How can I get eyelid folds back?(100.00%)
put a cold compress on your eye. Cold wash clothe, a bag of crushed ice over a light towel. Your eyest get swollen after crying, it's normal.
How do I let my Dad know his behavior isn't right?
Your father is gambling online and talking to other women when he is married with a family. Yes, it's wrong. What can you do about it? Nothing. Marital problems are between adults and it's terrible that you have as much information as you do.
THe ...
How do I tell my Mom I'm spending time with my stepmom?
It's not you who put yourself in this situation, it's your parents. You're an innocent bystander. It is your stepmother's and father's responsibility to tell your mother--they are not being fair to you by not telling her and then leaving the burdern of...
How can I get my prejudiced Dad to accept us?
Here is something that you really need to understand: Any parent who's child is gay is going to go through a grief or grieving process--even if they are the most understanding and accepting of it in the end. It's a loss of dreams for them, a fear of...
Guys: When did you start to like girls?
My 10 year old son started liking girls the second he could tell a difference. From the time he was about 2 or 3 years old.
I think most boys start being into girls when they grow boobs and get their periods. Which is around 12 ish. WHen physical s...
Is there such a thing as a second cherry?(100.00%)
God I hate the term "popped cherry". It's so vulgar and gross.
There is a thing that covers the vaginal opening--a thin membrane called a hymen. When something is inserted inside of you (or if you have an accident with a bicycle, like i did when I ...
Should I let my best friend date my ex?(100.00%)
No No absolutely not. Absolutely NOT!
He's a jerk. Your "friend" is a jerk. You don't go out with your "best friend's" ex, ESPECIALLY if she is still in love with the guy. This is the first rule of friendship. If they are written in the stars and m...
Why do I always have to start the conversation?(100.00%)
That was rude and disrespectful of him, end of story. Tell him that and move on. Unless of course you enjoy being played for a fool. He is full of pride too much to come up to you and say goodmorning? Then he's mad at you? He's playing you for a fool, ...
How can I get my hair to go blonde?
Go to a stylist. You'll need to have an all over blonde light with delicate blonde highlights. THe process is easy enough.
How can I get semi-permanent black dye out of my hair?
Those natural home remedies won't do a thing to get rid of black, sweetie. I'm a hairstylist, take it from me--go to a salon.
Firstly, by coloring your hair black, you have already "taken out" your natural color. It's gone, kiss it goodbye. Now le...
Is my boyfriend still happy with me?
Or you know what? After reading what you wrote again...it IS possible that he's just settling in with you. When that happens, all the "house on fire" things dwindle down a bit and you get comfy. That's a good thing. In this case, you just have to follo...
Is my boyfriend still happy with me?
He's not that into you anymore. For whatever reason. This happens in the adult dating world all the time. I once had a guy for one straight week coming to my house, drinking wine with me, bringing dinner, giving me attention and being awesome. I though...
Is my boyfriend still happy with me?
He's not that into you anymore. For whatever reason. This happens in the adult dating world all the time. I once had a guy for one straight week coming to my house, drinking wine with me, bringing dinner, giving me attention and being awesome. I though...
Happily married... but I still want my coworker!!!
This is what happens when you marrry too young. You haven't explored yourself or others and you're still curious and all that crap. If you kids would just get through your 20's and then consider being parents and a family when you are 30, then you'd...
Should I be worried that my boyfriend is talking to his ex?
Have some dignity and say, "Honey, I would like to stop seeing eachother. It's really unhealthy for you to be having a realtionship with me or anyone else when you still have feelings for another person." and don't take his excuses and go find anothe...
How to get my ex away from my cousin?(100.00%)
Back off and go find your own man who is better. Personally, I'd barf in the mouth of a man who was bedding my cousin.
Does she still love me?
You say to her that it's a big turn off to go after kissing the girl you love who turns her head. And unless she wants to tell you what her problem is, you will not be trying to kiss her anymore.
