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I think tatoos are cool and want to get one myself. Just, make sure it is something that has deep meaning to you - it is for life - it is not pencil and you can't erase it,. Don't do japanese or chinese symbols unless you know for sure what it means....
If you enjoy it, sure. Just remember to be careful, because accidents can happen if anyone goes too far.
If you really love him (seeing as its been two years and you haven't doen anything in terms of sex, so that means he's not pressuring you which means he must be a very pure-at-heart guy), then stay with him.
That is good, actually. Never let anyone's bad words get to you. This just means you are a stronger person. I am the same way, most of the time.
Tell your mom, but don't get an abortion, because all life is worthy no matter what disability the child has I am sure anyone would rather have ceberal palsy or something like that than to have never lived at all.
did he apologize? what was his motive? revenge is wrong. "two wrongs don't make a right." im sure your brother loves you very much and maybe that is why you find what he does annoying, b/c you care about him, and maybe he does what he does because ...
utopia: the sister is not younger, the brother is, if I read the question right. anyways, its just sibling rivalry; tell your brother how you feel and also tell your parents and eventually it will stop. My little brother (10) and my little sister (...
he won't go to jail if you don't tell anyone who the father is. just keep the secret between the two of you.
Well, I'm 19 and don't have a permit or a liscence and haven't even thought about it yet, so, you're not the only one :D
You should get a job anyways. Your parents can't stop you; you're not a minor anymore.
First cousin marriage is legal in 18 states. If they both are trully in love with each other then they belong together and the law has no right to interfere with destiny - God's plans. I mean, even siblings can fall in love romantically, but of cours...
You should go for it, as long as it is really what you want. Think about it, long and hard. Ask yourself, "why do I want to do this?" "What would I be contributing to the world?" "Is this something I am trully passionate about?" Would you still be...
That's the problem, though, I focus on myself too much - I study all the time and when I'm not studying I'm training (martial arts), and when I'm not doing that I'm playing violin or reading - I don't really have friends, only acquaintances. Also I do...
I have a good idea that worked for me. Start doing martial arts...karate, tae kwon doe, judo, kajukenbo, etc...it is really fun and a good alternative because you still feel pain (im in kajukenbo and we take turns doing takedowns on each other) but al...
I used to but now I do martial arts and I have no desire to cut I reccoment martial arts that involve takedowns, like kajukenbo, it is very fun and there is still pain but it is not only pain and also you learn how to defend yourself and become a str...
its ok it is not against the law because 18 USA states allow cousins to get married. If you are in love then no one should be able to get in the way and if she feels the same way neither of you are hurting anybody so go for it you are so luck I wish m...
wow, you are so lucky! Tell him how you feel about him. Are you in love with him? Is he in love with you? If so, then it is OK. No one can tell you who you are allowed to be with. IT IS NOT HURTING ANYONE, SO IT IS NOT WRONG. Don't listen to any...
go for it! its awesome I think
yeah 18 USA states allow cousin marriages so go ahead get married and let the beautiful love bloom and never cheat on each other
I agree that you can't help who you love! She is probably just scared because she thinks it is wrong but feels the same way but wants to ignore the chemistry because she thinks it is wrong, but ask her if it would be hurting anybody, and it woudn't, s...
There are 18 states in USA that allow cousins to get married. SO, that must mean its not wrong. Besides, you should be able to freely chose who you are in love with, and if its your cousin (and judging fr/ what you wrote it sounds like she's in love ...
yep they can just not in USA. Actually only one country and that's only halfs. But there are like 18 USA states that allow cousins to get married.
I know how you feel, because I feel the same way about my brother but nothing ever happened :( Just go for it people will give you a hard time at first but you're not hurting anybody and you should be free to love whoever you want and hey, you might b...
Tell her how you feel about her. Who knows, maybe she feels the same way. maybe it could be the start of something beautiful. If you are both consenting then neither of you are hurting anybody , then it shouldn't be a crime. (just use condoms to pr...
YES OMG YES YOU SHOULD IF SHE LOVES YOU THE SAME WAY TOO!! It is such a beautiful thing. The world thinks its weird but that's just because they are ignorant.
no it is perfectly acceptible. it can be called DASEY. Read "Life with Derek" fanfiction - it is FULL of stepcest between Derek and Casey.
yes we're all siblings everything is incest
You should definitely tell her that you're in love with her because she probably feels the same way but, just like you, is afraid to admit it because the world thinks incest is weird but I love my bro that way but never told him and nothing ever happen...
I don't think a 13 year old boy would rape someone. most likely he was just joking.
It sounds more like half-rape.