How should I dye my hair black?(100.00%)
LOL, do you know how many people on this board can't get that stuff OUT of their hair and they hate Hate HAte HATe HATE IT?! And here you are, can't keep it in and love it!
So, as a stylist, I always say to go to a professional. When it comes...
How can I stop self-destructive behavior?
People cut on themselves as a way to bring inner emotional pain they have no control over to the surface, through cuts, to release the pain and control it and then watch it heal. It's a common thing for young people to do. It is a mental issue.
AL...
How severe is Celiac's disease (allergy to wheat)?
Look itup online to find a complete list of foods to avoid. It is very severe, although people suffer differently. Products with gluten, wheat, barley, all that must be avoided. There are stores that sell gluten free things and great recipes online. Go...
What should i buy to make a canvas painting?
Go to hobby lobby. Google beginners painting stuff online and read up about what to get for a beginner's kit.
You'll need a canvas, paintbrushes and to pick your paints. Acrylic, watercolors, what?
How can I make my new cat less nervous?
The living room and hallway are open spaces, so the cat is running behind something to feel a sense of protection.
My advice is to put him in your bedroom first. Close the door. The cat will appreciate the four walls and privacy and will feel safe...
Why isn't my cat drinking?(100.00%)
I had a cat once that ONLY wanted to drink water out of the faucet as it was running/dripping. I think it's an old instinct they have. I would go to work in the morning and leave a tiny drip going on the faucet. The cat would stick it's paws in th...
Why doesn't my cat ever come in?
The cat is happy and independent and has probably has a distrust of humans. Just let it do what it wants and enjoy watching the cat enjoy it's outdoor life. Meanwhile--if you can, install a cat door to a part of the house and leave it's foodstuff in...
How can I get my dog to stop chewing stuff?
My little dog used to eat my underwear when I was a slob and used to throw my clothes around. Then I realized that leaving dirty underwear lying anywhere but in a covered hamper was irresponsible and unsanitary. So I bought a covered hamper and got...
How can I ask my Mom to wear makeup?(100.00%)
Keep it simple, one step at a time.
The next time you are in a grocery store with your mom, tell her your lips hurt and ask if you can go get some lip balm. Then pick out a lip balm that is tinted pink or glittery or whatever and ask her if you can...
How can I break off this affair with a coworker?
Stay with him, break up his family, make him leave his wife and ruin his little girl's life. Cause, hey--you guys wanna F each other.
Selfish, selfish, selfish. If you have to ask what to do, then you are lame and weak and deserving of whatever it ...
Is it possible to not catch herpes in a long-term relationship?
Yes, it is entirely possible. You must be with an upstanding person who knows when he/she is having an outbreak the second she feels it and will abstain from sex unbtil the outbreak clears.
Be aware that you are taking a risk regardless of how care...
Why doesn't my boyfriend show affection?
By the number of posts and different ways you've worded this, I'd say your problem is that you are too needy, very insecure and obsessed.
I would bet you a dollar that this is the exact reason this guy is losing his feelings for you.
You just ...
How can I lighten my hair without stripping?
Number one thing taught to us in beauty school regarding hair color: Bleach or stripping is the only way to lighten hair that has been colored dark.
End of story. Believe it, don't fight it, go to a stylist. Your hair should hold up pretty wel...
How do I know if my teen daughter is doing drugs or having sex?(40.00%)
First--it is ABSOLUTELY your right as a mother to snoop through her things and spy on her! It's your responsibility to keep her safe and make sure that her activities are healthy. So don't listen to any of these kids around here telling you otherwis...
Should I show my Dad this poem?
Definitely give him the poem.I would read it again and have it checked over by a teacher or educated person who is good with grammar and spelling. There are quite a mistakes in there.
Give him the poem, but do it because you want to say something a...
Do I have chances with my Dad's friend?
He's too old for you. I know you don't want to hear that. You are an adult and can make up your own mind, but your dad will go balistic if he finds out and it will hurt his friendship. Don't get involved with this guy and respect your dad's space. Stic...
How can I get black dye out of my hair fast?
You can't get black out of your hair unless you strip or bleach it. You will have to see a professional to have it stripped. I have given the answer to your question dozens of times. Just go through the Beauty and Style posts and you'll find this quest...
How do I strip brown dye?
I've answered this question approximately 20 times in the last week. Read through the past questions on the board and you'll get the answer.
:)
Professional products applied by professionals only when stripping color or you WILL be sorry.
How can I get strawberry out of strawberry blonde dye?
