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hey im jasmine
ive got blue and black hair now
when ive got air in my lungs
and a skateboard in my hand... im happy
i love to skate
and i collect skateboards as well (73 so far)
im an artist...i paint, sew, draw, create ect
as well as that i also make dolls, jewellery, clothes, shoes, bags, hats and just about everything else
I love Piercings! I have got 36 of them
no tatts yet though = no money either
i love riding skateboards from the 1970's
i like spandex pants!
I play guitar and drums
I can juggle, and do lots of other stuff
Im pretty old fashioned and old-school
I love horror, I sleep in a car bed
i like to wear stupid looking hats
i always wear the same jeans
and I definantly don’t take life too seriously
i love ZOMBIES! :D
and i love romance in almost all its forms
I don’t believe in any religion
i dont respect any of it either
...words dont hurt me
I do what i love, and dress how i feel
I pretty much live in a world of my own...
and were all mad here :]
i know a lot about a lot of different things,
so im just hear to give you all advice :]
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Interesting dilemma. I wonder why you don't want to use milk in there? Anyway, Velveeta makes a mac and cheese that doesn't require milk or butter, just squeeze the cheese packet over the top, stir and eat. They have microwavable varieties as we...
I was a straight up prude until I was almost 18 and got my first serious boyfriend! I remember just really feeling grossed out by a lot of guys. I valued myself and felt that so many simply weren't worth me letting them stick their tongue all over ...
Ahhh, The guys I liked never never never never never liked me back. It was always the delinquent or dirty, scuzzy boy that liked me. I didn't grow into my own until I was about 17. That's the same age I started taking up hobbies and having my own ...
I don't know, if your cousin a guy?
I don't know if any social services in any state that gives money to minors to live out on their own. Usually you'd go into foster care, but that process takes months upon months. If you can obtain permission from your father to get your own pla...
You haven't stated why, exactly, she doesn't like him? Obviously she disliked him before you broke the news of shacking up together. But, you are not telling the whole story, methinks. Your mom doesn't have to accept or understand that you're ...
What do you mean you weren't here? The level and method of earning her forgiveness is determined by where you were and what you were doing. Maybe she has a legitimate reason to be upset or maybe you forgot or maybe you were out making something else...
Well, you poor thing! You need to focus on yourself and school, etc. If your mom chooses to look in on your dad's computer behavior (or learn how to), that is her concern now--not yours. She knows what his deviant behavior is (or was), and it is...
Put dawn dishsoap on either side of the fabric where the spot is, then put it in the washer and use bleach in the wash. It should come right out. I have a white cotton towel I've been using for years to wrap my hair after I color it, and it always c...
A lot of browns go on very dark at first and take about a week or two to lighten up after several shampoos. Just wash it often. I hear people put laundry detegent and Tide on their hair but I wouldn't do that. Those are harsh soaps than can really ...
Sexy is an attitude, your presense, a confidence that you exude, that someone feels about you. It is in a certain smile at a certain time for a certain reason in a certain light. It is a look at a given moment, and it is a thought shared between two pe...
Well I'm glad you're putting some thought into things. You still need to just slow it down. You don't need to hit the gas like that. There needs to be time for you two to build up trust between each other again. That's a one day, one moment at a ...
I just want to correct something here a bit. There is no such thing as "dyeing over" black. This is a common misconception about hair color. Once you go black and decide you want to go back to a lighter shade, the only thing possible to do is stri...
You're in a tight spot there, sweetie. I feel for your situation. Unfortunately, you are at that sucky point in life where either choice you make is a difficult one. Life will present many of these to you. But let's tackle this one first. On so...
You're doomed. Have no children, get a divorce immediately. No shame in that and no one will (or should) blame you.
Maybe their sexual freedom inspires you. Maybe you like the possibility of having a whole different sex give you attention. My friend who can never seem to get a man started to love the attention of a lesbian at work and actually starte fantas...
It seems that you would already know if she was a virgin or not by-- you know, simple conversation and getting to know someone before you insert your fingers into them.
Are you really utterly confused? The situation seems clear to me. You are into a guy who is not sure what he wants. Both he and his friends have made this impossibly clear to you. Only you can answer this question whether or not you should stick aro...
Atkin's without fail, is the fastest way to burn it off. BUT, please actually purchase and read the book by Dr. Atkins. It's called Dr. Atkin's New Diet Revolution. Don't just start eating meat and cheese and that's it and think that you're on Atki...
It's a very complicated disorder mostly found in young males and diagnosed in their teen years, I believe. Google it, darlin. It's way complicated.
This move is a year away. I'd focus on other things right now and then worry about this when the time comes. My opinion is that you should never live with a lover until you are married or over 30. Am I some tight conservative? No. I just think t...
First, I would ask you why is it your parents move a lot? That is really an important part of this problem that you need to share.
