Is fingering supposed to hurt?(0.00%)
It can hurt, certainly. There's nerves and things in your female regions. And if you were a virgin, then yes--of course there will be discomfort. Especially if you were rather dry and not lubricated or aroused enough before he began. But it shouldn...
How can I find my Dad?
Well, Dougie may be short and crude and to the point. But he does make it a point.
Your dad is not searching for you. All good advice would say that you're probably dodging a bullet with that and you should let sleeping dogs lie.
A man who...
Should I stay or move and escape my controlling Mom?
I also agree that this decision is yours. You seem like you have a good head on your shoulders. You may want to consider whether or not your mother would allow you back home should it not work out with your roommate.
Also..isn't there anyway you...
How can I fix orange hair?
Bleaching your hair three times in a row...wow. As a stylist, I'd have to look at your hair to determine what to do next. So that is the advice I give. You need a color specialist. Tell her how long you colored it black, how many times you bleached ...
Bad bleach job gone wrong!!!
I'm a hairstylist, I can help!
Yowza! That's an hour and a half of some of the harshest hair chemicals to put on your scalp in one day! You are lucky you did not suffer permanent scarring to your scalp and subsequent permanent hair loss. You n...
How can I fix this awful salon job?
Wow. You really got taken for a ride. As a stylist, here is my advice.
#1: Toners don't lift hair color, they color over to correct problems (like too much red in a brown). I can't imagine in 1,000 years why on earth a stylist with that much ...
What will match my dark pink prom dress?
Yes, silver all the way. You could always shop aroud for a matching pink pair, but that tends to be a bit much (too much matching is not a good thing all the time). I'd go for silver.
What kind of dress can a plump teenage girl wear?
Well, it depends on many things. What is the occasion, season, etc.
There are many different types of "plump" an many different body types. Dresses come in many different cuts as well. A good site you should check out is promgirl dot com. Google it...
How to stop my 9-year-old daughter's kleptomania?
Kleptomania is already "something serious". It's a need for attention, for material possesions, and your child for some reason feels unfulfilled in life.
I recommend firstly, a counselor that is routine and consistent, indefinitely. Often Klep...
How can I resist this temptation?(100.00%)
Part of being an adult is realizing that you can't have things that you want just because you want them. I can certainly understand that temptation and the difficulty you (both) are enduring.
Marraige, even unhappy ones, are within the confine...
Can you help me with these sex things?
These are things that you do when you are ready. When you are ready to do them, you don't really question it. It comes to you naturally when you love and trust the other person and you are being intimate and turned on. You relax and be in the momen...
Can a 15-year-old be a good mother?
Abortion or adoption is your choice. I am pro-choice. But I am also pro life when it comes to what choice I'd make. There are so many out there who would take care of your baby.
As I have said before, you have hundreds of thousands of eggs, th...
How can I stop my 16-year-old sister from having sex?
In order to advise you on how to help her, I would need to know why is it that you do not want her to have sex. Is it the guy? Most of us have sex around that age--is she not being safe or is she not educated enough?
I can understand the bea...
Can I get my ex of almost 2 years back?
I go by the philosophy that when you break up, it is for a reason. No matter how many times you get back together or how long you stay together again before you break up, the initial reason that you broke up will be the same as the reason you finally ...
What can I do with wavy, frizzy hair?
Try experimenting with different products. Gels, glossing polish, baby oil. See what works for your hair and what feels good.
Try a little baby oil on the frizzy pieces around your face. I also highly recommend Proclaim's Glossing polish sold a...
Can anyone help me through this heartbreak?
Ever heard the lame cliche that "Time heals all wounds"? That mostly applies to heartache over ended love affairs. If you were a girl, I'd say watch a couple of chick flicks, cry your eyes out, then go out and buy a new outfit and lipstick the next ...
How can a couple compromise on important issues?
When my bf and I moved in together, we had to strike a balance too. He is the breadwinner and handles all the finances and then some. A great provider. As we talk of getting married and having a family together, we talk of what to expect of each...
cheating boyfriend(0.00%)
You are obviously not having a relationship with your baby's father. Therefore, you have no say in what goes on (unless it's abusive). Your baby's father becomes the responsible adult whenever you drop off the baby. Whomever he decides can be a part...
What do I do when my family verbally abuses me?