Go to a professional.
You'll need to color it blonde again using the appropriate volume peroxide and shade. This is chemistry you are dealing with--go to a professional. There are careful steps that need to be taken.
How can I fix a dye job that made me orange?
Please go to a professional to have her fix it. You can still go blonde if you want. You just probably used some lame store bought brand to go from brown to blonde and the watery 20 volume peroxide they gave you in the box was too weak when you should ...
How do I tell my best friend I like him?(0.00%)
17 and 20 is not an age difference that's a problem. I don't know why anyone would give you a hard time about that. If you like someone and want to date them, you'll only ever get anywhere if you make your feelings known.
I've said it once, I'll sa...
What were you thinking after your first time?
By the time my first boyfriend and I did it when I was about 17, we had been heavy petting and all over each other, waiting for that "perfect moment to go all the way for sooooo long that there was no nervousness or weirdness. It just naturally happ...
Does my wife have a fetish?(100.00%)
I am a stylist and have done my share of housecalls. You are dead on about it being like the 1800's where some men think that because you are there to service them, that you are there to SERVICE them and they can say and suggest what they want.
My...
How can I ask my crush to Homecoming?(100.00%)
You open your mouth and you say, "Woudl you like to go to homecoming this year?"
I don't understand you kids with these questions "how do I ask this person out?" I think what you are really asking is "How do I find out if this person would go to th...
How can I get a great tan before vacation?
Executive Tans are a big chain and they are pretty cheap. If not, just start laying out in the sun wearing what you will be wearing on vacation!
Even if you to acquire a great tan before you go---still wear TONS of high SPF sunblock because it suck...
What should I wear?
Dress like what you are, that's the best advice. Think about it....
The best thing to do is find a female who can help you and go shopping with you. Just make sure she's someone who is dressing you up in a way that suits you and your lifestyle, not...
How can I get over my ex who really hurt me?
Let's see....you're in love with a man who fathered two children, but wouldn't marry their mother, then ran of with some chick to vegas and he would never leave her although he calls you and says he loves and wants you back? And you still love him and ...
How can I believe that he really loves me?(100.00%)
Believe him when he says he loves you. That's called trust.
You have to allow yourself to be normal, to be loved again after being used and abused. If not, then you are truly damaged goods. You don't want to be damaged goods, do you?
You will ...
What should I do about never being able to go out with him?(100.00%)
You were rude not to respond to him. I don't think you're that into him and you are pulling him along until someone better comes along. Grounded or not, you would have made him a present out of string and paper if you cared enough.
You don't care a...
Will I ever be able to trust my wife again?
As long as your kids are grown, it's safe to divorce. I'm assuming they are all out of the house?
The only advice I give in situations like this is to follow your happiness. Consider your options that you may have forgotten. A friend of mine and h...
What if I broke up with him but I want to go out?(100.00%)
Don't let that pride eat you up and run your life.
But as I always say--if you broke up, you broke up for a reason.
At least try going out with one other guy first.
Is my boyfriend cheating with other men?
This exact thing happened to me about 5-6 years ago. EXACTLY.
We were in love, together about two years and we started watching porn now and then to spice of the sex life, although it was already good. He started bringing home more porn than I sign...
Do I really like him?
You'll never know unless you ask. There is nothing that anyone can say to you here that will stop the way you feel about him, or answer for him whether or not he likes you.
Rejection is not the worst thing in the world. It's just a dodged bullet.
How can I stay strong with my virginity pledge?
The best way to stick to your guns is to only date men who respect this part of you and support you fully! They need to help you stay on track.
Masturbation and vibrators will get a girl through a lot, too. When you are 18 , you'll be able to buy...
How can I move out without hurting my parents?(100.00%)
Oh and anothe rword of advice: The more you succeed at college, the more responsibility you show, the more the cord will be loosened. Parents like to see their children succeeding-that helps them let go and trust their kids will be okay.
And when y...
How can I move out without hurting my parents?(100.00%)
I feel for your situation. They are saying to you that if you want to move out of their home, then you must be truly independent. I think at your age, it would be a mistake to do that at this time. It doesn't matter that they are being mean and won'...
What bedding will help rid of dust mites?
I don't really know what kind of bedding would be best. but I can tell you that you will never "get rid" of them. I do know that spraying your bed with lysol (your matress, that is) and washing your sheets regulrarly will help reduce them and keep big ...
How can I get my Mom to let me date?
Be patient, young one.
