he wants to be friends
He has commitment issues and he may or may never grow out of em. U dont have to forgive him but it is necessary if u want to have him in ur life. You cant keep this going feeling like a victim in the relationship. Try to leave all that in the past and ...
refuse to meet
He doesnt want u to get the wrong idea. he may have liked the date, but is not so sure he wants one steady girlfriend. Relax, and call him like he asked so you two can talk a bit on the phone. Dont show that u like him so much at first, guys need to p...
why do men lie so much
What an asshole! Don't get further involved with him, he might not know what he wants but thats not fair to involve u in it. Do what u need to do to get back on ur feet as an independent woman. U are strong, and he will one day realize what he lost. He...
I need help with my problem.
Baby, u sound so sweet and innocent when it comes to this girl, how can she reject you? After all, u have been friends for how long now? The only rejection i can see is if she is not ready for what u want, a deeper more meaningful relationship. So, the...
Falling in love with someone else...
Youre 24, you shouldnt have to know what woman you want for the rest of your life. Take this new chica as a sign that you are not done dating yet. Dont get with her so soon, but maybe its time to re-evaluate how much you want to be in a relationship wi...
help i am crushed by a boy who broke my heart!!!!!!!!!!!!
What Im wondering is why at your age you think you deserve to feel this agony over a guy that cannot keep a relationship going for at least a few months (that is no time to develop a fulfilling, meaningful relationship!). Forget about him before you ge...
I was four and still I'm not over being moleste
That must be so difficult to live with. I can relate, a good friend of mine was molested and she avoided being raped. You should just find some really supportive people to be with. That will comfort you more than any law in the book. Men are so disgust...
I love this guy but he has a grl! I really need some help please
What are you really looking for? Eye candy is harmless, but now that you know he has a girlfriend, theres no way things can work itself out! get over it, he sounds like arrogant. No man is worth waiting for, especially if he is telling u to wait for hi...
me and my bestfriend
Your mom doesnt approve anyway. Im assuming she is ok with him as a friend. You had to try but you saw that you shoulda just stayed friends. Dont get so serious with him, u have a lot of life to live and more men will come around. Remember to have fun!...
Can I get things back the way they used to be?
A solid, healthy relationship should adapt to change. Things should not and most likely cannot go back to the way things were no matter how perfect it seemed. Either accept him for being into that seedy bar scene, or move on and find a man that will ap...
making out?
Just be natural. Some people just have chemistry and some dont. take her hand (i love it when my guy kisses my hand while keeping his eyes on mine), get relaxed together, talk to her, look in her eyes, smile your charming smile... pull her close, hold ...
ouch!
If you haven't had sex yet, it might not be a VD/STD. It could be a urinary tract infection (does it hurt when you pee?) or a yeast infection (do u have any other symptoms, like a strange discharge?). Dont be afraid to see your doctor, or the problem m...
I need help
Sex should be pleasing for both partners, once it isn't fun he's doing something wrong. My first love was too big and it sucked because he didnt know how to please me either. However, its not the size that matters, its how you use it that really makes ...
Help I need new ways to make sex fun
Do you two have oral sex? I love my man's penis and I love to show him that I love it. Change your wardrobe, buy something sexy to wear or try roleplaying, that should get things heated again. Go to a sex shop, they have lots of toys. If you are usuall...
how can i??
Instead of using your fingers in the vagina, use the pads of your fingertips to stimulate your clit. That is the area right above the hole. It is the most sensitive part of the female. Once stimulated (you can rub in circles, tapping it, mix it up with...
Please help me!
It's important that you asked and are aware that this may possibly cause an unwanted pregnancy. I dont think you have anything to worry about in this case. The chances of getting pregnant by dry-sex are ultra rare. But wear a condom every time you guy...
Confused..
Babe, don't tell your partner unless you aim to hurt her. These are feelings everyone gets when they are bored in their relationship. If you really want to discuss this with her, don't give her the details of what has happened, at least not unless she...
im in love?
Honey this boyfriend of yours has commitment problems. He won't change for you - he will only change if he decides to grow up and start respecting women. He doesnt deserve you! Get over him and find someone sweet and knows how to treat his woman. There...
Please answer this question
Every couple fights, and very often it is about money and spending habits. You should not let that damage your relationship, but sometimes it takes a lot of effort and it is hard to see the solution. There are many great books that give financial advic...
help
Absolutely nothing, that is, with him. Try to occupy your time with other people or find something fun to do on your own. Then you will give yourself the chance to meet someone else new and interesting.
You didnt mention you were friends with the ...
how do i talk to her?