I would also try talking to them seriously. If they do not give you respect after that, simply be polite and quiet, and ignore their name calling. Seriously, just don't stoop to that lame level and bring yourself down as well. If you ignore it, it wil...
Which is the healthiest protein powder?
I don't know which one is the healthiest. But as a woman, I do recommend Soy protein powder. You can get it chocolate or vanilla flavored and make smoothies and all sorts of fun stuff with it.
Does anyone know how this depression feels?
There is no magical pill, person, or angel that is going to come down and miraculously make you feel better or clean up your life. Maybe you need a drastic change. It sounds like you need to value your life a bit. Get rid of all the stuff weighing...
My ex wife is driving me crazy...help!
You are a codependant, bigtime. You are afraid of losing an unsupportive, selfish, flighty, cheating wife?
You have two options.
1. Get back with her, marry her, and put up with more of the same. Do it without complaint until your son is...
Should I tell my ex-boyfriend I'm pregnant?(100.00%)
First, get the support of your family around you. Then tell your boyfriend that you are having a baby, he is responsible as the sperm donor, and that you will be adopting that baby out to a loving set of parents who can provide for this baby as resp...
Should I tell my best friend that I don't like her boyfriend?
Sure, speak your mind and let her know you don't feel he's right for you. But you don't have to do it in a coming to Jesus way and make the topic be the end all be all of your relationship. You can casually mention it if it comes up, but don't beat...
What's the best way to wake a baby to nurse?
When I breastfed and was engorged, I just took a hot shower and it all just squirted right out. Kind of comical, actually. If I didn't feel like taking a shower, I'd just expressed myself manually enough to get relief.
Try that, it works!
How can I convince my parents I didn't drink?
When you're telling the truth and someone doesn't believe you, that's basically "on them". Make sense? Keep walking in the truth, stand behind your truth. If they choose not to believe you and kick you out of your house, you call Child protective s...
Should I tell my Mom that I'm bisexual?
In your case, whether or not it is a sin is in the eye of the beholder. In this case, it doesn't matter if you think it's a sin or not. You're grandmother thinks it's a sin. And you're going to bring a world of headache onto yourself if you press th...
Can I dye my hair black with blue tint?(100.00%)
Yes, you can put a dark blue on it and the black will pick up a blue hue. It may be subtle, but you'll see it. It will make your black super super super black. As black as it gets. Which I think looks cool. Go for it! :)
Can I remove black dye from recently permed hair?
I'm not sure entirely to whom you were addressing this. I assume it was me because of all the black hair dye advice I give. :)
First, you're in a very delicate situation. You've got years of colored blonde hair under three dark hair color processes...
How can I fix my relationship with my parents?(100.00%)
What a situation!
I live by the philosophy that you need to choose your battles carefully. If you know your mom goes nuts when you miss homework, then don't miss homework. I know it's more complicated than that on many levels, but maybe there'...
How do I get some privacy from my family?(100.00%)
As far as emails--I don't blame your parents there. Unsupervised emails and internet time leads to all sorts of nightmares. Just look at the crap they show on Nightline with the child predators and stuff. The internet is a free for all of all sorts ...
How can I bring a baby into a home with a man I hate?
I'm sorry for your situation. I'm also sorry if my advice sounds very harsh. But I believe in children first and that is from where my advice stems.
Your mom is a codependent. She will not change. You're stepdad (or mom's boyfriend, whatever) is...
Do you think my boyfriend said these horrible things?
No, it's not wrong for you to wonder if it was really him. Because it was really him.
I doubt very seriously that his sister got on his phone and he allowed her to type that to you in the short time span that you were away. A normal, rational...
Juniperone: What is "Prell"?
Sorry I took so long to get to you. It's been a busy weekend with the fam!
Your questions has already been answered, but I did want to respond...Yes, Prell is a shampoo that is known to strip/dull/lighten artificial haircolor. It is totally not ...
Will the red hair dye work?
I'm a hairstylist and let me say here...you have a real problem. At this point you're dealing with multicolored hair, bleached regrowth, and dark patches where the black didn't lift as much as the hair near the scalp. Do everything absolutely necess...
Is there a way to reduce hair dye effects?
Just keep washing it. It will shampoo out of there and lighten up considerably. Dark brown hair color ALWAYS comes out way darker than on the box. Try Prell a few times a day until you leave.