Some of us weren't allowed to have boyfriends PERIOD. Just be quiet and abide by your poor mother's wishes another year. Having a boyfriend--you'll have them all through life.
Tempted to have an affair(100.00%)
Well, I''m not going to tell you whether or not to have an affair. I've grown tired of this topic, no offense.
I will tell you this though. If you ARE going to hve an affair. Don't do it with a "good friend's" wife!
How can I pick which guy to date?
Well, just put yourself in the position of being a girl that a guy must choose from another. Do your best and decide which one has the best qualities and do it now before you lose both of them.
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LOL, do you know how many people on this board can't get that stuff OUT of their hair and they hate Hate HAte HATe HATE IT?! And here you are, can't keep it in and love it! So, as a stylist, I always say to go to a professional. When it comes...
People cut on themselves as a way to bring inner emotional pain they have no control over to the surface, through cuts, to release the pain and control it and then watch it heal. It's a common thing for young people to do. It is a mental issue. AL...
Look itup online to find a complete list of foods to avoid. It is very severe, although people suffer differently. Products with gluten, wheat, barley, all that must be avoided. There are stores that sell gluten free things and great recipes online. Go...
Go to hobby lobby. Google beginners painting stuff online and read up about what to get for a beginner's kit. You'll need a canvas, paintbrushes and to pick your paints. Acrylic, watercolors, what?
If you are speaking of someone who is in jail, you would just say he or she is incarcerated.
As long as it's not a huge, baggy sweatshirt hoody. A fitted, light spring one goes great.
Put the hamper in an enclosed space. Closet, laundry room, bathroom. Or just start putting a doggy door up in whatever room the hamper is in.
The living room and hallway are open spaces, so the cat is running behind something to feel a sense of protection. My advice is to put him in your bedroom first. Close the door. The cat will appreciate the four walls and privacy and will feel safe...
I had a cat once that ONLY wanted to drink water out of the faucet as it was running/dripping. I think it's an old instinct they have. I would go to work in the morning and leave a tiny drip going on the faucet. The cat would stick it's paws in th...
The cat is happy and independent and has probably has a distrust of humans. Just let it do what it wants and enjoy watching the cat enjoy it's outdoor life. Meanwhile--if you can, install a cat door to a part of the house and leave it's foodstuff in...
My little dog used to eat my underwear when I was a slob and used to throw my clothes around. Then I realized that leaving dirty underwear lying anywhere but in a covered hamper was irresponsible and unsanitary. So I bought a covered hamper and got...
Keep it simple, one step at a time. The next time you are in a grocery store with your mom, tell her your lips hurt and ask if you can go get some lip balm. Then pick out a lip balm that is tinted pink or glittery or whatever and ask her if you can...
Stay with him, break up his family, make him leave his wife and ruin his little girl's life. Cause, hey--you guys wanna F each other. Selfish, selfish, selfish. If you have to ask what to do, then you are lame and weak and deserving of whatever it ...
Yes, it is entirely possible. You must be with an upstanding person who knows when he/she is having an outbreak the second she feels it and will abstain from sex unbtil the outbreak clears. Be aware that you are taking a risk regardless of how care...
DO THE RIGHT THING.
If you have to ask, then you are probably not old enough to be having sex.
By the number of posts and different ways you've worded this, I'd say your problem is that you are too needy, very insecure and obsessed. I would bet you a dollar that this is the exact reason this guy is losing his feelings for you. You just ...
Number one thing taught to us in beauty school regarding hair color: Bleach or stripping is the only way to lighten hair that has been colored dark. End of story. Believe it, don't fight it, go to a stylist. Your hair should hold up pretty wel...
First--it is ABSOLUTELY your right as a mother to snoop through her things and spy on her! It's your responsibility to keep her safe and make sure that her activities are healthy. So don't listen to any of these kids around here telling you otherwis...
Definitely give him the poem.I would read it again and have it checked over by a teacher or educated person who is good with grammar and spelling. There are quite a mistakes in there. Give him the poem, but do it because you want to say something a...
He's too old for you. I know you don't want to hear that. You are an adult and can make up your own mind, but your dad will go balistic if he finds out and it will hurt his friendship. Don't get involved with this guy and respect your dad's space. Stic...
You can't get black out of your hair unless you strip or bleach it. You will have to see a professional to have it stripped. I have given the answer to your question dozens of times. Just go through the Beauty and Style posts and you'll find this quest...
I've answered this question approximately 20 times in the last week. Read through the past questions on the board and you'll get the answer. :) Professional products applied by professionals only when stripping color or you WILL be sorry.
