How can I even out my breasts?(100.00%)
Doctors (most of the ones I have heard speak about it, at least) tend to say that cellulite is permanent, it is impossible to completely and definitively make it go away. You can eat right and exercise, (do lots of cardio like running, swimming, biking...
How will I know if I'm in love?
A lot of people say when you love someone, you just "know", yes. But, the thing is, love can mean something different for each and every person- so how can we tell you how you'll know if we don't necessarily feel the same things you do? When you feel s...
Should I break up with my boyfriend for not caring?
Why are you dating him? I ask because I don't think you'd be noticing these things so much or consider breaking up with him so easily if you had a really strong connection with him. If you don't have much in common, and don't feel like dating him anymo...
Am I overweight?
A body mass index of 25-29.9 is generally considered overweight, 18.5-24.9 is considered normal. It sounds like you are right in between, and so you may want to consider exercising a little more and trying to get into better shape- but you don't have f...
What are these red splotches and tear on my husband's penis?(100.00%)
1) Your husband could just have irritation from the friction of intercourse, try hydrocortisone cream. He may have dermatitis, however, so he may want to consult a doctor. Just know that these splotches are not uncommon due to friction during s*x.
2...
How can I tell my boyfriend to back off about sex?(100.00%)
When you do things sexually with another person, it should be enjoyable for the BOTH of you. If your boyfriend loves you, it means he respects your need to go slowly and he will not pressure you into things you're not ready for. If he keeps up this beh...
How does the skin act as a barrier to pathogens?
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How can I get my favorite possession back from my friend?
I think MAYBE your imagination is getting the best of you- why would someone go through so much trouble to steal a poem book so that they could take poems, read them to other people, and tell them they wrote them? It sounds a little bit silly- and you ...
How can I lose weight in my thighs, breasts and stomach?
Unfortunately, you can't choose exactly where you lose FAT. You can tone to build muscle and firm up the areas you'd like, but it sounds as though you're already pretty athletic and have a lot of muscle. You can look up exercises to tone these areas in...
Does it hurt to get fingered and does it take your virginity?(100.00%)
If you're relaxed and comfortable it probably won't hurt, make sure he's gentle and goes at the pace YOU want him to. You do not lose your virginity when someone fingers you.
What does getting "felt up" mean?
Getting "felt up" in my experience tends to mean a guy "feeling" a girl, whether it's up her shirt, leg, or anything that suggests something sexual without being too serious. A lot of times a girl will say she was "felt up" by a guy meaning he did it a...
Am I wrong for leaving my boyfriend when he went to jail?(100.00%)
You made a decision based on what you need- it wasn't wrong, I think it was smart. If you truly love him, you can be there for him as a friend as he goes through this. But, make sure you give yourself the space you need to take care of yourself and you...
Did I do the right thing by ending it?(100.00%)
I know that you may want to hear that you should go back to her- and maybe in a little while, you can. But it sounds like right now what you really need is to get to know yourself and what causes you to lash out like that when you're angry- and then im...
How can I lose some weight within a month?(100.00%)
There is no magic trick to this. Eat healthy (fruits and vegetables instead of salty foods and sweets) and get some exercise in once a day. It doesn't have to be much, if you stick to it and do some cardio (running, swimming, biking) each week you'll n...
How do I finger my girlfriend?(100.00%)
You need to go slow, and ask her what she likes. Start off with one finger and then you can use more when you know she's comfortable and ready for it- just talk with her because every girl is different and she'll be able to tell you herself what she li...
Which guy should I choose?
Choose neither and wait until you're a little more mature to handle a relationship. If you're asking a web site what guy to choose then you're probably not ready for one- just be friends and see what happens. It might get a little clearer over time and...
Do my dreams mean that he is cheating on me?
It could just mean you're feeling a little insecure lately about your relationship. Why? Do you trust him? If you trust him and care for him, and you guys have a solid relationship, try to just remind yourself of that before you sleep- I really doubt y...
What do I do about my ex who still loves me?(100.00%)
You have a new boyfriend after only 3 days? Doesn't seem like you really cared for your old boyfriend, tell him it's over and if you want that you'd like to be friends. Tell him you've moved on and he should do the same because he deserves to be happy ...
Should I move away from my semi-strict parents?
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I only just saw your comment asking me to answer your question, I'm so sorry! I hope what I say can still be relevant and help you out.
Believe me, I know what it's like to disagree with your parents on something that is extremely important ...
Do girls like wrestling their boyfriends?
Just joking around and having fun with it, all the time! But the over the top aggressive kind of wrestling that 9 year old boys do? No thanks
Has anyone else gone through this guilt of existance?
