How do you tell your parents you have a girlfriend?(100.00%)
If you have not yet had the conversation, well, now is a good time. It doesn't need to be a big deal. What you do is say, "Mom, Dad, I've been spending time with a girl at school and I want to hang out with her at the movies and what not this summer...
Why doesn't my boyfriend want time for just us?
I would just break up with him. He doesn't spend time with you, gets annoyed when you ask him to, and is in love with his ex girlfriend. Ya. Sounds like you need to move on down the road.
How can I cheer my boyfriend up in jail?(50.00%)
It depends on what he did, I guess. Mostly I recommend not supporting and dating criminals. So maybe think about his crime and whether or not he deserves this.
How can I even out my breasts?(100.00%)
This is a common problem. One day, having a cosmetic operation is really the only way to fix it. Until then, just buy bras and under pads that you can use to even out the visual appearance.
Boys aren't going to care about this, really. Guys are ...
Is it normal to have cellulite at 13?
I hear jump roping is the best way to get rid of cellulite.
Of course it's okay. Of course it's normal. If it's not then, 90% of women on the earth are in a lot of trouble!
How should I get my bangs?
I think the side swept bangs are beautiful and complimentary to almost everyone. Go for it!
Your stylist can help you decide what kind of bangs are right for you, how much bangs you should have. Some people only have a thin layer of bangs, some fuller...
How can I stop feeling so ugly?(100.00%)
This is a symptom of youth. Not feeling pretty enough, fashionable, thin enough. I don't think most of us felt like knockouts when we were younger. You really grow into your looks as you get older.
For example, I always, always hated my Hindu no...
Can I get him to like me more?(100.00%)
You hit the nail on the head. You can't force anyone to like you.
The whole, "it was my sister who texted you" thing is an ooooold story often told. No one every believes that one--even if it's true. The best, absolute best thing you can possibl...
How can I get my hair blonde?(100.00%)
I have to disagree with brooke_lynn. Sorry : / . Do not go and get color remover. I am a haristylist. Your stylists have been working on your hair this far and it's made it. It often takes more than one trip to remove black and color build up, espec...
How can I smoothly transition away from my family?
The only suggestion I have is that you keep in mind that this is just a part of life. As Doo said to Loretta in Coal Miner's Daughter, "you have to decide if your my wife or his daughter" when she didn't want to leave her home with her dad and mom...
Do I have a yeast infection?(100.00%)
Yeast infections are nothing to be embarrassed about. It happens to all of us at some point. It happened to me when I was real young, too. But you have to tell your mom so that she can help you.
I don't recommend you run right out and buy Monis...
Can I get my hair straight without a straightener?
Get what's called a Marilyn brush. It's a round brush with natural animal bristles and a wooden handle. The longer your hair, the bigger brush you can get. Section off hair and start with it approximately 50% damp. Pick up a small section of hair w...
Is there a way to tone down red hair dye?
You can put a darker shade of red over it tone it down. It's hard to advise, because I'd have to be able to see your hair and know what you're trying to achieve in order to help you best. If you like the red, just want it a darker version, then fin...
Why did my boyfriend leave me?
Some people just leave when it's time. It's not always something did or said directly. The whole, "I was meant to be alone thing"---ehhh, old story. I wouldn't put too much stock into that. He just broke up with you, hun. It happens, you know?
On...
Where did I go wrong with this relationship?(100.00%)
You don't need him back, girl! You *want* him back. And I bet if you sit down and give it a think, you'll realize, being with him was just one big headache after another.
Time to end the drama. Breaking up and making up, lies and deceit, pare...
Is the summer ruining my chances with him?
I hate to break it to you, but this guy is definitely on the friendship tip with you.
It also sounds like you are putting waaaaay too much emphasis on the little things. Waaaay too much. Everything you mentioned to sounds like something friend...
Which guy should I go out with?
Whenever I've gotten back together with a guy I broke up with, we always ended up breaking up again. And guess what? For the same exact reasons we broke up the first time!
