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Well we may never know...could be...but best you contact him again and give him a second try... call him... aim him... text... or if you see him just go up to him and say hi...give him a chance.. good luck!
Go take a preg test...you should have been on the pills min 7days in a row some doctors say a full month. Start with a test from the store...then go to your doctor.
Make him a card...burn some CD's...if you have a picture of the two of you, print it and put it in a frame... (or use the picture for the card) Bake hims some cookies or cupcakes...guys like that... things that touch the heart are the most appreci...
OK...sounds like you're not ready to be in a relationship...thats ok be honest with him. Tell him, hey I think you're great (name some thing you like about him like: your easy to talk to, I know your there for me if I need someone, you make me laugh...
Well its tough going through a break-up. First did you give your ex bf a chance to talk and speak what was on his mind? if not, you should at least hear him out, don't interupt him and let him get what ever he needs off his chest...no matter how pai...
Auctually no details are needed here...to each there own...people do what they like, and everyone has there own view and likes.
Awww you are very sweet and open and i agree your issues are from your past. But you have to change yourself...you need to give yourself permision to enjoy a LONG relationship and permission for your own happiness. From what im hearing, you are...
Awww Im sooo sorry. Listen up, some men have a streak in them that is hard to change. It could be about something that happen in childhood and they seem to punish the ones they love the most. I do beleive he does love you...but how he treats you i...
OK...hmmm I was is something simular this is what i decided. As much as I thought I loved this guy, I knew in my heart there would always be a trust issue after what he did to me. He broke up with me cuz he said his parent thought I was too young....
First it's all about commuicating and trust! Ok you have explained to him that his flirting upsets you...and he tells you, you have nothing to worry about...but you still do! Ok...now you have to be honest with yourself and him. You need to tell h...
Why do you want a big butt? if you want it to look perky just excerise with leg lifts and you will lift it more
Yes its ok to cry...but make it quick and move on...no boy is worth a lot of tears...it will get better and I promis you there is someone out there waiting for a special girl just like you.. So don't look at the closed window too long and forget abo...
Well then she's not communicating.. so send her and e-mail explaining you have concerns and would like to talk to her.. and if you want her understanding cuz you care about her just tell her you're sorry if things were going to fast and if she feel c...
Hey..after asking him and we wont then remember.. people are who they are you cant change them..and they wont change either.. time to move on.. I promise you there's a guy out there who will do anything for you.. you will find each other someda...
If it doesn't feel good then maybe you are not comfortable with this guy and are tense therefore it doesn't feel good..have you felt good about this before.. or is this your first? Cuz a guy needs to be gentle..and if your trusting with him you shou...
Start with the inside..taking good care of yourself..rest (when you can) excersise is a must. When I excercise and lose a bit of weight i feel good about myself.. read some good self help books or articles on the net.. they will help you.. remember...
I noticed you just joined 25 minutes ago..this is not a game..this is a site for people who have real prob and concerns looking for real and honest answers. Why ask such a question? I don't think you have the right site..
Hahahahha well..its been this way more than we would like to know, its called the venus and mars syndrome..
aww..you will..you will..you have to beleive.. take time and join some groups socialize with freinds who have friends..don't rush or think about it cuz i beleive it will happen..when it right!
Just be yourself and let your own true feelings flow..your young and your girlfriend is most likely younger or the same age..you have nothing to fear..but holding hands or having your arm around a girls is pretty nice too..do what your hearts tell you ...
Start with communicating with him..make sure you are both on the same page..if so just let things happen..a glass of wine might help too.
Go to Cory and tell him what you saw and let him know if lori saw she would have been devistated! and for that reason have chosen not to tell her but expect him to be devoted only to her an there's know excuse (even drinking) to cuz you are anyone to ...
im 17 and id say you need to wait..you really should not be this far along sexually..at 13 you should only be holding hands..put your arms around each other..hugs..and a kiss or two..no petting and diff not fingering at 13.. remember its your body....
Well I don't know what you've tried and how bad your skin is but i can say I went through it all and ended up use acutaine which is considered the big gun in meds.. also known to bad rep but its not that bad at all..if you have some questions id be hap...
Well..you need to communicate and ask her.. it will be hard at first but you know, im sure she wants to know too. Tell her how much you enjoy being with her and its going to be hard when she goes to school..(then give her a chance to talk and you li...
