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You cannot just "become anorexic." Anorexia is a life threatening disease. It is not something healthy people become. Anorexic people need immediate professional help before they die or do permanent damage to their body. If you want to lose weigh...
Yeah, that's just the way the underwear is, always trying to go up your butt. Some women don't mind it, others hate it.
Honey comes from bees. Bread is made from wheat and grains, but you have to check the ingredients to make sure there is no butter, milk, or eggs in it. If you are a vegan, losing weight should not be a problem for you. The vegan diet is made up...
People get their periods at different times. It's not a big deal, and it does not matter. It is not related to how mature you are mentally. You'll get it when your body is ready to get it. It's not like it's a fun thing anyway, so there's certainly...
Are you talking about sexual assault? Well, if you say "no," and they keep going, then it is a sexual assault, even if it does not get to the point of penetration by the penis.
Yes, pre-ejaculate can contain enough sperm to impregnate you, so whether he ejaculated in you or not is irrelevant. What do you mean you are "unbroken"? Do you mean your hymen is intact? Hymens have nothing to do with virginity or pregnancy. ...
If it is over, then good riddance to her. Don't you dare feel guilty or like you did anything wrong! It sounds like she reacted in a really awful way when you were going through a tough time. She does not sound like a good partner. A good partner i...
Ask her for it. That's the only way to get it. If you are trying to sneak around and get it behind her back without her knowing, then I would suggest considering if this is a relationship that you really even want to be in. If you're trying to s...
You cannot stay an anorexic and live. Anorexia is a life threatening illness. If you suspect you have an eating disorder, seek help immediately. Hopefully you have not done permanent damage to your body yet.
If you want to learn more about hymens, check out this site: "Many people are under the impression that the hymen is located within the v*gina. It is not. It’s a mucous membrane that is part of the vulva, the external genital organs. It’s located ou...
Actually, yes you can tear your own hymen. Hymens often tear from fingers and tampons. Many people think the hymen is far inside the v*gina and only very long objects can tear it, but that is not the case. The hymen is actually part of the external ...
It sounds like something she should let the doctor know. She could call her doctor and tell him how long her period lasted and ask if that amount of time is normal considering her situation and medication. The average period lasts about three to five...
If you are sexually active, then yes, you could be pregnant. Most women do not get their period when they are pregnant, but some actually do. So the only way to know is to take a pregnancy test or visit your ob-gyn. A late period could be due to...
I agree with angel. If you have to ask us, you might not be ready. We're not mind readers, so we can't tell you what she likes. Women are all different. We like different things, so there isn't a right or wrong way to do anything sexual. B...
We can't give you an exact percentage or anything since it depends on too many factors, but it's certainly possible when you don't use any protection at all. All you can do now is take a test and be more careful in the future.
It's not hot in my opinion. I hate them. It's all a matter of preference.
Why shouldn't a girl ask a guy out? Are you living in 1940? :P That's just silly and sexist. If you want to ask him out, do it! You're perfectly capable of asking someone out. Having a v*gina or not having v*gina isn't even relevant! Good lu...
We cannot make these decisions for you. It's your choice, not ours. We're not the ones wearing it. If you're this unsure, buy neither or buy both.
Do whatever you want with it. There are no rules here. Different people do it different ways.
They usually don't go away. That's just the way the human body is. We grow and get stretch marks. Most people have them. It's nothing to be embarrassed about. Stretch marks certainly should not be controlling your life. You have to realize that y...
We can't read this guy's mind. If you want to know what's going on, talk to him.
If you're nervous and need us to talk you through it, take it as a sign that you are not ready. When people are ready, they are calm. They communicate with their partner, not with us. They ask their partner what they should do and what he or she lik...
Of course you can. You can tear your hymen any time. It usually tears sometime in childhood or puberty. Hymens usually tear long before a girl has s*x from things such as mast*rbation, tampons, and even running and jumping. There's usually little o...
It might vary by state, but I have never heard of anyone registering a cat. Your cat does not have to go the vet, but it's certainly recommended, especially if the cat goes outside. There are some diseases that cats can get that have no cure yet,...