The odds of the old boy changing for real are pretty slim. People will do...
What if this girl at school hates me?
I agree with the above advice. Just be nice, ask her if you've done something to offend her and see if you can do something to rectify it.. Don't go crazy kissing her butt or anything though. Just be simple and short and to the point. If she contin...
How do I flirt with my crush?
Flirting comes within a moment. You have to be smart and witty in order to flirt properly. Some girls think that flirting is the same as making direct sexual innuendo. That's really not it at all. You just have private moments with him, look at him ...
Which type of girl is better: thin or meaty?
Honey, you'll get 1,000 different answers going 1,000 different ways on this one, so why bother?
Everyone has different preferences.
What if my crush likes my friend?(100.00%)
LOL, thanks, Sailorman. But I actually think I' am starting to understand what they are saying without a translator. Which is scary.
He is not into you, he is into your best friend. End of story, right? If your friend isn't into him back, you...
How can I lose a bit of weight quickly?
The fastest way in my opinion is to drink loads upon loads of water, start doing 30 minutes of cardio a day and eat low carb. That does not mean just eat meat. Eat meats, cheeses, low carb veggies and completely cut out sugars, breads, pastas, all ...
How can I make myself stand out more?(100.00%)
There is no point in hating on yourself! Red hair is gorgeous and I know many a guy into redheads. Please don't change the color of your hair. Look at Lindsay Lohan. she was so cute when she had her natural red hair. But now she does brown and blon...
Does cold water really shrink your penis?
If you're swimming in colder water or just regualar swimming pool water--then sure. Your testicles and penis do shrink into the body as much as they can as a way to regulate their temperature. Your testicles like to be warm, and will seek that warm...
Can I move out with a child and a criminal record?
I don't know the details of what makes your relationship with mom a bad one. But I can say that sooo many teenagers go through this!
Getting married and moving out is not the best solution to your problem. I had a similar problem when I was you...
How can I get my brother to dump his gold digger girlfriend?(100.00%)
If your brother knows it and has dealth with it for 14 years, there's not much that you're going to say that's going to set a light off in his brain about it. It's obviously not a problem with him. Some relationships have little 'agreements' like th...
Can you get a pap smear if you're a virgin?
A pap smear is simply a sample taken by rubbing/scraping your vaginal walls and then testing the sample for abnormalaties in the vagina. It can detect cancer and other things and is important to have done once you are 16, every 6 months for the rest...
What are these bumps on my vaginal wall?
You really need to make an appointment with a gynecologist. This is an important issue that needs to be sorted out by a doctor. You could have a yeast infection of vaginitis. But a simple pap smear and other testing will sort it out for you.
Is this a crush?
It sounds to me like you have very strong friendship feelings for her but are also attracted to her. Good for you for feeling this one out slowly.
It's a bit concerning that you said you usually try to pursuade girls to kiss and be intimate wit...
How can I get the goth look with dark skin?(0.00%)
Well, goth is a state of mind, a state of being. Listening to dark music, liking dark, fantastical things. It doesn't mean that you have to have light skin. I now black people who are/were goth.
It's about dark, fun clothing and lots of heavy jew...
Can you ever be friends with someone you love?
Wow. He really messed with your mind! It sounds like he was not with someone, looked you up, fed you full of crap how it's been you and only you for 5 years in his mind, and then hooked up with someone else that came along. It's happened to all of u...
Should I stop dirty texting this guy?(0.00%)
Yes it's wrong. Yes, you should stop texting him.
I just don't get it. Guys go around acting like horrible creeps and you girls just shower them with your time and attention. If he has a girlfriend and texts you nasty messages, he's a creep and ...
What if he's not used to being with someone?
He's not that into you. If a guy wants to be in a relationship with you and is into you, nothing holds him back--there are no silly excuses like the one he gave you. I'd save my pride and cut this guy loose. If a guy starts waffling and giving you e...
What's a good fake tan product?
You have plenty of time--a whole month, to catch a tan! Go to tanning beds, they are really the best way. I find that using the tanning creams and stuff make you look to fake and orange. Or you could try getting a spray on tan. You have plenty of t...
