How to control the love I have for my best friend?
I think you need to tell him, but don't just dive right into it and make everything awkward between you two. You could say something like "I think I really like you- and it's becoming really hard for me to see you with other girls, so I'd like to spend...
To tell or not to tell about my sister's infidelity?
I think what your sister did was wrong- and she has no excuse just because she "couldn't control herself"! However, it's her business and SHE needs to fix this problem. Let her make her own mistakes, and you can learn from them without interfering in h...
How can I get a boyfriend already?(100.00%)
First off: you're never going to get anywhere by saying "ugly, fat girls...have gone so far, even with attractive guys." Who cares about them? Who cares about what ANYONE else has done? You might, but it's not going to help you, and it'll only put more...
How can I make a lasting impression with older guys?(100.00%)
You are who you are- just because they hold you to your sister's standard, doesn't mean you have to. If you have to pretend to be someone else to get these guys to notice you, they're not worth caring about. Be yourself and be friendly, but they'll kno...
Is this guy playing me and should I bother?
This guy is messing with you- don't trust someone who tells his friends one thing and you another. Don't wait around for a guy who doesn't seem to consistently like you, you'll find a better guy soon enough. Let him go!
Does he still like me?(100.00%)
You need to tell him you are single, and don't understand his comments. Tell him you want to be friends with him and get to know him a little better, just like you hang out with other guy friends. If he blows you off, he's being immature and you should...
Why can't I have an orgasm?!(100.00%)
There is nothing wrong with you- and I know many people who have had sex at 17 and never had problems with orgasming so I don't think it has to do with age. It could be that you're putting so much pressure on yourself to reach that point, you aren't ju...
How do I make a guy horny?
One of my friends has told me about a "game" she plays with her husband, and it drives him wild. He'll take his shirt off, and then she straddles him on the couch and slowly strips, but he's not allowed to touch her. Then she will tease him, (kiss him ...
What is he really trying to say?
He might just be saying: he thought you were athletic? If PE is an athletics class, and he thought you were athletic, maybe he'd have thought you liked it. Don't read so much into it!
What if I'm not smart enough for him?(100.00%)
Remember everyone is smart in their own ways, which means there are many many different kinds of "smart". So, if he doesn't see the skills you have, it means he's probably not right for you. You'll find someone else, just be yourself.
Why wasn't oral sex as amazing as everyone says?
By handjob, you mean fingering right pitaime?
My friends have told me they love oral, it's amazing and blissful and great...I think the idea of it is disgusting :/ It's not that there's anything wrong with you, you just may not like it- everyone's d...
Does no response to my email mean I'm rejected?(100.00%)
Yes, it could mean he just isn't interested. No biggie, you can move on- there are plenty of other guys out there. Who knows, he may just not have received the email yet, or could right you back in a few days- but I wouldn't wait around to find out for...
If this is Postpartum Depression, how can I get help?
Post-partum depression is best indicated, usually, by a high level of fatigue that follows giving birth. If you feel too exhausted to do much of anything except for take care of your daughter (which I'm sure gets tiring at times as well) you could hav...
Why am I hearing bad things from my boyfriend's friends?
I think it sounds like you need to talk to him when he gets home. When he's home, ask him why his best friend and your friends would be telling you that. Ask him about it and see what he says. If all you two do when you're together is hook up- and that...
What are usual turn on spots for guys?
It's different for every guy...they can't really figure it out till they've got someone with them to experiment.
Often though, guys' will have "hot spots" on their neck, thighs, chest, and hips.
How come I can't get a girlfriend?
It always confuses me when people say they are "looking for" a girlfriend/boyfriend. In my opinion, you can't really try so hard to be LOOKING for one. Dating, I suppose, is a way of looking for a relationship- but if you're putting a lot of pressure o...
Should I tell my ex I still have feelings for him?(0.00%)
I don't want to sound harsh, but I really think he's just trying to make you jealous or get you riled up about the fact that he's asking for other girl's numbers...which is weird and immature but there you go. Whatever reason he's calling you for, it s...
