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Ex Marine.
Born and raised in La Jolla/San Diego, CA but moved to Anchorage, AK 44 years ago.
Currently a retired taxicab driver after 30 years.
Single. Divorced 3 times. Had 3 children (2 still living), have 7 grandchildren and 1 great granddaughter.
i'm a moderate Republican. My hobbies are playing poker and chess.
i'm a Deist but i do believe in evolution. My religious beliefs, which i wrote several years ago (A Search for Truth), can be viewed at the URL above.
i may not agree with you but i cherish your right to disagree (even if you are wrong).
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Wow, a friend is hard to find esp. nowadays. Unless, there is a super duper good reason I don't know why you would end it. Regardless, you will need to give the reason, and then let the other explain and if you still need to end it well then it has to...
It seems you've had it rough with the drinking, yet there is always hope. First of all moms will always look for the best interest of the child. If you claim sobriety, I as a mom would like to see proof. You lost a lot so now it's time to regain...
Walking away from the problem is sometimes easier, but in the long run it just gets worse. First of all you have to find a moment to talk to her. There is never a right moment so don't go by that, but it does help if both of you are calm. You might ...
No, it is not okay to drink christian or not. Ditto what "ethmer" states about age 21. Unless, you've seen what alcohol does to you and to your brain, short and long term then I don't know why you would start. I have seen what it does and "all...
Relationships are difficult bottom line. Esp. when two, differ, in beliefs. God doesn't want us to be unhappy, thru the christian faith you can only talk to people about God yet, we can't and don't convert anyone. If you truely believe in prayer...
You've been given many websites. So I will only respond to the forgiveness part. Anything and everything "wrong/sinful" is only between you and God. Whenever, you ask God to forgive you He does. He knows the desires of your heart even before you ...
Awww!! Cute baby, I feel you. I raised 5 and still have 3 at home. Soon to be grandma in June 15, approximately, and Yesss, I am so excited. For me babies, kids, children are IT. The reason to keep going, regardless of the gloomy days that we as adul...
OOps clarifying my statement "So, try to put a stop now, but when your mom is not angry" but, when your mom is not angry. Last thing you want to do is fire things up. :)
Agree with "nothingness". Running away is never the answer to anything (it can also set a pattern for how you live your life later on). I happen to know some young kids that have done it, and all they did was go from home to home, and things just es...
A Child Called It The Lost Boy A Man Named Dave My kids incl. myself read them, yeah they are very sad and tragic. The great thing about everything now is his adulthood. He's a public speaker and he was at one of my kids school a couple of years...
I don't agree with abortions for obvious reasons to "me" I have kids and regardless of the hardships we've gone thru I thank God they're here. 'AND' there is so much contraceptive these days, there is no excuse, come on people. It's ok for you t...
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Hi love bug, I agree with many above, stay focused, you sound like an intelligent girl, it's unfortunate you've had such rough experiences at such an early age, but GED is I good and way better than nothing. I never got my GED, I was expelled and liv...
(1)"If your not living yout life the way you want then your not living!" yall are "dumb" obviously you dont ge tthe question especially Koolish "Im saying if your working just to live your not living at all your jsut surviving Techniacall...
Hello, I feel bad that you are feeling this way. I have a daughter about your age she went thru much of how you feel now. All I can tell you is, I know it's hard but try writing your feelings out in a personal journal. Whenever you have these type o...
If your not living your life the way you want then your not living! Over 20 years ago I would of probably agreed. Thanks to living life the way I wanted I got hurt more than once and messed up more than once. Without me making this a religious answ...
--ty "I think the treat 'Do Unto Others As You Would Have Them Do Unto You' should be up there too, I definitely think it's important and it's too bad a lot of people dont follow it. We might have less hate spewed speeches if they learnt to really f...
If there is a god will I go to hell? Really easy to get sidetracked here, everything is so interesting, no doubt that every mind is a world of it's own, (no offense intended). If your asking in biblical terms here is something of what the bible s...
Wow. I'm putting my hands in hot water, hope I don't get burnt. "MY" personal opinion is, (after reading through all the comments) somehow something so nice and beautiful turns into a debate. "I" choose to believe, in God through "FAITH" and due to...
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Los Angeles, California $3.81-$4+ depends where you run out of gas, :), Thanks "amblessed" I wasn't aware of that sight, pretty sure it will help me.