My guess is that she's through with you and is too c...
Do guys care about anniversaries?
They usually aren't that into any gift-giving holiday, as far as I can tell! LOL.
Some are, but a LOT of them really aren't. Think about it, how many men have you ever known who gets all excited about Valentine's or Christmas or any sort of gift g...
What do I do if I was raped?
Part of being an adult and growing up is doing things even if you are scared. By now you have probably already showered and washed off all the evidence, so now it's just your word against him. Don't wash the clothes you were wearing, take them to the p...
How can I have a life with my parent's strict rules?(100.00%)
Oh--and I was FIFTEEN before I had my first kiss. Don't worry it's nothing to write home about! Take your time! How do you make friends? It sounds like you are in public school now? Try looking around at school for someone who looks kind of like you, d...
How can I have a life with my parent's strict rules?(100.00%)
I answered your other question about wanting to dress more girly. Some of my advice won't work now that I know more background.
Look--I grew up the very same way as you! My dad was soooo strict. There is a fine line between obeying parents and expe...
How can I become more girly?(100.00%)
Good question! So many people ask how to improve their looks and leave zero info on what they actually look like!
So, my cute little dorky friend. I had the same problem that you did. I didn't know what was what. Firstly, go to your hairstylist an...
How can I move out without hurting my parents?(0.00%)
I think that is your parent's way of saying that they do not feel you are ready to be out on your own. Are you going to college--more information is needed to really give good advice here. If they are footing the bill for you going to college, you have...
How can you make guys like you?
You know, just play it straight and see what happens. I didn't really bloom to guys until I was a senior in high school. Then I had my pick for years and years, honestly. Some of us are just late bloomers. You have to like yourself and be confident in ...
How can I get off my butt?
Have oyu never heard of hobbies? There's hobby lobby, go shopping there and find something to do. Learn how to play a musical instrument. Go bicycle riding at the park. Go swimming at a rec center. Go fly a kite. Read a book. Write a story. Rearrange y...
How do I make my ex jealous and want me back?
Lame. Don't try to make a guy jealous, it just makes you look stupid. Move on with your life and don't allow yourself to be this guys plaything. That's the best way to get to him.
How do I ask out my friend?
I'm confused by this. You walk straight up to her and ask her to go to the movies or dinner on a certain night on the weekend.
Problem solved. She'll either say yes, or she'll say no. Either way, you be confident. In my opinion, screw poems and car...
What do I do if my good friend is going to ask out my ex?(100.00%)
I think you should ditch your friend for asking your girl out (even if you're broken up) and then ditch her as a friend for going out with one of your friends. That is just disrespectful from the word go.
Then I think you should move on to another...
Do you think my girlfriend is pregnant?
I really wish you guys would stop talking about sex so crudely. I mean, I know your young and all, but instead of saying, "I never popped her cherry" you could just say you never went inside her. It makes you sound so...I don't know....ignorant. I mean...
Does my super cute manager like me?
This guy sounds like a player and a loser who is not faithful to his girlfriend and likes to keep his options open.
Give him the cold shoulder and tell him you do not wish to discuss your personal life or his personal life any longer and find a di...
How can I fix my ugliness?
God, I'm so glad I'm out of school.
Do whatever you can to just be comfortable in your own skin, honey. I can tell you a million times over every single day that you are beautiful all over, but one little wanker can tell you that you're ugly and fa...
If it's my first time and not hers, how can I make it great?
Firstly, you tell her it's your first time and just enjoy it. There is NOTHING you can do, you'll be way too excited. You kids need to learn to keep a sense of humor about things. Let her know you'll do your best, but it probably won't last too long, b...
How can I get the girl I like to say "yes"?
She said no. Move on.
Just because you still like her and want her doesn't mean you have to have her. That's something a 5 year old learns. You can't always have what you want.
Why is the girl I love acting so different?(0.00%)
And seriously....please spell in proper English. It's really an immature thing to do and you are dealing with very adult things. It's time to mature a little.