I have never been through this situation, but one of my best friends was in an emotionally abusive relationship and also found it very difficult to move on. Although she did not want to be with her ex, she compared everyone to how she remembered him to...
Is this all that a blowjob is?(100.00%)
Your boyfriend sounds like he's pressuring you to do this- you don't want to be in a situation like that! To be honest, I hate giving head and my fiancee knows it, he never says I should or tries to get me to do anything I'm uncomfortable or unsure wit...
Are we too young to be married?
Maybe it's because you're too young, but maybe there are a LOT of reasons as to why you're in the situation you're in. Whether it's because you're too young, or whether it's because your husband is a jerk- your marriage is not working. It sounds as tho...
How can I get my parents to be proud of me?
Your parents are being a little harsh- ask them if they only think grades matter when it comes to being someone they can be proud of. Are you a good friend? Athlete? Artist? Dancer? Tell them you just want to be acknowledged for what you're good at too...
How do you kiss a boy?
I used to be scared of the same thing! Don't worry, it's really so much easier once you've done it once- and luckily, practice makes perfect. Turn your body towards him and lean in, and just press your lips to his (he's going to lean in too so you won'...
Should parents force talent development?
It's been said many times- passion is one of the most important keys to success. If your kids aren't into tennis, why restrict them to that one activity instead of allowing them to branch out? Branching out may actually have a greater impact when they ...
Why should I live?
Oh, and you're right, things might not get better, if you do nothing. Maybe, even if you try, things will get worse before they get better. Maybe maybe maybe. Maybe it's worth a shot. Maybe you could end up being really happy after all this crap you've...
Why should I live?
Hospitals do not just drug you up and say you're cured- I know because my brother checked himself into a hospital when he was feeling suicidal about 2 months ago. They took him to the ward for other people going through the same thing, some worse, and ...
Why should I live?
You are not a burden. One of my biggest problems, and one of the reasons why I didn't ask for help for such a long time, was the fact that I didn't think I was "worth the trouble". I figured hey, if no one's been trying to talk to me, to listen to me,...
Why should I live?
You may not think so, but you're showing clear signs of depression (they include total lack of motivation and lack of self esteem and self worth among other things). I know it sounds totally crazy, and you may be thinking hell no, they aren't going to ...
Why do taken guys need porn?(100.00%)
Not all guys are like this- I assure you. Some guys are turned on by visual images that they obviously don't get every day from their girlfriends (unless they hook up with them every day, which would be a little excessive). For girls, it's usually more...
Do girls like cut or uncut guys better?
I really don't care- if a girl is really into the guy, it doesn't matter. However, I've heard it's easier to give a blow job to a guy who's circumsized...just a thought- I don't do that sort of thing so I wouldn't know personally.
How can I make myself stand out more?
You want to stand out? I only know 2 true redheads, and I'm SO jealous of their hair. Love it, because it makes you stand out already!
Try not to think about standing out physically- be outgoing and friendly to the people around you, and guys will ...
Do guys like small breasts?
Everyone is self conscious about something- I have always had a bigger chest than the rest of my friends. It's harder to fit into the tops they can, and to not feel self conscious when guys stare. Believe me, the attention from guys may seem neat at fi...
How can I get this guy to like me back?
Don't talk to him obsessively- talk about things you have in common for a little bit each day, and then go off and do something on your own. Don't get too absorbed in trying to impress him, or he'll know you're trying too hard. Take it easy! Don't try ...
How do I know if my boyfriend really loves me?
If he's your best friend, you should be able to talk to him about it right? Just try to tell him you're curious about whether he really likes you, because you think maybe he'd just say yes to avoid hurting you. If he's really a good friend, he'll be ho...
Which type of girl is better: thin or meaty?
every guy has a different type he likes- but more often than not just being healthy is the way to go. don't do it for guys, do it for you! take care of yourself and be confident, and guys will take notice.
Should I give up my career for love?
Contemplating marriage, contemplating being the key word. You have a steady job you enjoy and a fantastic opportunity to explore it after having worked so hard for it. On the other hand, moving overseas is a big risk (if, by some chance, it does not wo...
Is there a way to make sex not hurt that bad the first time?
Sex hurts for the first time because you're not used to being opened up that wide, as well as the fact that your hymen (if you still have it) tears when you lose your virginity- which for some people hurts quite a bit. For SOME people. Remember, it may...
How can I get a boyfriend?
Your "name" is lowselfesteem1013- so clearly you don't have much confidence, but honey that's what guys are attracted to! You're not ugly! If your weight bothers you, eat healthy and exercise a little more- but at the end of the day being comfortable i...