Is this normal after losing my virginity?(100.00%)
A man's sperm will make your vagina a little slippery for a few hours, but a shower clears it up usually.
Clear fluid is healthy vaginal fluid, don't worry about it. The vagina is self cleaning and maybe since this is the first time you had spe...
How can I tell my man to stop doing drugs?
Experimenting in a drug and becoming an addict are two different things. You are responsible for one but not the other.
Personally, I could never stand being with an addict on any level and didn't have the energy to put into it. If you have th...
How can I fix my relationship?
Some thing all girls have to learn is not to tell your boyfriend everysingledetail about everysinglething that happens everysingleday. If your friend in the parking lot kissed you goodbye and you were suprised--best kept to yourself. If someone t...
How can I make my hair look better without dying it?
It's hard to tell someone what could make their hair look better when you have no idea what i looks like. Sooo...there's a website called totalhair dot come or dot net and it give you ideas. CHeck it out.
Why isn't my husband interested in sex?
Something is definitely bothering him. I wouldn't jump to any conlcusions but rather ask him about it directly.
You know, married for three years and assuming that you were together for a year or two at least before that--some people are quite c...
Should I tell my Mom we're thinking of having sex?
I think because your mother asked you to tell her, she'll support your decision. She just wants to make sure you are protected and safe. No harm in telling her.
You mentioned that you don't want her to think of you differently. But, she will. Th...
How do I convince my dad to let me get a lipring?
I think you should wait until you're 18. No harm in that, you'll still be young enough to pull it off. Your dad's mind is made up. You must respect that.
How do I tell my parents I'm pregnant and the Dad is in jail?(0.00%)
You do it the only way you can. "I made a huge mistake and got pregnant by a really bad person, dad." Then do the right thing and tell him you're putting the baby up for adoption because you are an unfit mother who chooses criminals to father childr...
Should I leave or should I stay?(100.00%)
Just because he is nice to you and makes you feel good...look honey, this guy went into someone's home, violated their privacy and stole from them. This is not a man that you marry or stay with. He doesn't deserve that.
Think about what it feels...
How can I win my ex-boyfriend back?
Listen, sweetie, when someone dumps you, it means they don't want to be with you anymore. I'm not trying to be mean at all when I say this--but it's rather desperate and pathetic of you to continue trying to win him back after *he dumped you for an...
How can I fix my protruding nipples?
Hmmm....I'd actually go see a doctor about this. Swollen, big nipples...I had those when I started growing breasts. I know it sounds strange, but there can be a hormone imbalance in your system and it's possible it's affecting your nipples.
Tha...
What would you do in my shoes?
What did you do directly, other than get drunk? Whatever it is that you did, you can only apologize and make amends for that directly. You can say that your mom's behavior embarrassed you as well, but you can only fix for your half.
So what y...
juniperone's Advice page 4
If you have not yet had the conversation, well, now is a good time. It doesn't need to be a big deal. What you do is say, "Mom, Dad, I've been spending time with a girl at school and I want to hang out with her at the movies and what not this summer...
I would just break up with him. He doesn't spend time with you, gets annoyed when you ask him to, and is in love with his ex girlfriend. Ya. Sounds like you need to move on down the road.
It depends on what he did, I guess. Mostly I recommend not supporting and dating criminals. So maybe think about his crime and whether or not he deserves this.
This is a common problem. One day, having a cosmetic operation is really the only way to fix it. Until then, just buy bras and under pads that you can use to even out the visual appearance. Boys aren't going to care about this, really. Guys are ...
I hear jump roping is the best way to get rid of cellulite. Of course it's okay. Of course it's normal. If it's not then, 90% of women on the earth are in a lot of trouble!
I think the side swept bangs are beautiful and complimentary to almost everyone. Go for it! Your stylist can help you decide what kind of bangs are right for you, how much bangs you should have. Some people only have a thin layer of bangs, some fuller...