Do girls like guys like me?
Some girls might- most girls do want a guy who is open to talking to them and expressing his feelings. Something like liking cats is a little specific, some girls may care or some girls might not- I know I am terrified of cats, but my boyfriend likes ...
Will sugar destroy the engine of a car?
Why do you want to destroy the engine of a car? I ask because I remember your question about getting revenge on your girlfriend's brother by ruining his car in some way...I hope that's not why you're asking :/
Should I try anal sex?(100.00%)
I want you to know that anal sex can cause some serious issues- whether it is the first time or the twentieth time. A person I know had anal sex and ended up with a serious infection in her pelvic area, and she later said it truly wasn't worth it- it ...
How can I regulate my period without birth control?
The reason why your friend was put on birth control is because the pill regulates the hormones that give you your periods, giving you a more predictable and controlled cycle.
If you go to your doctor and this is what they suggest, your mother won't g...
How can I fix this depression?
Wow, I really feel for you.
Sweetheart, you've got some really great friends- they came after you and tried to protect you over and over and over again, even after you were rough with them or tried to shake them off. They obviously really care about ...
How can I get back at my girlfriend's immature brother?(100.00%)
I know vengeance may seem like the best way to solve your solution- but are you not thinking about your girlfriend who you say you're crazy about? How do you think she would feel about you doing something like that to her brother? And, wouldn't it sh...
How do I know if a girl masturbates?
You can't know, she'll tell you if she wants to- otherwise it's something only she (or anyone else who would have seen her masturbating) would know. No signs or hints, sorry!
Why do my parents have to bother me when I am sleeping?
You wantto be treated like an adult, so why don't you act like one? Sorry for the harsh words, but what's the use in complaining about your situation instead of doing something to change it? This isn't a very mature approach on the situation. Now, of ...
How can I exercise my stomach without hurting my neck?
I really think that with serious damage or restrictions- you should see a physical therapist. Talk to your doctor, because some exercises people may give you might not feel like they're doing anything to your neck but could actually harm you. A physica...
Have you ever had feelings for husband's best friend?(100.00%)
Trust me, women have urges and needs and fantasies- they can drive us crazy but it doesn't mean we should act upon them. Do you love your husband? It certainly sounds like you do, maybe this guy exudes something that you wish your husband had, or you ...
Is Over-the-Counter medicine okay when I'm pregnant?
You should always, always ask your doctor before using any products when you're pregnant- it usually says so on the bottle or tube or whatever. If you go to a pharmacy, the pharmacist may be able to help you and assist you in what it is you should do. ...
do I have to choose
If this guy can move so quickly from your friend to you, then he sounds like a bit of a player. Is that the kind of guy you want to be with? Even if he's not a player, he obviously can change his mind pretty quickly. I would never, ever let a guy come...
I love her.
This girl kinda sounds like a jerk, if that's how she responds when you say you love her. That is, unless you've done something (or things) in the past that have caused her to lose trust in you. If you've never cheated on her, used her, hurt her badly...
How can I be thin like Barbie?(100.00%)
Barbies are fake. Fake is not pretty or sexy or beautiful, real is beautiful. You don't need to be thin or blonde or fake to look great- just be healthy. Eating healthy foods (lots of fruits and vegetables) and working out a little bit every day will k...
How do I diminish scarring?
Go to your doctor, ASAP! He/she can help you and give you better advice that you can trust- Good luck.
Is he trying to control me?
Your boyfriend is bipolar. That is tough, really really tough. At times, he is going to do things he feels like he can't control, or he will lose his temper. You need to be prepared for this, but it doesn't mean you have to take it. You need to talk to...
Do brown and black match?
I think it depends on the shade of brown, and what you're wearing it with. A pair of dark brown cordouroy (no idea how to spell that...) pants with a blank long sleeved shirt could look fine- but a light brown shirt with black pants would look pretty ...
