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Like bphil said, it does not matter. Why would it? Who would want to date a guy who cared that much about breast size anyway? Many women are a 34a.
That's great that you're aware of pre-ejaculate and know that it can cause pregnancy. You can go to Planned Parenthood. They would be able to give you a pregnancy test, birth control, and an abortion if you end up wanting one. You do not need your...
No, tongue size does not matter. If you both want to try an*l play, then go for it.
Well, the obvious answer is that your diet is garbage. Of course your weight isn't going to be healthy when you eat like that. Starving yourself just makes your body think it is dying.. That means your body will go into starvation mode, and you burn...
It's ok to want to experiment sexually. People like different things. However, if your girlfriend isn't even comfortable talking to her friends about it, she probably isn't really comfortable enough with the idea to actually do it. Maybe she will be...
I agree with angel. If you can't even talk to him, then I think you already know what kind of relationship you have.
Well, I can tell you one thing, it probably would not be a very strong relationship if you're going around calling her a "slut."
If you're sexually active, you should be seeing an ob-gyn anyway. All girls are supposed to see one when they become sexually active. So ask your ob-gyn if everything looks ok and have her do a pregnancy test. Bleeding during sexual activity is com...
Depo really is not a good option, even if she was open to taking birth control. The Depo shot is very dangerous. The FDA does not recommend Depo for teens (which our original poster said she is) or young adults. The FDA also does not recommend anyon...
Having a baby can stretch the vagina, having sex will not. Even huge penises are not the size of your average newborn baby. How tight or loose the vagina feels may change temporarily though. The vagina expands when a woman is in the mood. If sh...
Sounds like a pimple. You can talk to an ob-gyn if it does not go away on its own.
I agree with the others, sounds like it just might be some blood and discharge. Probably nothing to worry about, but let your ob-gyn know about it just in case. Did you have a checkup after the abortion?
It's certainly possible that she is gay or bisexual but denies it. Tough to say since we can't read her mind! If you really want answers, your best bet would be to talk to her about it.
If you're not into it, and he is breaking your bones, I would suggest getting out of the relationship altogether. He sounds dangerous and abusive. Bondage is not about abusing an unwilling partner.
I agree with the other posters. Don't let other people shape your opinion and beliefs. People interpret the Bible in a wide variety of ways. If you believe in God, you can still mast*rbate and look at p*rnography. Masturbation is actually good ...
The law refers to sexual activity, not just dating. So you two can date all you want as long as you are not sexually active. If you were to become sexually active any time soon, it would be a felony. That being said, I cannot imagine what an 18 ye...
Sika and monica are right. Vitamins don't make you get pregnant. They just make birth defects less likely to occur. That's great that you want to take vitamins for your baby, but it sounds like you should learn more about prenatal development befo...
Germs are easily passed on through kissing. So you could get mono and various other things like colds and the flu. However, as has already been pointed out, just because he has kissed many people does not mean he necessarily has anything. Someone...
Breast size is largely genetic. Larger breasts don't really do anything substantial anyway, so there is no logical reason to want to change your breast size. Nothing is wrong with being a 34A.
More women orgasm through oral sex than any other way, so that is not unusual at all. For the bleeding, you can try a water-based lubricant. Bleeding is sometimes a result of tears in the vagina from being too dry. If that does not take care of th...
I don't blame him. I would not want to pee in front of other people either. That's just creepy. Let him use the stall if he wants to.
Of course it's not wrong. People have sex drives. That's normal.
If you're curious about your hymen, you can simply grab a mirror and look at it! It's probably torn by now. Most girls tear their hymen in childhood or around puberty from tampons, fingers, running, etc. It really does not matter and should not co...
That's an opinion. Personally, I would not call someone a slut for getting pregnant at 14. I would say that they might be irresponsible, however, since most 14 year olds are certainly not capable of caring for and raising a child.
There's no right or wrong way to have oral sex. People like different things in bed. If you're not comfortable experimenting with someone or asking them what they like, then I would not suggest doing anything sexual with them.
Implantation bleeding usually just lasts a day or two at most, not fourteen days. If you think you are pregnant and are still spotting that much, make sure you talk to your ob-gyn about it.
Everyone has flaws and most couples argue at least a little. However, if you're feeling unsure or like things just aren't quite right, then I would not suggest getting married anytime soon.
People and relationships move at different paces. Don't feel like you have to do something just because other people are. Try talking to your girlfriend about it. Ask her what she wants to do and what she would feel comfortable with. Don't worry ab...
Take a pregnancy test. That's the only way to know.
The only way to know is to take a pregnancy test. Make sure you are using protection every single time.
No, that's not even remotely true. The hymen has nothing to do with pregnancy. If you want to learn about hymens, read this: http://www.coolnurse.com/hymen.htm
Hymens have nothing to do with sex or virginity. Most girls tear or stretch their hymen in childhood or around puberty from fingers, tampons, and even running and jumping. If you had sex, you are not a virgin whether your hymen is intact or not. ...
Sounds normal to me.
Are you trying to get us to do your homework for you? :P I have not read the book. If you want to tell us a bit about it, we might be able to brainstorm with you a bit though.
Before having sex you have to: -Know about reproductive anatomy -Know about your birth control options -Have at least one form of birth control that you know how to use -Know about STDs and how they are transmitted -Have a plan for what you woul...
If you want to know about the state of her hymen, simply look at it. I can't imagine why it would matter what her hymen looks like though. The hymen serves no purpose and absolutely is not an indicator of sexual activity since many girls tear or ...
If you're embarrassed, then it means you are not ready. When you are ready, you will feel comfortable with your partner. You will be able to talk to him and say things like, "I have never done this before," or "Let me know what feels good and what do...
Are you talking about how long implantation bleeding would last? Implantation bleeding is usually fairly light and often just lasts a day or two.
The vagina stays the same before and after sex. So the only way to know about her sexual history is to ask her. If you can't trust her answer, then you should not be married to her to begin with.
I don't blame him for wanting an abortion. At 15 and 17, there is no way you two can raise a child properly. It would be extremely selfish to have a child at that age. I hope you are using protection. Just because he lives thirty minutes away do...
Most women do not get their period when they are pregnant, but some actually do. So the only way to know would be to take a pregnancy test.
The vagina is supposed to have a smell to it. However, if you notice your smell is very strong or foul, check with your ob-gyn just in case as that can be a sign of infection.
That is just a myth. It was even on Mythbusters. :)
No, I do not think you should be jealous. Some people stay friends with their ex's. I think it would be absurd to say that he can't have female friends just because he is dating you.
Just ask her. If you can't even talk to her about her body, then it means you probably shouldn't be touching it yet.
No way. Sex should never hurt. Anyone who tells you that sex should hurt doesn't know anything about reproductive anatomy. When sex hurts, it means something is not quite right. Pain during sex is common, but that does not mean it is normal or ...
It is possible for girls to pregnant before, during, and after their period. It is possible for a girl to get pregnant from pre-ejaculate. The only way to know is to have her take a test.
Statutory rape refers to sex, not dating. So you can date whomever you want without the law getting involved as long as there is no sex. The law gets involved when the sex starts. Statutory rape laws vary by state. So you would have to look into ...
There's no right or wrong way to do it. Girls like different things. So you'll just have to experiment or ask her what she likes.
You cannot tell if you are pregnant or not based on symptoms. The symptoms of early pregnancy are the same as the symptoms for dozens of others things. The only way to know is to take a test.