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lyubopitka's Advice
Figure out what the problem actually is, then go learn English, and try asking again.
Go somewhere with your girl without telling your friends anything, just on your own time. Like go to your place or to hers, your friends won't bother you there if they don't know where you are. Be assertive, that's your own business after all and you h...
You should check with your airline, and check close to your departure date because they change the rules often. They allowed electronics only a couple of days after they banned them, but I think liquids are still a problem. Where are you flying from? U...
If it's hurting you, run. I know it's tough on the kids, but it sounds like you'll be better off without him. You and your sis have no responsibility over your parents' relationship though, so you shouldn't feel like you "have to" do anything, either e...
Coffee.
Memory loss and hair loss, yeah, also your fingers may fall off from the friction, and your eyes will pop out from the strain. Come on. It's perfectly healthy, and unless you're rubbing yourself on jagged glass, nothing bad will happen to you. Grow up,...
Maybe the girl is a virgin, or a recently deflowered one. Those are tight just because they've never been... um... "used" and hence need some stretching before the penis can go in without difficulties. Or maybe the girl is just "shutting you out" - whe...
And I need somebody to mow my front lawn. Any takers? I'll give you candy.
Forget the threesome, give her oral and she'll love you forever.
Which planet do you come from? Are you 5 years old or did you miss the bio lessons in school? By the way, stevenr06, get a life.
Exercise and heat increase the bloodflow in your entire body, which logically increases the menstrual bleeding, which logically increases the pain. Usually two of the things that doctors tell you NOT to do during your period are exercise and hot baths....
Yeah and I don't know why this automatically gets the yellow box. Somebody is not doing their job.
Teach him to hold the brush and he'll do it himself. Especially if you get him beef-flavored toothpaste, then he'll do it every hour. I risk sounding like brentblack, but this is absurd - both the procedure and the bill. It's a dog.
How long has it been since you first had sex? Usually it takes a while until you get used to the new sensation and start actually enjoying it. For some girls (like me) it can take months. First it hurts several times, then it's dull and feels like noth...
Trying something has a 50% success chance - she'll either say yes or no; but not trying at all is always 100% failure. Think of it this way. By not doing something you always lose :) So go ahead and do it. You don't have to use words like "date" or "go...
"Call on Me" by Swedish producer Eric Prydz. It was a blast in Europe a couple of years ago and is still holding strong even in the US. Hehe, you should check out the video, you'll love it if you are a guy :)
About being too late - nothing is too late. I had my first kiss when I was 19 and first had sex when I was 21. I was extremely shy in high school, didn't like my appearance and didn't go out. The best thing that happened to me was I started accepting m...
And some people think everything is allowed. Grow up.
And some people think everything is allowed. Grow up.
Does this look like a joke site?
As much as you know when you're "getting wet". It's the same thing - the body's lubrication. He may feel the wetness but that's about it. If he's inside you though, there everything is already wet so he won't feel it.
There is no way to tell really. Most women fake it sooner or later, for different reasons, and men have no idea (remember "When Harry Met Sally"? haha). You can ask around the question like ask her what else she would like you to do, or how. When given...
I'm a girl, so here goes. In order of pleasure: 1-oral, 2-fingering, 3-sex. The reason is that the clitoris is a lot more sensitive than the inside of the vagina, so action there is more intense, and a wet tongue is a lot gentler and more versatile tha...
For some girls sex hurts for quite a long time until they get used to it and it stops hurting. Like snowboarder said, use a lot of lube and be gentle. And keep in mind that you may need a long time to stop feeling pain and even longer to get an orgasm....
angelfire2708, you're wrong, even a baby doesn't change the hips. A "frame" is the skeletal frame, which means bones, and bones don't just stretch and widen. They are fixed. Therefore, the bones of your hips will always be the same unless you break the...
This is a sexual position where both are lying on their (same) side, and the guy is behind the girl. If they both bring their knees up a little, their bodies will curve in a way that makes the shape look like two spoons put one inside the other, hence ...
Ouch... You should've used lube! Sounds like the skin around the sphincter cracked from the stretching and the friction, that would explain the bleeding, but don't worry, it will heal. Use a lot of lube next time and that should make things a lot easi...