Go to a professional. You'll need to color it blonde again using the appropriate volume peroxide and shade. This is chemistry you are dealing with--go to a professional. There are careful steps that need to be taken.
Please go to a professional to have her fix it. You can still go blonde if you want. You just probably used some lame store bought brand to go from brown to blonde and the watery 20 volume peroxide they gave you in the box was too weak when you should ...
17 and 20 is not an age difference that's a problem. I don't know why anyone would give you a hard time about that. If you like someone and want to date them, you'll only ever get anywhere if you make your feelings known. I've said it once, I'll sa...
By the time my first boyfriend and I did it when I was about 17, we had been heavy petting and all over each other, waiting for that "perfect moment to go all the way for sooooo long that there was no nervousness or weirdness. It just naturally happ...
I am a stylist and have done my share of housecalls. You are dead on about it being like the 1800's where some men think that because you are there to service them, that you are there to SERVICE them and they can say and suggest what they want. My...
You open your mouth and you say, "Woudl you like to go to homecoming this year?" I don't understand you kids with these questions "how do I ask this person out?" I think what you are really asking is "How do I find out if this person would go to th...
Executive Tans are a big chain and they are pretty cheap. If not, just start laying out in the sun wearing what you will be wearing on vacation! Even if you to acquire a great tan before you go---still wear TONS of high SPF sunblock because it suck...
Dress like what you are, that's the best advice. Think about it.... The best thing to do is find a female who can help you and go shopping with you. Just make sure she's someone who is dressing you up in a way that suits you and your lifestyle, not...
Sounds like herpes. Do they itch or burn? Go to the doctor.
Let's see....you're in love with a man who fathered two children, but wouldn't marry their mother, then ran of with some chick to vegas and he would never leave her although he calls you and says he loves and wants you back? And you still love him and ...
Believe him when he says he loves you. That's called trust. You have to allow yourself to be normal, to be loved again after being used and abused. If not, then you are truly damaged goods. You don't want to be damaged goods, do you? You will ...
You were rude not to respond to him. I don't think you're that into him and you are pulling him along until someone better comes along. Grounded or not, you would have made him a present out of string and paper if you cared enough. You don't care a...
As long as your kids are grown, it's safe to divorce. I'm assuming they are all out of the house? The only advice I give in situations like this is to follow your happiness. Consider your options that you may have forgotten. A friend of mine and h...
Don't let that pride eat you up and run your life. But as I always say--if you broke up, you broke up for a reason. At least try going out with one other guy first.
This exact thing happened to me about 5-6 years ago. EXACTLY. We were in love, together about two years and we started watching porn now and then to spice of the sex life, although it was already good. He started bringing home more porn than I sign...
Whyy would he never talk to you agian if you told him you had feelings for him? What is this, kindergarten?
You'll never know unless you ask. There is nothing that anyone can say to you here that will stop the way you feel about him, or answer for him whether or not he likes you. Rejection is not the worst thing in the world. It's just a dodged bullet.
The best way to stick to your guns is to only date men who respect this part of you and support you fully! They need to help you stay on track. Masturbation and vibrators will get a girl through a lot, too. When you are 18 , you'll be able to buy...
Can you possibly explain this in a manner that makes sense?
Oh and anothe rword of advice: The more you succeed at college, the more responsibility you show, the more the cord will be loosened. Parents like to see their children succeeding-that helps them let go and trust their kids will be okay. And when y...
I feel for your situation. They are saying to you that if you want to move out of their home, then you must be truly independent. I think at your age, it would be a mistake to do that at this time. It doesn't matter that they are being mean and won'...
I don't really know what kind of bedding would be best. but I can tell you that you will never "get rid" of them. I do know that spraying your bed with lysol (your matress, that is) and washing your sheets regulrarly will help reduce them and keep big ...
Be patient, young one. Some of us weren't allowed to have boyfriends PERIOD. Just be quiet and abide by your poor mother's wishes another year. Having a boyfriend--you'll have them all through life.
Well, I''m not going to tell you whether or not to have an affair. I've grown tired of this topic, no offense. I will tell you this though. If you ARE going to hve an affair. Don't do it with a "good friend's" wife!
Yes! Silver Silver Silver! strappy and fun and silver. Lilac and silver are gorgeous together!
A light ice cream such as a sherbert.
Well, just put yourself in the position of being a girl that a guy must choose from another. Do your best and decide which one has the best qualities and do it now before you lose both of them.