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  • How early can you get pregnancy symptoms?
    The very earliest is usually about two weeks. Don't rely on symptoms if you are wondering if you are pregnant though. The only way to know if you are pregnant is to take a pregnancy test.

  • Why doesn't sex feel good?
    If you want to get the most out of intercourse, make sure you are relaxed and well lubricated. Most women enjoy from clitoral stimulation the most. So you could try stimulating your clitoris during intercourse. You could also talk to your ob...

  • Should I wait for my boyfriend who is in jail?
    It's up to you. Do you think he is worth waiting for? Do you think you and your daughter would be better off with him or without him?

  • How do I give a handjob to my boyfriend? (100.00%)
    There no fail-proof tips. Anyone who claims that there are is pulling your leg. Just like with anything sexual, there are no rules. That means, if it's legal, anything goes. Certain people like it fast, others like it slow. Some like it in one pos...

  • What if I'm pregnant and he leaves me for his ex?
    Well, first just worry about whether or not you are pregnant. Make sure you are staying healthy and using protection. If he gets back together with her, so be it. Pregnant or not, your life will not be over if he gets back together with her. If...

  • Can a pap smear tell if you're having sex?
    A pap smear checks for cervical cancer. I believe the doctor would only know if a girl was having intercourse if she recently had unprotected intercourse. I have heard that they can see the sperm after the pap when they look more closely at the cerv...

  • Where can I work?
    If you're still in school, you could ask someone there for advice. Depending on where you live, you might not even be able to work legally. If you can legally work where you live, you might need your parents to sign paperwork saying that it is all ri...

  • How can I start to use tampons before this trip?
    Pads don't usually do well in the water. Tampons can take some time to get used to. I would suggest getting some and practicing. It took me a while when I first started using them too. You can practice putting them in even if you don't have your pe...

  • Should I get my lip pierced behind my Dad's back?
    I wouldn't do it behind his back. He'll still see it. I suggest waiting. Wait until you're an adult and not living with him anymore. Then you can do what you want.

  • What if I'm freaking out about him touching me? (100.00%)
    Having large lips is common. It's nothing to worry about. However, you might want to hold off on doing anything sexual until you feel comfortable with your body. If you're uncomfortable and tense, that means you probably wouldn't enjoy yourself as m...

  • Which guy should I choose? (100.00%)
    If you don't like the first guy, don't date him. Why date someone you don't like? Sure, most people don't like to turn someone down and hurt their feelings, but sometimes it needs to be done. We can't say "yes" to everyone. You can do your best to ...

  • Why can't convicted felons ever find work?
    You're right, the punishment isn't over when a person gets out of jail or prison. You're also right that that can create more problems since ex-cons might be tempted to turn to theft or robbery in an attempt to live if they can't find a job. Howe...

  • How can I lose weight before school starts?
    Your goal should be to be healthy. Losing weight just for the sake of losing weight is superficial and can even be dangerous. So let's look at what you could do to be healthier. 1. Eat about six small meals a day. This keeps your metabolism going...

  • Should I worry that my 7-year-old is hitting puberty?
    Kids are going through puberty at younger and younger ages. So yes, you might want to have a bit of "the talk." You don't get have to get too much into the "where babies come from" part if you don't want to, but I think it would probably be a good id...

  • How can I get rid of hickeys fast?
    Usually, you just have to wait for them to go away on their own. Most people use makeup to cover it, or wear their hair down, or wear a shirt with a high collar, a choker necklace, or a scarf.

  • At what age should I start seeing an OB-GYN?
    The answer might vary a bit depending on who you ask, but most people seem to agree that girls should go when they become sexually active or turn 18, whatever happens first.

  • Could I be pregnant or am I overreacting?
    You would not be feeling early pregnancy symptoms this fast, so you don't have to worry that your pain might be a sign of pregnancy. If you're still feeling pain in a few days, you could make an appointment with your ob-gyn.

  • What are the different types of birth control? (100.00%)
    There are many forms of birth control. Condoms provide pregnancy and STD protection. Other methods just provide pregnancy protection. Male latex condoms and the pill are the most common. However, there are also -spermicides (not too reliable ...

  • How can I fix our relationship?
    Talk to her about it. If she knows what you are thinking and feeling, she's more likely to understand and accept you and your behavior. From there, it's something you two could work on together.

  • Can a girl get another girl pregnant? (100.00%)
    No, a girl cannot get another girl pregnant without using modern science. If you don't know how pregnancy and the human body works, you might want to hold off on the sexual stuff until you know more. It's pretty important to know this stuff befor...

  • What's the best way to get pregnant?
    The best way to get pregnant is to have intercourse when you are ovulating. You should also take your prenatal vitamins and go to your ob-gyn checkups. Yes, some women to have some cramping.

  • Could I be pregnant without even knowing?
    It's possible you are pregnant if you are having intercourse. However, if you have taken pregnancy tests that came out negative, there is a good chance you're not. Irregular periods are not uncommon, but you should definitely see an ob-gyn just t...

  • When can I start wearing tampons?
    You can wear tampons when you start your period, as the other poster said. Tampons have nothing to do with age or virginity.

  • Is sperm from a 15-year-old strong enough to get me pregnant?
    Yes, a 15 year old is capable of impregnating someone. Yes, if you two had intercourse, then you certainly could be pregnant. That is where babies come from after all. If your period is late, you can take a pregnancy test. That's the only w...

  • Why does it hurt so bad at this point?
    It could be your hymen, but probably not. Many people think the hymen is located far inside a woman and only the male genitals can break it. That's not the case though. The hymen is actually part of the external female genitalia. So it's outsi...

