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housemouse's Advice
You know - the original post might be 4 years old - but there are still women and men that wrestle with the issues discussed here DAILY. A lot of us talk about RISK and Worth and while those things have to be considered. I also think many people ...
Go talk to your school counselors. Stay calm and talk with one another about how you are going to react to insensitive people. Express your feelings of protectiveness to your friend that attempted suicide and how glad you are that they are with y...
Youngwise - You make sense and I wish you peace now that you are trying to rebuild your marriage. Time after time people that have affairs have admited it was a mistake. There will always be an allure though and I believe each couples story is dif...
Someone trying to pressure you into sex when it's not what you want isn't 'treating you good'! He is acting at school - you know the real him. And apparently your friends have seen his true self as well. Get away. Will it hurt to be alone...
I wish more people would answer you to encourage you to stay in school. As a parent I could give you statistics and tell you about being able to make more money and making your life easier and all that sort of BS. But just as a woman - I'll tell ...
roundaboutalley - I know others continue to say that an affair will always be found out but ... somehow when your marriage isn't a priority for both - I can't see how unless you are thoughtless and unkind. You're right though - it would be the wors...
roundaboutalley - Thank you. There is a man that is interested in me. A friend of mine through some volunteer work - doesn't even know my husband so that is good. We email one another daily and have shared a passionate kiss. It was absol...
roundaboutalley - To answer the question - no if you tell him - it's not an affair right? I do want to feel something. My birthday was yesterday and noone even said Happy Birthday. I'm so hurt - when I finally said something of course my hu...
Wow - just read all of this. I too am contemplating an affair. Married 19 years - actually love my husband and he says he loves me but ... there is no passion. No sex. I miss that, I crave it and feel so worthless without it. All appearances a...