You need to act independantly of his feelings. When your cuddling, watching a movie - just say his n...
  
  
• talk dirty?
  get him to START the conversation. That will make it easier for you to reply. If you are in "the mood" - a never fail thing is Description. Describe in detail what you are going to do to him/want to do etc. It is best to perhaps start on the phone. A s...
  
  
• After a bad break up . . . . .
  Hi there, most women go through a phase when they feel so insecure about their relationships with men that they think they might be more comfortable with women. They call it a break-up, because it is broken. Throw it away, and get a new one! Bi-se...
  
  
• is masturbating bad when your only 14
  Hey there. Go nuts! Masturbation is a very healthy way of dealing with innner physical desires without emotion behind it. Fantasies are normal and healthy - but to a degree. My advice to you is stick to making out with him, but draw the line at the bel...