Why is the girl I love acting so different?(100.00%)
First, stop buying her gifts and spoiling her. Sure, now and then a little something, but this girl has a long way to go until she is giving you the proper love and respect to earn gifts and so much attention. Remember this: a woman must EARN her g...
Should I let my feelings for this guy overcome me?
Well, you should do neither. You are young and there will be a LOT of guys who come and go and they are all wonderful in their own ways (if you choose good guys, that is). There will always be a special guy or special connection or something in the fut...
How can I make meeting my boyfriend's Mom go well?
Dress appropriately, firstly. If it's just a meeting while you're over there (if she's not making a dinner or something to meet you), just keep it casual and light and be yourself. Don't chew gum or cuss and mind your manners. Just simple common sense ...
Do you think I could be pregnant?
Guy sounds like a real winner. Good job and picking a complete jerk off to share your body with!
Helllloooooooo Pregnancy Test. Right in the isle NEXT TO THE CONDOMS.
If you are pregnant, put the baby up for adoption where two, intelligent par...
What are the best places to visit in New Mexico?(100.00%)
Taos New Mexico is the only place I have been. It is beatiful though. Lots of cute little peublo houses and lights and art and music and festivals. It's in the Northern part, not far from the Colorado border.
What can I do about hanging skin down there?
There is a saying that when you can get to a point in life where you look in the mirror and say, "I love me, warts and all, " then you have truly grown.
Until you have money or are older, surgery isn't likely. Look, there is nothing that you can do...
How can I cope with my older role model's break up?
Whenever anyone asks "how to I move on/get over it?" the answer is always the same. Time and growth.
Take it one day at a time, honey. Everyday is a new day, everyday is a new way to cope.
Have you ever heard the saying that whatever you focu...
How would you ladies act out ultimate revenge?
I think you have a silly fetish and you're looking to get off on what we women would do with a shrunken man. Bukowski wrote a short story about this very topic.
Hey a fetish is a fetish, it's all good, but you ain't foolin' me none.
Can you whip cream in a blender?
Anything that will whip air into it at a fast rate will work--whisking it by hand, blender, food processor, I've even done it with just a fork before. Takes forever, but it works.
My advice it that you go and buy a beater, though. Once you need so...
Why do I get bloated?
It's called bloating, not blotting. Just so you know.
Bloating is a part of being a woman. Water retention happens. Just drink lots of water to keep your body moving and fluid so that it doesn't retain. Get a water bottle that's easy to drink out ...
How can we progress to sex with his parents always home?
Well, when the time is right, you will find a place to do it. Don't force it. And don't disrespect your parents by doing it anyway in their house. I know there is nothing I can do or say to stop you, really. Just use a condom, PLEASE, be smart about it...
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put a cold compress on your eye. Cold wash clothe, a bag of crushed ice over a light towel. Your eyest get swollen after crying, it's normal.
Your father is gambling online and talking to other women when he is married with a family. Yes, it's wrong. What can you do about it? Nothing. Marital problems are between adults and it's terrible that you have as much information as you do. THe ...
It's not you who put yourself in this situation, it's your parents. You're an innocent bystander. It is your stepmother's and father's responsibility to tell your mother--they are not being fair to you by not telling her and then leaving the burdern of...
Here is something that you really need to understand: Any parent who's child is gay is going to go through a grief or grieving process--even if they are the most understanding and accepting of it in the end. It's a loss of dreams for them, a fear of...
My 10 year old son started liking girls the second he could tell a difference. From the time he was about 2 or 3 years old. I think most boys start being into girls when they grow boobs and get their periods. Which is around 12 ish. WHen physical s...
God I hate the term "popped cherry". It's so vulgar and gross. There is a thing that covers the vaginal opening--a thin membrane called a hymen. When something is inserted inside of you (or if you have an accident with a bicycle, like i did when I ...