Very Sexy 1 and 2 by Victoria's Secret for men is wonderful..
Yes you both need help..and you must tell her out straight..hey if we really want this to work for us (and then tell her how you do) then we must accept the fact we need to get with a professional..someone from a church..or life coach..or someone you b...
go to the suicide help line and talk to a trained professional..ASAP!
When you are both mature and have enough income to support and raise a child..cuz its the chance you take..and if you both have true love/trust for each other.. not just lust!
It means..you are not exclusive and you are giving each other space..some will not date another..some will view it as an open releationship.. what it really means is up to the couple who has agreed to their own interpetation of the meaning. if you do...
Hey..you just need to ask him..communicate.. also..why wait do it now..then you will both know.. if he is interested hell wait for you to come home from vacation.. and there is a lot more to love and feelings then just good looks.
Well if you want to spy on him....why don't you just get an e-blaster which is a program that records all his keystrokes and aim coversations and they are sent your e-mail or a chosen e-mail address.... you will be able to see everything in writing. ...
You quote: He also cheated on his wife with me 4 years before we started dating again. OK...Im sorry to say but you should have known this is part of his personality....what made you think he wouldn't do it to you? Since the signs are pointing in...
Hey...ive been talking to you for awhile now....is your girlfirend preg? cuz if she is this is not the time to break.... and anytime you do break you do take a chance of other things happening...she may find someone else or you find someone else....th...
Well if she's still a virgin...and even if she lets you finger her...she basically telling you...hey, even though i might be enjoying myself, im not ready to give you my most precious gift and now its time for me to ask you to stop and hope you underst...
Ok...I'm assuming you dated these guys and they each asked you to be exclusive? But you are not ready to be exclusive? If so....its simple this...you have not found the right one, the one who you feel you are ready to make the commitment to just focus...
any ideas..... is she still a virgin and wants to keep it that way for now?? if you haven't had full sex then maybe she's not ready.... if you have then you need to communicate.... good luck!
I think you need to make a change....spark yourself up...change the routine....when was the last time you have given him a compliment (guys like them too)...... Have you been making him feel important... Im not saying its your fault.... but some ...
Well you need to break things down for him....then lead into the break up by sayin after all the blah blah....my feelings have changed for you.... i still think you are a great guy but i just don't have the same feelings and i would like us to take a ...
Ok....this is what i did for a one year....i made a picture dvd with all our pictures set to music the pictures would fade in and out spin to open and it was about twenty minutes long... i took him to the beach with my portable dvd player and played it...
Communications is your key to this situation. You must take the time and be very understanding cuz there is somthing wrong here.. could be a form of depression many things can trigger it.... family member sick, a personal fear about something, afrai...
Hey...its not in your cards....not meaning to be neg but when you date a guy who wants to make a career out of the service it just doesnt work out well especially now at your age... so i suggest you keep him as a friend and drop the emotional romantic ...
yes...I think hes trying to catch your attention...not sure if its ringing your bell? He sounds a bit immature but then again, i know some guys in their twenties who act like that too. But, hey...its up to you if you like him...the ball is in your co...
I say hey....don't worry about what she says...if there is true love involved along with respect it wont matter if you are a complete clutz in her eyes...she will think you are soo wonderful, performace of any sort will be her last concern. Perso...
Wow!!! these are all very serious warning signs. Let me tell you, when your young you want and think everything will be perfect someday and this will last forever....not! you will be off to college before you know it and the field is WIDE OPEN.....
Try treating your ex just like any other person you have light conversations with. Forget the past...stay in the present... just like you would talk to a stranger in line at the store... weather, traffic, general present things happening... you...
Go to a pet store and get a tube of Nutri-Cal it will supply high calorie suppliments that dogs just love put some on your finger and they will lick it up then mix some with food....very good way to get some food vitimines down your pup. ...make sure ...
It's just time....but now that you know how immature this guy really is after pulling such an immature stunt by blocking you (really!) look at him at a balloon with a small pin hole where your feelings for him will slowing leak out until he is fully de...
Awww he just proved hes not perfect when he blocked you...cuz the right guy for you would never do such a thing so consider this now; he just put himself in the jerk catagory which means its time for you to move one....hes just not good enough for you...
You just tell her...hey I want things right for you! You tell me what you would like to do, and when I just ask that you remain open and honest with me cuz im afraid of the dark hehehe . If you think i will cause you any discomfort going to your fami...