Buy whatever you want. It's up to you.
Nothing short of surgery that I know of. Personally, I wouldn't worry about. People come in all shapes and sizes. No big deal.
Yeah, no harm in going to an ob-gyn for a checkup. It's tough for us to say what the bumps might be over the internet. Some bumps down there are normal, while others aren't.
I think you know the answer to your question. Dating someone to get back at an ex is very immature and childish. Who cares how good looking this guy is? That's not exactly what you should be looking for in a partner. If he's a bad kid, let him go.
There's no right or wrong way to do it. People do it in different ways. You'll just have to experiment and find your own style when you are ready to. If you're really nervous, take it as a sign that you are not ready yet.
Ask him if he wants a long distance relationship. If he is interested, it's possible.
He said he does not want to date you and only wants a sexual relationship, right? Then that's what you should expect for the time being, nothing more, nothing less. Maybe it could develop into something more, but we can't say since we don't know what...
No, you can never get your virginity back. People are no longer virgins once they have s*x. No surgery can undo the past and make it so that s*x did not happen. Therefore, surgery has nothing to do with virginity or time travel. There is little...
I think many people are seriously uneducated. The examples you gave are actually not that bad considering some of the stuff that is out there. :P I have seen some posts where I honestly could not even understand what the person was trying to type.
Of course she could get pregnant. Pregnancy is always a possibility when people have s*x. No method of birth control is 100% effective. That means even if you use the protection as intended, she could still get pregnant. When you use protection as ...
I agree with angel. Even if your girlfriend got pregnant, she would not show signs of it in a couple of days. If you are using protection as intended, chance are she will not get pregnant. However, if you two are not using protection, you should...
Sometimes trimming or shaving can be extremely itchy. However, if you did not use protection, you should both get tested for STDs, and she should get a pregnancy test. Most people with some of the most common STDs have no symptoms at all. In...
Yeah, the word filter is a little wonky right now. Hopefully this won't last much longer. Last I checked, I believe s*x, mast*urbation, r*pe, and v*gina were all banned.
If you're this nervous about it, you might not be ready. Being ready means being able to experiment with your partner. People like different things in bed, so we really cannot tell you what he will or will not like. You'll have to either have him te...
If you're sexually active, you should already be seeing an ob-gyn and on birth control. If you're using your birth control as intended, then there's a good chance you're not pregnant. However, if you just want to ease your mind, you can pick up a pre...
If you're not ready to talk about this with her and experiment with her, then you're not ready to actually do it. We can't give you tips because we don't know what she will like. Girls are not clones. We don't all like the same thing. So when y...
Yes, it is bad to have an eating disorder. Eating disorders are life threatening illnesses. Your body needs food. If it does not get it, you die. That's what starvation is. It's not a fun way to die either. People with eating disorders often get ...
A lot of it is genetics and diet. So if your genes just aren't up for it, you might not be able to get a big butt no matter what you do.
Try walking. If your back hurts when you walk, try a back brace, cane, or heating pad. Also make sure you're eating healthy food, like fruits and vegetables. Drink plenty of water too.
Shaving down there does increase your chances of getting an infection whether you shave up or down. You're better off leaving the hair alone or just trimming it.
That's a chance we all take. I hit on a guy once who turned out to be homosexual (I am a heterosexual female). We just never know for sure.
It sounds like you should talk to a therapist about this. What happened before was not your fault. It was not your choice, and it has nothing to do with your current partner. So when you are with your current partner, keep in mind how different th...
The options are keeping the baby, letting a family member adopt it, letting a stranger adopt through an adoption agency, or abortion. She could go to Planned Parenthood to talk about her options. They would be able to help her with whatever she decid...
It sounds like she is down about something. If she wanted to keep it to herself, she would have kept it to herself rather than posting it on the internet! So that means there's a good chance that she does want someone to ask her what's going on so sh...
Talk to your ob-gyn about it. She would be able to tell you what is best for you and safest for your baby.
Talk to your ob-gyn about it. You're supposed to see one now that you are sexually active anyway. She would be able to see if everything looks ok, give you a pregnancy test, and give you some birth control.