Do you think I'm pretty?(100.00%)
The more important thing is this: why does it matter what any of us think? You need to be able to look at yourself and be happy with what you see, you deserve to love yourself! What anyone on this site says about your appearance means nothing- you are ...
Am I too young to get married?
The one little hitch in it for me is that you weren't 100% positive your boyfriend wouldn't use you, or try to marry you for sex. To me, your trust has to be completely solid if you're going to marry this person.
I admire the fact that you have so m...
Can I get pregnant with cancer?
If you had a test done which came back positive for cancer, you absolutely have to talk to your doctor about wanting to have a child. There are many complications or issues that could come up- please don't try to get pregnant without talking to your do...
Why can't I get a girl?
sassy007, what in the world does that have to do with his question...
Anyway. You should know that not all girls want (or like) being spoiled. It would drive me crazy if my boyfriend didn't have a mind of his own, or if I knew I could get him to do...
How can I show her that I'm the one?
I feel for you. My best friend actually was in a situation like that, except she was the girl who couldn't realize that a great love was right in front of her. She knew he was awesome, but she didn't think she could see him as more than a friend. He st...
Did your partner used to be a good friend?
My boyfriend and I were absolute best friends before we started dating- we think it was the right choice for us. We wanted to build up a really close friendship before anything else happened, and it's made us stronger and closer as the time goes on. It...
Whats supposed to happen here?
I don't mean to assume anything...but- well, if you're a typical guy, you've probably given yourself your own handjob before, correct? It's basically the same thing, just guiding another person to touch you in that way. If you haven't ever jacked off b...
Sex Help
Do you think she's especially nervous? If she's under pressure to feel "something" or she's afraid about something hurting, she might tense up. Try to have a little fun, don't go to far, just get her relaxed and don't worry about being too serious or t...
What does the term Chrismukkah mean?
Haha well...the only place I ever heard of it was on the show the O.C., which I no longer watch- but I doubt that was the first place the term was ever coined. It's essentially a mixed Christmas and Hannukah, like still getting a Christmas tree but als...
Why is pluto no longer considered a real planet?(100.00%)
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Best way to prevent contact lenses from drying out?
For me, it's all about the solution. When I buy the cheap stuff, my contacts dry out by the end of the day. I use Optifree Express and put eye drops in at the beginning of the day, which keeps them from drying out.
masterbaiting while asleep
Tell your girlfriend that it is not something you consciously do, but she gives you all you could possibly want. Make sure she knows you are completely satisfied with your sex life, but what you dream about when you are asleep is beyond your control fo...
liluxo's Advice page 2
I think you need to tell him, but don't just dive right into it and make everything awkward between you two. You could say something like "I think I really like you- and it's becoming really hard for me to see you with other girls, so I'd like to spend...
I think what your sister did was wrong- and she has no excuse just because she "couldn't control herself"! However, it's her business and SHE needs to fix this problem. Let her make her own mistakes, and you can learn from them without interfering in h...
First off: you're never going to get anywhere by saying "ugly, fat girls...have gone so far, even with attractive guys." Who cares about them? Who cares about what ANYONE else has done? You might, but it's not going to help you, and it'll only put more...
You are who you are- just because they hold you to your sister's standard, doesn't mean you have to. If you have to pretend to be someone else to get these guys to notice you, they're not worth caring about. Be yourself and be friendly, but they'll kno...
This guy is messing with you- don't trust someone who tells his friends one thing and you another. Don't wait around for a guy who doesn't seem to consistently like you, you'll find a better guy soon enough. Let him go!
You need to tell him you are single, and don't understand his comments. Tell him you want to be friends with him and get to know him a little better, just like you hang out with other guy friends. If he blows you off, he's being immature and you should...
There is nothing wrong with you- and I know many people who have had sex at 17 and never had problems with orgasming so I don't think it has to do with age. It could be that you're putting so much pressure on yourself to reach that point, you aren't ju...