And never, never, never do any hair color changes be...
Is it wrong to be with this guy?(0.00%)
Why is it wrong to not approve of a marraige because the religions are different?
Unless one of you is going to convert, do you have any idea how many problems are going to arise once you start raising children together? You're going to start ha...
Should I tell him I like him before we graduate?
The point of keeping your mouthshut is....what, exactly? To save yourself from rejection? I never avoid things simply because I might get rejected. Life's no fun that way.
Always say how you feel.
Is it normal for penetration to hurt?
Well, painful sex usually means you need to get checked out with your OB/GYN. It could be an STD, or it could also be that you're having sex when you are not lubricated ("wet") enough. Dry sex can be painful if done repeatedly. If the pain is more i...
Is it wrong to be with this guy?(0.00%)
Is it that she doesn't approve of you getting married at 16, or that she doesn't approve of you marrying a boy of another religion? Either way, your headed down the wrong street there. Marrying at 16 is, needless to say, a moronic idea for a pletho...
How do I get my addicted Mom help?(0.00%)
I think you've got a couple of ptions here...
For one, you can talk to your school counselor. They have resources to help with this kind of stuff at their fingertips. Make an appointment and just sit down and tell the whole story. Child protective...
Nail Polish
I think it only really needs to match if you are going out for an evening on the town and are dressed up. Once you are over 30, though--it tends to look like you are trying to hard if you go for that look. The younger the better with that one.
What do I do about my overprotective brother?(100.00%)
Unless you have a bad history with running around with boys like crazy and you are not to be trusted, he seems to have an unhealthy fixation on you. You said you are visiting him. So steer clear of him otherwise and be wise abuot the information th...
Should I cheat on my boyfriend?
I can't believe you're pregnant at 14 and all you care about is having sex with your boyfriend's brother.
Please explore your options for NOT being a mother to that baby, whether abortion or adoption.
Why do guys like big boobs so much?(100.00%)
However, look at Sandra Bullock and Sheryl Crow. A boob is a boob is a boob. A real man knows this and doen't have a "preference" for either way. There really is so much more to being a sexy woman than having large breasts.
How can I tell my Mom I'm 14 and pregnant?(0.00%)
You know that you have no choice here but to tell her. She's going to find out soon enough. You will disappoint her and she'll be very sad, but....you're the one that made the choice when you decided to have sex withuot a condom or birth control.
...
Is he sending me mixed signals?
He likes having sex with you but doesn't want to be your boyfriend. He made that pretty clear, I don't know what there is to be confused about after that.
Personally, when a guy screws me and then starts treating me like his annoying little bro...
Is it wrong to date without my parents knowing?
My answer is always that if you aren't sure--then you aren't sure, and you should act accordingly. Don't go around saying you can't live without someone if you "aren't sure" about it. Just let it be what it is--a nice, new young crush/love that's f...
How do you overcome fear and anxiety?
You just have to talk to yourself nicely. I suffer anxiety from time to time that makes me feel like I have butterflies in my stomach. I hate that feeling. The funny thing is, I'm at a point in life where my major worries and struggles of the past ...
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It can hurt, certainly. There's nerves and things in your female regions. And if you were a virgin, then yes--of course there will be discomfort. Especially if you were rather dry and not lubricated or aroused enough before he began. But it shouldn...
Well, Dougie may be short and crude and to the point. But he does make it a point. Your dad is not searching for you. All good advice would say that you're probably dodging a bullet with that and you should let sleeping dogs lie. A man who...
I also agree that this decision is yours. You seem like you have a good head on your shoulders. You may want to consider whether or not your mother would allow you back home should it not work out with your roommate. Also..isn't there anyway you...
Bleaching your hair three times in a row...wow. As a stylist, I'd have to look at your hair to determine what to do next. So that is the advice I give. You need a color specialist. Tell her how long you colored it black, how many times you bleached ...
I'm a hairstylist, I can help! Yowza! That's an hour and a half of some of the harshest hair chemicals to put on your scalp in one day! You are lucky you did not suffer permanent scarring to your scalp and subsequent permanent hair loss. You n...