For the record, my boyfriend says "Yes".
That's like asking if you might get wet if you go out in the rain. I refuse to answer this question on the grounds that it simply must be a joke.
Yes, it's legal. Your parents have to sign over a legal guradianship paper and have it notarized. I was a legal guardian of my friend's 15 year old for one year, I had basically all parental rights while she was in school, etc. But don't do it. D...
Regarding the first problem, you are maturing and your friend isn't. From age 18-25, you will find you are spending most of your social activities ending friendships that aren't maturing, and seeking out more mature friends. That is, if you are maturin...
You are afraid of intimacy and therefore you avoid it. Simple as that.
This problem with advice and answers is alllllll over this board dozens of times over. Please read the board for a few minutes and you'll find an answer. Which is basically the same answer amblessed just gave you.
The lady is mentally ill. You have to learn to ignore oh, 95% of this woman's ramblings. And lucky for you, it sounds like your boyfriend is aware that he must also ignore 95% of her. It sounds like she's really, REALLY getting to you and you seem...
I think you are an exotic beauty who will get more beautiful as you get older and appreciate your ethnicity.
Yes indeed, my friend. We can also "squirt" like guys too. A rare find in a girl, but it's out there. Some girls get extremely wet when turned on and just produce a lot of vaginal fluid. It was just her fluid.
Go to a wig store in the mall and mess around with some black wigs for a spell. See how you'd look. Think long and hard about going black because the only way to get it out once you put it on your head is to bleach it or strip it out. Very hard on you...
He didn't give you the coolest and most mature response in the world and it does kind of sound like he was brushing you off a bit. But, not a big deal, maybe he was just taken back by it. So I'd lay off a bit and maybe next week, ask again like, 'Hey...
You should break up with her because she is immature. quite frankly. I, for one, could never handle jealousy and immaturity like that.
Eating ejaculate poses STD issues. If the ejaculate is infected with AIDS, and the person's mouth has a cut or sore in it, the disease can be transmitted. I will ignore question #2 because that's ridiculous.
If it itches or burns, you need to get checked out for herpes. If it burns (or is just sore) but doesn't itch, it could just be a boil or ingrown hair. If it's crabs, you will see the little buggers with your naked eye attached to your pubi...
He's a typical horny boy who cares more about what his wee wee wants than what is morally correct. He's not to blame really, that's just how those boys are. You have a gift to give. Give it to the right man, when you have no qualms about it, and y...
Well, there are dozens of positions one can be in for intercourse. I don't know how old you are, but there is a great book called "The Perfumed Garden" that is a very tasteful book with photographic images of different positions that are modest, not...
If you've ever hit or landed on your vagina on a vault or bar and found blood in your underwear later, then you've probably broken your hymen. It would also hurt like nobody's business if that happened and it wouldn't be something you wouldn't notic...
Well, you simply MUST talk to your doctor about this. Come on, he's a doctor and this is a common problem. He can give you advice and pointers and better insight than all of us. Just say to him, "I feel like I have a strong odor down there and I don...
The kids are growin up fast these days! My son is almost 11 and about two summers ago, took to "taking naps" mid day. Naked ones. In the dark. And he never really went to sleep. I found out by walking in on him. I knew what he was doing, didn't nee...
Oh boy did I ever put off and put off my first kiss because I was sooo scared! I was terrified of boys and didn't have my first kiss until I was about 16 years old. My first boyfriend broke up with me because of it! So as a 32 year old, looki...
Well the 2nd story is a whole different issue than the original problem you posted. I'm checking out of this one.
My knee jerk reaction is that your child will outgrow this. But maybe there is some favoritism gonig on that you could ponder as well. I wouldn't just automatically dismiss his admission of his feelings to you. Even if you don't favor one over the o...
Well, darlin, I think it makes perfect sense that he didn't want to date you when, after 6 months, you didn't want to meet his parents. In dating scenarios, you have to look outside yourself in certain situations to understand them. Maybe his p...
Don't cancel the furiture or the apartment, move out on your own and start your own life. Except I'd recommend getting a different apartment so he doesn't know where you are. A person on drugs is unpredictable and most importantly *unstable*. Pe...
I assume that you were directing this question towards me? Well, here I am anyway, so I'll answer your question. Yes, bleach and stripping can severely damage your hair. On the other hand, your hair may hold up quite well to it, as my hair does...
Well, your guilt will subside as long as you do not hide from this and are honest. You lost your girlfriend forever, just kiss her goodbye and be polite otherwise. You'll have to learn your lesson. Make new friends, etc. You did an unforgivable thing--...
You have two children together and you aren't married, and you're worried about losing a nother man's affection. What a mess. First, you and your baby daddy need to go and see a family counselor together IMMEDIATELY to discover what is going on in ...
Well, generally, I don't talk to people who don't care about anything I say. Exercise some pride, I'd say.