The skin you have is the skin you have- live with it and learn to love it is my motto.
One of my friends has told me about a "game" she plays with her husband, and it drives him wild. He'll take his shirt off, and then she straddles him on the couch and slowly strips, but he's not allowed to touch her. Then she will tease him, (kiss him ...
He might just be saying: he thought you were athletic? If PE is an athletics class, and he thought you were athletic, maybe he'd have thought you liked it. Don't read so much into it!
Remember everyone is smart in their own ways, which means there are many many different kinds of "smart". So, if he doesn't see the skills you have, it means he's probably not right for you. You'll find someone else, just be yourself.
By handjob, you mean fingering right pitaime? My friends have told me they love oral, it's amazing and blissful and great...I think the idea of it is disgusting :/ It's not that there's anything wrong with you, you just may not like it- everyone's d...
Yes, it could mean he just isn't interested. No biggie, you can move on- there are plenty of other guys out there. Who knows, he may just not have received the email yet, or could right you back in a few days- but I wouldn't wait around to find out for...
You definitely need to ask your doctor about this.
Post-partum depression is best indicated, usually, by a high level of fatigue that follows giving birth. If you feel too exhausted to do much of anything except for take care of your daughter (which I'm sure gets tiring at times as well) you could hav...
I think it sounds like you need to talk to him when he gets home. When he's home, ask him why his best friend and your friends would be telling you that. Ask him about it and see what he says. If all you two do when you're together is hook up- and that...
It's different for every guy...they can't really figure it out till they've got someone with them to experiment. Often though, guys' will have "hot spots" on their neck, thighs, chest, and hips.
Yeah...masturbating does not cause sight loss.
It always confuses me when people say they are "looking for" a girlfriend/boyfriend. In my opinion, you can't really try so hard to be LOOKING for one. Dating, I suppose, is a way of looking for a relationship- but if you're putting a lot of pressure o...
I don't want to sound harsh, but I really think he's just trying to make you jealous or get you riled up about the fact that he's asking for other girl's numbers...which is weird and immature but there you go. Whatever reason he's calling you for, it s...
Some girls might- most girls do want a guy who is open to talking to them and expressing his feelings. Something like liking cats is a little specific, some girls may care or some girls might not- I know I am terrified of cats, but my boyfriend likes ...
Why do you want to destroy the engine of a car? I ask because I remember your question about getting revenge on your girlfriend's brother by ruining his car in some way...I hope that's not why you're asking :/
I want you to know that anal sex can cause some serious issues- whether it is the first time or the twentieth time. A person I know had anal sex and ended up with a serious infection in her pelvic area, and she later said it truly wasn't worth it- it ...
The reason why your friend was put on birth control is because the pill regulates the hormones that give you your periods, giving you a more predictable and controlled cycle. If you go to your doctor and this is what they suggest, your mother won't g...
Wow, I really feel for you. Sweetheart, you've got some really great friends- they came after you and tried to protect you over and over and over again, even after you were rough with them or tried to shake them off. They obviously really care about ...
I know vengeance may seem like the best way to solve your solution- but are you not thinking about your girlfriend who you say you're crazy about? How do you think she would feel about you doing something like that to her brother? And, wouldn't it sh...
You can't know, she'll tell you if she wants to- otherwise it's something only she (or anyone else who would have seen her masturbating) would know. No signs or hints, sorry!
You wantto be treated like an adult, so why don't you act like one? Sorry for the harsh words, but what's the use in complaining about your situation instead of doing something to change it? This isn't a very mature approach on the situation. Now, of ...
I really think that with serious damage or restrictions- you should see a physical therapist. Talk to your doctor, because some exercises people may give you might not feel like they're doing anything to your neck but could actually harm you. A physica...