Wow. You really got taken for a ride. As a stylist, here is my advice. #1: Toners don't lift hair color, they color over to correct problems (like too much red in a brown). I can't imagine in 1,000 years why on earth a stylist with that much ...
Yes, silver all the way. You could always shop aroud for a matching pink pair, but that tends to be a bit much (too much matching is not a good thing all the time). I'd go for silver.
Well, it depends on many things. What is the occasion, season, etc. There are many different types of "plump" an many different body types. Dresses come in many different cuts as well. A good site you should check out is promgirl dot com. Google it...
Kleptomania is already "something serious". It's a need for attention, for material possesions, and your child for some reason feels unfulfilled in life. I recommend firstly, a counselor that is routine and consistent, indefinitely. Often Klep...
Part of being an adult is realizing that you can't have things that you want just because you want them. I can certainly understand that temptation and the difficulty you (both) are enduring. Marraige, even unhappy ones, are within the confine...
These are things that you do when you are ready. When you are ready to do them, you don't really question it. It comes to you naturally when you love and trust the other person and you are being intimate and turned on. You relax and be in the momen...
Abortion or adoption is your choice. I am pro-choice. But I am also pro life when it comes to what choice I'd make. There are so many out there who would take care of your baby. As I have said before, you have hundreds of thousands of eggs, th...
In order to advise you on how to help her, I would need to know why is it that you do not want her to have sex. Is it the guy? Most of us have sex around that age--is she not being safe or is she not educated enough? I can understand the bea...
I go by the philosophy that when you break up, it is for a reason. No matter how many times you get back together or how long you stay together again before you break up, the initial reason that you broke up will be the same as the reason you finally ...
Try experimenting with different products. Gels, glossing polish, baby oil. See what works for your hair and what feels good. Try a little baby oil on the frizzy pieces around your face. I also highly recommend Proclaim's Glossing polish sold a...
Ever heard the lame cliche that "Time heals all wounds"? That mostly applies to heartache over ended love affairs. If you were a girl, I'd say watch a couple of chick flicks, cry your eyes out, then go out and buy a new outfit and lipstick the next ...
When my bf and I moved in together, we had to strike a balance too. He is the breadwinner and handles all the finances and then some. A great provider. As we talk of getting married and having a family together, we talk of what to expect of each...
You are obviously not having a relationship with your baby's father. Therefore, you have no say in what goes on (unless it's abusive). Your baby's father becomes the responsible adult whenever you drop off the baby. Whomever he decides can be a part...
I would also try talking to them seriously. If they do not give you respect after that, simply be polite and quiet, and ignore their name calling. Seriously, just don't stoop to that lame level and bring yourself down as well. If you ignore it, it wil...
I don't know which one is the healthiest. But as a woman, I do recommend Soy protein powder. You can get it chocolate or vanilla flavored and make smoothies and all sorts of fun stuff with it.
There is no magical pill, person, or angel that is going to come down and miraculously make you feel better or clean up your life. Maybe you need a drastic change. It sounds like you need to value your life a bit. Get rid of all the stuff weighing...
You are a codependant, bigtime. You are afraid of losing an unsupportive, selfish, flighty, cheating wife? You have two options. 1. Get back with her, marry her, and put up with more of the same. Do it without complaint until your son is...
First, get the support of your family around you. Then tell your boyfriend that you are having a baby, he is responsible as the sperm donor, and that you will be adopting that baby out to a loving set of parents who can provide for this baby as resp...
Sure, speak your mind and let her know you don't feel he's right for you. But you don't have to do it in a coming to Jesus way and make the topic be the end all be all of your relationship. You can casually mention it if it comes up, but don't beat...
When I breastfed and was engorged, I just took a hot shower and it all just squirted right out. Kind of comical, actually. If I didn't feel like taking a shower, I'd just expressed myself manually enough to get relief. Try that, it works!
When you're telling the truth and someone doesn't believe you, that's basically "on them". Make sense? Keep walking in the truth, stand behind your truth. If they choose not to believe you and kick you out of your house, you call Child protective s...
In your case, whether or not it is a sin is in the eye of the beholder. In this case, it doesn't matter if you think it's a sin or not. You're grandmother thinks it's a sin. And you're going to bring a world of headache onto yourself if you press th...
Eat plenty of protein and take vitamins. See a doctor if you have bald patches, it could be Alopecia.