No No absolutely not. Absolutely NOT! He's a jerk. Your "friend" is a jerk. You don't go out with your "best friend's" ex, ESPECIALLY if she is still in love with the guy. This is the first rule of friendship. If they are written in the stars and m...
That was rude and disrespectful of him, end of story. Tell him that and move on. Unless of course you enjoy being played for a fool. He is full of pride too much to come up to you and say goodmorning? Then he's mad at you? He's playing you for a fool, ...
Would you rather be proud or be in her arms?
Go to a stylist. You'll need to have an all over blonde light with delicate blonde highlights. THe process is easy enough.
Those natural home remedies won't do a thing to get rid of black, sweetie. I'm a hairstylist, take it from me--go to a salon. Firstly, by coloring your hair black, you have already "taken out" your natural color. It's gone, kiss it goodbye. Now le...
Or you know what? After reading what you wrote again...it IS possible that he's just settling in with you. When that happens, all the "house on fire" things dwindle down a bit and you get comfy. That's a good thing. In this case, you just have to follo...
He's not that into you anymore. For whatever reason. This happens in the adult dating world all the time. I once had a guy for one straight week coming to my house, drinking wine with me, bringing dinner, giving me attention and being awesome. I though...
He's not that into you anymore. For whatever reason. This happens in the adult dating world all the time. I once had a guy for one straight week coming to my house, drinking wine with me, bringing dinner, giving me attention and being awesome. I though...
This is what happens when you marrry too young. You haven't explored yourself or others and you're still curious and all that crap. If you kids would just get through your 20's and then consider being parents and a family when you are 30, then you'd...
Have some dignity and say, "Honey, I would like to stop seeing eachother. It's really unhealthy for you to be having a realtionship with me or anyone else when you still have feelings for another person." and don't take his excuses and go find anothe...
Back off and go find your own man who is better. Personally, I'd barf in the mouth of a man who was bedding my cousin.
You say to her that it's a big turn off to go after kissing the girl you love who turns her head. And unless she wants to tell you what her problem is, you will not be trying to kiss her anymore. My guess is that she's through with you and is too c...
They usually aren't that into any gift-giving holiday, as far as I can tell! LOL. Some are, but a LOT of them really aren't. Think about it, how many men have you ever known who gets all excited about Valentine's or Christmas or any sort of gift g...
If you can't ask your boyfriend a basic question like this, then you have no business having sex.
Part of being an adult and growing up is doing things even if you are scared. By now you have probably already showered and washed off all the evidence, so now it's just your word against him. Don't wash the clothes you were wearing, take them to the p...
What do you need help with here? You have an ex who keeps calling you names and wants your attention? I don't understand what you need help with.
Oh--and I was FIFTEEN before I had my first kiss. Don't worry it's nothing to write home about! Take your time! How do you make friends? It sounds like you are in public school now? Try looking around at school for someone who looks kind of like you, d...
I answered your other question about wanting to dress more girly. Some of my advice won't work now that I know more background. Look--I grew up the very same way as you! My dad was soooo strict. There is a fine line between obeying parents and expe...
Good question! So many people ask how to improve their looks and leave zero info on what they actually look like! So, my cute little dorky friend. I had the same problem that you did. I didn't know what was what. Firstly, go to your hairstylist an...
Uhhhh....why do you want a pot head who lies to you to love you?
I think that is your parent's way of saying that they do not feel you are ready to be out on your own. Are you going to college--more information is needed to really give good advice here. If they are footing the bill for you going to college, you have...
You know, just play it straight and see what happens. I didn't really bloom to guys until I was a senior in high school. Then I had my pick for years and years, honestly. Some of us are just late bloomers. You have to like yourself and be confident in ...
Have oyu never heard of hobbies? There's hobby lobby, go shopping there and find something to do. Learn how to play a musical instrument. Go bicycle riding at the park. Go swimming at a rec center. Go fly a kite. Read a book. Write a story. Rearrange y...
