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kattie8451's Advice
I would talk to him first... you should be able to talk to him if you are having sex... this is going to sound kinda mean but next time he asks for sex just tell him you wanna take a break from it and do something else. if he gets mad ... then yes all ...
dont worry about the color of your cum... I dont know this for a fact but those people probably photoshop their "movies" so that people can see the cum... I don't know just a guess but my exs cum was clear too so dont worry about it your not the only o...
well wha do you do? I cant really give you any ideas without knowing cause I may give you the same ideas ... ~kaitlyn~
after 2 weeks take a test I couldnt tell you by what your telling me ... hope I helped and fun mail me for further advice ~kaitlyn~
uhm I know you dont want any adults knowing but thats what has to be done... you have to tell someone so it can finally be over. without help this can get worst... hope I helped and fun mail me for further advice ~kaitlyn~
really? did you girlfriend tell you she doesnt like you penis that way? cause most girls dont care its how you preform that counts ^ ^... as for making it bigger well you cant without taking medicine or something but I really wouldnt worry too much abo...
well you can move his hands up and down his body if your on top... like his chest and arms. hope I helped and fun mail me for further advice ~kaitlyn~
I dont think you should lie but maybe avoid them for a little while... I have the saaammme problem and let me tell you its not easy to go through. you gotta sit each one of them down and tell them exactly how you feel ... you pretty much have to spoon ...
aw this is cute ^ ^ ... well are you going out with her? sounds like your not... talk to her but dont be too forward. ask her about herself and just talk for a little... if you know her well already ask her on a date. if she says yes on the date tell h...
1. when making out move your hand slowly up his leg 2. tease him by going in for a kiss but just brushing your lips against his and then pulling away 3.move his hands to your chest when kissing 4. whisper things in his ear 5. move your hand to his ...
its everywhere you gotta learn how to speak up for yourself... guys dont actually reach maturity until their at least 18 some at other times. but no girl should have to go through that. dont make it into a fight just talk to them and tell them you dont...
well... to tell you the truth either he doesnt love you or he wants to have sex with you so bad that he has to rub it in your face. if he has a girlfriend ... yea its time to get over him but who says a long distance relationship doesnt work if you rea...
heyy if you want to cousin power to you but as ifeelcrazy said it depends where you live... I dont think there is any state saying you cant but I could be wrong about that... you never know. hope I helped and need further advice fun mail me ~kaitlyn~
well just like women men have sexual needs and maybe it is a little harder for him to wait until marriage and needs porn to get him through it. I wouldnt stress too much about it cause it is totally normal for guys. as for him telling you about it that...
well dont go out with someone if you arent over this guy yet cause it wont be fair to your boyfriend... start by keeping your distance from him for a little while... since it is only a crush you will get over him soon enough and then you can move on. m...
ok so talk to all these guys. you have the right to date who you want without them getting mad. you say they are your friends so im sure theyll understand. dont give up quite yet unless you like girls in that way and please dont date guys who you dont ...
ok... this is a tough situation but I understand how you feel... so you do want to talk to her in person right? talk to her online about this situation. tell her how your feeling and how youd like to change it . ask her on a date to get the wheels turn...
now by cum do you mean ejaculated or had an orgasm... because if you ment ejaculated then my answer is not all women ejaculate and if you mean an orgasm I would suggest putting a pillow under your butt so that his penis hits your gspot and gives you mo...
well since it is your first time just make sure you really love him. if you get to nervous and decide not to go through with it dont feel bad its your body and you do what you want with it. as for the pain... I have heard it hurts but if you use a lot ...
im sure flowers and a teddy bear is just enough for the amount of time you two have been going out. or like just go out and have a good time with her. hope I helped and need further advice fun mail me ~kaitlyn~
uhm maybe 2 weeks is a little much time but did you tell him when he hurt you or were you just like w.e the pain will go away because anal can be very very painful... hope I helped and need further advice fun mail me ~kaitlyn~
uhm I don't know what heyitszdrea is talking about... anal sex can be very very painful. use a lot of lubrication and/or fingering. I've never done it but I hear a lot of women cant even deal with the pain but once you do it more often itll hurt less. ...
talk to him about it and if he isnt considerate of your feelings dump him. your too good for him and there are plenty of other fish in the sea... hope I helped and funmail me for further advice ~kaitlyn~
well I dont want your hopes to go down but the truth is always my forte...so sorry but I dont think he is all that into you, yet... dont tell him you like him quite yet and give him a little space like dont message him on facebook for a little even whe...
sometimes it is really cute if a guy is shy but tries anyway... has to be honest, no lines!!! please lol personality should be funny or just fun to be around, and I look for maturity well knows when to be mature and when not to... hope I helped and fun...