Is there a trick to prevent bleeding your first time?(100.00%)
If you have never had sex, you could bleed- some people hardly do at all, some people bleed a lot. There's really nothing you can do about it, you can keep it from being too messy to clean up by having a towel underneath you or a sheet you don't care a...
Am I anorexic?
You are hurting yourself! Tell your parents what is going on, or your boyfriend, or whoever you can trust. You are not fat, and even if you don't feel skinny or underweight now- it's still unhealthy to lose that much weight so quickly. You could be hur...
Should I tell my niece's secret since she told mine?
I agree with what pyrochick said, two wrongs don't make a right. You should tell her you aren't going to tell her secret because you know you promised you wouldn't, and that you wished she hadn't broken her promise to you. I know you don't want to hear...
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wear SPF 50 sunscreen? any high spf sunscreen that blocks UVA and UVB rays
Doctors (most of the ones I have heard speak about it, at least) tend to say that cellulite is permanent, it is impossible to completely and definitively make it go away. You can eat right and exercise, (do lots of cardio like running, swimming, biking...
A lot of people say when you love someone, you just "know", yes. But, the thing is, love can mean something different for each and every person- so how can we tell you how you'll know if we don't necessarily feel the same things you do? When you feel s...
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Why are you dating him? I ask because I don't think you'd be noticing these things so much or consider breaking up with him so easily if you had a really strong connection with him. If you don't have much in common, and don't feel like dating him anymo...
A body mass index of 25-29.9 is generally considered overweight, 18.5-24.9 is considered normal. It sounds like you are right in between, and so you may want to consider exercising a little more and trying to get into better shape- but you don't have f...
1) Your husband could just have irritation from the friction of intercourse, try hydrocortisone cream. He may have dermatitis, however, so he may want to consult a doctor. Just know that these splotches are not uncommon due to friction during s*x. 2...
When you do things sexually with another person, it should be enjoyable for the BOTH of you. If your boyfriend loves you, it means he respects your need to go slowly and he will not pressure you into things you're not ready for. If he keeps up this beh...
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Make him wear a condom ALWAYS, end of story. Is it worth the risk of getting pregnant/STD's? Make it a habit!
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I think MAYBE your imagination is getting the best of you- why would someone go through so much trouble to steal a poem book so that they could take poems, read them to other people, and tell them they wrote them? It sounds a little bit silly- and you ...
Unfortunately, you can't choose exactly where you lose FAT. You can tone to build muscle and firm up the areas you'd like, but it sounds as though you're already pretty athletic and have a lot of muscle. You can look up exercises to tone these areas in...
If you're relaxed and comfortable it probably won't hurt, make sure he's gentle and goes at the pace YOU want him to. You do not lose your virginity when someone fingers you.
Getting "felt up" in my experience tends to mean a guy "feeling" a girl, whether it's up her shirt, leg, or anything that suggests something sexual without being too serious. A lot of times a girl will say she was "felt up" by a guy meaning he did it a...
You made a decision based on what you need- it wasn't wrong, I think it was smart. If you truly love him, you can be there for him as a friend as he goes through this. But, make sure you give yourself the space you need to take care of yourself and you...
I know that you may want to hear that you should go back to her- and maybe in a little while, you can. But it sounds like right now what you really need is to get to know yourself and what causes you to lash out like that when you're angry- and then im...
There is no magic trick to this. Eat healthy (fruits and vegetables instead of salty foods and sweets) and get some exercise in once a day. It doesn't have to be much, if you stick to it and do some cardio (running, swimming, biking) each week you'll n...
You need to go slow, and ask her what she likes. Start off with one finger and then you can use more when you know she's comfortable and ready for it- just talk with her because every girl is different and she'll be able to tell you herself what she li...
Choose neither and wait until you're a little more mature to handle a relationship. If you're asking a web site what guy to choose then you're probably not ready for one- just be friends and see what happens. It might get a little clearer over time and...
Ask him to tell you when he'd like you to stop, and don't stop till he tells you. That's it.
It could just mean you're feeling a little insecure lately about your relationship. Why? Do you trust him? If you trust him and care for him, and you guys have a solid relationship, try to just remind yourself of that before you sleep- I really doubt y...
You have a new boyfriend after only 3 days? Doesn't seem like you really cared for your old boyfriend, tell him it's over and if you want that you'd like to be friends. Tell him you've moved on and he should do the same because he deserves to be happy ...
Hey I only just saw your comment asking me to answer your question, I'm so sorry! I hope what I say can still be relevant and help you out. Believe me, I know what it's like to disagree with your parents on something that is extremely important ...
Just joking around and having fun with it, all the time! But the over the top aggressive kind of wrestling that 9 year old boys do? No thanks
No. That's it: no.