Trust me, women have urges and needs and fantasies- they can drive us crazy but it doesn't mean we should act upon them. Do you love your husband? It certainly sounds like you do, maybe this guy exudes something that you wish your husband had, or you ...
You should always, always ask your doctor before using any products when you're pregnant- it usually says so on the bottle or tube or whatever. If you go to a pharmacy, the pharmacist may be able to help you and assist you in what it is you should do. ...
If this guy can move so quickly from your friend to you, then he sounds like a bit of a player. Is that the kind of guy you want to be with? Even if he's not a player, he obviously can change his mind pretty quickly. I would never, ever let a guy come...
This girl kinda sounds like a jerk, if that's how she responds when you say you love her. That is, unless you've done something (or things) in the past that have caused her to lose trust in you. If you've never cheated on her, used her, hurt her badly...
Barbies are fake. Fake is not pretty or sexy or beautiful, real is beautiful. You don't need to be thin or blonde or fake to look great- just be healthy. Eating healthy foods (lots of fruits and vegetables) and working out a little bit every day will k...
Go to your doctor, ASAP! He/she can help you and give you better advice that you can trust- Good luck.
Your boyfriend is bipolar. That is tough, really really tough. At times, he is going to do things he feels like he can't control, or he will lose his temper. You need to be prepared for this, but it doesn't mean you have to take it. You need to talk to...
I think it depends on the shade of brown, and what you're wearing it with. A pair of dark brown cordouroy (no idea how to spell that...) pants with a blank long sleeved shirt could look fine- but a light brown shirt with black pants would look pretty ...
The more important thing is this: why does it matter what any of us think? You need to be able to look at yourself and be happy with what you see, you deserve to love yourself! What anyone on this site says about your appearance means nothing- you are ...
The one little hitch in it for me is that you weren't 100% positive your boyfriend wouldn't use you, or try to marry you for sex. To me, your trust has to be completely solid if you're going to marry this person. I admire the fact that you have so m...
If you had a test done which came back positive for cancer, you absolutely have to talk to your doctor about wanting to have a child. There are many complications or issues that could come up- please don't try to get pregnant without talking to your do...
sassy007, what in the world does that have to do with his question... Anyway. You should know that not all girls want (or like) being spoiled. It would drive me crazy if my boyfriend didn't have a mind of his own, or if I knew I could get him to do...
I feel for you. My best friend actually was in a situation like that, except she was the girl who couldn't realize that a great love was right in front of her. She knew he was awesome, but she didn't think she could see him as more than a friend. He st...
My boyfriend and I were absolute best friends before we started dating- we think it was the right choice for us. We wanted to build up a really close friendship before anything else happened, and it's made us stronger and closer as the time goes on. It...
Red: it reminds me of passion and warmth
I don't mean to assume anything...but- well, if you're a typical guy, you've probably given yourself your own handjob before, correct? It's basically the same thing, just guiding another person to touch you in that way. If you haven't ever jacked off b...
Do you think she's especially nervous? If she's under pressure to feel "something" or she's afraid about something hurting, she might tense up. Try to have a little fun, don't go to far, just get her relaxed and don't worry about being too serious or t...
Haha well...the only place I ever heard of it was on the show the O.C., which I no longer watch- but I doubt that was the first place the term was ever coined. It's essentially a mixed Christmas and Hannukah, like still getting a Christmas tree but als...
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/5282440.stm Last Updated: Thursday, 24 August 2006, 13:34 GMT 14:34 UK E-mail this to a friend Printable version Pluto loses status as a planet Pluto was discovered in 1930 by US astronomer Clyde Tombaugh More de...
For me, it's all about the solution. When I buy the cheap stuff, my contacts dry out by the end of the day. I use Optifree Express and put eye drops in at the beginning of the day, which keeps them from drying out.
Tell your girlfriend that it is not something you consciously do, but she gives you all you could possibly want. Make sure she knows you are completely satisfied with your sex life, but what you dream about when you are asleep is beyond your control fo...