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You realise that no guy defines who you are. it may seem hopeless now, but in time it all heals. trust me. atm you need to keep yourself busy, the worst thing to do is mop around, cheer yourself up doing something fabulous with your friends, lunch or...
well the only way your going to know for sure is to wait for her next period, if it doesnt come wait about 3 days and then get her to take a preg test and go see her doctor asap to confirm it. but there is no way of knowing, yes there is a good chance ...
if you made it clear to her that you like him, and then she started liking him and flirting with him she is no friend! take this as a sign and get rid of her fast becos she will be like this around every guy you like. second...if you like him, ask him...
go and see the doctor asap to discuss your options and be a lot safer in the future to avoid problems such as these.
It is a horrible thing that the first break up you experienced had to be a really bad one where he turns up with another girlfriend already. He is just an immature loser thats all, and you are better than this. It is going to hurt, its your first break...
if he wants you that badly...he will leave his wife. otherwise leave him alone. DO NOT start an affair, you seem smart enough to avoid it. dont put yourself in that position as the "other women" if he wants you, he will fight for you.
You see which one your heart is with and stay with him. Dating 2 guys is messy, even if one is long distance. Dont mess them around, pick one.
It sounds to me that he feels so comfortable with you becos you've been together for so long, he doesnt need to impress you anymore. I know what you are saying, I like staying in shape too, whether im single or with someone, you just feel better abou...
first of all...you are only 15 so slow down a bit. Fair enough you are confused about your sexuality, so is she and you confide in eachother. Nothing wrong with that. If it turns out you both like each other and want to be together thats fair enough...
You need to go hang out with her and see if she still feels the same way about you, becos she could have possibly moved on by now. Only if you want to be with her, not just to fill the loneliness you feel. Talk to her about it, maybe her parents wil...
it would be tolerable if it wasnt on the radio every time I turned it on!
1. tell your parents 2. call the police 3. get the morning after pill just in case 4. NEVER speak or see him again!
If he is a good guy, and treats you with respect and you trust him, and you can handle his accent, tell your friends to back off. You can dump his sorry a$$ if he cheats on you, or starts being controlling and abusive, but not becos your friends dont l...
Oh for gods sake...no it is not supposed to hurt...he has a penis...dont take his advice on your parts when he doesnt have what you have. And what the hell are you doing with a guy that doesnt know the meaning of "stop its hurting" if he keeps going af...
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You did do the right thing by telling her, its what you agreed on plus it shows you value her friendship enough to tell her instead of her finding out when its been going on for longer. Now you need to sit her down and speak to her again, saying you h...
If you feel she is chosing to spend more time with your brother and not you, or you find she is cancelling plans with you, or only wanting to see you because he is around, then tell her how you feel. She is prob just doing the whole "im falling for thi...
I think its in your head, he was firstly dry humping you becos he was horny. Then he pulled it out and just wanted some realise becos he was probably hard, but him rubbing it on you and you still having your clothes on wouldnt have done anything to you...
Get him to get treatment for the STD, and wait till it clears. If its uncurable, then use condoms and dont give him oral sex becos you will get it in your mouth.
Talk to her about it first ask if she is comfortable and ready for that step first, after her response take it from there.
Id say, talk to them. Have lunch with them and maturely ask them why they have been hanging out and not inviting you when you invited them both for a sleep over and see what they say. Being honest and upfront is much appreciated and you will get the re...
depends why you broke up!
That is a typical sign that you are spending to much time together and need some time apart, or spend less time together. when you are together a lot, you tend to get on each others nerves, so maybe you need to spend some time with friends, or alone ti...
First thing you have to do to encourage him, is give up the pot yourself. If he sees you can do it, he may get the courage. Then you have to talk to him when he is straight and express how upset you are watching him go through this and do this to hi...
Metalheads are simply people, who love metal music and dress darker to emphasis that, yes most times its mistaken for gothic but oh well. They look similar, but gothic goes a lot deeper than someone who just loves listening to metal music.
There are a few things you need to think about. 1. If you liked him 1st, then told her, then she started talking non stop about him, is she really your best friend? can you really trust her around guys? eventually if you get a boyfriend can you trus...
