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hey im jasmine.
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karla's Advice
You're beautiful...I don't know why you'd even question it.
Yes, it does hurt when he first starts putting it in. Tell him he has to go slow at first. The pain will go away once it's in all the way, so don't give up just because it hurts right away, it will get better. Butt sex can be very enjoyable for both...
I don't think there's a problem with you, I think you just haven't found the right girl for you yet. Keep trying, except maybe not so hard. People tend to come into our lives unexpectedly.
I wouldn't call him. He broke up with you..give him time to realize what he's missing. That's what I did when my ex broke up with me, & now we're pretty much back together again. Just keep having fun!!
It sounds like you have a really sweet man. I think the saying about the door is about him wanting to explore new things now that he's with you, things that he would've never considered before. I guess I would just try to settle down & just see what ...
When I got bored of using my fingers I went out & got a vibrator. They're not all that expensive, except for some of the more high-tech ones, like the Rabbit.
You don't have to wait for him to ask you out..ask HIM out!! The times have changed..it's okay, & he'll probably admire you for your straightforwardness. Let me know how it goes!
I think maybe you should continue to give her space & give her subtle little hints that you like her as more than a friend. If you get the same impression back from her in return maybe it's time to have a talk. If she really likes this other guy you ...
Don't get married if you're not sure. I too was engaged when I was young, around 20, and I called off the engagement because I just wasn't sure if I was ready & if he was The One. You're still so young, don't settle for less than true love! If you n...
Before calling it quits I think both of you need to go to marriage counseling together. Think back to the old days when you two were so in love & you did things together...try doing things that you used to enjoy doing together & maybe it'll bring your...
I'm almost 28 & I just recently figured out how to make myself how to cum when I masturbate. Different techniques work for different people. You just have to find what works best for you. I get off almost every time I have sex, but sometimes it just...
I don't understand how these women could not want to have sex! I would have sex every day of the week if I could--especially with a man so willing to please me. Couples need this sort of intimacy to keep the relationship going.
He probably has what is called rapid ejaculation. It is defined as persistent ejaculation with minimal stimulation. It is the most common male sexual dysfunction, but the good thing is that it is also the easiest one to treat. Remember that in order...
You have to talk about these important issues & try to come to a middle ground that you can both agree on. Maybe he should do the cleaning & she should balance the finances. You should each do what you are best at, and divide chores in that way.
Orgasms don't hurt...they feel very good. For a woman her muscles get tight & then when she orgasms tremors will go throughout the body, and the vagina will expand & contract. I don't know what it's like for a man.
Talk to your friends to try to sort out your feelings. You may even want to consider talking to a counselor. Me and my bf just broke up 2 weeks ago & I've been experiencing some of the same feelings also, and friends can be a big help. It's very har...
This guy is very confusing to me too. I think you just need to ask him what's going on, not other people. I'm trying to get over my ex too right now...It's very hard to do. In order to make him regret losing you I would suggest making yourself a bet...
You can't make anyone feel love...it comes with time. You may just not be her type, and she just wants to be friends. You can't try to push anything on her, it'll just push her away.
At first it seems like love, but it doesn't usually last long & is based mostly just on looks.
Sorry to tell you hun, but yes I think he is using you. Find another guy who actually has some respect for you, and doesn't just call you when he needs some head.
I think that you should go talk to a counselor. You can't live just for your boyfriend, you have to live for yourself.
Wow...I've never seen so many responses to one question! Anyways, me and my boyfriend of 10 months broke up about 2 weeks ago, and I really think that I'm gonna have a hard time getting over him also. He also caught me at a strange time in my life, a...
Were you actually rude to her lately? It's definetely difficult to try to move on after someone has broken up with you....I'm going though the same thing right now. If she really loves you back then she'll come back to you. Sometimes it just takes a...
Every male has this happen to them about 3-5 times a night. You must just wake up at the right time.
Yes, it's okay to do things alone sometimes. I go to the mall alone all the time, not because I don't have friends, but sometimes it's my only option. Get out & do things that you like to do, even if it is by yourself. Often times you'll find new fr...
never mind, we talked now. He was just really sick.
Another thing is that I went off the pill after being on it for about ten years. Could hormonal changes from that cause the spotting?
He's making it pretty obvious that he likes you, so I think it would be a very welcome gesture if you also let him know that you like him too.
Maybe you two need a longer break just to cool your engines and think about what you really want from a relationship, and decide whether or not this relationship is fulfilling those needs and wants. It's not healthy for you two as individuals or for t...
It's normal to think and talk about a crush all the time. I do the same thing when I first start seeing somebody new. It's a very exciting thing to think about, and is probably the most exciting thing going on in your life right now, so of course his...