  • How do you give a handjob?
    There is no right or wrong way to do it. People do it in all kinds of different ways because people like different things and different stimulation. The only way to be sure to please your partner is to experiment with him and ask him what he likes be...

  • What can a girl use to please herself?
    Don't try to put anything into your body that was not made to go there unless your ob-gyn told you it is safe. Sometimes people try to get creative, only to end up with irritation or cuts. Fingers are usually your safest bet. Experiment and see wh...

  • Does it hurt to lose your virginity?
    It often does hurt a girl's first time, but it shouldn't. Confused? Intercourse should never hurt you. It's what your body is made for. However, a lot of first-timers don't know what they are doing. If you don't know what you're doing, you're mo...

  • Would my mother be better off without me?
    You sound just fine to me. Staying up late and sleeping in does not make you lazy. People have different sleep patterns, and that's ok. That's great that you are going to college and looking for a job. You certainly don't sound like a failure to me...

  • How can I increase my metabolism? (100.00%)
    Instead of the traditional three meals a day, you should be eating six small meals. That keeps your metabolism going fast throughout the day. Never try to starve yourself. That only makes your metabolism slow down even more.

  • Can I get pregnant even if I was on top? (100.00%)
    Of course you can. That's where babies come from after all. If you don't want to get pregnant, you'll have to use birth control.

  • Are lip piercings on girls sexy or not?
    Men are people, not clones. That means they all like different things. Some of them will be turned on by a lip piercing, some won't. Some like blond hair, some don't. Some like big women, some don't. It's like that with pretty much everything.

  • Why is he still flirting with me after dumping me?
    The only way to know for sure what he is thinking is to ask him. Don't waste your time trying to analyze every move he makes. Like angel said, he broke up with you. If he liked you that, he wouldn't have done that to begin with. I say let him go.

  • Should girls with small breasts use padded bathing suits?
    I would go without the padding. I can't imagine why it would be necessary.

  • Can you catch Chlamydia from saliva?
    No, you cannot get chlamydia from sharing drinks. Chlamydia is sexually transmitted. The only other way to get chlamydia is to be born with it if your mother had it when she was pregnant.

  • Is my boyfriend cheating on me with his ex?
    There's no way you can know for sure unless you actually walk in on them and see it for yourself. Sadly, people lie. So either she is lying about it, or he is. Personally, I would say the guy sounds like trouble. How old are you two? If you're...

  • How do you make out?
    Ask her what she likes. People like different things. There are many options, but not everyone likes every single one of them. You could also just experiment and see what she seems to respond to the most.

  • Why is my girlfriend's period so late? (100.00%)
    That's good that you're using protection. You're right that stress can make a period late. Diet can also be a factor. Irregular periods for no apparent are also not uncommon. If she is concerned about possibly being pregnant, she can take ...

  • How do I deal with my girlfriend's Mom who hates me?
    Can you give us more information? Do you know exactly why she thinks you are bad? What have you tried in your effort to win her over?

  • Why can't my boyfriend see the biggest hints? (100.00%)
    "Hints" are pretty vague by definition. Someone might be flirting with you, but you find out later that they already have a partner. Or maybe you find out they are homosexual when you were hoping they were heterosexual or vice versa. Or maybe they s...

  • Why are guys so slow? (50.00%)
    You're stereotyping a lot here. :P Like you said, not all guys are slow. Not all guys like the chase, and not all women want honesty, loyalty, and respect! Most people, male or female, are not mind readers. That means they probably don't know ...

  • Can I be pregnant and how do I find out?
    Yes, you certainly could be pregnant. Any time you have intercourse, the possibility of pregnancy is there. If you are not using protection (the pull out method doesn't really count), then obviously, your chances of getting pregnant will be even grea...

  • Should I call my ex when he treated me so badly?
    We can't tell you what he's thinking. If you're curious to know what's going on, you could give him a call and ask. However, I am not sure I would bother if I were you. You think he treated you really bad, so I would say let him go. It doesn't even...

  • How do I give a handjob?
    There is no one right way to do it, and there isn't really a wrong way to do it. Different people like different things. Some like it hard, some like it slow. If you want to know how to please your partner, all you can do is experiment or talk to yo...

  • How can we go to the next level if we're shy?
    Talk to him about it. If you both talk about how shy you are, it should relieve some tension. Also keep in mind though, if you're really nervous about doing anything intimate, it could be a sign that you're not quite ready. Never force yourself. Ma...

  • Why is my girlfriend's period so late? (100.00%)
    There's a good chance that she is not pregnant if you have not had intercourse since her last period. However, it's not a guarantee since some women actually do get one or more period in early pregnancy. Since she is so late, she can take a pregnancy...

  • Does my ex-girlfriend want to get back together?
    We are not mind readers, so we can't tell you what she's thinking! :) Maybe she wants to get back together, or maybe she is just angry and wants to pick a fight with you. We don't know. If you want to know, you'll have to ask her about it.

  • Is there a chance that I'm pregnant if I got my period? (100.00%)
    Some women actually do get their period during early pregnancy, so having a period is not a guarantee that someone is not pregnant.

  • What is the chance of pregnancy if...
    The failure rate for condoms with typical use is 15%. That means after one year of using condoms, 15 out of 100 of your average couples will become pregnant. If you use condoms perfectly, then they are more effective. We can't really tell you what...

  • How can I find out if I'm pregnant?
    The only way to know is to take a pregnancy test. Most pregnancy tests say you can test as early as the first day of your missed period. If it comes out negative, and you still don't have a period a week after that, then you can test again. After th...

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