what?!? are you guys crazy!!!... dont listen to them hun. you can do something like drop a pen and ask them to get it for you or just tell them you like their shirt or something. please dont pretend you sleep around... hope I helped and need further ad...
the second one because then she will either go out with you or not and you wont have to wonder. give her time if she needs it but if you ask her straight up then she wont have a chance to go out with another guy if she takes a long time or you end up l...
well to know if you are a good kisser sometimes the girl will tell you but if she doesnt just ask... hope I helped and need further advice fun mail me ~kaitlyn~
if you are asking us you arent ready. wait till your a little older and are ready and love someone very much. hope I helped and need further advice fun mail me ~kaitlyn~
definatly family guy ^ ^ then simpsons but im not too fond of south park myself... hope I helped and need further advice fun mail me ~kaitlyn~
well people have different perspectives on what is attractive in another person or gender. personally im happy if guys wear ankle socks instead of high socks and I like a guy shaved. but other people like things like how their hair is styled or even th...
well it depends on what you like and not all men hate it. a lot of men actually like a little hair down there dont ask me why but its what they are into. personally I like it hairless but its really what you are into... hope I helped and fun mail me fi...
dont do it... tell him you arent ready and you want to wait if he doesnt accept it he is not worth it and he doesnt love you or enough to have sex with you... hope I helped and need further advice fun mail me
ummm im sorry but this is an odd question and I dont know really if you are joking around or what but I guess ill answer it anyway. uhhh every male has a big enough penis to "pop a girls cherry". the only reason it will not pop is because 1. she alread...
well I dont think anyone actually answered your question so I am going to answer it but first I just need you to think and ask yourself if you want to do it or if it is only he that wants you two and then I would like you to ask yourself if you love hi...
hes a jerk but the trick is to not mention it. but yea youre too good for him if he cant accept you for you. and I have stretch marks too and im 16 and I've been using bio stuff and its been working so you could try that you could get it at like a cvs ...
well it shouldnt be embarrassing. I would tell him he is your first cause noone is an expert kisser the first time in fact my first kiss I did research and everything and my boyfriend at the time said I was a horrible kisser lol. its ganna be a little ...
ok well to tell you the truth there is like 0% maybe .01% chance of you being pregnant from masterbating with a bath faucet. the only possible way you could be pregnant is if a guy in your house came on the faucet and then right away you masterbated wi...
yes it is totally normal. the only thing that it is really good for is so you know what you like when a guy asks you but it is no big deal you both can figure out what you like. hope I helped and need further advice fun mail me ~kaitlyn~
well when did she check. if it is like 2 weeks after that you checked then it wouldnt show up and could have been missed but if it was around that time then she is probably not pregnant. wait you sai she had sex in april? then she probably isnt pregnan...
you have to know what she likes... all women are different. just expriment and take your time... hope I helpd and need further advice fun mail me ~kaitlyn~
well you have to get her really wet and communicate with her so you know if you are hurting her or not. you need a lot of foreplay and should probably start of with the missionary position and before during and after reassure her that you love her... i...
well you can talk to her ... forgive but dont forget. dont be like best friends with her but you can talk. if you are going to do so you need to keep a close eye on her and make sure she doesnt do it again. if she does then I would suggest not being fr...
well there is really no way to do it wrong as many guys will tell you. you could follow what specialized008 said or you could ask your boyfriend to put his hand over yours and help you out. then you get to know what the guy likes and get the motion. co...
well the majority of girls dont care about the size. you could always get better at sex but personally I wouldnt date a guy taking pills to make his penis bigger. the trick is to learn what the individual girl likes and therefore your size will not mat...
I agree with luthien you need to go see a doctor and tell him/her about your problem. it could be that your boyfriend I steril or you cant consieve... you can for that 1 get a donor 2 adopt or maybe this isnt the case and your doctor can give you a bet...
well a lot of people who pop their cherry from other activities or whatever dont even feel it. and sex only hurts for some people but not all... hope I helped and need further advice fun mail me ~kaitlyn~
well what you have to do is talk to her about it. it seems like to me that she wants sex but is holding back so you gotta talk to her and ask her if you could finger her or go down on her or whatever. communication is the key... hope I helped and need ...
well not all girls orgasm when you are fingering them so you got lucky your girlfriend even orgasms but to increase the chances you can go down on her or just listen to her sounds and ask her what she likes and if you should go faster or deeper or what...
dont get revenge it only leads to further problems. you getting revenge isnt going to make anything right it is just prooving you are just a pythetic as he is (no offence) . what you should do is talk to him. tell him he really hurt you and you will ne...