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As long as you are happy with YOUR life, who cares if other's arent?
No, you are NOT ugly! Why would you think that?
No, not if it's ruining your life.
You say you've been with this guy for 8 months, right? Okay...so, in those 8 months have you guys done something that both of you enjoy (go to a concert, party, special place, something that both of you enjoyed) get what I'm saying? Well, if you did an...
What makes a good leader? Hmmm.. here are some things that come to mind: 1) sets a positive example 2) listens to other peoples opinions and ideas 3) isn't afraid to speak out 4) cares for his team and empowers them to do the best they can (noti...
I was going to say Maderma as well. Even though it may not work for all like volleeit18 said, I would still give it a try. Good luck!
what are the directions telling you to do?
It's very difficult to define normal, isn't it? :)
Born in Bosnia. Raised in Germany. Living in the USA! :))
You have the right to be with anyone you want to be. That isn't illegal. BUT, your boyfriend could be facing some criminal charges if the two of you are having sex, for example. Why? Well, in the eyes of the law, you are still a minor which means that ...
It might be true that your child isn't getting the attention that he would like to get. And so, this is his way of getting that needed attention. Maybe he has tried in other ways but has realized that it wasn't working so he turned to that kind of beha...
Don't even bother. You can do better than that! Let her grow up.
You say you care more about hanging out with your friends than school , right? Well, here's a thought: why not gather up with those buddies and have a little study group? This way, you'll be haning out and learning from each other at the same time! Loo...
Your mom will have to accept you for who you are. Deep down, you are still her baby no matter how old you are or whatever you decide to do. She's probably just frustrated about the messy room right now and if you took some time to clean it up it would ...
That is up to you. You know what you like best so it's up to you to decide.
Don't rush. Take the time to get to know him better.
What you are feeling is normal. If you had a best friend who happened to be a boy, your boyfriend would probably feel the same way. It's normal. Don't stress over the situation. He loves you and you love him. That's all that matters.
Obviously he's giving you a lot of signs that he's into you. I think he's confused as to where you are standing with this. Next time you guys get some one on one, let him know how you feel.
The first step you want to take is take a pregnancy test. This will help you determine whether you are pregnant. If it's positive, you should go see your doctor. Good luck.
You can't hide it so just take it out :)
I think you should take that as a compliment :)
Google.
Abs? Hmm... situps? That's how I get mine.
Well, have you thought about doing some house chores for $? Talk to your mom and see if you can work something out. That way, you are EARNING your own money and not asking your mom for it. :))
Get the diploma :)
Go to some stores and ask how old you gotta be to work there. Get an application, fill it out and bring it back. Ask if you can talk to the manager on duty while you're there.
Moderation is the key :)
There isn't one solution. What might work for someone else doesn't mean that it'll work for you. Think of all the foods that you are eating right now and try to determine what's bad (chips, etc.) If you drink soda, try replacing it with water. I knew a...
Borrowing money from family or a trusted friend would be a way to go here until you are able to get a job. This way you can resolve the matter with the Bank first, since they won't give a darn that you can't come up with the money right away. I think ...
Go to bed early, eat breakfast, manage your time wisely, and don't forget to bring your bookbag! :)) Good luck!!
Don't feel bad :) Look at it this way: If you could've picked what kind of nose you'd have, you wouldn't have picked that one, right? So, don't feel bad - really! Everyone of us has something that they're not proud of. That's ok. We are not perfect.
Maybe the stuff that you are learning isn't challenging enough for you. Maybe, that is why you decide not to pay attention to it. Lets face it...once you get something you don't want someone explaining it to you all over again, right? Talk to your teac...
Thank you all for your responses. Glad to see what you guys have to say. :))
Sure. I bet she would like to know what happened. No shame.
It kinda sucks that both of you have bad mood swings, but it also helps you, or at least it should, realize that both of you are at fault. Obviously, both of you miss each other and the fact that you haven't cleared this issue out hasn't helped your ca...
What you are feeling is normal. When we like someone we want to do everything right just so to impress them. That's fine. Another thing that's fine is telling that special lady that you really like her and that you are nervous. There's nothing wrong wi...
If he's blind to see all the great qualities about you then don't waste your time. Maybe he already has a girlfriend? It's also possible that he's shy (most girls don't expect that but yes, there are shy guys out there). Maybe he doesn't realize that y...
Those things come naturally. There isn't really a how-to-guide for this. Over time you learn what turns him on. You gotta experiment. My question to you is...are you doing this because you really want ti or because you feel pressured? Think about it.
Don't waste your time on someone who doesn't respect and love you. You can do so much better. Once you find someone who's going to treat you right, you'll forget about that loser in no time!
When you say he has hurt you, are you talking about verbally or physically? If it's physically, you are better off without him. Don't go back to someone who hurts you. It'll turn into the "cycle of violence".
This is a dangerous person who needs some serious help. You and your mom need to cut this man loose before it's too late. Next time he comes around and starts throwing things you walk out of there and call the cops. They'll take care of him. I would re...
The fact that she knows that you used to smoke will make it easier for her to understand. In other words, it won't be a shocker. The fact that everyone in your family is a smoker will help you as well. You can try telling your sister first, if you alre...
As long as he doesn't think that he can have the both of you...you know what I mean? After all, she is your best friend, and she did tell you that she liked him AND that she'd go out with him if he asked. However, if he makes it clear that he wants to ...
You are NOT fat!
Try doing some activities with her. I'll take her mind of those problems. If she decides that she need to see a Doc, offer to go with her. That might help her feel better.
You could start jogging/running. Sit-up are a good idea as well. A combination of those two should help you solve your problem. Best of luck!
Yes, waxing is better than plucking, don't you think? If you wax, it takes longer to grow back.
There is no God? What?!
You say yellow stains? How about GREEN? Yup, I had green stains on my shirt from this BAN deo. Yuck! I use Dove now and I love it!
By the way...have you thought about asking someone at your school? I used to do some light book keeping at your age. Just an idea. Hope it helps you out.