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karla's Advice
You're beautiful...I don't know why you'd even question it.
Yes, it does hurt when he first starts putting it in. Tell him he has to go slow at first. The pain will go away once it's in all the way, so don't give up just because it hurts right away, it will get better. Butt sex can be very enjoyable for both...
I don't think there's a problem with you, I think you just haven't found the right girl for you yet. Keep trying, except maybe not so hard. People tend to come into our lives unexpectedly.
I wouldn't call him. He broke up with you..give him time to realize what he's missing. That's what I did when my ex broke up with me, & now we're pretty much back together again. Just keep having fun!!
You don't have to wait for him to ask you out..ask HIM out!! The times have changed..it's okay, & he'll probably admire you for your straightforwardness. Let me know how it goes!
I think maybe you should continue to give her space & give her subtle little hints that you like her as more than a friend. If you get the same impression back from her in return maybe it's time to have a talk. If she really likes this other guy you ...
Before calling it quits I think both of you need to go to marriage counseling together. Think back to the old days when you two were so in love & you did things together...try doing things that you used to enjoy doing together & maybe it'll bring your...
I'm almost 28 & I just recently figured out how to make myself how to cum when I masturbate. Different techniques work for different people. You just have to find what works best for you. I get off almost every time I have sex, but sometimes it just...
I don't understand how these women could not want to have sex! I would have sex every day of the week if I could--especially with a man so willing to please me. Couples need this sort of intimacy to keep the relationship going.
You have to talk about these important issues & try to come to a middle ground that you can both agree on. Maybe he should do the cleaning & she should balance the finances. You should each do what you are best at, and divide chores in that way.
Orgasms don't hurt...they feel very good. For a woman her muscles get tight & then when she orgasms tremors will go throughout the body, and the vagina will expand & contract. I don't know what it's like for a man.
Talk to your friends to try to sort out your feelings. You may even want to consider talking to a counselor. Me and my bf just broke up 2 weeks ago & I've been experiencing some of the same feelings also, and friends can be a big help. It's very har...
You can't make anyone feel love...it comes with time. You may just not be her type, and she just wants to be friends. You can't try to push anything on her, it'll just push her away.
Sorry to tell you hun, but yes I think he is using you. Find another guy who actually has some respect for you, and doesn't just call you when he needs some head.
I think that you should go talk to a counselor. You can't live just for your boyfriend, you have to live for yourself.
Wow...I've never seen so many responses to one question! Anyways, me and my boyfriend of 10 months broke up about 2 weeks ago, and I really think that I'm gonna have a hard time getting over him also. He also caught me at a strange time in my life, a...
Were you actually rude to her lately? It's definetely difficult to try to move on after someone has broken up with you....I'm going though the same thing right now. If she really loves you back then she'll come back to you. Sometimes it just takes a...
Every male has this happen to them about 3-5 times a night. You must just wake up at the right time.
Yes, it's okay to do things alone sometimes. I go to the mall alone all the time, not because I don't have friends, but sometimes it's my only option. Get out & do things that you like to do, even if it is by yourself. Often times you'll find new fr...
never mind, we talked now. He was just really sick.
Another thing is that I went off the pill after being on it for about ten years. Could hormonal changes from that cause the spotting?
Maybe you two need a longer break just to cool your engines and think about what you really want from a relationship, and decide whether or not this relationship is fulfilling those needs and wants. It's not healthy for you two as individuals or for t...
It's normal to think and talk about a crush all the time. I do the same thing when I first start seeing somebody new. It's a very exciting thing to think about, and is probably the most exciting thing going on in your life right now, so of course his...
I love teasing my boyfriend. Try wearing short skirts with no panties, and let him know that you aren't wearing any by whispering in his ear, "I'm not wearing any panties", or just bend over in front of him. It'll make his mouth drop. Seductive word...
There's really no quick way to get a boyfriend, especially if there's no one that you like who actually likes you back. Usually relationships just happen, alot of the time when you least expect it. They're not to be rushed into.
You don't deserve to be treated like crap. Find someone who will treat you right. There ARE good guys out there who'll treat you like a queen. If you call him and tell him that you miss him and all he's just gonna think that he can get away with tre...