If you're so perfect for that one guy, why the heck are you cheating on him? I agree with all the other answers.
I have never been through this situation, but one of my best friends was in an emotionally abusive relationship and also found it very difficult to move on. Although she did not want to be with her ex, she compared everyone to how she remembered him to...
Your boyfriend sounds like he's pressuring you to do this- you don't want to be in a situation like that! To be honest, I hate giving head and my fiancee knows it, he never says I should or tries to get me to do anything I'm uncomfortable or unsure wit...
Maybe it's because you're too young, but maybe there are a LOT of reasons as to why you're in the situation you're in. Whether it's because you're too young, or whether it's because your husband is a jerk- your marriage is not working. It sounds as tho...
Your parents are being a little harsh- ask them if they only think grades matter when it comes to being someone they can be proud of. Are you a good friend? Athlete? Artist? Dancer? Tell them you just want to be acknowledged for what you're good at too...
I used to be scared of the same thing! Don't worry, it's really so much easier once you've done it once- and luckily, practice makes perfect. Turn your body towards him and lean in, and just press your lips to his (he's going to lean in too so you won'...
It's been said many times- passion is one of the most important keys to success. If your kids aren't into tennis, why restrict them to that one activity instead of allowing them to branch out? Branching out may actually have a greater impact when they ...
Oh, and you're right, things might not get better, if you do nothing. Maybe, even if you try, things will get worse before they get better. Maybe maybe maybe. Maybe it's worth a shot. Maybe you could end up being really happy after all this crap you've...
Hospitals do not just drug you up and say you're cured- I know because my brother checked himself into a hospital when he was feeling suicidal about 2 months ago. They took him to the ward for other people going through the same thing, some worse, and ...
You are not a burden. One of my biggest problems, and one of the reasons why I didn't ask for help for such a long time, was the fact that I didn't think I was "worth the trouble". I figured hey, if no one's been trying to talk to me, to listen to me,...
You may not think so, but you're showing clear signs of depression (they include total lack of motivation and lack of self esteem and self worth among other things). I know it sounds totally crazy, and you may be thinking hell no, they aren't going to ...
Not all guys are like this- I assure you. Some guys are turned on by visual images that they obviously don't get every day from their girlfriends (unless they hook up with them every day, which would be a little excessive). For girls, it's usually more...
I really don't care- if a girl is really into the guy, it doesn't matter. However, I've heard it's easier to give a blow job to a guy who's circumsized...just a thought- I don't do that sort of thing so I wouldn't know personally.
You want to stand out? I only know 2 true redheads, and I'm SO jealous of their hair. Love it, because it makes you stand out already! Try not to think about standing out physically- be outgoing and friendly to the people around you, and guys will ...
Everyone is self conscious about something- I have always had a bigger chest than the rest of my friends. It's harder to fit into the tops they can, and to not feel self conscious when guys stare. Believe me, the attention from guys may seem neat at fi...
Don't talk to him obsessively- talk about things you have in common for a little bit each day, and then go off and do something on your own. Don't get too absorbed in trying to impress him, or he'll know you're trying too hard. Take it easy! Don't try ...
If he's your best friend, you should be able to talk to him about it right? Just try to tell him you're curious about whether he really likes you, because you think maybe he'd just say yes to avoid hurting you. If he's really a good friend, he'll be ho...
every guy has a different type he likes- but more often than not just being healthy is the way to go. don't do it for guys, do it for you! take care of yourself and be confident, and guys will take notice.
Contemplating marriage, contemplating being the key word. You have a steady job you enjoy and a fantastic opportunity to explore it after having worked so hard for it. On the other hand, moving overseas is a big risk (if, by some chance, it does not wo...
Sex hurts for the first time because you're not used to being opened up that wide, as well as the fact that your hymen (if you still have it) tears when you lose your virginity- which for some people hurts quite a bit. For SOME people. Remember, it may...
Your "name" is lowselfesteem1013- so clearly you don't have much confidence, but honey that's what guys are attracted to! You're not ugly! If your weight bothers you, eat healthy and exercise a little more- but at the end of the day being comfortable i...
If you have never had sex, you could bleed- some people hardly do at all, some people bleed a lot. There's really nothing you can do about it, you can keep it from being too messy to clean up by having a towel underneath you or a sheet you don't care a...
You are hurting yourself! Tell your parents what is going on, or your boyfriend, or whoever you can trust. You are not fat, and even if you don't feel skinny or underweight now- it's still unhealthy to lose that much weight so quickly. You could be hur...
I agree with what pyrochick said, two wrongs don't make a right. You should tell her you aren't going to tell her secret because you know you promised you wouldn't, and that you wished she hadn't broken her promise to you. I know you don't want to hear...