If he dumped you to be on his own he wouldnt have gone out with someone else so in my opinion that was rubbish. Dont trust him right away, if he wants you he will do everything he can to get you again. dont make it easy for him, he dumped you once alre...
move on...he didnt ask you out he asked someone else out so why should you wait for something that may neva happen. move on and make him work for it if he really wants you.
she is only 7, weird things enter childrens minds when they are young, she obviously doesnt mean it. She is probably going thru a phase and will snap out of it. Just dont encourage her when she says things like that and try changing the subject. she wi...
if you are on the pill you should take it every single day around the same time to avoid the majority of the chance of becoming pregnant. But there is always a chance of becoming pregnant esp if you miss pills or let the guy go inside your vagina when ...
those answers are not needed here tacoputa4! im sorry you are going thru such a hard time and sorry for your boyfriend. Unfortunetly sometimes being gay isnt accepted as well as it should be, in my opinio if a person is happy and not harming anyone ...
You broke his trust! you broke up with him so he is going to find it hard to trust you again not to leave so he doesnt want to get to close. If you want to win him back you have to be patient, go to see him when he is ok with it becos if you go and you...
Every person acts differently when under the influence of something. Whether that be drugs or alcohol. If they are your friends you should know that by now and know what kind of "drunk" they are, becos you have the emotional drunks, the flirty drunks a...
why dont you just call the doctors office right now and find out!
fair questions. Your boyfriend sounds like one of the good patient types that wont rush you so thats a good sign you got yourself a good guy. When he keeps asking if you are ok...maybe say babe...im ok you dont have to keep asking trust me...it feel...
you be upfront and honest and tell them gently when you can sense they are in a good mood.
be honest. tell her exactly that, that she is a wonderful girl and she will find some guy to make her happy but it just isnt you. Dont be mean or say anything about other girls becos she will ask "is there someone else" spare her feelings and say no ev...
ok there are a few things you need to think about before you consider any of this. 1. Think about yourself, YOU, not you and him. Are you ready? your 19, just out of school. He is 28 and has already gone threw his youthful years, built his own compa...
need more info. Did he just talk? did he flirt? did he sound interested in her? or was it just mates? what was his 1st offense? if thsi why you broke up? all that.
if you like her and she likes you then be together, if they are really your mates they will get over themselves and realise their mate is happy and found a girlfriend. Tell them to mind their own business and let you be happy.
If this girl has been with you for 5 months and hasnt bothered kissing you, she isnt that into you and is just keeping you there. You prob feel like just another one of her mates and its ridiculous and she cant even give you a valid reason. Obviously s...
what? you shouldnt be messing around with married men from the start! you got yourself in this, get yourself out!
Whether he does or doesnt, he is old enough to know nothing further can happen in your relationship. You are cousins. It ok to have a crush on him, but eventually it will end. You can be close, but when it starts to get uncomfortable with lots of conse...
You grow up. Your only 13 and shouldnt be stressing to get bigger, because most likely, you'll turn 18 and want smaller boobs and butt so dont stress about things so young. Just wait till you grow and your body expands by itself, they will grow, you...
He only feels threatened by him becos you made him feel insecure. Now you gotta deal with it. The only way he'll be able to ease up and forget about this other guy is if you stop talking about him, dont pay any attention to him, and your boyfriend star...
You are 19, you can make this choice whether your parents agree or not. Becos your sister was their 1st child and the 1st to ask this stuff, unfortunetly the oldest child cops all the yelling and over-protectiveness. (I know becos im the oldest and...
as long as you actually babysit and not get caught up in your boyfriend you forget about the kid/kids. And dont be doing anything naughty infront of them either.
Its a horrible situation when your boyfriend and best friend dont get along. But at the end of the day, its not about choosing. They should both love you enough to realise you love them both, and should not make you chose anyone. So if they bring th...
No you shouldnt. It is normal when we are young to have a crush on a cousin. Taking things further is wrong tho, you will get over it eventually. But you should not be touching anyone, ANYONE! without their consent. She will prob be very mad you touch...
Im sorry to hear your boyfriend is in jail but he is there for a reason. The only way you can cope is if you keep yourself busy. It would help to know how long he is in there for and how long you have to wait. But if you are commited and willing to ...