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Hi, my name is Tyra, I live in Miami. I'm very easy going and low key. As you'll probably see I have fairly liberal views. I love reading, movies, and just hanging out. I also like to take personality test, I think they're fairly accurate 
What Makes You Amazing? ♥ Sweet Spirit ♥
What Kind of Coffee Drink Are You? ♥ Sweet ♥
Do You Follow Your Heart or Your Head? ♥ Heart-Strong Romantic ♥
What's Your Sense of Humor? ♥ Sarcasm ♥
Are You a Brat? ♥ Mischievous Brat ♥
What's Your Cinderella Story? ♥ Live Happily Ever After ♥
What Design Fits U? ♥ Low-Key Lifestyle ♥
What Makes You Amazing? ♥ Sweet Spirit ♥
What Kind of Coffee Drink Are You? ♥ Sweet ♥
Do You Follow Your Heart or Your Head? ♥ Heart-Strong Romantic ♥
What's Your Sense of Humor? ♥ Sarcasm ♥
Are You a Brat? ♥ Mischievous Brat ♥
What's Your Cinderella Story? ♥ Live Happily Ever After ♥
What Design Fits U? ♥ Low-Key Lifestyle ♥
kua2u's Advice
You know, every woman is different. You need to ask your girlfriend these questions and get her 'custom' answer. Blessings and Good luck
He needs to check this out with a doctor. Usually it is normal, but sometimes it is caused by something else which can usually be fixed. As for positions to help you. I'd go to: http://www.actionlove.com/cases/case9762.htm Blessings and g...
If you really really like Michael, stay with him. And don't be afraid that people know. Be proud to be Michael's girl. You KNOW you like Michael. You know how he treats you and that he's proud you are his girl. Jack is an unknown. ...
I'm not sure I understand what's happening. Are you talking about a guy your girlfriend met before you started going with her? And now he's asking her to the movies? You need to be straight up and honest with her. Is she going with yo...
Hi Cassy, Use your parents as the excuse. Tell him they don't let you date anyone whose not your age or at the most 1 year older. If he asks if you always obey your parents, tell him well, kind of . . . at least ever since my father had that one ...
I understand you don't want to be the 'annoying'girl, but how about the 'assertive' girl? You said: "I called him a few times after he got home and didn't leave a message, but he never called back." **If you ...
First, I am very very sorry that this happened to you. You were just a little girl and what happened to you was terrible. Second, I understand your pain. I have a similar story. Raped at 9, repeatedly molested as a kid. I felt like I had a sign on m...
You said: "HE MADE ME A BETTER PERSON AND MADE ME TOOK A BETTER LOOK AT LIFE ITSELF..." ** if this is true then is is something you will take with you for the rest of your life. And something to be grateful for even if it doesn't work o...
What does your therapist say about this? I assume you've told him, over and over, that you are sorry. I assume, you have been doing whatever it takes to help him over this. I assume that you have been acting like a person he can trust since you...
Teesa, it is very hard to give advise without knowing all the background. But here is what struck me in your post. For whatever reason you feel insecure about your guy talking to the neighbor lady. Right? You've told him this and he turns it ar...
You say: WHAT AM I SUPPOSE TO DO...HOW CAN I SHOW HIM OR LET HIM KNOW THAT IT COULD WORK???? There is no way you can tell him it will work. And you can only show him if you two are together again. And that seems to be all up to him. So your hands a...
I'm sorry, you sound like you are really hurting. I'm sure you know that suicide is never the answer; it's a permanent solution to a temporary problem. So I hope you will either abandon the idea or get help; go to a doctor, emergency roo...
There could be all kinds of reasons why your X might date a girl who looks like you. It could be as you've implied--he got a girl who looks like you, but not as good, and he's not intimate with her, never been on an actual date, etc. . . ...
You have already done alltht you can. You have told him that the two of you could 'slow' down. Now comes the hard part. You have to wait to see what he decides to do. And that's the hardest part. Get yourself busy with some project ri...
There is no such thing as 'accidental' sex. Your penis doesn't run ahead of you with you holding on to it, yelling, "No, no. Please don't do that." You made a decision. A poor one, since you know the husband and family....
One thing you can't do is communicate through friends. You two need to talk to each other, face to face. And it's never a good idea to date the friend of your X. Unless it's years later. You had to have a smidgen of an idea that he m...
First, why do you want a guy who doesn't believe you when it is important? You watched a video with his friend, tell him nothing happened and he not only doesn't believe you, but ditches you? Why would a guy that treats you like this be th...
You are the only person who can help you. If you don't want to talk to your X--don't. You control the arm that picks up the phone and the mouth that speaks to him. Tell the guy you are going with someone else and if he cares about you he'...
Have you asked Sue if she has too much on her own plate to listen to your problem? If not, you are making decisions for her, that are hers to make. Again, you are not lame for wanting someone to to listen to what bothers you [we all want that]....
Hello, you don't sound a bit whiny and I do know how you feel. And I feel what you are saying. I felt every bit this way in high school. And even some years beyond that. I am and was a good listener. I am and was the one everyone when to with thei...
It sounds like you two have some work to do before you get married next year. *You said: "This friend just put me in a terrible prediciment and I am not sure what to do." **Answer: No, you put yourself in this predicament. You had too muc...
*You say: "Ok i am going out with guy #1 for 8 months. I really like him n i may love him. **Answer: You definitely do not love him since you are wanting to go out with another guy. And you are not acting like you like him much, since you are f...
I'd follow her lead while making out. As for her mood swings, that's a behavioral problem. You'll either put up with it or not. Blessings and good luck
Only you can answer this for yourself. And you've learned a hard fact: Sex, love, does change friendships permanently--forever. Your 'friend with benefits' doesn't work because it is set up from the beginning NOT to mean anyth...
Hey, seven times sounds like a lot to me! So if you don't want to keep doing this, don't. You are in charge of you. Say, "no thanks." His past behavior has told you that he will probably break up with you again. Save yourself the...
First of all, if your age is the number in your name [13] you are way too young to be playing around with boys and letting boys play with you. As for your problem and you admit it is 'your' problem. Telling your bf your body issues will h...
Your questions are: "Do u think he likes me (from what i've said)?" He 'sounds' like he likes you yes. Love, no. Like, yes. "or Do u think he's gay and isn't making any moves b/c he is?" I think ...
There is nothing you can do about B1. You can't control how other people act or react. He thrives on you being upset about what he's saying. Because he'd rather have even a negative reaction from you than no reaction. So if you want to n...
What can you do? Nothing. You two didn't 'click' at the same time. That happens. You said: "Recently I have been feeling like I could have missed out on a good man." He no longer has feelings for you. You can't go back and...
You don't have any control over what your BF does, or who she likes. But why would you keep a BF who disregards your feelings? [I think she just wants him because she knows I want him.] Is that BF behavior? Also, you stated that the guy is just...