Wow, we really need people like you where I come from as free stray dogs over there are probaby more than the domestic dogs! Haha, anyway. See if there's an animal shelter or "orphanage" near your home, where they have unwanted and homeless animals, an...
You can try changing positions, too. Guys really like it when the girl is on top because they enjoy the view of her bouncing over them, plus it's less work for them, haha. Girls like that position too because then they can control speed and depth. For ...
Also, quit junk food. It doesn't matter if you eat 10 times a day if all you eat is fruit and veggies, but if you have one meal only, and it's McDonald's, it will pretty much screw your balance for the whole day. So cut down on the fat and sugar, and c...
www.ets.org/toefl It's not as scary as it sounds. The SAT is worse. You should check where it's being offered though, because not all cities (and not even all countries) have a TOEFL base where you can take the test. The test itself is a little tric...
Your "pre-cum" and her natural lubrication both can transmit STDs, and your pre-cum may contain sperm, so even just one "push" can be enough to cause a pregnancy or a disease if you didn't have a condom on. If you don't trust each other that you're cle...
No no no... before you go outside, try to solve the problem on the inside. There may be something bothering her. Maybe she feels she's not as attractive anymore and is ashamed of her body. Maybe she's having gynecological problems and it doesn't feel c...
Use a LOT of lubrication! You don't know how important it is... You probably won't have enough of your own if you're nervous and tense about it, and if you're dry, it will hurt like a bitch. So be sure to have enough lube, and keep your muscles relaxed...
If you are new to sex, you will need time until it starts feeling good. Some girls are ready to go straight away, others are not. It takes time for the vagina to stretch until it feels comfortable, and practice until it feels good, so give it time. It ...
Warm up in the foreplay until you're "halfway there" - have her stimulate you with her hand or by oral, and when you feel the tension grow closer, penetrate her then, and you shouldn't have a long way to go once inside.
There's no penis too big for a vagina. Remember, a vagina has to be able to stretch enough to fit a baby, so unless your guy's penis is bigger than a baby, you should be fine. You're probably new to sex or not very experienced, so your vagina hasn't st...
On average, women do it a little bit less often than men, but not by much. So all in all, we all do it. Relax.
Yeah I noticed... It is normal, but please if you're gonna hit on every girl on here, at least do it in private and send them funmail. We don't need to know everything.
You don't *need* to use a particular thing, just whatever feels comfortable for you. Some girls prefer tampons because they are less messy, plus, you can go swimming with them. Others don't like them because they are tricky to get in, especially for vi...
corina22, you are very wrong and shouldn't make the girl feel guity for no reason. There is no "right age" for masturbation, it's natural and private and as long as she keeps it private, she can start doing it whenever she wants and do it as often as s...
coltzfan7898, this website is for giving and receiving advice and helping one another, not for stalking random girls. If you're not gonna be helpful with her problem, don't bother posting. If you want to hit on her, send her a private funmail, we don't...
Well I said "if you're not infected already" so if you do have herpes to begin with, be that on your mouth or not, my advice obviously doesn't hold.
And wtf is wrong with the yellow box... it seems to appear automatically on anything that's posted as new right now. Weird.
Since you asked, beenloved: - "A womens body" --> "A woman's body" - "I hate when people..." --> "I hate it when people..." - "miss spelled" --> "misspelled" - "5 year old" --> "5-year-old" - "what their saying" --> "what they're saying" - "You...
Yeah but if you can't let go, you can at least distract yourself so that you don't think about your ex all the time. Time heals, so even if you're incapable of dealing with the past, eventually the future will come anyway and you'll have new things on ...
The best way to get over a guy is to find yourself another one :)
triple_a: a LOT of lubrication! KY jelly will help a lot. imiz: what the F is "somit"?
Haha brentblack is the ultimate test. If you believe his advice, then nobody can help you :P
Oh man... what drugs are you on, brentblack? :P slash90, I'd suggest neither messing with the mothers, nor going for the bloody nose - that won't accomplish anything other than get you into more trouble. Those kids are messing with you because they kn...