Yes, you can put a dark blue on it and the black will pick up a blue hue. It may be subtle, but you'll see it. It will make your black super super super black. As black as it gets. Which I think looks cool. Go for it! :)
I'm not sure entirely to whom you were addressing this. I assume it was me because of all the black hair dye advice I give. :) First, you're in a very delicate situation. You've got years of colored blonde hair under three dark hair color processes...
What a situation! I live by the philosophy that you need to choose your battles carefully. If you know your mom goes nuts when you miss homework, then don't miss homework. I know it's more complicated than that on many levels, but maybe there'...
As far as emails--I don't blame your parents there. Unsupervised emails and internet time leads to all sorts of nightmares. Just look at the crap they show on Nightline with the child predators and stuff. The internet is a free for all of all sorts ...
I'm sorry for your situation. I'm also sorry if my advice sounds very harsh. But I believe in children first and that is from where my advice stems. Your mom is a codependent. She will not change. You're stepdad (or mom's boyfriend, whatever) is...
No, it's not wrong for you to wonder if it was really him. Because it was really him. I doubt very seriously that his sister got on his phone and he allowed her to type that to you in the short time span that you were away. A normal, rational...
Sorry I took so long to get to you. It's been a busy weekend with the fam! Your questions has already been answered, but I did want to respond...Yes, Prell is a shampoo that is known to strip/dull/lighten artificial haircolor. It is totally not ...
I'm a hairstylist and let me say here...you have a real problem. At this point you're dealing with multicolored hair, bleached regrowth, and dark patches where the black didn't lift as much as the hair near the scalp. Do everything absolutely necess...
Just keep washing it. It will shampoo out of there and lighten up considerably. Dark brown hair color ALWAYS comes out way darker than on the box. Try Prell a few times a day until you leave. And never, never, never do any hair color changes be...
Why is it wrong to not approve of a marraige because the religions are different? Unless one of you is going to convert, do you have any idea how many problems are going to arise once you start raising children together? You're going to start ha...
The point of keeping your mouthshut is....what, exactly? To save yourself from rejection? I never avoid things simply because I might get rejected. Life's no fun that way. Always say how you feel.
Well, painful sex usually means you need to get checked out with your OB/GYN. It could be an STD, or it could also be that you're having sex when you are not lubricated ("wet") enough. Dry sex can be painful if done repeatedly. If the pain is more i...
Is it that she doesn't approve of you getting married at 16, or that she doesn't approve of you marrying a boy of another religion? Either way, your headed down the wrong street there. Marrying at 16 is, needless to say, a moronic idea for a pletho...
I think you've got a couple of ptions here... For one, you can talk to your school counselor. They have resources to help with this kind of stuff at their fingertips. Make an appointment and just sit down and tell the whole story. Child protective...
I think it only really needs to match if you are going out for an evening on the town and are dressed up. Once you are over 30, though--it tends to look like you are trying to hard if you go for that look. The younger the better with that one.
Unless you have a bad history with running around with boys like crazy and you are not to be trusted, he seems to have an unhealthy fixation on you. You said you are visiting him. So steer clear of him otherwise and be wise abuot the information th...
I can't believe you're pregnant at 14 and all you care about is having sex with your boyfriend's brother. Please explore your options for NOT being a mother to that baby, whether abortion or adoption.
However, look at Sandra Bullock and Sheryl Crow. A boob is a boob is a boob. A real man knows this and doen't have a "preference" for either way. There really is so much more to being a sexy woman than having large breasts.
You know that you have no choice here but to tell her. She's going to find out soon enough. You will disappoint her and she'll be very sad, but....you're the one that made the choice when you decided to have sex withuot a condom or birth control. ...
He likes having sex with you but doesn't want to be your boyfriend. He made that pretty clear, I don't know what there is to be confused about after that. Personally, when a guy screws me and then starts treating me like his annoying little bro...
My answer is always that if you aren't sure--then you aren't sure, and you should act accordingly. Don't go around saying you can't live without someone if you "aren't sure" about it. Just let it be what it is--a nice, new young crush/love that's f...
You just have to talk to yourself nicely. I suffer anxiety from time to time that makes me feel like I have butterflies in my stomach. I hate that feeling. The funny thing is, I'm at a point in life where my major worries and struggles of the past ...