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honestly, no one can answer this question. what's your heart telling you to do? -as for her family, sometimes love put's you through a lot of stuff, & if it's real love, it's worth working through it, cause it's most deff more than worth it. follow ...
everywhere that has clothes that I like. macys, victoria secret-pink, AE, wet seal, rave, the buckle. lot's more..
well you really don't have any other options, will they tell your parent's if he comes over? if he comes while they are there, just go to your room, if your worried about noise, music turned up or tv?
it depends where you live, here it's if the person is under 18 and the other person is 18 or older. and she may not be ready, it's something to be talked about and contemplated good and hard, and even sometimes you still regret it after that, think i...
have them stay the night at a friends house?
there's a lot.. im not sure who wrote them though. -never explain yourself to anyone, those who mind don't matter- those who matter don't mind. -I believe everything happens for a reason! People change so you can learn to let go, things go wrong s...
uhm, I believe that god sent to the rainbow to as a sign to let everyone know, that he would never flood the earth again- "noah&the ark." -it actually says that about the rainbow in the bible.
well, if you don't like yourself, then why should anyone else like you? try & get a better attitude, think about your good aspects instead of the bad ones. & quit feeling sorry for yourself :)
I look for: honesty. good sense of humor. someone I can be myself around. someone who im attracted to. someone that doesn't try to be anything that their not. and faithfullness.
personally, I'd be a little concerned as to how I'd get it off, (that's if I had a penis, & someone would actually draw on it with sharpie?)
you have to earn trust, my mom was like that for a while- but you have to start out slow, suggest a curfew, or bringing boy's you like over for dinner or something instead of going on, you have to realize they don't want anything to happen to- there no...
hmm, I had this problem very recently. thing is, this guy was my best friend & I told him all my boy problems and such. & we started hanging out a lot more, & messing around.. it got complicated, & we were worried it'd mess up our friendship. in th...
being bigger, is no excuse. you don't want a shallow guy anyway.. god made you that way for a reason- so you'll fall in love with somone who doesn't care about looks but the inside, that's the way it's meant to be :)
im not saying you should apoligize, she cheated on you. but try and talk it out- your right, you never know what tomorrow will be bring.. it's always a good decision to try to make everything right.. I know exactly how you feel, just talk to her, t...
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goodnight, you'll be in my dreams, sleep sweet :) :)
it's not hard once you learn the right way to do it. the coaches will help you out, and if you have a good flyer then you dont feel hardly any weight.
silly string :) have a bunch of people get it on the last day of school, and go crazy when the bell rings. -our school's graduation was yesterday, and before they threw their hats, they all pulled silly string out of their robes and sprayed the tea...
yeah, more than once. this boy it was going great with too. he was wonderful. but his friends actually told me he was at this girls house. he wouldn't admit it, but broke up with me. we still hung out, and he eventually admitted it. that he had s...
I think your way overreacting. so he tried it, and didn't like it. he won't do it again. be glad he was honest and didn't like it.
no, im christian, and I've dated catholics before. there's not a whole lot of difference, it's both believeing in God.
im both. I give both my all. I love with my whole heart, and hate with all I've got. it's not a good thing, I tend to get too emotionally caught up with stuff.
if he'd cheat on her with you, if yall dated why wouldn't he cheat on you? he want's his girl, or wouldn't still be with her. don't be that girl that messes up relationships, wait till they're done. trust me, it's easier like that.
im going to the movies and to dinner, with a boy and another couple.
whats your question? it's been 6 hours? that's not long at all. chill out.
don't try and place the blame on her. own up to it, and tell them that you make your own decisions, not her. try and convince them that she's a good friend, and you wont let her influence you.
maybe he's not a dumper, but a cheater. guys always want all the girls. they dont rationalize, and think hey, I need to do something about this. you should deffinatley talk to him NOW, before it get's worse.
getting over someone is hard. you want to break down and text-call. I've been screwed over numerous times. no matter how long you date, it's always hard to move on. I dated a guy for a year and a half, him being my best friend and world, and we bro...
your right, he can't be with you constantly, but he shouldn't be with another girl either. I would be extremely mad if I found out my boyfriend was hanging out with another girl, and he didn't even tell me, my friend did. I know you want to be with h...
it's not love after 3 weeks. my advice to you, is talk to him. he likes her if he hangs out with her and walks with her and all. do you seriously let him hang out with her? that's crazy to me. you need to talk to him about this, ask him what's goin...
eye of the tiger :)
how are we supposed to choose which guy you want. wait it out and then choose when you feel stronger about the guys, dont play them though.. you wouldn't want them doing that to you.
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jill-bug, my family called me that when I was young and it lasted. or jilly, im not sure why.
everyone's different. for some as early as 2 weeks.
green.
do not do what loveandchaos said. that's ridiculous. talk to your mom, if she doesnt listen talk to another family member and tell them what's going on. you do not have to put up with this.
just one? haha umm, when he says mean stuff, like do something with your hair or something. & snoring ugh that's horribleee.
whether or not it's right or wrong, in the end it's her decision. if she allows it, then great, and if not there's nothing you, or we can do about it. respect her opinion and try to see it her way even though it's hard, and when you get old enough to...
I think your doing all you can, and that's all God ask's. I think what your doing is wonderful, although I do agree you shouldn't push people. keep up the good work though.
I conpletely agree, it should stay illegal and people should be smart enough to realize what it can do to your life.
personality- if you want a good relationship you have to look past physical, and into their heart. if you judge your boyfriends/girlfriends on their look's- im sure you'll be let down.
your best friend should support your decision. unless there's an absolute good reason that he shouldn't be with you.. (he cheats, or something she know's he does wrong to you.) you dont have to return the favor, no one asked her to give up on it. y...
I think you too spend to much time together/or talking. you'll eventually get sick of each other and it sounds like yall are getting to that point. ask him if that's what's going on and go from there.
that's crappy. why do you want to get rid of him? you have friends.. and she can't have a boyfriend after everything im sure she does for you. that's selfish. I used to feel like that when I was younger.. but I want to be with my friends and im ne...
my grandmother was 16, and my grandpa 18 when they married. they were married like 55 years and he passed away.
you both need to sit down and tell each other how you feel. you need to get "together" or move on. I spent way too much time holding onto a boy that was great, but we just weren't going to work out. be friends, but that's all. or be together. you c...
it's not your period. maybe a yeast infection, with can be treated with over the counter creams and meds. everyone get's them, ask your mother or a family member to get you something- all women get them. or if your sexually active, it may be somethi...
I've kissed girls at parties and stuff, (with encouragement) and im completely straight. it's not a big deal. I wouldn't worry about it.
at his house. we had texted some, and our mutual friend came in from college. she pretty much forced me to get out and walk around with him. that was about 3 years ago. I liked him then. but we kinda just stopped talking. - about a year and a ha...