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Ex Marine.
Born and raised in La Jolla/San Diego, CA but moved to Anchorage, AK 44 years ago.
Currently a retired taxicab driver after 30 years.
Single. Divorced 3 times. Had 3 children (2 still living), have 7 grandchildren and 1 great granddaughter.
i'm a moderate Republican. My hobbies are playing poker and chess.
i'm a Deist but i do believe in evolution. My religious beliefs, which i wrote several years ago (A Search for Truth), can be viewed at the URL above.
i may not agree with you but i cherish your right to disagree (even if you are wrong).
lela's Advice
Seems like she doesn't know what she wants. In one hand, she likes your company, but in the other, something about your presence upsets her. This can be confusing and frustrating, but in any case... she needs some time to think this through. Don't ru...
What's 'PG'? Do you mean page? If so, do you mean your FunAdvice page?
This is my take on this: Just because you don't feel like going to college does not mean that you are dumb or that nothing will become of you. College isn't for everyone. There are people who didn't even finish high school and they are better off in li...
To entertain whom?
Look at yourself in the mirror and find something that you like about yourself. Then, tell yourself that you are pretty and start believing it!!
It might feel right at the moment, and that can be okay, but you have to realize that both of you are very young and that time will only tell.
Probably not.
What's your question?
Do you have any hobbies? What are some of the things that you enjoy to do? Being creative doesn't mean just one thing, and sometimes it takes some time to realize that you've been creative all this time.
Why don't you try one of those shampoos made for your hair type? There are so many out there! Something's gotta work.
I'm sure that they can. I don't see why not.
In a way, you already ARE popular. Think about it for a second. Those kids that call you those names already know who you are and what you are capable of. Don't let their stupid, childish remarks get to you. They are just jealous of you. You keep up wi...
Hate them both
I don't like them
We are all humans and we come in different shapes and forms. Just because someone is prettier than someone else doesn't make them a better person. We have to accept each other for the way that we are. But yea, I believe that we all have a purpose.
No, it just means that your advice wasn't rated. If people would take a second or two to rate the advice they get from people ... it would be great. It would help the advisors as well. But what can you do? Nothing. You can't make people rate your respo...
I say yes.
Sometimes the people that we love or feel something for don't feel the same way as we do. This can be hurtful and in some cases unacceptable. It's not the best feeling, but we have to learn to move on.
I've heard of no such thing.
You should pay a visit to your doctor. He/she will know what it is and how to help you out.
I think that you should wear it up more often.
August Rush
"Character is a diamond that scratches every stone"
Okay, people are in love with their boobs. Lol.
You can lose weigh and ge in shape by eating healthy and staying active. That usually doesn't come about as fast as you'd want it to, but it can get you there. You have to be patient and stay true to yourself.
Do some situps (3 sets of 12). They help tone the stomach area.
Try Kohl's.
Think of it this way. Your loved ones would NOT want to see you go down that road. They want you to be happy and healthy. Drugs and alcohol will only make matters worse, and you know better than that, right?
Sex comes with a lot of responsibilties, needless to say. It's kind of hard to explain. You will find out for yourself once the time is right. There's no need to rush. Focus on other things in the meanwhile.
You made lots of good friends before, right? So, this should be any different. You are capable of making friends and no matter where you go, you'll always have at least a good friend or two.
What makes you think that there's anything wrong with you? You are 13, you are growing. There's nothing wrong with you.
So he won't talk to you and there's no way of letting him know that all you want to do is spend some time with him? If he doesn't want to listen, maybe he'll read instead. Why don't you try writing him a letter explaining what it is that you'd like to ...
For your height I think that your weight is fine. There's no need to drop those pounds. You'd be like a skeleton! That's not healthy nor attractive. I think that you are fine just the way you are. Seriously. Instead of dropping those pounds, why don't ...
You have to have those healthy treats near by. Whenever you feel like eating something you should be able to open that fridge and find that good stuff sitting right there. That way, you'll be kinda forcing yourself to eat the carrots instead of the coo...
Awesome answers! :)
High School can be really tough, especially when it comes to making friends. Teenagers are exposed to a lot of pressure (to drink, smoke, have sex, be popular, etc) and most of them don't take it too well. In any case... I don't think that there's some...
That's a really nice poem. It's straight down to the point and very emotional. I'm sorry that you feel this way, but I'm glad that you can express your feelings about him like you did in the poem. Do you plan on giving it to him?
I think that a true friend tells you like it is. They don't lie to your face that something is okay when it's not. True friendship is built on honesty, and if you don't establish that from the get-go then... it's not really a good friendship. Friends a...
If he can prove that she's not fit then the courts will not side with the mom. It's about what's best for the child(ren).
This is something that need to go to Family Court. You can express your concerns to the judge and go from there.
Goldish -blonde
Instead of a love letter, why not give him a simple note? Ask him if it's possible to meet up for lunch or something along those lines. That way he won't be scared away.
A trusted friend/helper. Someone who helps you out when you have a question. Someone who gives good advice.
Tell them what's going on. They will understand. Fun Mail me please?
If you feel that your life is in danger there is no time to think if showing up at your friend's house (or anyone else's house) would be odd. Your safety is top priority.
Wait till your friends get back and have a big party.
I love Fettucine Alfredo!! Which reminds me... I need to go to Olive Garden one of these days. YUM!
If he goes away for assault he won't be coming back any time soon. Call the cops.
If you call the police and explain to them what's going on there, I'm sure that they will do something about it. If no one listens to your concerns at home, tell a teacher or other trusted person. Something has to be done! The cops will take care of it.
Tell your parents.