This is a symptom of youth. Not feeling pretty enough, fashionable, thin enough. I don't think most of us felt like knockouts when we were younger. You really grow into your looks as you get older. For example, I always, always hated my Hindu no...
You hit the nail on the head. You can't force anyone to like you. The whole, "it was my sister who texted you" thing is an ooooold story often told. No one every believes that one--even if it's true. The best, absolute best thing you can possibl...
I have to disagree with brooke_lynn. Sorry : / . Do not go and get color remover. I am a haristylist. Your stylists have been working on your hair this far and it's made it. It often takes more than one trip to remove black and color build up, espec...
The only suggestion I have is that you keep in mind that this is just a part of life. As Doo said to Loretta in Coal Miner's Daughter, "you have to decide if your my wife or his daughter" when she didn't want to leave her home with her dad and mom...
Yeast infections are nothing to be embarrassed about. It happens to all of us at some point. It happened to me when I was real young, too. But you have to tell your mom so that she can help you. I don't recommend you run right out and buy Monis...
Get what's called a Marilyn brush. It's a round brush with natural animal bristles and a wooden handle. The longer your hair, the bigger brush you can get. Section off hair and start with it approximately 50% damp. Pick up a small section of hair w...
You can put a darker shade of red over it tone it down. It's hard to advise, because I'd have to be able to see your hair and know what you're trying to achieve in order to help you best. If you like the red, just want it a darker version, then fin...
Some people just leave when it's time. It's not always something did or said directly. The whole, "I was meant to be alone thing"---ehhh, old story. I wouldn't put too much stock into that. He just broke up with you, hun. It happens, you know? On...
You don't need to do that--just highlight your hair again. By a professional, please. :)
You don't need him back, girl! You *want* him back. And I bet if you sit down and give it a think, you'll realize, being with him was just one big headache after another. Time to end the drama. Breaking up and making up, lies and deceit, pare...
I hate to break it to you, but this guy is definitely on the friendship tip with you. It also sounds like you are putting waaaaay too much emphasis on the little things. Waaaay too much. Everything you mentioned to sounds like something friend...
Whenever I've gotten back together with a guy I broke up with, we always ended up breaking up again. And guess what? For the same exact reasons we broke up the first time! The odds of the old boy changing for real are pretty slim. People will do...
I agree with the above advice. Just be nice, ask her if you've done something to offend her and see if you can do something to rectify it.. Don't go crazy kissing her butt or anything though. Just be simple and short and to the point. If she contin...
Flirting comes within a moment. You have to be smart and witty in order to flirt properly. Some girls think that flirting is the same as making direct sexual innuendo. That's really not it at all. You just have private moments with him, look at him ...
Honey, you'll get 1,000 different answers going 1,000 different ways on this one, so why bother? Everyone has different preferences.
LOL, thanks, Sailorman. But I actually think I' am starting to understand what they are saying without a translator. Which is scary. He is not into you, he is into your best friend. End of story, right? If your friend isn't into him back, you...
The fastest way in my opinion is to drink loads upon loads of water, start doing 30 minutes of cardio a day and eat low carb. That does not mean just eat meat. Eat meats, cheeses, low carb veggies and completely cut out sugars, breads, pastas, all ...
There is no point in hating on yourself! Red hair is gorgeous and I know many a guy into redheads. Please don't change the color of your hair. Look at Lindsay Lohan. she was so cute when she had her natural red hair. But now she does brown and blon...
If you're swimming in colder water or just regualar swimming pool water--then sure. Your testicles and penis do shrink into the body as much as they can as a way to regulate their temperature. Your testicles like to be warm, and will seek that warm...
I don't know the details of what makes your relationship with mom a bad one. But I can say that sooo many teenagers go through this! Getting married and moving out is not the best solution to your problem. I had a similar problem when I was you...
I would like to wake up knowing each day the winning lottery numbers. ;)
If your brother knows it and has dealth with it for 14 years, there's not much that you're going to say that's going to set a light off in his brain about it. It's obviously not a problem with him. Some relationships have little 'agreements' like th...