Brian, it sounds to me like you have a crush on her, and the next step is to meet her. The next chance you get, make eye contact (don't look away) and smile. If you are close enough say hello. And make sure you relax and act confident of yourself! Be s...
cheating
If your boyfriend suspects you are cheating because of your past, it is best to not reveal too much. You should let him know that you are with him, and no one else - show him lots of affection, and spend quality time with him. If he still doesn't trus...
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mama_jen's Advice
He has commitment issues and he may or may never grow out of em. U dont have to forgive him but it is necessary if u want to have him in ur life. You cant keep this going feeling like a victim in the relationship. Try to leave all that in the past and ...
He doesnt want u to get the wrong idea. he may have liked the date, but is not so sure he wants one steady girlfriend. Relax, and call him like he asked so you two can talk a bit on the phone. Dont show that u like him so much at first, guys need to p...
What an asshole! Don't get further involved with him, he might not know what he wants but thats not fair to involve u in it. Do what u need to do to get back on ur feet as an independent woman. U are strong, and he will one day realize what he lost. He...
Baby, u sound so sweet and innocent when it comes to this girl, how can she reject you? After all, u have been friends for how long now? The only rejection i can see is if she is not ready for what u want, a deeper more meaningful relationship. So, the...
Youre 24, you shouldnt have to know what woman you want for the rest of your life. Take this new chica as a sign that you are not done dating yet. Dont get with her so soon, but maybe its time to re-evaluate how much you want to be in a relationship wi...
What Im wondering is why at your age you think you deserve to feel this agony over a guy that cannot keep a relationship going for at least a few months (that is no time to develop a fulfilling, meaningful relationship!). Forget about him before you ge...
That must be so difficult to live with. I can relate, a good friend of mine was molested and she avoided being raped. You should just find some really supportive people to be with. That will comfort you more than any law in the book. Men are so disgust...
What are you really looking for? Eye candy is harmless, but now that you know he has a girlfriend, theres no way things can work itself out! get over it, he sounds like arrogant. No man is worth waiting for, especially if he is telling u to wait for hi...
Your mom doesnt approve anyway. Im assuming she is ok with him as a friend. You had to try but you saw that you shoulda just stayed friends. Dont get so serious with him, u have a lot of life to live and more men will come around. Remember to have fun!...
A solid, healthy relationship should adapt to change. Things should not and most likely cannot go back to the way things were no matter how perfect it seemed. Either accept him for being into that seedy bar scene, or move on and find a man that will ap...
Just be natural. Some people just have chemistry and some dont. take her hand (i love it when my guy kisses my hand while keeping his eyes on mine), get relaxed together, talk to her, look in her eyes, smile your charming smile... pull her close, hold ...
If you haven't had sex yet, it might not be a VD/STD. It could be a urinary tract infection (does it hurt when you pee?) or a yeast infection (do u have any other symptoms, like a strange discharge?). Dont be afraid to see your doctor, or the problem m...
Sex should be pleasing for both partners, once it isn't fun he's doing something wrong. My first love was too big and it sucked because he didnt know how to please me either. However, its not the size that matters, its how you use it that really makes ...
Do you two have oral sex? I love my man's penis and I love to show him that I love it. Change your wardrobe, buy something sexy to wear or try roleplaying, that should get things heated again. Go to a sex shop, they have lots of toys. If you are usuall...
Instead of using your fingers in the vagina, use the pads of your fingertips to stimulate your clit. That is the area right above the hole. It is the most sensitive part of the female. Once stimulated (you can rub in circles, tapping it, mix it up with...
It's important that you asked and are aware that this may possibly cause an unwanted pregnancy. I dont think you have anything to worry about in this case. The chances of getting pregnant by dry-sex are ultra rare. But wear a condom every time you guy...
Babe, don't tell your partner unless you aim to hurt her. These are feelings everyone gets when they are bored in their relationship. If you really want to discuss this with her, don't give her the details of what has happened, at least not unless she...
Honey this boyfriend of yours has commitment problems. He won't change for you - he will only change if he decides to grow up and start respecting women. He doesnt deserve you! Get over him and find someone sweet and knows how to treat his woman. There...
Every couple fights, and very often it is about money and spending habits. You should not let that damage your relationship, but sometimes it takes a lot of effort and it is hard to see the solution. There are many great books that give financial advic...
Absolutely nothing, that is, with him. Try to occupy your time with other people or find something fun to do on your own. Then you will give yourself the chance to meet someone else new and interesting. You didnt mention you were friends with the ...
Brian, it sounds to me like you have a crush on her, and the next step is to meet her. The next chance you get, make eye contact (don't look away) and smile. If you are close enough say hello. And make sure you relax and act confident of yourself! Be s...
If your boyfriend suspects you are cheating because of your past, it is best to not reveal too much. You should let him know that you are with him, and no one else - show him lots of affection, and spend quality time with him. If he still doesn't trus...