Lame. Don't try to make a guy jealous, it just makes you look stupid. Move on with your life and don't allow yourself to be this guys plaything. That's the best way to get to him.
I'm confused by this. You walk straight up to her and ask her to go to the movies or dinner on a certain night on the weekend. Problem solved. She'll either say yes, or she'll say no. Either way, you be confident. In my opinion, screw poems and car...
I think you should ditch your friend for asking your girl out (even if you're broken up) and then ditch her as a friend for going out with one of your friends. That is just disrespectful from the word go. Then I think you should move on to another...
I really wish you guys would stop talking about sex so crudely. I mean, I know your young and all, but instead of saying, "I never popped her cherry" you could just say you never went inside her. It makes you sound so...I don't know....ignorant. I mean...
This guy sounds like a player and a loser who is not faithful to his girlfriend and likes to keep his options open. Give him the cold shoulder and tell him you do not wish to discuss your personal life or his personal life any longer and find a di...
God, I'm so glad I'm out of school. Do whatever you can to just be comfortable in your own skin, honey. I can tell you a million times over every single day that you are beautiful all over, but one little wanker can tell you that you're ugly and fa...
Firstly, you tell her it's your first time and just enjoy it. There is NOTHING you can do, you'll be way too excited. You kids need to learn to keep a sense of humor about things. Let her know you'll do your best, but it probably won't last too long, b...
She said no. Move on. Just because you still like her and want her doesn't mean you have to have her. That's something a 5 year old learns. You can't always have what you want.
And seriously....please spell in proper English. It's really an immature thing to do and you are dealing with very adult things. It's time to mature a little.
First, stop buying her gifts and spoiling her. Sure, now and then a little something, but this girl has a long way to go until she is giving you the proper love and respect to earn gifts and so much attention. Remember this: a woman must EARN her g...
Well, you should do neither. You are young and there will be a LOT of guys who come and go and they are all wonderful in their own ways (if you choose good guys, that is). There will always be a special guy or special connection or something in the fut...
Dress appropriately, firstly. If it's just a meeting while you're over there (if she's not making a dinner or something to meet you), just keep it casual and light and be yourself. Don't chew gum or cuss and mind your manners. Just simple common sense ...
Guy sounds like a real winner. Good job and picking a complete jerk off to share your body with! Helllloooooooo Pregnancy Test. Right in the isle NEXT TO THE CONDOMS. If you are pregnant, put the baby up for adoption where two, intelligent par...
Taos New Mexico is the only place I have been. It is beatiful though. Lots of cute little peublo houses and lights and art and music and festivals. It's in the Northern part, not far from the Colorado border.
There is a saying that when you can get to a point in life where you look in the mirror and say, "I love me, warts and all, " then you have truly grown. Until you have money or are older, surgery isn't likely. Look, there is nothing that you can do...
Whenever anyone asks "how to I move on/get over it?" the answer is always the same. Time and growth. Take it one day at a time, honey. Everyday is a new day, everyday is a new way to cope. Have you ever heard the saying that whatever you focu...
I think you have a silly fetish and you're looking to get off on what we women would do with a shrunken man. Bukowski wrote a short story about this very topic. Hey a fetish is a fetish, it's all good, but you ain't foolin' me none.
Anything that will whip air into it at a fast rate will work--whisking it by hand, blender, food processor, I've even done it with just a fork before. Takes forever, but it works. My advice it that you go and buy a beater, though. Once you need so...
It's called bloating, not blotting. Just so you know. Bloating is a part of being a woman. Water retention happens. Just drink lots of water to keep your body moving and fluid so that it doesn't retain. Get a water bottle that's easy to drink out ...
You take her to the doctor.
Well, when the time is right, you will find a place to do it. Don't force it. And don't disrespect your parents by doing it anyway in their house. I know there is nothing I can do or say to stop you, really. Just use a condom, PLEASE, be smart about it...