A pap smear is simply a sample taken by rubbing/scraping your vaginal walls and then testing the sample for abnormalaties in the vagina. It can detect cancer and other things and is important to have done once you are 16, every 6 months for the rest...
You really need to make an appointment with a gynecologist. This is an important issue that needs to be sorted out by a doctor. You could have a yeast infection of vaginitis. But a simple pap smear and other testing will sort it out for you.
It sounds to me like you have very strong friendship feelings for her but are also attracted to her. Good for you for feeling this one out slowly. It's a bit concerning that you said you usually try to pursuade girls to kiss and be intimate wit...
Well, goth is a state of mind, a state of being. Listening to dark music, liking dark, fantastical things. It doesn't mean that you have to have light skin. I now black people who are/were goth. It's about dark, fun clothing and lots of heavy jew...
Wow. He really messed with your mind! It sounds like he was not with someone, looked you up, fed you full of crap how it's been you and only you for 5 years in his mind, and then hooked up with someone else that came along. It's happened to all of u...
Yes it's wrong. Yes, you should stop texting him. I just don't get it. Guys go around acting like horrible creeps and you girls just shower them with your time and attention. If he has a girlfriend and texts you nasty messages, he's a creep and ...
He's not that into you. If a guy wants to be in a relationship with you and is into you, nothing holds him back--there are no silly excuses like the one he gave you. I'd save my pride and cut this guy loose. If a guy starts waffling and giving you e...
We may have preference, but if we are into a guy, it really doesn't matter at all.
Two weeks is the earliest.
You have plenty of time--a whole month, to catch a tan! Go to tanning beds, they are really the best way. I find that using the tanning creams and stuff make you look to fake and orange. Or you could try getting a spray on tan. You have plenty of t...
A man's sperm will make your vagina a little slippery for a few hours, but a shower clears it up usually. Clear fluid is healthy vaginal fluid, don't worry about it. The vagina is self cleaning and maybe since this is the first time you had spe...
Experimenting in a drug and becoming an addict are two different things. You are responsible for one but not the other. Personally, I could never stand being with an addict on any level and didn't have the energy to put into it. If you have th...
Some thing all girls have to learn is not to tell your boyfriend everysingledetail about everysinglething that happens everysingleday. If your friend in the parking lot kissed you goodbye and you were suprised--best kept to yourself. If someone t...
It's hard to tell someone what could make their hair look better when you have no idea what i looks like. Sooo...there's a website called totalhair dot come or dot net and it give you ideas. CHeck it out.
Something is definitely bothering him. I wouldn't jump to any conlcusions but rather ask him about it directly. You know, married for three years and assuming that you were together for a year or two at least before that--some people are quite c...
I think because your mother asked you to tell her, she'll support your decision. She just wants to make sure you are protected and safe. No harm in telling her. You mentioned that you don't want her to think of you differently. But, she will. Th...
I think you should wait until you're 18. No harm in that, you'll still be young enough to pull it off. Your dad's mind is made up. You must respect that.
You do it the only way you can. "I made a huge mistake and got pregnant by a really bad person, dad." Then do the right thing and tell him you're putting the baby up for adoption because you are an unfit mother who chooses criminals to father childr...
Just because he is nice to you and makes you feel good...look honey, this guy went into someone's home, violated their privacy and stole from them. This is not a man that you marry or stay with. He doesn't deserve that. Think about what it feels...
Listen, sweetie, when someone dumps you, it means they don't want to be with you anymore. I'm not trying to be mean at all when I say this--but it's rather desperate and pathetic of you to continue trying to win him back after *he dumped you for an...
Hmmm....I'd actually go see a doctor about this. Swollen, big nipples...I had those when I started growing breasts. I know it sounds strange, but there can be a hormone imbalance in your system and it's possible it's affecting your nipples. Tha...
What did you do directly, other than get drunk? Whatever it is that you did, you can only apologize and make amends for that directly. You can say that your mom's behavior embarrassed you as well, but you can only fix for your half. So what y...