The most sensitive spot of the penis is the head; the part on top. So your concentration should be on that area. Don't feel like you have to master the art of deepthroating to please your man. If you want to learn how to do that it'll take some pra...
Girls like romance, especially when it comes to a first kiss from somebody who they really care about. Tell her sweet little things, like how beautiful she looks tonight and how you're just dying to kiss her lips, and hopefully she will feel the same ...
It's okay if you don't want them to find out about him right away; many people wish to wait until their relationship becomes more serious before getting the family involved. If you can't keep it a total secret, just let them know the basics, like how...
I have the same problem you do, and I've also been checked for diabetes, since my dad had it. I wish I could help you out, but I'm also curious what this could be. It makes it hard to concentrate. When I'm hungry or tired, or both, I feel totally ou...
There's a good chance that you might have a yeast infection. I would go see your doctor to make sure though if this is the first time, just to make sure that that's what it is. If it is they'll probably give you some Diflucan. It's in a pill form. ...
It is normal for you to be attracted to and fantasize about other women, as long as you don't go through with it. Chances are, what you see in the other woman is purely sexual, since you say you fantasize about her that way. I can tell that you reall...
I've found that using Clinique products help. They have a three-step system that's really easy to use. It consists of a cleanser, toner, and moisturizer. They also have other products to help. It can be found at department stores or on the Internet...
Damn! Good advice! I really think she's got it there. It made me hot just reading it!
My boyfriend had a vasectomy a couple years ago during his first marriage. Anyways, I heard from a male friend of mine who also had a vasectomy several years ago that about ten years or so afterwards it is common for the body to actually repair itself!
I sort of know how you feel. The man who I was in love with all the way through high school and also several years after got his girlfriend pregnant and married her soon after he graduated from high school. We had known each other since the seventh g...
I think that the idea of buying her roses with the memories is really sweet. But I agree that buying the lingerie may be a little too much, especially with whatever happened in her past. Just try to be romantic without her thinking that you just want...
You are very young to be losing your virginity. If you are questioning whether you should or not then you're not ready and you should wait. You have a long time before you find the man that you're going to spend the rest of your life with, so you sho...
You'll know when you orgasm. If you don't know if you have or not then chances are you haven't. Right before you'll feel your vagina getting tighter and you'll feel a wave of pleasure. That's how you know when you're close. Then you'll have an over...
Does your boyfriend know about your affair? I hope that if you two really want to work this out that you go to marriage counseling, especially since there is a child involved. Don't stay together just because of the kid and because you have a house t...
I like to write poetry.
We do plan on living together someday. I told him that I won't move in with him unless we get married someday. I don't think that just because he's not around me every day that our relationship should be any less important to me. Whether here or not...
I have this problem off and on too. I have learned to swallow as soon as you can after he has came. If you can ever get used to the taste and actually grow to like it, that would help a lot. I, for the most part like the taste, but from time to time...
I would suggest that you first start by exploring other parts of your body, like your nipples. Get to know your whole body so you know how you like to be touched...everywhere. Then when you get down to playing with yourself "down there" start out wit...
Men like that are very hard to come by. I would suggest you just do things that you love to do, and somewhere along the way you'll find a man that shares your interests. Love doesn't often come along when you're looking for it. I wish you the best o...
My parents were going to give up having any more kids, but my dad really wanted a daughter after having two boys, and out I came. I wish you the best of luck, really! Let me know how it goes!
My mom doesn't like my boyfriend either, but who cares? He's going out with you, not your mom. Does she really have a good reason not to like him? If she's like my mom she doesn't. Don't let your mom get in your way of being happy together.
I like masculine men with broad shoulders and muscles. I even like the body hair. I absolutely love long hair, my boyfriend is blessed with beautiful long brown hair. A decent size cock is a good thing too. Doesn't have to be huge though, that hurts.
I've had plenty of orgasms, and, trust me, you'll know when it happens. You lose control of yourself and get lost in the feeling.
I am the sister of two older brothers, so don't give up hope!