First of all give her a hug and tell her how much you love her. Make your own little card with your special message. Personalize the day for her. She knows you don't have money, so don't try too hard as far as the money goes. Just a day out with y...
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I hate that word with a passion. It's my all time "hair sticking up on my back" (not literally,last time I checked I had none there), whenrvrt I hear this word, along with many others. But for some reason this one really gets to me. My kids h...
Think, do, act, date outside of your own family. There are no halves when it comes to family, Yes I understanding about the half relative part, but relative whichever way you put it, is someone you are related to. There has to be a line drawn and ma...
Yukky, no way. Kids need the chance at least when they are babies to be colorful and look like babies/kids. They have enough time when they start growing up to make those kind of choices. I have five kids and they all had cute colorful clothes growin...
Ditto "iamcool". If this pertains to you, well hope you recoop. soon. It kinda brought a smile to my face. I'm learning many things re-Emo world. By the way I love writing poetry too so I give you props. Take care.
Read Galations 5:16-25 Talks about sinful cravings. Dancing is not sinful, but if your in the wrong place doing it, it can lead to sin. So just be cautious, first get strong in what you believe in and always have your priorities straight. I love dan...
Spiritual- repent, ask God for forgiveness, directly, no middle man/person. The Bible- is filled with guidance info. and of course does help you. A pastor- is the leader of the church sinner like us, but has knowledge that helps us if necessary with...
Romans 5:1 Therefore, since we have been made right in God's sight by faith, we have peace with God because of what Jesus Christ Our Lord has done for us. (died for our sins) Romans Chapter 6 (whole chapter) (but, briefly 1-5) Well then, should we...
(This is FYI ONLY, please do not personalize these comments,it's feedback to the questions) (blasphemy as far as the bible is concerned, addresses the Holy Spirit,therefore God's word is law, and people's beliefs are just that, what man themselves ...
MAC a bit pricey but really good, just get your thin eyeliner brush elsewhere because at their store it's really expensive.
I truely hope that whatever you believe in is what makes you happy. I chose to believe in God and therefore my true faith is in Him. There is no such thing as "false faith" when you truely believe is someone so great. Just like no one person can make ...
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I think >< nailed it right on the dot. We as adults can also learn from the younger ones. I have 5 kids 21,20,19,16,and 13, and believe me I learned lots from them. Listening to what they have to say is really important, but really listen.
Oops sorry. I ditto the above hygiene is very important, esp. down there. So yeah if you find somone who gives you the weird eyeball look than, look the other way because there's too many females out there. You shouldn't dwell over one persons ignoranc...
Just tell her, and let it all out. I'm a mother of 5 kids and the last thing I would like is "not to know". I currently found out my 21yr old is on anti'depressants and I was sad to hear, but again I felt comfortable knowing she confided in me. ...
Depends on how "you" define a real christian. Different people might have a different defenition, depending on who you ask. I myself am christian, which is one who seeks/follows christ. I don't know why you don't believe in dating. How else are y...
Yuk what is that, can you elaborate a bit. Not too much if it's something nasty.
I grew up trying to find and get approval from people, starting with my parents. There came a day when I gave up and just plain out rebeled. All I can tell you is to surround yourself with posiitve people,yes they are out there. Don't live your life...
Ditto the above. I came here to ask a question and I like how quickly I got a response. I do a lot of reading on this site and it's cool. Esp. the questions they can be fun. Although there are some very serious ones either way I have always liked to gi...
It's not awkward because majority of people who walk into church are skeptical and don't really believe. It takes time and God has a lot of patience. I think whatever triggered you not to go to church is valid, but then again you have to weigh out the ...
My dad used to physically/mentally abuse my mom,so she decided to leave him when I was 12. He then disappeared for years. Throughout the years I knew he existed knew he was around, but I made the choice of not contacting him. I was angry because throug...
Short and simple there are no gods there is only one God. He is watching over believers and none believers. I think this is where God sees His work being done. All people who believe in Him and spread His word with true faith that at least one s...
You already included me as your friend and I gladly accept you, I had not read through this though. I also have a daughter your age and I try to talk to her a lot. She's gone through many depressing moments and I fully understand how you feel. I my...
Communication is the key to this issue. First of all why doesn't your mom like your boyfriend. You don't have to answer this to me, but is it a valid reason, like does he use drugs. not in school, or working, I don't know your age, but I'm calculating ...